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疲惫娇娃是一档从荧幕聊到宇宙深处的泛文化播客,用女性的声波延展对世界的参与和想象。 在一个内陷的时代,疲惫娇娃站在中国和美国的交汇点上,用女性的元视角去观察、抵抗、塑造政治和社会对流行文化的影响。我们讨论流动的时代精神、艺术、自由、未来、友谊以及一切使我们获得力量的事物。

043 | 2024奥斯卡:高雅和通俗审美坐在一起包饺子 2024 Oscars: Dying to Party
#43
03/13/2024

【聊了什么The What】

第96届奥斯卡颁奖典礼在两天前刚刚结束,疲惫娇娃在所有奖项公布之后录了一期播客来聊聊我们当下的感受和反应。在奥斯卡这个奖项在过去的很多年被反复的质疑、挑战之后,在以“学院奖”自居的奥斯卡看起来越来越和时代精神脱节时,我们还是想借助这个颁奖典礼,来重新审视“学院奖”和2023年许多电影(比如《芭比》)和社会事件(比如全世界正在发生的战争)的交织和互动,从而去审视支撑它的历史包袱、权力、固化和正在逐步调整的审美——以及,为什么它仍旧是电影节的最高奖项?赢得它,或者不赢得它,提名,或者不被它提名,意味着什么。

The CyberPink squad is back with an episode on the recently wrapped 96th Academy Awards!

Over the past few years, the Academy Awards have faced a lot of questioning and criticism. As the self-proclaimed pinnacle of cinematic excellence, the Academy is struggling to maintain its reputation and convince people of its relevance. But the Oscars ceremony still provides an interesting lens to examine how this major cultural institution addresses ongoing events - from the writers and actors strikes to the conflict in Gaza. Which films, actors and actresses win ultimately is not based on merit, but on a myriad of factors and a relentless awards season campaign that has become the norm of the industry, a profound legacy of none other than Harvey Weinstein and his company Miramax.

We discuss the history of Oscars, its genre bias, and what we think about the “Barbie snub.”

【时间轴 The When】

00:00 颁奖典礼的回顾和高光时刻

08:23 颁奖典礼外,加沙和乌克兰的战火

21:04 奥斯卡的种族多样性进步了吗?

25:02 奥斯卡颁奖的竞选游戏,包括宣传策略和资源投入

33:05 奥斯卡的类型偏见

48:12 女性导演和女性主导电影在奥斯卡中的困...


042|美国小说:少数社群如何书写生命的复杂 American Fiction: How minority communities tell their complex stories
#42
02/26/2024

【聊了什么The What】

奥斯卡提名的作品《美国小说》American Fiction讲述了一个陷入这样的创作难题的黑人作家Monk——在以自己作为主体的Monk自己的书不被出版界和读者买账,却发现一部“迎合白人观众、贩卖黑人创伤和贫困”的书却大卖。于是Monk决定用通过写一部充满所以刻板印象的“黑人文学”去反抗自己的命运。但是却遭遇了一系列的家庭变故。

把这个故事翻译到疲惫娇娃熟悉的语境中,我们也能找到共通的挑战:女性书写女性的苦难一定是“吃女权饭”吗?亚裔书写亚裔的创伤是“迎合白人观众”吗?如何在忠于自我生活的创作中,同时能够获得创作的体面(收入、关注等等)?如何演绎生活的复杂度,同时也能鼓励其他族群的人和“我”共情?

一个很会写的女的Caiwei也加入了这场对话。

The Oscar-nominated work "American Fiction" tells the story of Thelonius “Monk” Ellison, a Black writer who finds himself in a creative dilemma. Out of anger, spite, and disappointment in the publishing industry status quo, he takes up a pen name and writes a piece of "Black literature" filled with stereotypes as a form of rebellion, yet the publishing world gobbles it all up.

The movie, when translated into familiar contexts, reveals universal challenges: Is it merely a form of capitalizing on feminism when women write about women's suffering? Is it catering to white audiences when Asians write about Asian trauma? How can one stay true to their own life experiences in their creative work, while also achieving dignity in creation (income, attention, etc.)? How can the complexity of life be conveyed in a way that also encourages empathy from people of other ethnic groups?

Caiwei, our a talented female writer friend, also joins this dialogue.

【时间轴 The When】

00:00 电影《美国小说》和电影导演编剧Cord Jefferson

05:58 对家庭故事部分的讨论,包括男主角Monk的家庭背景和家族创伤:人生的复杂度和混乱从Monk的角度徐徐展开

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041|Poor Things: 暗黑奇幻的旅程中,她把自己又养了一遍 Poor Things: a fantastical journey of self nurturing
#41
02/11/2024

【聊了什么The What】

《可怜的东西》是一部关于剥削与女性命运的丰富、引人深思、扭曲的成长故事。在跟随好奇而大胆的主角贝拉·巴克斯特的两个小时里,我们闯入了贝拉的生活中,同时收获了一种“有益的混乱”——能够帮助我们理解了一系列复杂的问题:在一个企图界定和限制女性的世界里寻求女性自主权,性工作作为一种艰苦、剥削性质的劳动,以及在某种程度上,生物黑客技术和CRISPR伦理问题。

Poor Things is a juicy, chewy, twisted coming-of-age fable about exploitation and womanhood. The two hours we spent following the curious, bold protagonist Balla Baxter provided a helpful chaos for us to metabolize an array of complex problems: the pursuit of female autonomy in a world seeking to define and confine it, the nature of sex work as gritty, exploitative labor, and, at some point, the ethics of biohacking and CRISPR.

【时间轴 The When】

00:00 今年颁奖季的宠儿Poor Things以及为什么我们要重新录制这集播客

04:04 我们对于这个电影的第一感受

10:10 “成熟女人的身体与婴儿的心智“——为什么我们对于Bella的担心程度随着她的旅程展开而忽上忽下?

13:45 Poor Things是一部彻底翻转过来的《洛丽塔》?

23:40 (假装我们在聊这部电影)电影的设定导致我们去思考了文本中复杂的性同意

35:47 Poor Things的科幻设定——人类为何恐惧技术?Bella是一个关于AI的角色(???),科学设定和伦理困境

45:30 我们对于现有科技以及特权人群改造人体的探讨

51:12 从事性工作的Bella和她的劳工意识觉醒

01:06:55 Bella弑父,和父亲和解,最后“变成父亲”的旅程

00:00 Poor Things - This awards season's darling - and why we're re-recording this podcast

04:04 Our first impressions of the film

10:10 "A mature woman's body with an infant's mind" - Why do our concerns over Bella fluctuate throughout her journey?

13:45 Is Poor Things a thoroughly inverted Lolita?

23:40 (Pretending we're discussing the film) - How the storyline prompts pondering complex consent ethics within t...


040|冬季氛围检查:活着就是要挣点钱然后去玩 Winter vibe check: let's just make some money and then have fun
#40
02/05/2024

【聊了什么The What】

疲惫娇娃的一季度一次的"氛围检查"aka闲聊节目又来了。从庆祝人生的某些瞬间,到对于婚礼各种细节的选择和对”物品“之间的拧巴关系,再到”怎么才能好好玩“,再到“最近上头下头是啥”,我们又絮絮叨叨聊了一个半小时。

In our quarterly “vibe check” tradition aka rambling chatfest, the CyberPink girls back to dive shallow(ish) once more. We hit the full life spectrum - from celebrating magical moments, untangling our love/hate with things (to Marie Kondos’s delight/chagrin), pondering how to properly “adult”...to spiraling into ‘what’s trending hot and not’ before emerging somehow wiser. Or at least blissfully 90 minutes older.

【时间轴 The When】

01:15 浅浅开头,这集播客我们基本上都在闲聊,如果你想听干货的话这期并没有

02:20 我们各自的焦虑梦

05:50 过去一年没发生什么大事,然后小蓝突然随便结了个婚

08:20 花酱对于小蓝的婚礼上"礼乐”的理解

14:20 小蓝在写婚礼誓词的心路过程

19:25 我们如何解读“结婚”? 如何庆祝一个人的存在?

37:00 一芳的登基故事和一场回门宴引发的地缘政治事件

54:40 我们最近的上头和下头

1:16:00 活着就是挣点钱然后再去玩

00:15 Super casual open - this episode is all about random banter

02:20 Each sharing anxiety dreams plaguing our sleep/nap

05:50 The past year = no major events really...except Xiaolan randomly threw a wedding?!

08:20 Hana-chan interprets wedding ceremony “rituals”

14:20 Xiaolan details her agonizing vow-drafting journey

19:25 How we each approach/view “marriage”

37:00 Yifang's "enthronement" story...includes the "geo-political" drama at a wedding (!!)

54:40 Our latest addictions/obsessions

01:16:00 let's earn som...


039|和2023年底的脆弱时刻一同步入新年 Striding into the New Year with 2023's Fragile Moments
#39
01/04/2024

【聊了什么The What】

2023年末,疲惫娇娃又与友台不合时宜录制了一期“不时疲惫”,与大家分享一些2023年我们不愿意透露的脆弱时刻。我们围坐在一起,聊起过去一年中各自独自在黑夜与灵魂对视的脆弱瞬间、无法解开的心结、尚未获得疗愈的创伤。希望你听到这期节目能够收获一些力量。大家新年快乐。

As the ball is about to drop to ring in 2024, CyberPink joined up with our comrades to put together another episode — a raw confessional session airing those vulnerabilities from the past year that we’d rather keep under wraps. We gathered round, spinning yarns into the wee hours about our solitary moments of fragility over months past, staring into the abyss of our souls as darkness enveloped us; the lingering emotional baggage yet to be reconciled and wounds still laid bare for all to see. And cheers to a bright new year ahead, friends.

【时间轴 The When】

(本次时间轴文案由不合时宜提供)

01:35 这期节目的由来:不时疲惫一相聚,都会jam出一集节目;而这期节目关于脆弱和痛苦

03:34 第一次去做心理咨询,心路历程经历了什么变化?

10:43 当一段亲密关系逝去以后,“我”的一部分似乎被带走

14:17 跟父母的关系——遥远又亲近

22:28 埋藏在你的成长经历当中的基底,确实形塑了你是什么样的一个人

36:45...


038|垫底俱乐部 Bottoms:一场酣畅淋漓的Y2K校园“发烧梦” A Gen Z High School Fever Dream
#38
01/01/2024

【聊了什么The What】 有人说Bottoms 垫底俱乐部是一部高校性转版的《搏击俱乐部》,但其实远远不止如此。它荒诞离奇,充满暴力和一些隐藏的不算太深的讽刺和哲思,是适合我们这个时代的美国高校喜剧电影。 故事围绕着Josie和PJ这一对好友展开,她们是这所美国高中食物链的底层,不只是因为她们是拉拉,而是用她们自己的话来说:“gay,ugly and untalented”。在高三毕业前的最后一年这对好友决心突破自己,互为僚机泡到全校最受欢迎的拉拉队队员,而她们达成目标的方式就是阴差阳错组建了这个高中第一个女子搏击俱乐部。 这一期,小蓝和四位酷儿/Gen Z/Older Millennial朋友们,也是一档全新的女权喜剧播客《大波福娃》的主播们,一起聊了聊这部酷儿青少年校园“发烧梦”。

Some say "Bottoms" is a high-school-themed, gender-flipped version of "Fight Club," but it's far more than that. It's a bizarre and whimsical journey, filled with violence and some blazen satire and not-so-subtle philosophical musings— a perfect update of the high school comedy genre fit for our times.

The story revolves around Josie and PJ, a dynamic duo situated at the bottom rung of the American high school social ladder. Their struggles extend beyond being lesbians; in their own words, they're "gay, ugly, and untalented." In their final year before graduating high school, this determined pair sets out to break free from their constraints to date the two most popular cheerleaders in the school. Their unconventional method? Accidentally forming the first all-female fight club in the high school.

In this episode, Xiaolan and her four queer/Gen Z/Older Millennial friends, who are the hosts of the brand-new feminist comedy podcast "Dat Beauvoir," convene to chat about this queer teenage "fever dream."

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037 | Taylor Swift的时代和我们的青春 Modern Girlhood through Taylor Swift and Her Eras
#37
11/27/2023

本期节目已入选豆瓣播客2024新春精选推荐活动,欢迎大家到豆瓣收听!

【聊了什么The What】

无论你是Taylor Swift的忠实粉丝还是普通路人,你肯定听说过这位美国女歌手,以及她从出道以来经历的不同的“eras”(时代)对流行文化的影响。

从她高中时期固化女性形象“You belong with me”的时代,2009年金融危机后被Kanye羞辱的”受害者公主“时代,2010年中期的时代金发红裙维密秀上的时代,再到2023年她开启的全美巡演撬动几十亿美元经济活动的”eras”时代。

这期疲惫娇娃,我们以Taylor Swift在2023年的演唱会名字“Eras”为主题,回顾她2008年初出茅庐再到2023成为定义时代的流行巨星的一路。无论是循环播放她的歌,还是将她作为流行文化的符号来去深入研究,我们都在人生的不同阶段和Taylor Swift交织。每一个Taylor的时代都能让我们回溯到过去十五年的某一种人生状态,唤起一些根深蒂固的回忆和情绪。本期节目中我们深入挖掘她多年来的各种造型,职业生涯变革的颁奖典礼时刻,与其他巨星的争执以及她的音乐——并探讨这些主题如何与我们自己的成长紧密相连,以及过去十五年“女性”作为一个集体意识是如何进化和蜕变。

Whether you’re a die-hard Swiftie or just a regular person who’s not into her songs, there’s no denying the grip that Ms. Taylor Swift has had on American pop culture since her debut in 2006.

In her most recent “Eras” tour, which generated roughly $5 Billion USD for the US economy, Taylor Swift walks the audience through her many eras: the hopeless romantic princess in sparkly dresses in “You Belong With Me,” who then fell from her pumpkin carriage and claimed victimhood after Kanye’s public humiliation of her in 2009; clapping back at critics and experimenting musically with “Red;” embracing her "girl squad" of famous friends and cementing her spot as a pop culture icon with “1989;” her villainelle era with “Reputation;” and taking quaratining at home to the next level by embracing cottagecore with “Folklore” and “Evermore” during the pandemic.

In this episode of CyberPink, we take a look at how different stages of our own lives intersect with Taylor Swift’s eras and how we interacted with her – whether it’s through passionately listening to her songs on repeat, reciting the lyrics, or simply studying her as a pop culture artifact and what her popularity means from an anthropological perspective. Each Taylor era evok...


036 | 「坠楼的审判 」:老公你安心的走吧 Anatomy of a Fall
#36
11/02/2023

【聊了什么The What】 从荞麦信箱和Reddit上的“Am I the Axxhole”,全世界人类的一大共性就是热衷于观察其他人的“家务事”,并给出自己的判决——You are not the axxhole,为网友的乳腺着想,分手吧。在最琐碎的家务事中,有无数隽永的社会问题和模糊的道德难题;故事随处可见,但把这样的故事讲好又非常难。2023年斩获金棕榈的法国剧情悬疑片《坠楼的审判》就是个中出彩之作。女作家Sandra的丈夫Samuel从他们的家顶楼坠楼离奇死亡,而Sandra成为了最大的嫌疑人。整个故事就围绕着这桩疑似谋杀案的司法调查展开,但被当堂剖析的不只是疑案——Sandra和Samuel之间失败的婚姻,父子、母子和伴侣之间那些心照不宣,无法言说的细微情绪统统被放在法庭上被代表所谓公平正义的律师、法官和看客逐一剥茧抽丝。

If the popularity of the “Am I The A**hole” subreddit and its Chinese equivalence were any indication, we humans really love nothing more than sticking our noses all the way in other people’s family business and passing judgments. But it takes an extraordinarily skilled storyteller to bring out the universal, profound moral struggles embedded in our seemingly mundane, daily life: what does it mean to be understood, even in the most intimate relationships? Can anyone be persuaded? If so, by facts or manipulation? “The Anatomy of a Fall,” which won the Palme d'Or prize at the Cannes Film Festival this year, is an icey, cerebral thriller about a mysterious death and a failed marriage, but also about truth, persuasion, the power of narratives, and all the unspoken love and cruelty within human relationships.

【时间轴 The When】

00:00 坠楼的审判是一部“文学”的电影

12:14 杀人犯是Sandra吗?

23:50 悬疑片外皮下,对于所谓“真相”塑造过程的剖析

36:48 站在审判席上的“成功女性”和亲密关系中的权力

56:34 Sandra与Samuel的争吵,失权者的绝望

00:00 “Anatomy of a Fall” and why do we like li...


035 | 两部剧聊聊情感创伤和竞技体育 Exploring the Grief and Sports Narrative
#35
10/10/2023

本期播客由简单心理特别赞助播出。

【聊了什么The What】

这期我们把Ted Lasso和The Bear这两部剧糅在一起聊, 虽然一部发生在绿茵场上,一部发生在厨房里,但是这两部剧都跟随着相同的故事蓝本——人如何化解创伤,寻找自己?如何在工作和团队中沟通,化解摩擦? 后疫情时代的2023年,探讨这些角色之间的摩擦和冲突如何被书写,探讨这些角色如何从创伤中恢复,重新找到并定义自己,在一定程度上也是探讨我们自己——我们如何理解自己的情绪?我们如何解读家人、同事、合作者、队友和友人的行为?我们如何在合作中了解自己、在摩擦中建立深厚的连接、在创伤中成长?

本期嘉宾:Dr. Eileen Cheng-yin Chow 周成蔭 教授

In this episode, we bring together two beloved shows—Ted Lasso and The Bear— to discuss how although one takes place on the football pitch and the other in the kitchen, both follow the same narrative blueprint. How do people resolve trauma and find themselves? How do they communicate and resolve friction at work and in teams? In 2023, the post-pandemic era, we explore how the conflicts between these characters are written, how they recover from trauma, rediscover and redefine themselves. We also explore ourselves to some extent - how do we understand our own emotions? How do we interpret the behaviors of family, colleagues, partners, teammates, and friends? How do we better understand ourselves, build deep connections through frictions, and grow beyond trauma through collaboration?

Our guest: Dr. Eileen Cheng-yin Chow

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034 | 夏末氛围检查和AMA End of Summer Vibe Check & AMA
#34
09/04/2023

【聊了什么The What】

立秋是万物复苏的季节,这意味着闲聊节目又来啦!

我们在这个夏天结束、秋天开始的季节也支棱了一下,设计了一封问卷,想借这个机会了解一下大家。问卷中也搜集上来了很多大家想要问我们的问题,我们选了一些在这期节目中回答。这封问卷会作为一个信箱保持开放,每一封收回来的问卷我们都会读!如果大家对我们有什么问题和建议,都可以通过问卷丢给我们,也可以给cyberpinkfm@gmail.com发邮件。

Happy pumpkin spice latte season! We like season changes, because it means we get to record our seasonal vibe check episodes. A couple of weeks ago out of a burst of productivity we shipped a survey to get to know yall better, which includes an AMA section where we collected all of your simmering questions. We had so much fun reading the responses (keep’em coming!!), and decided to break out the mailbox for an AMA episode! The survey will stay open, we read every entry religiously, so consider that a way to let us know about your questions, concerns, thoughts, anything you would like us to know. You can also email us at cyberpinkfm@gmail.com.

【时间轴 The When】

01:20 “如果读phd的话想要读什么专业?”

14:21 “好奇几位主播平时喜欢听什么音乐类型呀,走路或者休息的时候会听什么呢?”

24:02 “想问问各位主播的书单” / “主播们是怎么能找到那么多好看的影视作品的?”

50:09 “近期生活里有哪些新经验,或者新尝试,感觉如何?...