Embody Your Soul

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By: Alexandra Marie Shelly

Welcome to the Embody Your Soul podcast. Your host, Alexandra Shelly, also known as The Modern Medium, invites you to get comfy and talk about how we can connect to our True Self, our divine calling, in order to embody your soul, through spiritual connection and best practices. Topics will include her work in Psychic Mediumship, Reiki, Channeling, spiritual modalities, Intuition, all while embracing the messiness of existence. Alexandra welcomes guests of various industry expertise and change-makers on the podcast to invite wisdom into our journey. Tune in every Wednesday and/or Friday wherever you get your podcast. If you'd...

EP 104: What spirit signs are actually asking of you...
#104
06/25/2025

Signs from spirit are one of the main drivers for what brings clients to me, or really, to many psychics and psychic mediums. They're a beautiful way to communicate with the universe, spirit guides, loved ones and your intuition. However, we can lose sight quite easily of what they actually are meant for. Here, I break down what spirit messages are and what they are meant to mean.

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EP 103: Post-divorce glow up, body love & the joy of evolution w/ Author, Mentor & Facilitator, Krista Williams
#103
06/20/2025

The girl is backkk!!!!!! In this episode, Krista and I catch up, talk about her post-divorce glow up, the synergy of body love and spiritual evolution, as well as dive into the joys of evolution--what it takes to evolve, what it means to evolve, as well as how her new book can be your new guide.

Krista Williams is the co-host of the world-renowned podcast, Almost30 with stunning co-host, Lindsey Simcik. Krista is also a mentor, facilitator and author of a tarot deck, Making Tarot Modern.

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EP 102: Why connecting with spirit at first can feel really overwhelming & how to do it in a way that's grounding, healing & supportive
#102
06/16/2025

Phewwwww connecting with spirit at first can feel crazy. This is because we are not used to the energy, which this amount of energy & unfamiliarity with energy can feel overwhelming. I talk about how it's overwhelming & how you can begin connecting in a way that's grounding, healing & deeply supportive!

I discuss...

what spirit energy iswhat spirit energy feels likewhy it's overwhelming but safeimportance of groundingget in touch with your bodyethical practices

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EP 101: From divorce to stepping her queen era through the dating portal w/ Mentor & Writer, Josefine Appel
#101
06/06/2025

This episode is MAGIC! If you're down bad during a break up or in your dating experience, this is the episode for you. Josefine Appell is a mentor for feminine baddies who seek to discover their innate power and purpose through sensuality, feminine embodiment and returning to the your authentic self. She is also a licensed holistic nutritionist!

In this episode we talk about:

DivorceHow dating at first was hard Recognizing old patterns How to get comfortable with discomfort RejectionMen's ego'sTreat men like MENEmbodying divine feminine energy while dating How dating is a portal Less control...


EP 100: Allow me to re-introduce myself: who I am, my mission, what sets me a part & we'll get along if...
#100
05/15/2025

The 100th episode holy CRAP. It's been a gorgeous 3 years with this podcast. It's been a jam. She's been steadily becoming something wonderful, with my humble community. I thank you dearly xoxo

In this episode, I'm re-introducing myself. I'm sharing the evolution of my practice, what I'm obsessed with as a practitioner, what it's like to work with me, how to feel supported by me. I share what sets me a part, what makes me different. I also talk about the current spiritual practices I'm into, and how that's changed my practice and outlook as a psychic...


EP 099: Being a Sex Witch, slut shaming & sex magick w/ Sex Witch, Author & Columnist, Gaby Herstik
#99
04/23/2025

Gaby's bio:

Welcome to the bewitching world of Gabriela Herstik, a renowned author and modern witch who blends the erotic and esoteric. With over a decade of experience, Gabriela empowers others through her bestselling books, classes, and podcast. Her work, including titles like “Inner Witch”, “Sacred Sex” and “Goddess Energy,” offers accessible magickal practices and rituals. Welcome to her digital altar where you get to dive into Gabriela’s mystical world and explore her unique blend of spirituality and sensuality.

In this episode we talk about:

Gaby's story (how she came to be a sex worker/sex...


EP 098: The practice that has changed my life--helped me heal attachment wounds, manifest, step deeper into my creativity, feel even more embodied, the list goes on... Sex Magick
#98
04/02/2025

Sex Magick is seriously, a practice that has absolutely transformed my life. I'm so eager to share this magic with you all.

In this episode, I discuss:

What sex magick is How it influences my entire life How to live a sex magick life What my practice looks like How you can make your practice look like

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EP 097: All about Tantra & sacred sexuality w/ Tantra Practitioner, Faciliator & Author, Leola Watkins
#97
03/28/2025

Leola is a Pleasure Priestess & the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed, inspiring others to see an integration of sexuality and spirituality. She guides individuals and couples in discovering how life-force energy moves in the body; and more importantly, how to harness this inner-power for a pleasure-filled life that begins with our most intimate relationships and extends to our livelihood and our worldview.

In her early 20s, Leola discovered tantra and shamanic sexuality as modalities to heal her relationship to her body, process past sexual assault, and create a life she loves. She is now dedicated to...


EP 096: This is for you if you want to start trusting your intution. Here are 3 important aspects of intuition & how to decode it.
#96
03/11/2025

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EP 095: A deep dive into your authenticuty w/ Human Design Practitioner & Podcast Host, Nicole Guena
#95
02/20/2025

This is the perfect episode if you want a deeper dive into human design. This will help you understand the gates, which are unique and interchangeable within each profile.

Nicole Guena is a Certified Level 1 & 2 Jenna Zoe Human Design practitioner, who is obsessed with helping you understand your authentic blueprint. She has this incredible warmth that allows you to feel so comfortable, and she really does nothing but help you feel so empowered in your uniqueness!

She is also a Certified Holistic Health Coach from the Institute of Integrative Nutrition and Emotional Intelligence Practitioner Certification. <...


EP 094: Timeline shifts, tapping into "future self," & making authentic decisions w/ Shamanic Practitioner & Author, Leilani
#94
02/05/2025

Ah! It’s a threads love story.. I found this gorgeous queen on threads through her INSANE post on timelines, and the rest is history. Leilani Mañulu is a modern shaman, author, podcaster, and speaker/storyteller specializing in activating Earth Angel leaders into their soul-led purposes.

In this episode we talk about: 

undestanding timelinestimeline jumps and or shifts grief that comes with shifitng timelines honoring each stage tapping into other timelines creating change in the world living authentically

Leilani Bio:

Leilani Mañulu is a modern shaman, author, podcaster, and speaker/storyteller...


EP 093: My dating portal; what I'm doing different, what I'm learning, how I'm navigating triggers, all the goods.
#93
01/17/2025

I like to call this my dating portal, because it's my initiation into meeting my soulmate. I know the process is triggering and uncomfortable at times, but I want to do everything I can to also squeeze every drop out of this process. In this episode, I talk about:

Why I'm in the 'dating portal'Soulmate union (EP 089)How I'm handling when triggers come up Dating doesn't need to be insufferable. It can be pleasurable, fun and full of discovery 9/10 of the men I will go on a date with aren't my soulmate, so I am in discovery along...


EP 092: The Return of Rachel White, The Skeptic Shaman: spiritual integrity, how to spot & not be a "culty" spiritual practitioner
#92
01/15/2025

Rachel White is back baby!!! In this episode, we talk about:

Safe practitioners Culty practitioners Spiritual integritySpirituality should feel goodWhen spiritual practices are unsafeHow do to know if you feel safe with a practitioner

Rachel White Bio:

Rachel isn’t your typical shaman—she’s a former corporate powerhouse turned spiritual guide for the “spiritually homeless” (the ones who roll their eyes at crystals but secretly wonder if they work). Known as “The Skeptical Shaman,” Rachel brings over 20 years of corporate experience combined with a rich knowledge of the World of Woo. She has a passion for dem...


EP 091: Feel confident in trusting your intuitive vessel, aka, the body. Introducing The Intuitive Path.
#91
01/10/2025

The Intuitive Path is a 6-month container that helps you feel safety within your body, in order to trust your intuition. Our bodies are divine, intuitive vessels, and it is our birthright to unlock this. The more safety and trust you feel within your body, the more confident and connected you are to your intuition. This container includes:

psychic mediumship reiki healings / integration healings trauma-informed mindfulness practicesbody trauma liberation (a very simple sequence of gentle movements that allow you to move through locked emotion, that your mind would have trouble doing otherwise)breathwork somatics (body mapping, tuning into...


EP 090: Tap into your delicious, divine feminine energy w/ Feminine Energy & Polarity Mentor, Trinity Searle
#90
01/07/2025

Yay! Hello everyone and welcome to this incredible episode. I'm so excited for you all to meet Trinity. She is an aspiring masculine/feminine polarity mentor with a passion for helping women tap into their divine feminine and learn how to cultivate polarity in relationships in today's world.

We came across each other on socials, I just fell in love with her warm, genuine and clear energy. She breaks this topic down in a way that's very uncluttered.

Check out her Free Feminine Energy Practices on her IG: @femininitywithtrinity

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EP 089: What is SacredUnion, how to know if you are meant for it, understand karmic bonds vs. soulmate bonds & what it takes to connect with your soulmate w/ Matchmaker, Theta Healer & Soulmate Guide w/ Issy Beham
#89
11/21/2024

Have you been manifesting, mantra-ing to the MAX to connect with your soulmate?! Okay this is your episode and this is your GIRL.

Isabella Beham is a Matchmaker, Soulmate Guide and Theta Healer. She is hear to activate the divine codes within us, and lead us back to our sovereignty and our soulmate.

In this episode, we talk about:

What is sacred union?What is a soulmate?How do you know you incarnated with sacred union codes?Karmic bonds vs. soulmate bondsWhat if you don't believe you're meant to meet your soulmate?What do...


EP 088: 7 reasons why your bad days are some of your best days.
#88
10/30/2024

Our bad days are our good days. And this is not to bypass the pain you are going through. This is not to say, YAY YOUR DEVASTATION IS AMAZING, or to say you deserve it. What I hope with this episode is that you see the beauty in you and the beauty that comes from it.

In this episode I talk about:

You recognize your resilienceYour learn more about yourselfYou feel so damn good after overcoming itYou recognize how wise you are / how much you have learnedPain is wisdom

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EP 087: Here's why you may not be feeling spirit as strongly & what to do about it.
#87
10/23/2024

In this episode I discuss:

4 reasons why you may not be feeling spirit as stronglyWhat it means and what to do about it

Other episodes I recommend!

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EP 037

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EP 086: 14 signs you feel emotionally unsafe in a romantic relationship (what I've learned so far & when they're objectively a good person).
#86
10/18/2024

This episode was very much inspired and requested by a few audience members. I posted this threads, and it went viral! I knew I had to dive deeper and expand on this topic.

In this episode, I talk about:

what does it mean to feel emotionally safe?how do you know you feel emotionally unsafe with someone?how to trust your intuition practices for moving through emotional unsafetypractices for establishing emotional safety with yourselfsome differences between feeling emotionally safe vs emotionally unsafe.

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EP 085: Become your most magnetic self no matter what w/ Life + Energy Coach, CiiCii
#85
09/24/2024

I can't EVEN!! CiiCii is right now one of my all time favorite practitioners. She is a Life & Energy Coach and newly published author of her book, Show Up As Her. I have been following her for over a year, and I have saved almost every single one of her videos. I read her book IMMEDIATELY after my breakup (April 2024), and I have been listening to her podcast, That Bitch is Positive every time I need a hype-girl energy boost.

In this episode we talk about..

Breakups The pedestal concept Confidence vs. narcissism you came here to...


EP 084: EPIC DOWNLOAD #2
#84
09/20/2024

Welcome to another series of EPIC DOWNLOAD, where I share a beautiful download in a bite-sized, potent episode.

This one is all about relationships--with others and with yourself--and another perspective on how to become more discerning with who we decide to nurture.

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EP 083: Increasing your capacity for love, debunking 'toxic masculinity, the 'initiated man,' how to call in & create a conscious union w/ Dating + Relationship Coach, Sam Morris
#83
09/17/2024

Sam Gibbs Morris is a Masculine Mentor, and a Dating + Relationship Coach. You can simply tell by the way he speaks to his work and philosophy that he loves what he does. In this episode, we talk about:

What role pain plays in our lifeThe more we can have a capacity for pain, the more capacity we have for loveDebunking 'toxic masculinity' What is the initiated man?What is a conscious relationship?How can we create a conscious relationship?The roles of the feminine and the masculineHow can we call in a divine / initiated masculine?

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A NEW SERIES: EPIC DOWNLOAD #1
#82
08/25/2024

hello. welcome to my new, fun, short series called Epic Download. These are short episodes where I share epic downloads from spirit--from my Threads, from the shower, a walk, a drive, working out--may these hit you where you need it xoxo (that sounds funny lol but keeping it!)

This download is perfect for you if you feel...

Anxious about your manifestations Anxious about the futureUncomfortable with uncertaintyDealing with doubtWanting more faith in your manifestationsDesire to feel grounded in your journeySurrender to what's meant for youHow to stay present and enjoy your life right now

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EP 081: This is your top priority when developing your intuition & spiritual gifts
#81
06/06/2024

No matter WHERE you're at, who you are... this is crucial. I really didn't understand how important practicing this technique was until I have 1) developed a steady meditation practice 2) read this book, Rewire Your Mind by Dr. Shauna Shapiro.

In this episode, I discuss:

Why self-compassion is so important What happens to our brain when we practice shame vs. self-compassionDifferent ways to practice self-compassion while developing trust with your intuition

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EP 080: The advantage of a beginner's mindset, ABC's of manifestation, building new neural pathways, entrepreneurship + spirituality w/ Business Coach & NLP Practitioner, Lauren Marie
#80
05/31/2024

Lauren Marie is a certified Business Coach, NLP practitioner and Reiki Practitioner. She is obsessed with helping brand-spanking new entrepreneurs begin their journey, find clarity, build confidence and achieve their goals. In this episode, we talk about:

*Entrepreneur mindset

*The advantage of starting from the beginning

*Your beginning does not define your success - Lauren’s story

*Spirituality and business go hand in hand

*Your business is an extension of yourself

*Lauren’s straightforward definition of Manifestation

*Advice on if you want to REALLY manifest


EP 079: 6ish lessons from most recent heartbreak
#79
05/01/2024

Here are some lessons from my most recent heartbreak. I hope this episode resonates with you. This explores the facets of:

Self worth Trusting spirit and how to build trust with yourself Love as a feeling and love as a frequencyStop obsessing over themRely on yourself and have spirit be your mentors

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EP 078: Everything you need to understand about soul friendships w/ Hosts of Your Spiritual Besties podcast, Rashida & Lauren
#78
04/24/2024

Rashida and Lauren are the soul-bestie hosts of Your Spiritual Besties podcast. And this episode isn't hiding anything from you--this is all about Soul friendships...

How do you know you've made a soul friend?How can I begin to call in my soul friend/community?Staying consistent and devotedHandling conflict and or disagreements Why they are vital for affirming your spiritual gifts and intuitionBeing a sounding boardAsking for help Magnetizing soul family connections Being mirrors for each other

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EP 077: Understand embodiment work, sex magik & NEVER deny your pleasure EVER again w/ Embodiment & Womb Practitioner Kayla Teofla Rose
#77
03/15/2024

Kayla is NOT ONLY MY SOUL SIS, but an Embodiment & Womb Practitioner. She is also Yoga Teacher Certified, Pilates Instructor, Psychic Medium, and is currently undergoing a 40-day Cacao Sadhana to facilitate Cacao Ceremonies.

Be simply being her friend, learning from her has changed my practice and my life dramatically. I am eternally grateful for her existence.

In this episode, we talk about:

Embodiment workWhat does an embodiment practice look likeWho can do embodiment workHow to begin an embodiment practiceWomb practices (women and men)Initiated vs. un-initiated What is Sex Magik Sex Magik is...


EP 076: Life changing insights from my session with my psychiatrist on the body + spirit, control & fear mongering
#76
03/06/2024

Hello!!! Goodness it's been a minute since I've done an episode. This was a deeply connected, channeled episode that I really just allowed my energy and Source to take over.

I'm someone who receives support from Modern Medicine, and it can somewhat be a contradiction to the work I do, what I stand for, and the industry I'm in. However, I don't see anyone talking about it. I aways go by the mantra of "I want to be the space I want to see." So, I might as well be the space and start talking about it. <...


EP 075: Energy of karma, importance of soul contracts, getting real about ghosts, how to achieve a juicy frequency & SO MUCH MORE w/ Psychic Medium, Sean Collyns
#75
01/31/2024

Sean Collyns everyone!

I'm a Medium, Psychic, Teacher & New Paradigm leader. I like to infuse as much joy, fun & magic into everything that I do because if there is anything that the Spirit World taught me, it’s that life was never meant to be so serious! My approach is heart & Soul centred, serving from a place of love, authenticity, compassion & plenty of sass. I adopted the title ‘5D medium’ because I’m all about anchoring those higher frequencies & aligning people with higher timelines. I am a coach, guide, ambassador for the Spirit World, a die hard Kylie fa...


EP 074: What I'm really starting to understand about manifestation
#74
01/26/2024

This is the first year I'm consciously manifesting and actively calling in manifestations. I've been kind of doing it sporadically, and realizing, "Oh, I did that!" But now that I am deep, deep in the spiritual work and I can really understand the nature of co-creation, I have been actively manifesting for about 1.5-2 years.

Lemme tell you, it's not what has been in said in a lot of books. I believe we're catching up to it, but I wanted to share my experiences. So much of this work is about embodiment, diving into the dark, brutal...


EP 073: Your attachment style is not your personality & here's how you can feel more liberated from it w/ Attachment Coach + Podcast Host, Sarah Cohan
#73
01/19/2024

Sarah Cohan is an attachment coach and the hilarious host of the Lit AF Relationships podcast. She offers one-on-one coaching to folks that struggle with people pleasing and vulnerability to create loving and secure relationships where they feel supported. 

In this episode, we talk about:

What are attachment styles How to know which attachment style I am How attachment styles show uo Anxious attachment Anxious avoidant Fearful avoidant Over identifying with your attachment style Boundaries Empowering your intuition Attachment styles are on a spectrumSecure attachment

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EP 072: Unlocking the truth about financial trauma & true abundance w/ Financial-Trauma Coach, Sorina Maria
#72
01/12/2024

Sorina is an unconventional voice for financial and emotional liberation who is here to challenge inefficient paradigms of personal transformation. Her avant-garde work has demonstrated time and time again miraculous efficiency, helping people find true transformation in their emotional and financial wellbeing within months of implementation.

In this episode, we discuss: 

What is financial trauma Why ‘money mindset’ doesn’t workHow Sorina created her method How financial trauma shows up Nervous system integrationBeing okay with conflict Manifesting w/ trauma Mentors that fit your speedPace doesn’t determine success Taking time off

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EP 071: Finding peace, identity & joy with chronic pain w/ hosts of the Wounded Healers podcast, Janessa & Amy
#71
12/20/2023

Janessa and Amy, both faced the diagnosis of Rheumatoid Arthritis in their early 20s. Their paths crossed at a wellness retreat, where their shared wounds led to the birth of the Wounded Healers Podcast. Together, they strive to carve out a haven where others grappling with health challenges can find solace and understanding. To help empower them & remind them. They are not alone along their health journeys.

In this episode, we talk about:

Their diagnosis Finding peace from their pain Building identity outside of their diagnosis Believing in a higher power Trusting in their mission Hope +...


EP 070: What I did not expect when becoming a psychic medium
#70
12/13/2023

Stories I was told and the images I've created in my head as to what it would be like to be a psychic medium DID not add up or even come remotely close to my experience (or actually, maybe a couple...) today.

In this episode, I get candid and real about what I did not expect when I become a psychic medium. I go into topics of:

Body image Unlocking hidden passionsEmotional baggage Self-worth On dating + being single Anxious attachment to secure attachment

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EP 069: The subtle signs you may be missing, building awareness for Spirit & key techniques for a successful practice w/ Mediumship Mentor & Author, Rory Walkom
#69
12/06/2023

Rory Walkom is a Certified Medium, Intuitive Development Teacher and author of “11 Lessons from My Dead Dad”. Based out of Kitchener, Ontario, Canada, Rory runs The Medium School - an online mediumship and spiritual development school.  The school's philosophy is that we are all innately capable of connecting to our intuition and those in spirit.  After the sudden loss of her father, Rory was thrust into the world of spirit communication.  She knows that if she was able to unblock her intuition, any one can. 

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EP 068: 5 of my favorite teachings from world-renowned Psychic Mediums & one from my 8th science teacher
#68
11/29/2023

Beautiful teachings from world-renowned psychic mediums, and, an unforgettable lesson from my 8th science professor. These are lessons and teachings I think about daily, I actively implement in my own practices and with clients/students/mentees.

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EP 067: Their joint spiritual awakening story & intuitive partnership, complimentary gifts + energies, fundamental practices for developing Mediums w/ Psychic Medium Teachers, Mentors & Healers, Nathaniel & Kelly
#67
11/22/2023

AH! Happy Thanksgiving and I am SO excited for this weeks episode. The warmth these two embody and this episode holds is deeply aligned.

Kelly is a profoundly gifted Trance Mediumship Practitioner, Intuitive Guide and Vocal Coach. Nathaniel is a Psychic Medium Mentor, who holds extensive training in Meditation, which allows him to help developing intuitives move past mental blocks and get into their intuition. And what do you know... they're A FREAKIN COUPLE! Their story is astounding. My face hurts from smiling. I just can't get enough of them.

In this episode, we talk...


EP 066: 5 reasons why connecting with your spirit guides are an integral part of your spiritual evolution.
#66
11/15/2023

I have been able to evolve in my practice BECAUSE I have been guided, protected and taught by my Spirit Guides. Since I’ve devoted myself to creating a rock solid spiritual practice for 5ish years, I have the confidence that I can blossom and create. Which is what we are MEANT to do?!

In this episode, I discuss:

FREE SUNDAY MASTERCLASSIf you want to spiritually evolve, connect with your spirit guidesYou learn from the masters.You're safe, protected and guided.You unlock techniques and healing medicine from past lives, your ancestral lineage, or whatever you’re me...


EP 065: From rock bottom to walking in her purpose, zero B.S. tips for awakening your intuition + spiritual gifts, timelines & decoding past lives w/ Tarot Reader + Psychic Medium, Jane Thomas
#65
11/08/2023

*TRIGGER WARNING: suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, self-harm*

Jane Thomas and I connected on IG and the rest history!! Loads of voice messages, silly texts and selfies, and helping each other through meltdowns and breakthroughs. I’m v grateful for my gorgeous silly Leo gal🩁

In this episode, we discuss: 

How Spirit saved JaneHow Jane discovered and learned how to practice TarotUnderstanding the basics of tarot Easy ways and tips on connecting with your IntuitionSpirituality is simple + neutral How to read for others Getting comfortable reading for yourself"Should I read my love life?" How to give...