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5 YEARS!!!!!!! In this episode, Angie and Aric reflect on five years of marriage marked by profound growth, unexpected challenges, and unwavering commitment. They dive into what they hope the next 5 years will look like and wrap with rapid fire questions about each other! As always, full of real and raw honesty. 

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Join us in this heartfelt episode as we explore a weekend retreat where moms, united by the shared experience of losing a child, come together to find healing and purpose. Discover how these women transform their grief into joy through deep connections and shared stories.
In this episode, we delve into:

*The transformative power of authentic connections among grieving parents
*How social media can be a force for good, fostering meaningful relationships
*The significance of honoring loved ones through rituals and memorials
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Most people underestimate how completely grief redefines life — and how faith becomes the anchor when everything feels unmoored. In this raw, heartfelt conversation, Sarah shares how losing her daughter Lucy to suicide reshaped her view of faith, life, and purpose. Her story reveals that grief is more powerful than we expect — it’s always in charge, altering us deeply and forever. Yet, amid the pain, she found unexpected strength, community, and even moments of light.
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How faith can be your refuge during life’s darkest moments, w...

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When your partner's hormones go on a wild ride, the usual advice just doesn’t cut it. This episode cuts through the chaos to give husbands clear, actionable insights to thrive during their partner’s perimenopause or menopause journey. Discover how emotional shifts, hot flashes, and brain fog are just the tip of the iceberg—and learn exactly what to do (and what to avoid) to support her effectively.
In this candid conversation, you'll uncover the true complexity of hormonal upheaval, from sleep disruptions to mood swings, and why belief...

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This episode reveals a simple yet powerful shift that can transform your relationships—whether at home, work, or in faith. Discover how just five seconds can change your response, unlock courage, and foster deeper connection with those you love. If you’ve ever hesitated to say what’s on your mind, hold back a kind word, or avoid a tough conversation, this is your blueprint for action. We break down how the five second rule isn’t just about habits or productivity—it's about seizing momentary courage in everyday life. Angie and...

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Does it really matter? Sometimes we get caught up in the small stuff — a garage door, a haircut, a comment — and forget what truly does.
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Recently, I realized grief teaches us to let go faster — to stop majoring in the minors. Life’s fragility becomes clear when you see how quickly small hurts or inconveniences fade away.

It’s about choosing where to focus — investing your time and energy in what’s truly sacred, like health, presence with loved ones, and self-care.
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In this episode, Angie shares her personal journey towards a softer, more intentional 2026. Together, Angie & Aric explore health, faith, and family practices like infrared sauna, Pilates, and watching The Chosen. They discuss how slowing down and focusing on what truly matters can transform daily life and deepen faith.

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Most people underestimate the profound impact of simply showing up. In this episode, Angie and Aric delve into the quiet power of presence—sharing how small acts of kindness, like sitting in silence or remembering birthdays, can bring immense comfort during life's hardest moments. They reveal the crucial difference between fixing and simply being there, especially in grief, and why love often manifests in participation, not solutions.

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Deep healing requires a wholistic approach to mind, body and spirit.  In our latest episode, we discuss how deep emotional experiences can lead to spiritual awakenings.  Sometimes, trauma can lift the veil and reveal a new level of understanding.  We enjoy bringing different perspectives to our followers! 

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In this episode, our special guest, Tricia Orscheln,  shares her inspiring journey from personal loss to building a Tree of Hope to then becoming a children's author. She discusses her experiences with mental health, the impact of her father's struggles, and her husband's tragic accident. Tricia emphasizes the importance of coping strategies for children, particularly in managing anxiety, and introduces her children's book, Alohalani, which aims to help kids navigate change and develop resilience. The conversation highlights the significance of purpose, creativity, and the power of storytelling in healing and g...

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In this episode, Angie and Aric engage with Tarah and EJ, therapists and hosts of the Relationship Renovation podcast, discussing the complexities of blended families. They share personal experiences, common challenges, and practical advice for navigating the emotional landscape of parenting in blended families. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and grace in fostering healthy relationships among family members.

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In this heartfelt episode of "Blended Blessed and Always a Mess," hosts Angie and Aric reflect on the emotional weight of Hallie's upcoming 24th birthday, marking her 4th birthday since she went to heaven. They candidly discuss the complexities of grief, particularly the pressure to celebrate a loved one's life while grappling with the absence of their presence. Angie shares her personal struggles with honoring Hallie's memory, revealing the guilt and heaviness that often accompany such milestones. The couple also recounts their family traditions surrounding Hallie's birthday, emphasizing the bittersweet...

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In this episode of 'Blended Blessed and Always a Mess,' Angie and Aric discuss the significance of setting personal and couple goals, reflecting on their experiences and challenges. They share insights on navigating life's ups and downs, the importance of vision boards, and how they balance individual aspirations with shared goals. The conversation also touches on the emotional journey of dealing with loss and the power of faith and resilience.

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In this heartfelt episode, we explore the complex emotions of celebrating Christmas while navigating grief and joy. Join us as we share personal stories of family traditions, unexpected challenges, and the journey of finding purpose amidst loss. Whether it's a humorous mishap or a touching memory, this episode offers a genuine reflection on the holiday season's ups and downs. Tune in for insights that resonate with anyone who has ever faced the bittersweet nature of the holidays.

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We have missed you! A lot has been happening so we wanted to at least record one podcast while we are on break to share our thoughts with you. 

Just a simple thank you. 

Thank you for sitting with us in this sacred space. 

Thank you for letting us share Hallie, our hearts and this letter to God. 

And as always, thanks for listening! Angie & Aric 

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In this episode of 'Blended, Blessed, and Always a Mess', Angie and Aric reflect on the themes of gratitude and grief as they prepare to take a pause from the podcast. Angie shares personal stories from the Grit with Grace event, discusses the signs from her late daughter Hallie, and emphasizes the importance of community support in navigating loss. The conversation highlights the emotional journey of grief, the need for self-care, and the power of connection through shared experiences.

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In this episode, Angie kicks it off sharing her viewpoint on Aric's wellness journey. Take a listen to his guest spot on "With you in the Weeds" Podcast. 

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In this episode, Angie shares the many ways God is refilling her heart and soul in October before the very hard next couple of months approach. Hallie's Angelversary, the holidays and then Hallie's birthday. How can it be 3 years already? 

It’s the sacred pause — the intentional slowing down to listen to what your heart, body, and soul are quietly asking for. It’s giving yourself permission to refill before the tide of grief comes back in… a practice of honoring both the ache and the healing.

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In this episode of 'Blended, Blessed and Always a Mess', hosts Aric Bremer and Angie Phillips discuss the importance of communication in relationships, particularly in parenting. They share personal experiences, including moments of 'God winks' and the challenges of brain fog. The conversation centers around insights from the book 'The Next Conversation' by Jefferson Fisher, which offers tools for avoiding arguments and fostering positive communication. Key themes include the significance of repairing relationships over winning arguments, the power of words, and the necessity of intentional conversations. The episode concludes with...

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In this episode, Aric and Angie discuss the importance of prioritizing life events, celebrating birthdays, and the complexities of grief and gratitude. They delve into the challenging topic of forgiveness, exploring its misconceptions and the ongoing process of healing. The conversation emphasizes the significance of connection, both in relationships and in navigating personal struggles, while also acknowledging the unique journeys of grief and forgiveness that individuals experience.

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*Life's priorities sometimes require us to take breaks from routine activities.
*Gratitude can help put things into perspective...

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For the first time, we are together on video recording!!! Definitely a different vibe! This episode we cover the pie debate, college visit, birthday vibes, a dream with Hallie in it and so much more. The conversation also delves into the importance of faith during hardships, the significance of connection in relationships, and the grace found in navigating pain. Through personal anecdotes and insights, we encourage you to find purpose and strength in their journeys.

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In this episode of 'Blended, Blessed and Always a Mess,' hosts Aric Bremer and Angie Phillips explore the themes of fall, family, and the impact of technology on relationships. They discuss their favorite fall activities, the transition from summer to fall, and the importance of letting go and embracing new beginnings. The conversation also touches on the challenges of parenting in a tech-driven world and the significance of community and connection in light of current events.

Praying for the Kirks. 

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In this episode, Aric and Angie reflect on the past few weeks. Think quiet, coffee, and a lightness that is rare in grief. So grab YOUR coffee, and hit play to listen to their real and raw expression of their complexities in life. They discuss all things from intentional parenting, memories of Hallie, long walks, to what it's like to be a Libra mom. 

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In this episode, Michael Pereira shares his journey as a father of a child with autism, discussing the challenges of acceptance, the importance of professional guidance, and the need for a supportive community. He emphasizes the significance of open communication within families and the necessity of understanding cultural differences when addressing special needs. Michael also highlights the skills parents develop in navigating these challenges and the resources available for families in similar situations.

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In this episode, Aric shares his personal journey of sobriety and the transformative steps he took to lead a healthier lifestyle. He discusses the importance of finding a strong 'why' behind the decision to quit drinking, the role of physical fitness, and the impact of counseling and support systems. The conversation also touches on the unexpected benefits of sobriety, including improved mental clarity, better relationships, and financial savings. Aric emphasizes the importance of setting healthy boundaries and the motivation that comes from a competitive spirit.

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In this episode, Aric and Angie reflect on their recent family trip to celebrate Angie's parents' 55th wedding anniversary. They discuss the challenges of coordinating a large family vacation, the importance of overcoming fear to be present with loved ones, and the joy of creating lasting memories together. The conversation touches on themes of love, support, and navigating grief, particularly in the context of their family dynamics. They emphasize the significance of time spent with family and the p...

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We are on location for this podcast episode! Angie could only talk 3 of her siblings to be on the podcast and one of those said he would join if he didn't have to talk. Will let you decide which one! HA!! Aric moderates and asks us questions all about growing up in a very large family! There are pros and cons! 

Hit play to either appreciate your upbringing or wish you were part of our reality show type family life! 

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We are on vacay! So no time to record the podcast.. Instead, we are sharing a podcast we recorded with Hallie & Lexi! As always, full of insight and laughs. We are hope your August is starting off with positivity and peace. Thanks for following along on our journey. We are so glad you are here! 

Love, Angie & Aric 

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In this episode, Aric and Angie share the constant question they ask.. Does it really matter? When an avoidable child loss unravels your entire soul, the list is long of what DOES NOT MATTER!!! Perspective on what matters is very clear. Also, tune in to hear some recent signs from Hallie and how she participated in a gender reveal!!! You know, because she is better than everyone! 

PS if you like Angie's top, you can find it on www.sevensboutique.com 

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In this episode of 'Blended, Blessed and Always a Mess', Aric and Angie explore likes and yikes in their relationship. In a pinch for a podcast topic, Angie turned to chat gpt for engaging questions to ask each other. If you are staring at your partner and are hoping for deep conversations, you might want to use this pro tip! Hit play and see what you think! 

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In this heartfelt episode of "Blended, Blessed and Always a Mess," hosts Angie and Aric delve into the profound journey of navigating tragedy and grief. Recording from two different locations, they share personal reflections on recent events in Texas and the enduring pain of losing their daughter, Hallie. Through candid conversations, they explore the question "Does God give you more than you can handle?". Angie and Aric explore the role of faith in overcoming life's challenges, emphasizing the importance of relying on God during difficult times. They also share comforting...

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FINALLY!!! After some belly laughs and contagious giggles, Angie & Jess were finally able to get it together and share their passion and mission to enable women to walk boldly, dress divinely and know their significance! As podcast listeners, you get the first peak and access to www.sevensboutique.com as it starts to build.  Angie and Jess share the significance of sisterhood, the mission behind their boutique, and the importance of community engagement. The conversation is filled with laughter, personal anecdotes, and reflections on their journey, emphasizing the deeper purpose o...

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Are you raising young girls? Don't miss this one! In this episode, Jen Brinsmade shares her journey as a wellness coach and her mission to empower young women through the Peace and Power Habits program. The conversation explores the impact of social media on youth, the importance of building healthy habits, and the necessity of embracing failure as a part of growth. Jen emphasizes the significance of nature, movement, and mindfulness in fostering resilience and self-awareness among teenagers. The episode concludes with resources for parents and young women to connect...

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This is definitely a first for Angie! She shares her emotional experience of being invited to a wedding as a surprise guest. Aric and Angie discuss the profound impact of human connection, especially in the context of grief and loss. The discussion delves into the significance of hugs after loss, the beauty of family dynamics amidst grief, and the power of human connection. To know your significance, is to know your purpose!!!!

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For Father's Day, Aric and I decided, we should do a little "we listen and don't judge" session with his kids. Lexi, Carter, and Dane share their perspective and what it was like to have Aric has a dad. Sweet, heartfelt, funny and honest convo's only at Blended, Blessed & Always A Mess. 

We hope you enjoy this episode. Happy Father's Day to all the dad's out there! Angie & Aric 

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Two and half years since Hallie died. Two and half years waiting to hear how her choice to be an organ donor has helped others live. Two and half years of checking the mail.  We didn't receive just one letter, we received two! ODD RIGHT? Hit play to hear the details of the letters and a few other lessons learned!  Don't forget to subscribe!

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If you have won all the games and still feel miserable? Checked all the boxes and still empty? This episode is for you. And this time, Aric brought the guest and Angie was soaking up all the goodness. Aric and Angie engage in a deep conversation with Brent Beshore, the CEO and founder of Permanent Equity. They explore Brent's transformative journey from atheism to Christianity, the importance of surrendering to God, and how these experiences have shaped his relationships and personal health. The discussion emphasizes the significance of daily practices...

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In this episode, Aric and Angie  share a candid account of their week filled with family activities, emotional milestones, and the significance of community support. Angie reflects on her recent achievement of winning the Zonta Award for Women's Achievement, discussing the complexities of grief and purpose following the loss of her daughter, Hallie. They emphasize the importance of surrounding oneself with supportive individuals and finding strength in adversity. They also highlight the power of community and the role it plays in healing and personal growth.

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In this heartfelt episode, Angie and Aric welcome John and Jen Wampler, who share the poignant story of their daughter Lizzy, who battled osteosarcoma. The conversation delves into the profound grief of losing a child, the impact of cancer on family dynamics, and the strength found in faith and community. John and Jen reflect on their journey through grief, the importance of supporting others facing similar challenges, and how they continue to honor Lizzy's legacy through charitable work and advocacy for pediatric cancer research.

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During this episode, Angie shares a special tribute to mothers but especially the broken and beautiful moms. 

Moms -- On this Mother's Day, whether it's a hard one or a beautiful one... or a messy mix of both, know your significance!!! YOU MATTER!!!!!

Say their Name: Hallie, Sydnee, Evan, Harper, Graylan, R, Kelly, Kacey, Lucy, Maddie

As Always, Thanks for Listening! Angie & Aric 

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