Women Winning Divorce: A Lawyer’s Guidance On Navigating An Unhappy Marriage & Protecting Your Financial Assets With Heather B. Quick, Esq.

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By: Heather Quick

Are you a successful woman in an unhappy marriage facing the decision to divorce? This show educates and empowers women in choosing to advocate for themselves, divorce with dignity, and protect their families and rights. Listen to: -Gain clarity on the divorce process -Protect your rights and assets -Overcome the fear of leaving an unhappy marriage and move towards a happier and healthier life Over the last 20 years, host Heather Quick has been focusing on advocating for exclusively women in divorce and family law. From starting as a solo practitioner to a team of now over thirty women, she’s de...

#185 Five Mistakes Women Make With Business Valuation in Divorce & How To Avoid Them
#185
Yesterday at 10:14 AM

Are you worried that your business could complicate your divorce and put your financial future at risk?

In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick sits down with financial expert Missy DeArk to uncover the hidden challenges women face when a business is part of the marital assets. From understanding different valuation methods to spotting red flags like hidden money, this conversation helps you gain clarity and confidence in protecting what’s rightfully yours.

By listening, you’ll discover:

The top mistakes women make when it comes to business valuation in divorce and how...


#54 How Christina Haack & Josh Hall Reached a Divorce Settlement Without Spousal Support
#54
Last Friday at 1:10 PM

What really happens when a high-profile couple settles a divorce without spousal support?

Divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when money, property, and public perception collide. In this episode, Heather Quick unpacks the Christina Haack and Josh Hall divorce settlement to show why negotiation matters, how spousal support isn’t always automatic, and what lessons anyone can take away from a case in the spotlight.

Listeners will discover:

Why skipping court orders can actually speed up divorce resolutions.How state laws around community property can make or break a settlement.The emotional and financial pitfalls to...


#184 From Lost to Liberated: How Letting Go of “Shoulds” Transforms Life After Divorce
#184
09/08/2025

Are you living by your own choices or by the endless list of “shoulds” handed to you by family, society, and even your ex?

In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, attorney Heather Quick sits down with Jessica Frew — speaker, coach, and author of Shove Your Shoulds — to explore how women lose their identity in marriage and divorce, and the powerful process of reconnecting with your intuition so you can finally make decisions that are truly yours.

By listening, you’ll discover:

Why the “shoulds” you live by are keeping you stuck in fear, comparison, an...


#53 Think Airing Timesharing Drama Online Will Help Your Case? It Could Ruin It
#53
09/05/2025

Are you airing co-parenting frustrations online without realizing how it could impact your timesharing or child support case?

In this episode, Heather Quick unpacks the highly public fallout between Erica Mena and Safaree Samuels, revealing how social media disputes don’t just create drama — they can complicate your legal standing and harm your children’s well-being. Whether you’re navigating child support or struggling with co-parenting communication, these lessons apply directly to your situation.

By listening, you’ll discover:

Why judges look beyond words and focus on parental actions in timesharing disputes.The major legal risk...


#183 Why Co-Parenting Communication Is the Key To a Smooth School Year
#183
09/01/2025

Are back-to-school mornings feeling more stressful than they should, especially when juggling co-parenting schedules?

The start of the school year can be challenging for families, but when co-parenting isn’t aligned, the stress often falls hardest on the kids. This episode dives into practical strategies that help parents communicate better, create consistent routines, and ease the transition from summer to school for everyone involved.

By listening, you’ll discover:

How to set up co-parenting routines that minimize stress for both parents and kidsSimple communication strategies that keep school schedules smooth and conflict-freeThe best ways to s...


#52 Jaw-Dropping Celebrity Divorce Settlements & The Crucial Role of Prenups
#52
08/29/2025

What do Michael Jordan, Mel Gibson, Tiger Woods, and Bill Gates all have in common? Their divorces cost them staggering fortunes but could much of it have been prevented?

Divorce can be emotionally devastating, but when money and assets are involved, the stakes skyrocket. Whether you’re a high-net-worth individual or simply planning for financial security in marriage, understanding how state laws, community property, and prenuptial agreements impact divorce settlements could save you from financial disaster.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

The shocking numbers behind the most expensive celebrity divorces in history.Why comm...


#182 How Effective Communication With Your Attorney Helps You Navigate Divorce Court With Confidence
#182
08/25/2025

Are you prepared for the realities of a divorce trial or are you walking into the courtroom without knowing what’s ahead?

For many women, navigating divorce is overwhelming enough, but when a case heads to trial, the stakes feel even higher. From the unpredictability of a judge’s ruling to the emotional strain of custody battles, this episode explores the often-unspoken challenges women face in family court and how to prepare for them.

By listening, you’ll discover:

Why mediation often succeeds where trials fall short.The critical role trust and communication with your a...


#51 From Standard Contracts To Love Safeguards: How Prenups Are Evolving In Surprising Ways
#51
08/22/2025

What if your prenup could decide who gets the dog, enforce weekly date nights, or even set financial consequences for cheating?

For many couples, the idea of a prenuptial agreement feels cold and transactional, but in today’s episode, Heather Quick explores how innovative clauses are reshaping marriages. From pet custody and lifestyle commitments to infidelity penalties, these agreements aren’t just about protecting assets; they’re about creating clarity, trust, and stronger communication between partners.

By tuning in, you’ll discover:

How pet custody and lifestyle clauses are becoming tools to protect love, not just...


#181 From Uncertainty To Clarity: How To Navigate Divorce With Confidence
#181
08/18/2025

Feeling overwhelmed by the thought of divorce and unsure where to even start?

You’re not alone. Divorce raises tough questions—Is this the right decision? How long will it take? What will it cost?—and the answers can feel uncertain. In this episode, Heather Quick helps women move past confusion and fear by breaking down the realities of divorce, from child custody to financial independence, so you can make informed choices with confidence.

By tuning in, you’ll discover:

How to reflect on your readiness for divorce and what questions to ask yourself.Why choo...


#50 How High-Earning Women Can Treat Divorce Like a Business Deal and Come Out Ahead
#50
08/15/2025

Are you a high-earning woman facing divorce and worried about protecting what you’ve worked so hard to build?

Divorce can feel overwhelming and emotional, but when you’re a top earner, the stakes are even higher. This episode reveals how to approach divorce with the same strategy and precision you bring to your career while still honoring the emotional side of the process.

By listening, you’ll discover:

How to assemble a winning divorce support team that protects your assets and your peace of mind.The critical role of financial and mental health profes...


#180 Why Narcissistic Behavior Escalates After Kids & How to Shield Yourself in Family Court
#180
08/11/2025

Are you unknowingly caught in the cycle of narcissistic abuse, especially from a parent or partner?

In this episode, experts Heather Quick, Hope Jay, and Lynn Catalano unpack how narcissism shows up in family life, co-parenting, and even courtrooms. If you've ever dealt with manipulation, gaslighting, or emotional chaos from someone close to you, this episode sheds light on what’s really going on, and why it’s not your fault.

Discover how to spot narcissistic patterns before they take a toll on your mental healthLearn why narcissists become more controlling when children enter the pictureUnderstand the...


#49 Why Emotionally Carrying the Relationship Is Pushing Women Toward Divorce
#49
08/08/2025

Do you ever feel more like a roommate than a partner in your marriage?

In this powerful episode, Heather Quick dives deep into the emotional realities many women face long before they say the word "divorce." From carrying the emotional load to navigating loneliness within a marriage, this conversation shines a light on what really drives women to walk away, even when it surprises their partners.

Understand the silent emotional toll women bear in unbalanced relationships.Discover how financial independence is changing the divorce conversation.Learn why key life events can trigger a total reevaluation of...


#179 7 Reasons Summer Is the Smartest Time to File for Divorce
#179
08/04/2025

Thinking about divorce but unsure if summer is the right time? What if this season is actually your best opportunity to take back control of your life?

In this episode, Heather Quick explores why summer is more than just vacations and chaos—it’s a time when many women quietly make life-altering decisions. If you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or simply uncertain, you’ll hear the emotional and practical strategies that make summer an ideal time to begin a new chapter.

Learn how to co-parent effectively without summer turning into a timesharing battle.Discover why emotional clarity and se...


#48 She Took Control: How One Woman Avoided Financial Ruin With a Prenup
#48
08/01/2025

Are you walking into marriage without knowing how your financial future could be at risk?

For too many women, the word prenup feels taboo until it’s too late. In this episode, Heather Quick breaks down why prenuptial agreements aren’t just legal documents, but powerful tools for protecting your assets, income, and long-term security. Whether you’re planning a wedding or already married, understanding what a prenup can and can’t do might just save your financial future.

Discover exactly what prenups can protect from your current assets to your future earnings and debtLearn why avoiding...


#178 From Rock Bottom to Rich B*tch: How Kyera Kacey Turned Pain into Power
#178
07/28/2025

What if your biggest heartbreak could become the starting point for your most powerful transformation?

In this episode, Heather Quick sits down with Kyera Kacey—twice-divorced, bestselling author, and founder of LiberateHER—to explore how she turned deep emotional pain, loss, and trauma into a mission-driven life. Through her Rich B*tch framework, Kyera shares how any woman can go from rock bottom to reclaiming her voice, power, and purpose.

Get an inside look at the 9 Rich B*tch principles that guide personal healing and conscious livingUnderstand why courageous conversations and radical self-trust are critical post-divorce tool...


#47 Why Posting on Social Media During Divorce Is a Self-Sabotage Move
#47
07/25/2025

Are your Instagram or Facebook posts secretly damaging your divorce case?

During divorce, every word and image shared online can be twisted and used against you — even the ones that seem innocent. If you're a woman navigating a separation, this episode uncovers how social media can sabotage your legal standing, custody, and credibility.

Discover the real legal risks behind social posts — even when your account is private.Learn why removing yourself from platforms can strengthen your case and reduce drama.Get smart, attorney-backed guidance on what to say (and not say) if you're being attacked online.
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#177 How One Misstep in Relocation Nearly Cost a Parent Timesharing Rights
#177
07/21/2025

Thinking of moving with your child after a divorce? One wrong move could cost you custody.

Relocating during or after divorce is more than just packing boxes, it’s a legal and emotional minefield. This episode breaks down the real challenges families face when trying to relocate and how to do it legally, especially when kids and custody agreements are involved.

Discover how your child’s age can make or break your relocation case.Learn why verbal agreements won’t hold up in court and what you need instead.Understand the legal risks of moving without a judg...


#46 What Happens Legally After a Breakup When Kids Are Involved But No One Got Married
#46
07/18/2025

Think splitting up without getting married means you're safe from legal complications?

Even without a wedding ring, having a child together can bind two people legally, especially when it comes to timesharing. This episode explores how public figures like Katy Perry and Orlando Bloom handle these challenges and what you need to know if you're facing a similar situation.

Understand what rights and responsibilities unwed parents have when separatingLearn how time-sharing is handled without marriageDiscover why legal agreements still matter for co-parents, even outside of divorce

Hit play now to find out what you...


#176 Why Threatening To Call Child Welfare Services Can Backfire During Custody Battles
#176
07/14/2025

Are you unintentionally sabotaging your custody case by involving child welfare services the wrong way?

Navigating divorce is already complex, but when DCFS or CPS enters the picture, things can quickly spiral. In this episode, Heather Quick and Robin Sax unpack the legal and emotional landmines parents face when reporting abuse or neglect, often without realizing the long-term consequences. Whether you're trying to protect your child or just survive a high-conflict co-parenting dynamic, understanding how to interact with these agencies is crucial.

Discover the most common communication mistakes that escalate legal battles.Learn why threatening to...


#45 Think Prenups Are Just for the Rich? Think Again
#45
07/11/2025

Think prenups are just for billionaires or celebrities? Think again — skipping this conversation could cost you your future.

In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick breaks down why ultra-high-net-worth couples are making prenups a non-negotiable — and why every couple, regardless of wealth, should take notes. From asset protection to honest communication, this episode helps you prepare legally and emotionally before you say “I do.”

Learn why financial transparency is the foundation of a lasting marriage.Understand how prenups protect both partners, not just the wealthy one.Hear how to structure a prenup that respects confiden...


#175 7 Signs Your Child Is Struggling With Divorce And What You Can Do About It
#175
07/07/2025

Worried your child isn’t coping well with your divorce, but not sure what signs to look for?

In this episode, Heather Quick and neuropsychologist Dr. Erica Miller dive into the emotional and behavioral effects divorce can have on children. From anxiety to regression, Dr. Erica Miller explains how parents can identify warning signs and take meaningful action using evidence-based strategies.

Learn how neuropsychological assessments can uncover what your child truly needs.Understand the difference between helping and accidentally enabling anxious behavior.Discover how honesty, boundaries, and emotional regulation can transform your parenting approach during divorce.

#44 How Legal AI Models Are Changing the Game in Divorce Court
#44
07/03/2025

Can artificial intelligence really predict what will happen in your divorce case?

If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the uncertainty of family court decisions—like who gets custody, how assets are divided, or what support will be ordered—this episode unpacks how AI is starting to bring more clarity and confidence to the process.

Discover how attorneys are using AI tools to analyze trends and improve case strategy.Understand the limitations and ethical concerns of relying on technology in emotionally charged legal battles.Learn what this shift means for the future of family law and how it m...


#174 Why Mediation Empowers Women and Litigation Often Silences Them
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06/30/2025

Are you feeling unheard or overwhelmed in the middle of your divorce? What if there were a path where your voice led the process, not a judge’s?

In this episode of Women Winning Divorce, Heather Quick sits down with mediation expert Amanda Singer to explore how mediation offers women more control, more collaboration, and far less conflict than the traditional courtroom battle. Together, they uncover how mediation empowers women to shape their future on their terms.

Discover how mediation creates space for your voice, your values, and your vision for your family’s future.Learn the...


#43 The Smart Way to Hire a Divorce Attorney Without Tipping Off Your Spouse
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06/27/2025

Thinking about divorce but worried your spouse will find out you’ve hired a lawyer? You’re not the only one and handling this the wrong way could cost you more than peace of mind.

If your partner holds the financial power or has a controlling streak, staying discreet can be critical. In this episode, we explore why keeping your search under wraps could protect both your assets and your emotional safety.

Discover clear, actionable ways to keep your lawyer search private without raising suspicion.Learn how to prepare your finances and legal strategy before filing for...


#173 Why You Need the CARE Approach To Make Co-Parenting Work After Divorce
#173
06/23/2025

Still struggling to co-parent peacefully after your divorce? It might be time to try a completely different approach.

In this episode, Heather Quick is joined by co-parenting expert Dr. Jann Blackstone to discuss how divorced couples can rebuild communication, foster mutual respect, and prioritize their children's well-being using the CARE approach: Communication, Acceptance, Respect, and Empathy.

Learn how “bonus families” are reshaping what’s possible after divorce.Discover why texting might be the worst way to communicate with your ex.Get real tools for rebuilding relationships and putting your children first.

Listen now to learn...


#42 Should You Get a Postnup If You’re Trying To Protect Yourself From Divorce Debt?
#42
06/20/2025

Did you know you could end up paying for your spouse’s secret debt—even if you didn’t know it existed?

Divorce is already hard enough, but discovering you're legally responsible for debts your spouse racked up during the marriage? That’s a gut punch too many women face without warning. If you're confused about where the financial fallout might land in a divorce, this episode breaks it all down.

Learn how marital debt is divided and why “his” credit card might still be your problemDiscover what types of debt might not be shared, and how to prote...


#172 5 Legal Mistakes Parents Make in Special Needs Custody Battles & How To Avoid Them
#172
06/16/2025

Are you making costly legal mistakes in your custody case involving a child with special needs?

Divorcing while raising a child with special needs brings unique legal and emotional hurdles. In this episode, Heather Quick and family law expert Cari Pines unpack the most common custody missteps parents make—mistakes that can impact your child’s education, medical care, and emotional stability.

Learn how to navigate legal custody when schools and medical decisions are on the lineDiscover why expert testimony is often crucial—and how to get it rightGet practical advice for building a parenting plan that t...


#41 How One Celebrity Custody Case Raised Questions About Mental Health and Control
#41
06/13/2025

What really happens when one parent accuses the other of being mentally unfit — right before an international trip with their child?

In this episode, Heather Quick unpacks a headline-making custody dispute involving actress Halle Bailey and rapper DDG. If you’re navigating a contentious co-parenting relationship, or wondering how courts handle emergency custody motions, international travel, and mental health claims — this episode offers timely and crucial insights.

Discover what courts actually consider an emergency in custody disputes and how timing plays a critical role.Learn how mental health concerns are evaluated legally and what evidence truly matter...


#171 How Mediation Helped One Woman Take Back Control of Her Divorce
#171
06/09/2025

Are you emotionally prepared for divorce mediation—or are you walking into a negotiation unarmed?

In this powerful episode, Heather Quick and experienced mediator Tracy Gould Sheinin unpack what really makes mediation work—especially for women in high-conflict divorces. They explore how emotional readiness, preparation, and understanding your priorities can transform the process and the outcome.

Learn how mediation gives you more control than going to court.Discover how to prepare emotionally and financially for better results.Understand how creative, flexible solutions—like trial parenting plans—are born through mediation.

Tune in now to learn ho...


#40 How Gender Stereotypes in Alimony Cases Impact Women’s Financial Futures
#40
06/06/2025

Is the rise in high-profile men seeking alimony exposing a double standard in divorce law?

When Offset requested spousal support from Cardi B, it sent shockwaves through social media and courtrooms alike. But behind the headlines is a deeper issue: how gender roles, public perception, and legal leverage collide when women are the higher earners.

Discover how alimony is really determined, beyond income comparisons.Understand the legal strategy behind high-stakes divorce filings.Learn how societal expectations shape—and sometimes distort—legal outcomes in court.

Listen now to unpack the legal strategy behind Offset’s reques...


#170 Why You Need to Understand the Hague Convention When Your Ex Takes the Kids Abroad
#170
06/02/2025

What happens when divorce, immigration, and international borders collide, especially when your child is taken to another country?

If you’re navigating a divorce that crosses national boundaries or involves a non-citizen spouse, you’re likely facing a legal maze. In this episode, attorney Maria Aguila joins Heather Quick to unravel the layers of complexity in international adoption, custody, and child support enforcement and how the Hague Convention may or may not protect you.

Understand how the Hague Convention can help (or hinder) international custody disputes.Learn what adoptive parents need to know about foreign and U.S...


#39 Why Women Are Usually the First to File for Divorce and What That Really Means
#39
05/30/2025

Why are so many women the first to say, “I want a divorce”? And how long have they been thinking about it before they ever say a word?

In this episode, Heather Quick breaks down the most common reasons women initiate divorce and what it reveals about emotional labor, unmet needs, and the silent struggle many women carry long before they take legal action. She also shares how long women typically think about divorce before making a move and why it matters.

Understand why women are often the ones to initiate divorce.Learn how long women typi...


#169 From Financial Uncertainty to Stability: How Reverse Mortgages Empower Women After Divorce
#169
05/26/2025

Are you a woman navigating divorce and wondering how to stay financially stable without draining your retirement?

This episode explores how reverse mortgages—often misunderstood or overlooked—can be a powerful tool for women going through divorce. With expert insights from mortgage specialist Laura Phillips, host Heather Quick breaks down how this financial strategy can provide long-term security when you need it most.

Understand how reverse mortgages can protect your retirement savings.Learn the eligibility criteria and how they specifically apply to divorced women.Discover the most common misconceptions about reverse mortgages—and the truth behind them.<...


#38 Think Prenups Kill Romance? Here’s Why That Belief Could Cost You Everything
#38
05/23/2025

Do you believe prenups are only for the ultra-rich, or that they kill the romance? Think again.

In this episode, Heather Quick breaks down the real reasons women, especially high earners, business owners, and those entering second marriages, should view prenups as a smart and empowering tool, not a taboo topic.

Learn what a prenup can and cannot protect (spoiler: debt and future earnings matter).Discover the right time and way to talk about a prenup without hurting your relationship.

Press play now to learn how a prenup can give you more control, confidence...


#168 Why Digital Evidence Can Make or Break Your Divorce Case
#168
05/19/2025

Are you unknowingly sabotaging your divorce case by collecting the wrong evidence or trusting the wrong assumptions?

Divorce is never simple, and the emotional weight is only half the battle. In this episode, Heather Quick and Tanya Helfand dive into the misunderstood legal complexities of infidelity, surveillance, digital evidence, and post-nuptial agreements. If you're navigating a divorce or supporting someone who is, what you don’t know can hurt you—legally and emotionally.

– Understand how technology is reshaping the rules of divorce litigation

– Learn why infidelity might not matter in court—and when it does


#37 How False Drug Tests Are Ripping Newborns From Mothers—A Divorce Lawyer Breaks Down What You Need to Know
#37
05/16/2025

Could a routine hospital drug test put your marriage, custody, and rights as a mother at risk—even if the results are wrong?

In this episode of the Women Winning Divorce Podcast, divorce lawyer Heather Quick exposes the hidden dangers new mothers face when false drug tests trigger unwanted custody battles. Whether you’re married, divorcing, or separated, you’ll discover how easily Child Protective Services can intervene—and why you need to know your legal rights immediately.

Learn how false positive drug tests can impact divorce and custody cases—and how a skilled lawyer can help prote...


#167 How Dr. Nadine Macaluso Escaped Narcissistic Abuse And Helps Women Reclaim Their Lives
#167
05/12/2025

Are you unknowingly stuck in a trauma bond that's keeping you trapped in a toxic relationship—especially after divorce?

In this eye-opening episode of 'Women Winning Divorce,' Dr. Nadine Macaluso shares her raw personal story of surviving and healing from a high-profile toxic marriage with Jordan Belfort, 'The Wolf of Wall Street.' Together with host Heather Quick, they unpack the dangerous patterns of trauma bonding, how power imbalances keep women stuck, and why reclaiming independence is more complex than it seems.

Learn the subtle but powerful warning signs of trauma bonding and how to re...


#36 Why Courts Can Force Payment But Not Parenthood — The Truth About Family Law
#36
05/09/2025

Can a court really make someone be a parent—or just write a check?

In this episode, Heather Quick unpacks the emotional and legal layers of a public child support dispute between NBA star Anthony Edwards and influencer Ali D. If you're navigating single parenthood or facing a co-parent who’s emotionally absent, this episode offers clarity on what the law can and cannot do to protect you and your child.

Learn why jurisdiction can make or break your case—and how to know where to fileUnderstand how paternity, financial support, and emotional involvement are handled legall...


#166 Navigating Divorce Through a Religious Lens
#166
05/05/2025

Are you a woman of faith struggling to reconcile your divorce with your spiritual beliefs?

Divorce can feel like more than just an ending it can challenge your entire identity, especially when your faith or community views it as taboo. In this episode, we’re joined by three courageous women who bring powerful perspectives from Christianity, Islam, and Judaism to help you find healing, purpose, and spiritual alignment post-divorce.

Hear from Bree Sullivan Howell, ESQ., as she shares the legal and spiritual balancing act of navigating divorce in faith-filled communities.Learn how Rayesa Gheewala reclaimed her vo...


#35 How Dorit Kemsley's Divorce Sheds Light on the Hidden Pressures of Public Marriages
#35
05/02/2025

What really goes on behind the headlines of a celebrity divorce and could it happen to you?

This episode unpacks the real-life divorce of Dorit and Paul Kemsley, revealing how legal, financial, and emotional challenges in high-profile splits mirror many of the same issues everyday women face in courtrooms across the country.

Learn why the "date of separation" can make or break your financial future.Understand how custody and spousal support decisions are influenced by public image and income gaps.Discover how media pressure, infidelity, and emotional toll collide in high-stakes divorces and what you can...