African Melanin Queens.

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By: Goddess Asha Mariama

This Podcast is all about uplifting and encouraging black women as far as letting them know that they are enough. That black women are beautiful regardless of flaws, imperfections and mistakes that we made in our lives. But unfortunately there are a lot of black men and pick me chicks that are out here saying that black women that are independent, single mother's, average, and unattractive women are not good enough to be with high value black men. Well in this Podcast I'm going to pretty much disagree with everything that they're saying. There's nothing wrong with being an independent...

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Episode 50 - The Black Women Stereotypes and Misconceptions.
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Today at 3:02 AM

In this episode, I talk about the flaws, imperfections, and the misconceptions that black women are known for that are not true. The fact that a lot of black men say they don’t want black women, but yet they keep talking about black women as far as why they’re single. I feel like that if you’re not interested in black women, then why are you talking about them in a negative way as far as why they’re single and why they’re unmarried. If men are dating outside their race, then it shouldn’t matter whether a black woma...


Episode 49- My Conversation with Jobert E. Abueva about The Janus Plan: Beating the Procrastination Trap.
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#49
09/11/2026

In this episode, I had a conversation with Jobert E. Abueva about The Janus Plan: Beating the Procrastination Trap. We spoke about procrastination traps that keep people from reaching their goals, moving on from negative situations, overcoming low self-esteem, self-love, self-respect, self-worth, self-value, self-confidence, and believing in yourself when no one else does, and lowering yourselves to build other people up. When many people think about procrastination, they think about people who are lazy and have no inspiration. He breaks down the Janus Plan when it comes to beating the procrastination traps that are keeping you from reaching your goals...


Episode 48- My Conversation with Cherie Hoeger About Women Having It All.
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09/02/2026

In this episode, I had a great conversation with Cherie Hoeger about having it all when it comes to being a wife, having children, and a successful business. Many women are told that they can't have it all and have to lower themselves due to some men being insecure about them making more money than their husbands. She created period underwear and period cups. She tells her story about being married and having six children, and how one day she decided to become the Co-founder and CEO of the company Saalt, helping women from her and her husband's countries who...


Episode 47 - Who are wolves in sheep‘s clothing, boy and girl who cried wolf, sirens, vampires, and snakes
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08/23/2026

In this episode, I’ve discussed who are wolves in sheep‘s clothing, boy and girl who cried wolf, sirens, vampires, and snakes when it comes to the people who have caused chaos and destruction in your life negative way. I break down what each one of them are, and how each one impacts and affect your life in a negative manner to the point where you end up hitting rock, bottom, losing everything, depression, anxiety, abuse, neglect, pain, suffering, and trauma. Before you can heal and recover, you need to know about these particular characters. The reason why you need...


Episode 46- My Pre-conversation with Ama K. Karikari About Silence Pain, Suffering, and Abuse
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08/14/2026

In this episode, I had a pre-conversation with Ama K. Karikari about silence abuse, pain, and suffering when it comes to relationships, as far as family, romantic relationships, and friendships. She tells her story about what she experienced in her 15-year marriage and the silence abuse that she experienced during the marriage. We talked about the damage of silence when it comes to abuse, pain, and suffering from the people that you love. How can silence mean that you are allowing and giving permission for people to hurt, abuse, neglect, manipulate, and take advantage of you? How can silence be...


Episode 45 - African Melanin Queens: Let’s Start From The Beginning.
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08/08/2026

In this episode, I want to talk about African Melanin Queens when it comes to starting from the beginning when it comes to our history. When it comes to where our trauma, pain, suffering, being single mothers, assault, and trauma begin. I think that we need to go about talking about our healing and recovery from a whole different perspective. I think that we need to talk about the healing process and recovering from what we’ve been through from the very beginning from where it all started slavery. We need to talk about the history of black women when it...


Episode 44 - The Scarlett Letter of Being a Black Woman.
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07/31/2026

In this episode, I talk about what’s been going on with me when it comes to losing my job, my father passed away, and all the things that I’ve been going through that is the reason why I haven’t been doing the podcast as of lately. Why I had to take a break to really sit down and reflect as far as what I was gonna do with this podcast. I’ll talk about the scarlet letter that is being a black woman. How is black women have to stop trying to be like everybody else, and be proud...


Episode 43- My Pre-conversation with Antonio Michael Downing About Doing What You Love Vs What is Expected.
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06/12/2026

In this eposide, I had a pre-conversation with Antonio Michael Downing about doing what you love vs what is expected. He talked about what his grandma taught him through reading and music. How instead of him doing what is expected when it come working a regular 9-5 job to writing books, music, and broadcasting. How so many people are not doing what we love due to doing what is expected. We talked about going against the grain and walking to the beat of your own drum. Why do we allow ourselves to be identify based on what other people think...


Episode 42-Why Are Beautiful Black Women Acting Like Unattractive Women?
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02/21/2026

In this episode, I did a TIKTOK live about the Kountry Wayne skit as far as why these woment in these skits are beautiful women and yet act like unattractive women. There are a loot of people, whom will accept anything that men with money will do to them just because they have money, success, and poplular. We talked about the skits, give my thoughts on them. I wanted to discuss these skits from a healing, recovery, and addiction prespective. We talked about why we based people based on lthe external ooks, sex, money, properity, and success, versus the interal...


Episode 41- Stop Measuring Your Worth Trying To Be Like Other Women_
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01/05/2026

I had some technical issue is the first 30 seconds after the timer finished. On this live video, I talked about on a panel. Why black women need to stop basing yourselves on other races of women. Why black women the least to get married, and the highest when it comes to being single mothers? We will also be discussing the Kountry Wayne skits for the week. Why black men are trashing black women on podcast, movies, and music? How the passport bros are now going to jail, unalived, scammed and conned by the women in these other countries. How these...


Episode 40- Let_s Review and Recap Kountry Wayne Skits
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#40
12/30/2025

On this live episode we’re gonna go over the Kountry Wayne skits for the week. We’re gonna talk about the California trip, the birthday episodes, and everything that happened this week on the Kountry Wayne skits. There may be a panel on TikTok that you guys are gonna be able to hear. But I think it’s gonna be a great conversation. We also don’t talk about the three-way between Iman, Shayla, and Delicia, and how there are a lot of women that are going through the same situations when it comes to dating men that have multiple...


Episode 39 - My Thoughts on Sherrone Moore From The University of Michigan Situation.
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12/14/2025

In this episode, I talk about Sherrone Moore where he had an affair with his assistant, while he was married with three kids. About him getting caught by ordering a Plan B through DoorDash, and the DoorDash person telling the university of Michigan about his affair. And after an investigation, he lost his job, lost his wife, tried to unalive himself and his mistress, and then ended up being arrested and charged. I also talk about the P. Diddy, and the R. Kelly situations, and how these black men that are becoming successful, and dating man Caucasian women end up...


Episode 38 - Part 1 Why are Black Women, African American, African Decent, And African Women Single
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12/07/2025

In this isode, I am discussing why black women are single and unmarried. Why we are single moms, and yet unmarried? How most black women have their first child from the age of 8-22 years old? How men on these Red Pill Podcast always talk about women making the wrong choice of men, and yet most women have their first chld under the age of 22 with boys around their same age as them, SA, or MO by a family member, or their parents boyfriend or husband?

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Episode 37 - The Transformation From Black Women To African Queens.
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11/22/2025

In this episode, I talk about the transformation from being black American women to being queens and empresses. A lot of black women really do not know their worth and their value, and unfortunately, they think their value and their worth is what’s between their legs, and not their mental mentality. and the sad part about it is we have allowed black men and other race of people to tell us what our value is. And I think it’s time that we as African-American women take our power back, and we decide what we as African-American women should repr...


Episode 30- Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing in Today_s Society_
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11/16/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be talking about the Vogue article is having a boyfriend embarrassing in today’s society. We’re gonna go over the article, and I’m going to bring some people up on my TikTok channel so we can discuss their thoughts, opinions, and feelings on this article. It amazes me how times have changed so much since back in the day when you had men that worked in women that were housewives, raising children. How housewives used to homeschool their children, and take care of the household, while the man worked. And now in today’s...


Episode 35- How What You Consume Based On How You Feel About Yourself_
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11/02/2025

In this episode I will be talking about how you based yourself based on what other people think and say about you. How what you consume based on your five senses is based on what you acknowledge will determine your decisions, choices, action and behavior negatively and positively? How we based our decisions, actions, choices, and behavior on our emotions and feelings is never a good thing. How we need to research everything that we consume and acknowledge before making a choice, or decision? How eventually after you heal, recover, the way that you go about decision making and making...


Episode 34- My Conversation With Narene Crosby About Police Brutality_
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10/18/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be talking with Narene Crosby about the unaliving of her son, Ryan Stokes by a police officer due to police brutality. Her story was never on national news about what happened to her son. So she’s going to tell the story of what happened the night. Her son went to a community center and was falsely accused of something her son did not do, and because he ran to get the car, and a police officer shot him in the back five times. There are millions of black men in black women who deal...


Episode 33-,Welcome to My Kountry Wayne Skit Review Live Episode 1_
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#33
10/12/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be going live and going over the country Wayne’s skits for the past few weeks. And giving my thoughts and reviews on all of these skits. I will be discussing the Amber and Anthony vow renew for their anniversary. And then tell Anthony about Dalen kissing her. my thoughts on all of these women when it comes to these Country Wayne skits, and how they represent black women in a not so good light when it comes to how we deal with men. And why I think Amber is no better than Shayla when...


Episode 32- Why Do Some Black Women Have An Issue With Coffee Dates_
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09/13/2025

In this episode, was a video that I did about howwe’re gonna be discuss how to go from being lost to being found when it comes to going from being a godly person who would let us astray by negative people, to finding your way back to the higher power to lead you to the path that you’re supposed to be on. How we go from being manipulated, bamboozled, led astray, and lied to God leading you to the path, purpose, and journey that you were supposed to be in the first place? How to go about letting go o...


Episode 31 - Healing and Recovery to Become The African Melanin Queens In Your Present and Future You.
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07/12/2025

In this episode, I did two podcast where I talk about the fact of women letting go of the past version of themselves that everybody else told them that they were, to become the queens that they are meant to be in their presence and future. How we allow what people say, think, and do in our past impact our presence in our future version of ourselves. How we cover up our flaws, imperfections, disabilities, and the mistakes that we’ve made Versus accepting and embracing them and using them as strengths. How a lot of people have lowered themselves in...


Episode 30 - African Melanin Queens Scarlet Letter.
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06/22/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing African melanin Queen Scarlet letter when it comes to the reason why black women, African descent, women, and African women are treated bad when it comes to society, and even our own black men. How no matter what we as African descent in African women do to try to get away from the Scarlet letter, it seems to be with us, no matter where we go, and what we do. But what is even worse is when our own African descent, black, and African people, especially women for who disrespect disrespect each ot...


Episode 29 - The Country Wayne Skit Review.
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05/18/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the country Wayne skits as far as me and a panel of people talking about the skits. And what it is that we want different when it comes to the skits. A lot of people are tired of the way that they are writing these skits as far as the women are concerned in these skits. A lot of people don’t like the way. These women are being depicted in these particular skits. A lot of people don’t like the way that there’s no growth, and development as far as any o...


Episode 28 - African Melanin Queens: The History Of The Fancy Girl Trades And African Queens Who Ruled Nations In Africa.
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05/03/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the history of African Queens, who ruled different parts of Africa for many years. There are a lot of women that think that African women did not rule nations alone without a husband. But there were 13 women that are not only ruled a nation of African countries, but also were behind their sons ruling until they were of age to be able to become the rulers that they became. Shaka Zulu‘s mother is an example of a woman that had a son who was supposed to be in power. And until he w...


Episode 27-Why The Things And People That You Want May Not Be What You Need?
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04/06/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why just because you want certain things and people doesn’t mean that person wants you. Why just because you think you deserve certain things doesn’t mean that you’re deserving of it? Why do people go after things and people that don’t want them, or that they’re not meant to have? How are the things that we want are the reasons that we end up in the negative situations that were in due to what we’re willing to do to get those things and people that may not be meant f...


Episode 26 - African Melanin Queens: Why Its Okay To Be Alone, And Not Being Wanted?
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03/30/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be disgusting why it’s OK for black women to not be accepted by black men who have made it clear that they don’t want you. Just because we want certain things, doesn’t mean that it’s going to be reciprocated. And sometimes we have black women have to accept the fact that black men in their preferences, and move on to the type of men that will find you as their preference. It is sad that a lot of black women are now single mothers because they thought that the black men that t...


Episode 25 - African Melanin Queens VS Harlots, Jezebel, and Succubus Women
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03/22/2025

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Episode 24 - African Melanin Queens Vs Succubus, Harlots, and Jezebels
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03/19/2025

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The Real Reason Why Black Women Single Compared To Other Races Of Women.
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01/05/2025

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing the real reason why black women are single compared to other races of women who get married out of high school in college. I’m also gonna be going over some videos of different content creator talking about this particular topic. But I’m gonna talk about it from a recovery and healing perspective. As well as our history when it came to black women in Africa and as indigenous servants and when we were enslaved in other countries

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Episode 22 - Why Black Women Are Not Getting Engaged Or Married
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11/30/2024

In this episode, I will be discussing why black women are not getting engaged or married. And if they are engaged, why does it take so long to get married? Why are black relationships and marriages not working? Why black women are single mothers more so than any other race? Why we have to go back to slavery to figure this out?

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Episode 21- Sitting Still Through The Weathering The Storm (1)
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11/13/2024

In this episode, I will discuss taking a break due to my thyroid. I was in the hospital last week, so I didn't do any podcasts the previous week. Even though I am going through what I'm going through medically, I have faith that I'm going to get through it due to my faith in God. How sometimes we have to sit through the storm to prepare, recover, and heal from the damage, trauma, pain, and suffering?
How when God tells you to move, you move. 

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Episode 20- Why Women Can't Be Feminine And Queens of Your Castles
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11/02/2024

This episode is all about why black women can't be feminine and queens of your castles. It's truly sad that black women can't be feminine. Why can't some black women be the queens that they are meant to be? Why do back women have to be strong all the time, no matter what pain, trauma, abandonment, and left as a single mother? How black women are the only group of women that is thrown in their faces, being sex objects that men told them they needed to be in order to be with them. How did black women go from...


Episode 19 - African Melanin Queens Letting Go Of Tug A War Game And Rope
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10/19/2024

In this episode, we will discuss black women letting go of the rope in Tug-of-War with black men and trying to convince them that they should be chosen, wanted, needed, loved, validated, approved of, or accepted. It is sad the way that black women have been deceived, led astray, manipulated, cheated on, abused, unalive, bamboozled, and more by black men. The way black men talk about black women as far as how they need to be, think, act, behave, and do. And then turn around and throw it in your face.It really amazes me how black men have told...


Episode 18- The reason why marriage should be 50-50.
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09/29/2024

In this episode, I wanted to talk about why relationships and marriage should be 50/50. Why do people want the mommy, daddy, and child relationship versus a partnership and adult relationship? What are the mommy, daddy, and daughter relationships? This debate has been going on on all social media all the time on panels to the point that it was annoying. The fighting between Black women and men has become ridiculous. It is not helping the Black community in any capacity. It just causes a divide between Black women and men. 

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Episode 17- Is The Kevin Samuel_ Manasphree_ and Red Pill Over_
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09/29/2024

In this episode, I discuss whether the Red Pill sector is dead or dying. How, since Kevin Samuel passed away, the Red Pill has fallen apart? I am going over an old video that Kevin Samuel did talking to a women who owned her own business and telling her that she would never have a high-value man because of the way that she looks. And the passport boys have been quiet lately. Then also about Andrew Tate and how he came into the Red Pill sector and was then arrested in Romania for human trafficking. Now he is singing a...


Episode 16- Let_s talk about dating, relationships, and marriage_
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09/24/2024

In this episode, i’m gonna be talking about the difference between dating, boyfriend and girlfriend, and marriage. Are all three stages of relationships different when it comes to romantic relationships in general? Is marriage really better than being in romantic relationship as girlfriend and boyfriend. Are all of three of these different stages of marriage when it comes to spiritual? So I’m gonna pretty much break them down and perspective as far as how each one of them is the three different stages of marriage.

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Episode 15- African Melanin Queens: The reason why marriage should be 50-50.
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09/23/2024

In this episode,  I will be talking about why marriage is 50/50. Many women want a man to take care of them as far as paying the bills and a certain lifestyle. Most men want a woman to stay home cooking, cleaning, and raising kids. The problem is that most couples end up divorced, living this lifestyle for many different reasons. Many women who live this lifestyle end up being miserable because their whole life centered around their husbands and children. They were never able to have a career or live their dreams. And some men end up leaving their wives f...


Episode 14 - African Melanin Queens: My thoughts on the Cam Newton and Nick Cannon interview with dr. Bryant.
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08/31/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing my thoughts on the Nick Cannon and Cam Newton interview with Dr. Bryant. I don’t know why people are surprised about these two men justifying the fact that they’re having multiple babies by multiple women without being married to any of them. And why women are accepting the fact of this behavior when it comes to these men that have money as well as men that don’t have money like that. But never think about what happens to the man, how are these women going to be able to take car...


Episode 13 - African Melanin Queens: Why we don’t pay attention to the red flags when it comes to Platonic, or romantic relationships?
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08/23/2024

In this episode, we’re going to be discussing why we don’t pay attention to the red flags when it comes to platonic, and romantic relationships. A lot of the signals are right there in front of our face as far as why we shouldn’t be dealing with certain people in relationships in general, and yet we continue to ignore these red flags in order to, get involved with these people because of what they represent as far as a wolf and she’s clothing, boy and girl to crow, wolf, sirens, vampires, harlots, succubus, sirens, and the Jezebel...


Episode 12 - African Melanin Queens The reason why the black community cannot make any Romantic relationship work?
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08/17/2024

In this episode, I’m gonna be discussing why Black people cannot make romantic relationships, and marriages work. This isn’t just about romantic relationships, this is also about friendships, and family relationships. Everybody is stuck on the romantic side of relationship, but they’re not on the actual platonic side of the relationship, a.k.a. the friendship. We are gonna talk about why relationships in general are one-sided meaning that one person is from the relationship. The other person is. All this stuff that everybody is saying is because one person is gonna have to lower themselves In all as...


Episode 11 - African Melanin Queens: Why black women are unmarried and single mothers
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08/11/2024

In this video, I’m gonna be discussing why black women are unmarried and single. We’re gonna have to go all the way back to elementary school to have this conversation. Because this isn’t just about adult relationships we also got a start with elementary and teenage relationships. Because that’s where it all begins. There were girls that were having sex at the age of nine and eight years old with Young boys. And then you have young girls that are being molested by a family member, or there, mommy or daddy‘s girlfriend, wife, boyfriend, or husband. T...