The Manwhore Podcast: Sex-Positive Conversations

Sure, all porn marriages are open marriages. But what happens when you want the nonmonogamy to extend to your off-camera play? Starlet Sonia Harcourt tells me about opening up her marriage and how other relationship effect her sex life with her husband back home.
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Do you have to disclose a herpes diagnosis to new sexual partners? Storyteller Lauren Kee discusses her emotional journey with HSV, relationships, and difficult conversations. Sometimes, they get less difficult. Plus, I talk about a controversial Colorado bill that four Democrats opposed — and why the memes are causing a stir!

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Is polyamory just a dating version of ADHD? Comedian David Piccolomini — of Tinder Tales fame — is back on the podcast this week to discuss how he makes his ADD work with him in life, lust, and love. We also keep hammering home what many men won’t accept: Emotional intelligence is how you’re going to land the woman or women of your dreams. Probably the man of your dreams, too. EQ and basic conversational skills — plus or minus knowing how to curl your fingers — will enhance your sex and dating life beyond your imagination. Take it from us: We are two b...

How many moms can one person have? For actor Alix Curnow, it’s four. And the Michigan native has very fun, very regularly-used nicknames for each mommy. Alix and I discuss their upbringing, nonbinary identity, and their upcoming show Kittygrrl_ about a woman who’s sex tape leaks on OnlyFans. Plus! Billy’s mom’s boobs and an exciting new sex worker tv series at Apple.

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Samia Mounts is fiercely polyamorous. As she escapes monogamy and her partner escapes South Korean prison, we find out how a slut frees herself and find what she wants. Plus! Polyamory cartoonist Kimchi Cuddles makes a shocking announcement.

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Sam and I used to date. Now we don’t. Was the sex any good? Is it okay to break up with someone over voice note? Why don’t libertarians make civil rights for queer people and women the definition of their mostly-male party? All this and more on this week’s mp3 file.

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Comedian Dorian Debose assures me that Craigslist sex stories are alive and well. A decade apart in age, Dorian and I compare crazy casual encounters stories. We talk about being bigger boys, exuding sex appeal, and slutty COVID stories. If you wanted sex stories, you came to the right episode!

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I am that incorrigible that I would propose having a post-bang podcast recording. So I asked her about all the sex appointments in her New York trip slut schedule. You’ve heard this polyamorous voice before — Alex participated in The Oral Auditions!

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Katherine Wela Bogen has captivated the internet with the Hot Chef Saga. So I was nervous I might burst her bubble when asking about her whirlwind, long-distance, new romance with a Parisian chef who she identified as her future husband after one date. Who hasn’t been there? But how often does that work out? Dammit if she doesn’t look the happiest when she’s invited to speak about this man, and it makes me miss when I’ve made a woman smile that wide without having to curl my fingers. I really liked this one. I hope you will...

“Why did we stop hooking up?” That’s such a common question for two people who enjoyed each other’s bits and pieces, but for no specific reason faded away from each other’s faces. I reconnected with Anna from Bumble. The last time I saw her we were exchanging mouth-fun and she was asking me for showers of a golden variety. With the help of a move, some marijuana, and chronic illness, Anna and I just simply stopped sucking each other — even though our mutual interest never disappeared. Will we thaw that out over the course of an hour convers...

To Catch a Predator with Chris Hansen was an iconic television show that pulled the curtain back on internet sexual predators. “Why don’t you have a seat?” was the sentence that made pedophiles across the country shit their pants. But before they made it to the sting operation, someone had to lurk around Yahoo and AOL chat rooms pretending to be a minor. Jill Lingen was one of those keyboard warriors who exposed pedophiles in the mid-aughts. We talk about how she got these guys, the toll it took on her, and why we think people are obsessed with t...

Everyone is talking about Heated Rivalry on Netflix. I’ve got my own Heated Rivalry to tell you about. It’s just Billy this week…and my giggly friend April in the background.
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Salma Hindy can tell you ALL about the Secret Sex Lives of Muslim Women. Daughter of an Imam, Salma has been on a breakout of sexual freedom, expression, and experimentation over the last few years. She tore off her hijab and started smooching women and saying naughty things into a microphone in public. Salma Hindy is even excited about The Naked Comedy Show! This is a fun one so I kept the intro as short as I could.
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Kristine Esser Slentz went from listening to the podcast to my DMs to my bed to holding me while I cry to podcast guest. Typical pipeline. Of course, the published poet would tell her friends that this episode explores the story of her polyamorous marriage and why they work better as friends than spouses. Perspectives!

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What would my end of the world party be like? Do I have any unfulfilled fantasies? How does one be an ethical manwhore? I answer your questions on this sensual solo episode.
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Sexologist Alexa Andre says Costa Rican men are bad in bed. How'd Americans turn up? Which nation has the best lovers? Find out on this week's pod! Plus! Kathy K from Strictly Anonymous stops by to talk about her new book!

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Brothels have an office. Catherine DeNoire is the manager of a legal brothel in a major western European city. Often we hear about these spaces from sex workers and customers — but sex work also has an office with staplers and spreadsheets and an HR department. Catherine shares a day in the office at a European brothel, why she loves her job, and why she doesn’t do sex work herself. ALSO! A listener asks about the difference between sex trafficking and sex work.
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Comedian Arielle Isaac Norman is talking porn preferences, coming out lesbian as an ex-Mormon, and the ethics of sharing Spotify playlists with exes. Is it cheating?

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Is Sydney Kane wife material? The funny pansexual comedian lays into a couple of outrageous emails I’ve received after we discuss some of her dating preferences. Also! Should I perform at a listener’s funeral in some hopefully-distant future?
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How does one become a “slobber girl”? Comedian Lauren Cocroft gets pretty freaky talking about period sex, guys with tattoos, and dating couples. She’s out here in these streets! Lauren is a regular at The Naked Comedy Show, including January 8th. Plus: Billy went to Skankfest!
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It took seven years for this Bumble match to make out with me, but it was worth the wait. Why didn’t we work out? Find out!
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How do you date a porn star? Well first, you probably need to ask one out! America’s Step-mom Ryan Keely laments about the difficulties of dating as a 40+ neurospicy dorky porn star. Do you have the courage to approach her AND learn a lot of facts about World War II? Plus she talks about her Dungeons and Dragons podcast, I Seduce the Dragon!
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Are DDLG relationships about age regression? What is Innocence Play? How do you incorporate peaches into your sex life? What makes someone a FAKE pleasure dom? These questions and more are answered in my follow-up conversation with intimacy coach Rena Martine! Also, why is Grindr worth $3.5 billion?
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What does your birth chart say about your sexuality? Cosmic consultant Madi Murphy shares how understanding astrology can help you understand your love life. Murphy also gets into her culty Long Island origin story and how she keeps her marriage so horny!
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Breakups suck. Ariana and the Rose broke up so badly she had to write an entire concert about it! Her Breakup Variety Hour — now streaming on Spotify — takes listeners through the stages of getting over a breakup. We talk about tips for getting over someone and tips for getting back out there on the pod. Also, what is the ideal number of people to have in bed at once?
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Dating is a horror. Be the Final Girl — or Guy or They or Character with Cool Hair. Rory Uphold dipped into the horrors of emotional healing, first dates, and dicksand. Her new book The Final Girl’s Guide to the Horrors of Dating helps you look out for relationship pitfalls so you can survive — and then die at the end of a loving, multi-decade relationship. Also! Billy brings back the Reddit gloryhole because all things that are old becum new again.
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Most people avoid their exes at all costs. We podcast with them! Actor Miriam Katz and I discuss reconnecting with former flames as she prepared to launch her new show The Ex Appeal. What do we learn from past relationships? Would you be comfortable with your partner catching up with an ex? Is the chemistry still alive? Well, not with the dead ex-boyfriend. PLUS! Caitlin V pops by to discuss sexual proficiency and her new book!

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Mehgan Sapphire is a polyamorous podcast host who is no longer accepting new cis dude applications. We discuss interracial relationships, picking up women as a couple, and how they navigate their polyamory. Also? Reading is sexy.
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What were New York City’s biggest sex scandals? Inspired by Governor Elliot Spitzer’s sex scandal that caused him to resign the governorship, Zack Weiner set out to make a documentary about political sex scandals which involved his run for New York City Council in 2021. This is a cool one, people. Judaism, Politics, and BDSM with Zack Weiner!
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We’ve all heard of Gay for Pay — but have you heard of Straight for Pay? Gay porn star Derek Kage talks about his controversial cross-over performances as well as growing up gay in conservative Alabama and the glory of injectibles.
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Can I man be a porn star without having sex? Kind of! Daniel Shar is an AVN award-nominated actor in the adult entertainment industry. Here’s the catch: He doesn’t take his clothes off or have sex. Daniel has spent a decade in the adult industry with odd jobs leading up to his surprising on-camera career in porn. Hear how a low-confidence virgin found love, found sex, and found confidence surrounded by corn. ALSO! Billy pulls the curtain back on his slutty bookkeeping fixation.
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Stripping came before crystal meth for Hannah Sward. The Strip author opens up about dating in your 50s, getting sober, and how accidentally slipped into six years of celibacy. Also, Billy laments about robots getting in the way of his muffdiving dreams.
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Leah Orleans aka Stahr Power is a Tiny Girl with Big Show Energy. The comedic circus performer opened her tent to me and my microphones so we could discuss her budding polyamorous journey, first date roleplays, and the effects that her Type 1 diabetes has on an exciting sex life. @TinyGirlBigShow is live-streaming an R-rated version of her act on October 10th and 11th. You should get tickets. I’ll be there.

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The Craigslist Chronicles are stories from my Craigslist casual encounters days — bukkakes, voyeurism, a gimp mask. Before the stories, you’ll hear about what happened to Craigslist after the passage of FOSTA-SESTA in 2017 and why you need to care about these anti-free speech sex-negative laws being proposed and passed all over the country.
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The Male Loneliness Epidemic is not only about whiny incels who feel entitled to women’s bodies and attention. For fear of being seen as weak or gay, men continue to isolate away from interpersonal relationships, keeping them away from romantic and sexual partners as well as friendships with other men. Robyn — aka @deprogramm.r — is starting a support group for men who aren’t getting laid. I had her on to ask about this shocking sympathy for the other side, and we give some tangible dating tips to improve their love lives. Also! Anti-free speech legislation is messing up Billy...

What makes someone worth loving? What makes someone worth sharing a relationship? What makes someone worth coming out? Comedian Izzy Salhani opens up about lost love, dating cisgender men for sex or sandwich, and wielding a beauty while nonbinary. Plus, Billy talks about finding a ‘spark’ at the sex party.
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Ghosting is maybe the newest addition to dating terminology of the last decade. For as long as we’ve had a ghost emoji, the sudden disappearance of a new romantic or sexual partner has been given the spiritual moniker. Well, Billy is no stranger to ghosting. In this week’s episode, he reconnects with Nicky — a woman who came to the show still confused why she was ghosted by this seemingly communicative sex podcaster. Would you want to confront one of your ghosts??? ALSO! AI sex robots are coming soon and Billy issues an advisory to stay human.
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The 40-Year-Old Virgin was almost a reality for singer Alyson Cadena. The 30-Year-Old Virgin podcaster joins us to discuss why it took her so long to make her sexual debut and the dating struggles she finds herself in today.
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Dr. Carli Blau lived the childhood romance romcom. Her and her husband dated a little in high school — then break up. Then they dated a little in college — and break up. Then he persisted until he wins her over in their mid-20s proving that a man with a plan — who can respectfully take a no — will find the love he wants. Carli and I had a fucking blast on my 600th podcast episode. Pick up some ideas from her Ryan and hold onto hope that you will find your male or female or nonbinary Ryan once you hold yourself...

Eli Erlick is not afraid of controversy, and she knows when she’s about to say something that will kick up a shitstorm. This trans activist wants to get people talking about trans rights in whatever way is necessary. She’ll argue with about trans athletes on Piers Morgan Uncensored or cause headlines by calling on people to mail gender-affirming drugs to trans people in states’ who are revoking their access — age be damned. We talked about sportsball hypocrisies, the evolution of Buck Angel, and New York’s sex party scene. And Billy gave a ranty update about a recent Sup...