Women Winning Divorce: A Lawyer’s Guidance On Navigating An Unhappy Marriage & Protecting Your Financial Assets With Heather B. Quick, Esq.
Are you a successful woman in an unhappy marriage facing the decision to divorce? This show educates and empowers women in choosing to advocate for themselves, divorce with dignity, and protect their families and rights. Listen to: -Gain clarity on the divorce process -Protect your rights and assets -Overcome the fear of leaving an unhappy marriage and move towards a happier and healthier life Over the last 20 years, host Heather Quick has been focusing on advocating for exclusively women in divorce and family law. From starting as a solo practitioner to a team of now over thirty women, she’s de...
#174 Why Mediation Empowers Women and Litigation Often Silences Them

Are you feeling unheard or overwhelmed in the middle of your divorce? What if there were a path where your voice led the process, not a judge’s?
In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick sits down with mediation expert Amanda Singer to explore how mediation offers women more control, more collaboration, and far less conflict than the traditional courtroom battle. Together, they uncover how mediation empowers women to shape their future on their terms.
Discover how mediation creates space for your voice, your values, and your vision for your family’s future.Learn the...#43 The Smart Way to Hire a Divorce Attorney Without Tipping Off Your Spouse

Thinking about divorce but worried your spouse will find out you’ve hired a lawyer? You’re not the only one and handling this the wrong way could cost you more than peace of mind.
If your partner holds the financial power or has a controlling streak, staying discreet can be critical. In this episode, we explore why keeping your search under wraps could protect both your assets and your emotional safety.
Discover clear, actionable ways to keep your lawyer search private without raising suspicion.Learn how to prepare your finances and legal strategy before filing for...#173 Why You Need the CARE Approach To Make Co-Parenting Work After Divorce

Still struggling to co-parent peacefully after your divorce? It might be time to try a completely different approach.
In this episode, Heather Quick is joined by co-parenting expert Dr. Jann Blackstone to discuss how divorced couples can rebuild communication, foster mutual respect, and prioritize their children's well-being using the CARE approach: Communication, Acceptance, Respect, and Empathy.
Learn how “bonus families” are reshaping what’s possible after divorce.Discover why texting might be the worst way to communicate with your ex.Get real tools for rebuilding relationships and putting your children first.Listen now to learn...
#42 Should You Get a Postnup If You’re Trying To Protect Yourself From Divorce Debt?

Did you know you could end up paying for your spouse’s secret debt—even if you didn’t know it existed?
Divorce is already hard enough, but discovering you're legally responsible for debts your spouse racked up during the marriage? That’s a gut punch too many women face without warning. If you're confused about where the financial fallout might land in a divorce, this episode breaks it all down.
Learn how marital debt is divided and why “his” credit card might still be your problemDiscover what types of debt might not be shared, and how to prote...#172 5 Legal Mistakes Parents Make in Special Needs Custody Battles & How To Avoid Them

Are you making costly legal mistakes in your custody case involving a child with special needs?
Divorcing while raising a child with special needs brings unique legal and emotional hurdles. In this episode, Heather Quick and family law expert Cari Pines unpack the most common custody missteps parents make—mistakes that can impact your child’s education, medical care, and emotional stability.
Learn how to navigate legal custody when schools and medical decisions are on the lineDiscover why expert testimony is often crucial—and how to get it rightGet practical advice for building a parenting plan that t...#41 How One Celebrity Custody Case Raised Questions About Mental Health and Control

What really happens when one parent accuses the other of being mentally unfit — right before an international trip with their child?
In this episode, Heather Quick unpacks a headline-making custody dispute involving actress Halle Bailey and rapper DDG. If you’re navigating a contentious co-parenting relationship, or wondering how courts handle emergency custody motions, international travel, and mental health claims — this episode offers timely and crucial insights.
Discover what courts actually consider an emergency in custody disputes and how timing plays a critical role.Learn how mental health concerns are evaluated legally and what evidence truly matter...#171 How Mediation Helped One Woman Take Back Control of Her Divorce

Are you emotionally prepared for divorce mediation—or are you walking into a negotiation unarmed?
In this powerful episode, Heather Quick and experienced mediator Tracy Gould Sheinin unpack what really makes mediation work—especially for women in high-conflict divorces. They explore how emotional readiness, preparation, and understanding your priorities can transform the process and the outcome.
Learn how mediation gives you more control than going to court.Discover how to prepare emotionally and financially for better results.Understand how creative, flexible solutions—like trial parenting plans—are born through mediation.Tune in now to learn ho...
#40 How Gender Stereotypes in Alimony Cases Impact Women’s Financial Futures

Is the rise in high-profile men seeking alimony exposing a double standard in divorce law?
When Offset requested spousal support from Cardi B, it sent shockwaves through social media and courtrooms alike. But behind the headlines is a deeper issue: how gender roles, public perception, and legal leverage collide when women are the higher earners.
Discover how alimony is really determined, beyond income comparisons.Understand the legal strategy behind high-stakes divorce filings.Learn how societal expectations shape—and sometimes distort—legal outcomes in court.Listen now to unpack the legal strategy behind Offset’s reques...
#170 Why You Need to Understand the Hague Convention When Your Ex Takes the Kids Abroad

What happens when divorce, immigration, and international borders collide, especially when your child is taken to another country?
If you’re navigating a divorce that crosses national boundaries or involves a non-citizen spouse, you’re likely facing a legal maze. In this episode, attorney Maria Aguila joins Heather Quick to unravel the layers of complexity in international adoption, custody, and child support enforcement and how the Hague Convention may or may not protect you.
Understand how the Hague Convention can help (or hinder) international custody disputes.Learn what adoptive parents need to know about foreign and U.S...#39 Why Women Are Usually the First to File for Divorce and What That Really Means

Why are so many women the first to say, “I want a divorce”? And how long have they been thinking about it before they ever say a word?
In this episode, Heather Quick breaks down the most common reasons women initiate divorce and what it reveals about emotional labor, unmet needs, and the silent struggle many women carry long before they take legal action. She also shares how long women typically think about divorce before making a move and why it matters.
Understand why women are often the ones to initiate divorce.Learn how long women typi...#169 From Financial Uncertainty to Stability: How Reverse Mortgages Empower Women After Divorce

Are you a woman navigating divorce and wondering how to stay financially stable without draining your retirement?
This episode explores how reverse mortgages—often misunderstood or overlooked—can be a powerful tool for women going through divorce. With expert insights from mortgage specialist Laura Phillips, host Heather Quick breaks down how this financial strategy can provide long-term security when you need it most.
Understand how reverse mortgages can protect your retirement savings.Learn the eligibility criteria and how they specifically apply to divorced women.Discover the most common misconceptions about reverse mortgages—and the truth behind them.<...#38 Think Prenups Kill Romance? Here’s Why That Belief Could Cost You Everything

Do you believe prenups are only for the ultra-rich, or that they kill the romance? Think again.
In this episode, Heather Quick breaks down the real reasons women, especially high earners, business owners, and those entering second marriages, should view prenups as a smart and empowering tool, not a taboo topic.
Learn what a prenup can and cannot protect (spoiler: debt and future earnings matter).Discover the right time and way to talk about a prenup without hurting your relationship.Press play now to learn how a prenup can give you more control, confidence...
#168 Why Digital Evidence Can Make or Break Your Divorce Case

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your divorce case by collecting the wrong evidence or trusting the wrong assumptions?
Divorce is never simple, and the emotional weight is only half the battle. In this episode, Heather Quick and Tanya Helfand dive into the misunderstood legal complexities of infidelity, surveillance, digital evidence, and post-nuptial agreements. If you're navigating a divorce or supporting someone who is, what you don’t know can hurt you—legally and emotionally.
– Understand how technology is reshaping the rules of divorce litigation
– Learn why infidelity might not matter in court—and when it does
#37 How False Drug Tests Are Ripping Newborns From Mothers—A Divorce Lawyer Breaks Down What You Need to Know

Could a routine hospital drug test put your marriage, custody, and rights as a mother at risk—even if the results are wrong?
In this episode of the Women Winning Divorce Podcast, divorce lawyer Heather Quick exposes the hidden dangers new mothers face when false drug tests trigger unwanted custody battles. Whether you’re married, divorcing, or separated, you’ll discover how easily Child Protective Services can intervene—and why you need to know your legal rights immediately.
Learn how false positive drug tests can impact divorce and custody cases—and how a skilled lawyer can help prote...#167 How Dr. Nadine Macaluso Escaped Narcissistic Abuse And Helps Women Reclaim Their Lives

Are you unknowingly stuck in a trauma bond that's keeping you trapped in a toxic relationship—especially after divorce?
In this eye-opening episode of 'Women Winning Divorce,' Dr. Nadine Macaluso shares her raw personal story of surviving and healing from a high-profile toxic marriage with Jordan Belfort, 'The Wolf of Wall Street.' Together with host Heather Quick, they unpack the dangerous patterns of trauma bonding, how power imbalances keep women stuck, and why reclaiming independence is more complex than it seems.
Learn the subtle but powerful warning signs of trauma bonding and how to re...#36 Why Courts Can Force Payment But Not Parenthood — The Truth About Family Law

Can a court really make someone be a parent—or just write a check?
In this episode, Heather Quick unpacks the emotional and legal layers of a public child support dispute between NBA star Anthony Edwards and influencer Ali D. If you're navigating single parenthood or facing a co-parent who’s emotionally absent, this episode offers clarity on what the law can and cannot do to protect you and your child.
Learn why jurisdiction can make or break your case—and how to know where to fileUnderstand how paternity, financial support, and emotional involvement are handled legall...#166 Navigating Divorce Through a Religious Lens

Are you a woman of faith struggling to reconcile your divorce with your spiritual beliefs?
Divorce can feel like more than just an ending it can challenge your entire identity, especially when your faith or community views it as taboo. In this episode, we’re joined by three courageous women who bring powerful perspectives from Christianity, Islam, and Judaism to help you find healing, purpose, and spiritual alignment post-divorce.
Hear from Bree Sullivan Howell, ESQ., as she shares the legal and spiritual balancing act of navigating divorce in faith-filled communities.Learn how Rayesa Gheewala reclaimed her vo...#35 How Dorit Kemsley's Divorce Sheds Light on the Hidden Pressures of Public Marriages

What really goes on behind the headlines of a celebrity divorce and could it happen to you?
This episode unpacks the real-life divorce of Dorit and Paul Kemsley, revealing how legal, financial, and emotional challenges in high-profile splits mirror many of the same issues everyday women face in courtrooms across the country.
Learn why the "date of separation" can make or break your financial future.Understand how custody and spousal support decisions are influenced by public image and income gaps.Discover how media pressure, infidelity, and emotional toll collide in high-stakes divorces and what you can...#165 How Conditional Residency Impacts Divorce Proceedings For Green Card Holders

Are you—or someone you know—navigating divorce while holding a green card or dealing with conditional residency? The legal consequences might be more serious than you think.
Immigration status and divorce don't just intersect—they collide. For many women, the process of ending a marriage is already difficult, but when residency status is conditional or unclear, the emotional and legal stakes skyrocket. If you’re facing this challenge or supporting someone who is, this episode brings clarity to a deeply misunderstood issue.
Understand how conditional green card status can impact your divorce timeline and legal rightsLe...#34 Why “Just Telling the Judge” Won’t Prove Your Ex Is Unfit And What Actually Works

Worried your ex might be an unfit parent, but unsure how to prove it in court?
In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick breaks down the emotionally charged and legally complex process of proving unfit parenting — a challenge many mothers face when trying to protect their children. If you’ve noticed red flags, but don’t know how to turn concern into action, this conversation is a must-listen.
Discover what kind of documentation holds up in court.Learn how mental health and substance abuse impact custody decisions.Understand the exact steps to take with your a...#164 How The Divorce System Profits From Women's Pain—And What We Can Do About It

What if the system meant to protect women and children during divorce is actually empowering their abusers?
In this eye-opening episode, Heather Quick is joined by Dr. Christine Cocchiola and Amy Polacko to unpack the devastating realities of coercive control, toxic co-parenting, and the family court system’s shocking failure to protect survivors. If you’ve ever felt unheard or powerless during a custody battle, this conversation will resonate deeply—and offer real-world guidance.
Learn how coercive control operates behind the scenes in courtrooms—and why it’s so hard to prove.Discover why many women are financ...#33 Why Traditional Alimony Is Failing High-Achieving Women in Modern Marriages

Are modern alimony laws punishing successful women for their ambition after divorce?
As gender roles evolve and more women become primary earners, traditional alimony structures are being questioned. This episode explores the complex realities of alimony through the lens of Rachel Lindsay’s recent divorce—and what it means for high-achieving professionals facing similar challenges.
Discover how courts impute income and how it can unfairly impact financially independent spouses.Learn why understanding your state’s divorce laws is essential to protecting your financial future.Get strategic tips on how to prepare for alimony negotiations when both partne...#163 How AI Is Revolutionizing Support for Domestic Violence Survivors with Aimee Says

What if a free, private AI tool could help you escape an abusive relationship—anytime, anywhere?
If you or someone you care about is facing the fear, confusion, or isolation of intimate partner violence, this episode introduces a groundbreaking solution offering confidential, 24/7 support for anyone in crisis.
Discover how Aimee Says is supporting survivors across the U.S., U.K., and Australia with culturally adaptable, trauma-informed guidance.Learn how the tool assists with legal documentation, analyzes communication for signs of abuse, and helps build personalized safety plans.Hear how Aimee Says offers continuous emotional validation and pr...#32 Should You Expect to Pay Child Support During Pregnancy? What the Kansas Bill Means for Parents

Should you have to pay child support before a baby is even born?
In this episode, Heather Quick breaks down a controversial Kansas bill that could force financial responsibility during pregnancy. With legal complexities, health risks, and logistical hurdles, this potential law raises big questions for expecting parents and divorce lawyers alike.
Understand how new child support laws could affect your rights before your child is even bornLearn the legal and medical implications of enforcing paternity before birthDiscover how this could influence similar legislation in Florida and beyondHit play to hear Heather's expert...
#162 Why Unconscious Patterns Keep You Stuck in Painful Relationships And How to Break Free

Have you ever felt trapped in the same negative relationship patterns, wondering why you keep attracting the wrong people?
Your unconscious mind controls 90% of your thoughts and experiences, shaping your relationships and decisions in ways you may not even realize. In this episode, Heather Quick and transformational coach Riana Malia reveal how past traumas and ingrained patterns silently dictate your love life—and how breaking free from them can lead to the healthy, fulfilling relationships you deserve.
Learn how to identify and release unconscious patterns that keep you stuck in toxic cycles.Discover the Fear to Fo...#161 The Untold Stories of Women Who Changed Divorce Forever

Did you know that in the 1890s, wealthy women flocked to Sioux Falls, South Dakota, to secure divorces — defying societal norms and reshaping the course of history?
If you’ve ever wondered how divorce laws have evolved or how women fought for their independence long before modern feminism, this episode uncovers the hidden stories of courage and resilience that shaped women’s rights with author of 'The Divorce Colony,' April White.
Discover the fascinating history of the divorce colony and why Sioux Falls became a divorce hotspot.Learn how the media influenced public opinion on divorc...#31 How Narcissists Use Divorce to Control & Manipulate—And What to Do About It

Are you unknowingly giving your narcissistic ex exactly what they want—control over your emotions and the divorce process?
If you’re feeling emotionally drained, constantly manipulated, or struggling to set boundaries, you’re not alone. Understanding their tactics is the first step to reclaiming your power.
What you'll gain:
How narcissists manipulate divorce proceedings—especially timesharing battles to maintain control.The key to setting and enforcing boundaries that protect your emotional and financial well-being.Legal strategies to hold a narcissist accountable and prevent them from derailing your case.Don’t let a narcissi...
#160 5 Signs It’s Time to Leave Your Marriage & How to Navigate the Next Steps

Have you ever wondered if staying in your marriage is the right choice—or if leaving would truly set you free?
When facing uncertainty in your marriage, emotions can cloud your judgment, and fear of the unknown can keep you stuck. This episode explores how a divorce coach can help you gain clarity, confidence, and a plan—whether you stay or go with guest, Kara Francis.
Learn how a divorce coach provides strategic, objective support beyond what therapy offers.Discover the most common fears and questions women bring to divorce coaching—and how to overcome them.Get ex...#159 The Hidden Dangers of Coercive Control: How to Identify & Break Free

Have you ever felt trapped in a relationship where control, not love, dictated your every move?
Coercive control is the foundation of all forms of abuse, and its grip often tightens during and after separation. Understanding how psychological, financial, and legal manipulation work is crucial to breaking free and protecting yourself—especially when the legal system fails to recognize the dangers.
Learn to identify coercive control tactics and how they escalate post-separation.Understand the legal challenges protective parents face and how to navigate the family court system.Discover actionable strategies to regain your independence and safeguard yo...#158 How Alimony Laws Have Evolved—And What That Means for Your Divorce

Wondering if you’re entitled to alimony—or how recent legal changes could impact your financial future after divorce?
Alimony laws are evolving, and understanding your rights is essential to securing the financial support you deserve. Whether you’re in New Jersey or Florida, this episode breaks down what you need to know about alimony, recent legal changes, and how to prepare for a fair outcome with guest Sandra Fava.
Gain clarity on who qualifies for alimony and how courts determine financial support.Learn about the elimination of permanent alimony, the concept of palimony, and what these...#157 How Lisa Johnson Escaped Coercive Control & Now Helps Others Do the Same

Are you feeling trapped in a high-conflict divorce or struggling to navigate the complexities of emotional abuse?
Divorce is challenging enough, but when coercive control and abuse are involved, it can feel nearly impossible to move forward. In this episode, you'll learn how to recognize and address coercive control, build a strong legal case, and advocate for yourself in the face of adversity.
Understand the dynamics of coercive control and emotional abuse in divorce and how it impacts your legal journey.Learn powerful communication strategies for dealing with high-conflict situations and ensuring your voice is heard...#30 How to Hire a Divorce Lawyer Without Your Spouse Knowing (And Why You Should)

Worried about how to hire a divorce attorney without your spouse finding out? You’re not alone, and the right strategy can protect your financial and emotional well-being.
If you're considering divorce, keeping your plans confidential can be crucial—especially if your spouse controls the finances or has a history of manipulation. In this episode, we’ll discuss why timing and preparation matter and how to take proactive steps before making your move.
Learn practical ways to keep your attorney search private, from securing your devices to safeguarding your communications.Discover why hiring an attorney doesn’t mean i...#156 How Control Shapes Every Divorce & What You Can Do About It with Stacy D. Phillips

Are you struggling to regain control over your emotions, decisions, and future while navigating divorce?
Divorce can feel overwhelming, leaving you uncertain about how to take charge of your legal, emotional, and psychological well-being. In this episode, you'll discover why control is the key to navigating this life transition with confidence—without unnecessary conflict or chaos.
Learn the six key areas of control that influence relationships and how to apply them during divorce.Gain practical strategies for managing emotions, co-parenting effectively, and choosing the right attorney.Discover empowering techniques to protect your peace, make precise legal mo...#155 Why Brain Mapping Is the Key to Overcoming Divorce Trauma Faster with Michela Parisi

Is your brain still stuck in the stress of divorce, making it hard to move forward?
Divorce can leave lasting emotional and neurological imprints, keeping you trapped in cycles of anxiety, stress, and overwhelm. But what if you could retrain your brain to break free from those patterns and regain control of your emotional well-being—without relying solely on medication?
Discover how neurofeedback therapy can rewire your brain to heal from trauma, anxiety, and PTSD.Learn how brain mapping identifies hidden stress patterns and guides personalized healing strategies.Explore holistic approaches that complement traditional therapy, helping yo...#154 How to Outsmart a Narcissist in Divorce & Take Back Your Power

Are you dealing with a high-conflict divorce and wondering how to protect yourself and your children from a narcissistic ex?
Divorcing a narcissist is uniquely challenging—gaslighting, manipulation, and custody battles can make the process feel overwhelming. In this episode, Hope Jay and Lynn Catalano, break down essential strategies to safeguard your emotional well-being, secure fair timesharing arrangements, and ensure your children’s best interests remain the priority.
Learn how to recognize and combat narcissistic abuse in family court.Discover legal and emotional strategies to protect yourself and your children during a high-conflict divorce.Gain insights on e...#29 How to Rediscover Yourself After a Long Marriage Ends

Do you see divorce as a failure—or as a turning point for something better?
Many women spend years emotionally preparing for divorce while their husbands remain oblivious, believing the marriage will continue despite growing disconnection. In this episode, we explore how reframing the idea of "failure" in divorce can empower you to move forward with confidence and clarity.
Discover why men often don’t see divorce coming—and what that means for your journey.Learn how long-term relationships shape your identity and what it takes to rediscover yourself after divorce.Gain expert insight on shifting your m...#153 How to Protect Your Inheritance During Divorce

Did you know that an inheritance or a special gift from a loved one might not be as protected as you think during a divorce?
When going through a divorce, distinguishing between marital and non-marital assets can be a complex and emotionally charged process. If you want to safeguard your financial future and ensure what’s rightfully yours stays that way, understanding the legal nuances is crucial.
Learn how to protect your inheritance and premarital assets from being divided.Gain expert insights into the legal differences between gifts, inheritances, and marital property.Discover how prenuptial and po...#152 Why Ignoring Parental Alienation Could Cost You Everything in Divorce—and What to Do Instead

Are you unknowingly caught in a web of parental alienation—and is it hurting your relationship with your child?
Parental alienation can feel like an invisible force tearing families apart, leaving you frustrated and powerless. This episode uncovers how to recognize its warning signs and empowers you with the tools to protect your bond with your child and navigate the legal and emotional challenges it presents.
1. Learn how to identify and prove parental alienation in court to safeguard your parental rights.
2. Understand the psychological dynamics that could be impacting your family.
3. Gain...
#28 Why Healing First Is the Best Strategy for Finding Your Dream Partner

Are you unknowingly setting yourself up to repeat the same mistakes in your next relationship after divorce?
Dating after divorce can feel like a chance to start fresh, but without the right approach, it can lead to the same heartbreak. If you're a divorced mom balancing parenthood and your desire for love, this episode dives deep into what you need to consider before re-entering the dating scene.
Discover why taking time to reflect on your past relationship is key to finding a healthy future partner.Learn how to protect your children while navigating the complexities of...#151 How to Protect Yourself Financially During a Divorce and Secure Your Future

Are you prepared to take control of your finances and secure your future as you navigate divorce, or is fear of the unknown holding you back?
Divorce is one of the most financially vulnerable times for women, yet many lack the knowledge or guidance to make empowered decisions. This episode offers the insights and strategies you need to overcome uncertainty and confidently shape your financial future.
Learn how to protect your finances and ensure your long-term stability during and after divorce.Discover the invaluable role of a certified divorce financial analyst in creating a secure financial...