How Not To Suck At Divorce
Action steps that save you money. Humor that saves your sanity. Honesty that helps you heal. How Not to Suck at Divorce is the divorce podcast for people who want clear answers, smart strategy and support through life before, during and after divorce. Hosted by family-law attorney Morgan L. Stogsdill and comedian and marketing expert Andrea Rappaport, we break down the parts of divorce that can feel impossible to navigate — divorce preparation, high-conflict spouses, narcissistic behavior and manipulation, child custody, co-parenting and parallel parenting, money and property, legal strategy, negotiation, divorce anxiety and life after divorce. You’ll hear practical advi...
Divorce: Will Going Back to Work Cost You Spousal Support?
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You’ve been out of the workforce raising your family. Now you’re getting divorced, you’re worried about money, and everyone has an opinion about when you should get a job.
Will going back to work affect your spousal support? What if childcare costs more than you’d earn? And who pays for the trai...
How Divorce Changed My Life in 3 Unexpected Ways
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Can life actually get better after divorce? When you’re exhausted, worried about your kids, and trying to figure out how to support yourself, that can feel impossible to imagine.
In this solo mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport shares three unexpected ways divorce changed her life: greater confidence, a deeper re...
Divorce Problem: What to do if Your Spouse Won’t Accept That the Marriage is Over.
Thinking about divorce? Get prepared with our Divorce Crash Course. Typically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters OurFamilyWizard and Soberlink. Get the private podcast and guidebook to help you understand the process, ask better questions, and avoid expensive mistakes.
You’ve done the therapy. You’ve hired a lawyer. You finally say, “I want a divorce.” Suddenly, the spouse who has spent months telling you they’re unhappy wants to stay together, try counseling, or live as roommates until the kids turn 18.
Are you allowed to still feel done when they’ve decided t...
Divorce Questions Answered: A Stalling Spouse & a Lawyer Who Won’t Call Back
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Your spouse is stalling. Your lawyer isn’t calling back. And you’re worried those angry texts might come back to haunt you. What now?
In this listener Q&A episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, family-law attorney Morgan Stogsdill and comedian Andrea Rappaport answer questions from our private community about divorce delays, copa...
Divorce & Co-Parenting Conflict: When to Call Your Lawyer or GAL
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Your co-parent did something that pissed you off. Does your attorney need to hear about it?
The kids come home in clothes that stopped fitting three years ago. Your ex...
Divorce & Co-Parenting- Holidays: What Your Parenting Plan Is Missing
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“We’ll alternate holidays.” Great. What does that actually mean?
Who gets Halloween? Does Thanksgiving parenting time include enough d...
Divorce: How to Take Your Power Back From a Controlling Ex
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Divorce Advice Nobody Wants to Hear: 10 Unpopular Opinions
Divorce comes with a lot of advice. Andrea has some opinions about that advice.
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In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea shares 10 of her most unpopular divorce opinions—the ones that might make your lawyer raise an eyebrow, your mother clutch her pearls, or your group chat light up.
Some of them are practical: you and your spouse should have separate attorneys, even if the divorce is amicable. Some are emotional: losing friends during divorce can be...
7 Divorce Mistakes That Make Your Case More Expensive
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Guided Divorce Meditations
For the moments when you’re about to send the email, respond to your ex, or completely lose your shit, our guided meditations are designed to help you calm your nervous system before you make the situation more expensive.Your divorce lawyer may be expensive — but sometimes the thing making your divorce even more expensive is… you.
In thi...
High-Conflict Divorce Survival Story: The Biggest Lessons Learned
Going through a high-conflict divorce can make it feel impossible to imagine a life where your phone isn’t constantly lighting up, your nervous system isn’t on high alert, and every day doesn’t bring another crisis. But this episode is proof that there can be an after.
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In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea shares the real-life story of a man who spent nine years naviga...
Divorce: The Petty Fights That Cost You Thousands. What Top Attorneys Want You to Know...
Guided Divorce Meditations
If you’re stuck in a divorce fight that is making you anxious, angry, or completely unable to think clearly, start here.
Our Guided Divorce Meditations are designed for the moments when you need to regulate your nervous system before you respond, negotiate, argue, or make another expensive decision.
Divorce Crash Course
Going through divorce and wondering what you should fight for, what you should let go, and how to avoid making expensive mistakes?
Our Divorce Crash Course is a private podcast and guidebook designed to he...
Divorce & Narcissistic Manipulation: How to Stop Taking the Bait
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Try our Guided Divorce Meditations, created specifically for the moments when divorce anxiety, anger and overwhelm are taking over.
Use them before responding to a triggering text, before a difficult conversation, before court, before mediation—or anytime you need help getting out of your head and back into control.
Divorce Crash Course
Going through divorce and have no idea what you’re supposed to be doing next? Start with our Divorce Crash Course—a private podcast and guidebook designed to help you understand the divorce proces...
Divorce and Emotional Endurance: 3 Special Tips to Survive a High-Conflict Divorce
Divorce and Emotional Endurance: 3 Ways to Survive a High-Conflict Divorce
Guided Divorce Meditations for When You’re About to Lose Your Sh$t
For the moments when you can’t sleep, when you miss your kids, when you’re worried about money, or just need to get through the next ten minutes.
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We created the Divorce Crash Course to help you understand the divorce process, communicate smarter with your attorney, avoid expensive mistakes, and make...
Divorce Stories That Will Make You Feel Better About Your Own Divorce
🧘 DIVORCE MEDITATIONS
Divorce can make your nervous system feel like it’s running a marathon with no finish line. Our Divorce Meditations are here when you need to calm your brain, stop the spiral, and give yourself a few minutes to breathe.
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The Divorce Crash Course gives you the information we wish every person had before making major decisio...
Divorce and Hidden Money: What to do if You Suspect Hidden Crypto?
Divorce and Hidden Cryptocurrency: How to Find Crypto Your Spouse May Be Hiding
🧘 DIVORCE MEDITATIONS
Divorce can make your brain feel like it’s running 24/7. Our Divorce Meditations were created to help calm your nervous system, quiet the spiral, and get you through the moments when everything feels like too much.
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If you’re overwhelmed by divorce and terrified of making an expensive mistake, start here.
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Divorce Anxiety: How to Stop Treating Everything Like an Emergency...at 2am
Divorce Keeping You Up at Night? How to Stop the 2 A.M. Spiral
DIVORCE CRASH COURSE: Divorce is expensive. Making avoidable mistakes makes it even more expensive. Our Divorce Crash Course gives you the information we wish every person had before and during divorce—from choosing an attorney and understanding your finances to custody, parenting agreements and the mistakes that can cost you thousands.
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NEW: GUIDED DIVORCE MEDITATIONS: When your brain wo...
Divorce Anxiety Keeping You Awake? A Guided Meditation for Sleep
Divorce Anxiety Keeping You Awake? A Guided Meditation for Sleep
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Can't sleep because of your divorce? This episode is for you.
When you're going through a divorce, nighttime can be brutal. The house gets quiet, the distractions stop, and suddenly your brain decides it's the perfect time to think about everything.
Money. Your kids. Your ex. That text you received earlier. What your attorney said. What you wish you'd said. What happens next. What went wrong in your marriage. What your life is...
Divorce Myths That Could Be Costing You Thousands
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Whether you're considering divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild afterward, this course can save you time, money, and unnecessary heartbreak.
Episode Description
There are a LOT...
Divorce Co-Parenting: Want a Better Relationship With Your Ex? Do This.
Want Your Ex to Behave Better? Try This Instead
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Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning.
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Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.
Whether you're considering divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild afterward, this course can save you time, money, and unn...
Divorce: When Being Too Nice Can Cost You Everything
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Thinking about divorce or already in it? Before you make a decision that could cost you thousands, get the information you wish someone had given you from the very beginning.
Get the Divorce Crash Course (DCC) today.
Typically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.
Whether you're considering divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild afterward, this course can save you time, money, and unnecessary heartbreak.
Episode Description
We've all heard the...
Divorce: The Most Expensive Word You Can Say to Your Lawyer Is "Okay".
🚨 Before You Spend Thousands More on Your Divorce...
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How to avoid expensive legal mistakesWhat to expect throughout the divorce processHow to communicate more effectively with your attorneyThe biggest financial pitfalls people don't see comingPractical strategies to save money, reduce stress, and make smarter decisions👉 Get instant access today: https://www.ho...
My Divorce Secret: The Shame I Carried About My Marriage (And Why Pretending Made Everything Worse)
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Episode Description
When people think about divorce, they often assume the shame comes after the marriage ends.
For Andrea, it began years earlier.
In this de...
Divorce: Why Smart, Successful People Stay in Toxic Marriages
🎧 Before You Continue… Don't Navigate Divorce Alone
The Divorce Crash Course
If you're thinking about divorce, in the middle of one, or trying to rebuild your life afterward, our Divorce Crash Course can help you avoid the mistakes that cost people thousands of dollars—and months (or years) of unnecessary stress.
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Inside you'll learn:
How to prepare before filing for divorceThe biggest legal and financial mistakes to avoidHow to save money on attorne...Divorce Regrets: Celebrity Divorce Mistakes You Need to Learn From
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🎙️ Episode Description
What can Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Johnny Depp, Amber Heard, Kevin Costner, Kim Kardashian, Britney Spears, Jeff Bezos, and Alec Bal...
Divorce: What to Do When the Outcome Doesn't Feel Fair
Divorce Isn't Fair: How to Stop the Negative Spiral and Move Forward
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Episode Summary
One of the hardest truths about divorce is also one of the most...
Divorce Cyberstalking: How to Prevent it and What to do If You Think Your Ex is Watching You Online
Divorce Cyberstalking: What to Do If You Think Your Ex Is Watching You Online
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Don’t make expensive divorce mistakes.
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Cyberstalking during divorce can make you feel unsafe, paranoid, unsteady, and completely over...
Divorce: How to Remain Strong When it Feels Impossible
Divorce: How to Stay Grounded When Everything Feels Unsteady
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Don’t make expensive divorce mistakes.
Our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the biggest legal, financial, emotional, and co-parenting mistakes people make during divorce — and how to avoid them.
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Divorce can make everything feel unstable.
Your home, your routines, your finances, your parenting schedule, your...
Divorce SOS: What to Do When You’re Panicking
Divorce issue:When you don't agree with your attorney and Why Going Rogue Can Cost You Thousands
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If you're ready for a deeper roadmap, our Divorce Crash Course walks you through the entire divorce process—from choosing the right attorney to protecting your finances...
Divorce Custody: What a Guardian ad Litem Is Really Looking For
Divorce: How to Talk to a Guardian ad Litem Without Hurting Your Custody Case
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Don't make expensive divorce mistakes.
If you're navigating divorce, custody, or co-parenting, our Divorce Crash Course can help you avoid the mistakes that cost people thousands of dollars—and months of unnecessary stress.
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Divorce and Children: The Parenting Mistakes That Can Increase Your Child's Anxiety
Divorce and Children: The Parenting Mistakes That Can Increase Your Child's Anxiety | Featuring Retired Judge Michele Lowrance
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Avoid the biggest divorce mistakesSave money on attorney's feesUnderstand the divorce processProtect your childrenMake smarter legal and financial decisionsTypically priced at $150, available now for just $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.
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Divorce: What to Do When Your Entire Life Feels Out of Control
The Divorce "to do" list will kill you.
🎧 Divorce Crash Course: Avoid Costly Mistakes Before They Happen
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Thinking about divorce? Already in the middle of one? Our Divorce Crash Course gives you the information we wish everyone had before they started the process.
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Avoid expensive legal mistakesProtect yourself financiallyCreate better custody agreementsNavigate the divorce process with more confidenceMake informed decisions instead of emotional onesTypically priced at $150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wiz...
Divorce and the Stay-at-Home Parent: How to Leave an Unhappy Marriage When You Don't Have Your Own Income
Stay-at-Home Parent and Divorce: How to Leave an Unhappy Marriage When You Don't Have Your Own Income
Thinking about divorce is hard.
Thinking about divorce when you're a stay-at-home parent can feel impossible.
How do you afford an attorney? What happens if your spouse controls the finances? Will you have to go back to work immediately? What if you've been out of the workforce for years?
First, get your hands on the $50 Divorce Crash Course to save money on your divorce process.
In this episode of How Not to...
Divorce: The Fear Keeping You Stuck (And How to Break Free)
Fear Is the Quiet Devil in Divorce (Here's How to Stop Letting It Run the Show)
Divorce is scary.
Not because every fear is true, but because fear has a way of convincing us that the worst-case scenario is right around the corner.
In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport explores why fear becomes one of the most powerful forces during the divorce process—and how you can stop it from controlling your decisions.
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Drawing on insights about ne...
Divorce and The Biggest Mediation Mistakes to Avoid with Mediator and Former Judge Hon. Michele Lowrance
Biggest Mediation Mistakes to Avoid:
After decades on the bench, retired Judge Michele Lowrance has seen firsthand what truly destroys families during divorce—and it isn't always what you think.
Don't miss out on the $50 Divorce Crash Course
In this powerful episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and Morgan L. Stogsdill sit down with the Honorable Michele Lowrance, retired domestic relations judge, nationally recognized mediator, author of The Good Karma Divorce, and one of the leading voices in family law and divorce mediation. Together, they explore why mediation is of...
Divorce Mediation: Why Preparation Matters More than You Think (Mini Episode)
Divorce Mediation: Why Preparation Matters More than you Think
Most people approach divorce mediation with one thought:
"I have to do this."
But what if that's the wrong mindset?
Make you check out the $50 Divorce Crash Course.
In this mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport explains why mediation can actually be one of the most valuable opportunities you'll have during your divorce—and how proper preparation can save you time, money, stress, and frustration.
Too many people walk into mediation without a cl...
Divorce Anxiety Relief: A 5-Minute Guided Meditation for When Everything Feels Like Too Much
Divorce Anxiety Relief: A 5-Minute Guided Reset for When Everything Feels Like Too Much
If you're listening to this episode, chances are something happened.
Maybe you received a text from your ex.
Maybe your attorney sent an email.
Maybe you're feeling overwhelmed by co-parenting, custody issues, financial stress, or simply the emotional weight of divorce.
Or maybe nothing happened at all.
Maybe you're just exhausted.
In this special guided meditation episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport walks you through a simple...
Divorce: How to Handle the Rejection When You Didn't Want the Divorce
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Divorce: How to Handle the Rejection When You Didn't Want the Divorce
Divorce is painful no matter what. But when you're not the one who wanted it? It can feel like so much more than a life change. It can feel like rejection.
In this heartfelt mini episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, Andrea Rappaport and Morgan Stogsdill tackle one of the most painful—and least discussed—parts of divorce: being the spouse who didn...
Divorce and AI: The Smartest Ways (and Most Dangerous Ways) to Use ChatGPT During Divorce
People are already using AI during divorce whether attorneys like it or not.
They’re asking ChatGPT to:
analyze texts from their exexplain legal documentshelp write co-parenting responsesbuild parenting schedulesorganize timelinesprepare for mediationand sometimes… emotionally spiral at 2amThis episode is sponsored by Worthy: the smarter way to sell your jewelry. Get started by heading to Worthy.com/divorcepod and lock in an extra $100 when your item sells for more than $1,500.
So where’s the line between using AI strategically and using it in a way that could quietly damage your c...
Divorce Manipulation: How to "Out-Manipulate" the Manipulator
Manipulation during divorce can make you feel like you’re constantly reacting, constantly defending yourself, and constantly emotionally exhausted. One minute you’re calm… and the next, you’re spiraling because your ex sent another manipulative text, guilt-inducing email, or chaotic late-night message.
So how do you stop the cycle?
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Divorce, Stepparents, and the Emotional Reality No One Talks About
Nobody really prepares you for the moment your ex moves on romantically. You may think you’re okay… until suddenly there’s another person around your children, sitting at school events, helping with bedtime routines, or becoming part of your kids’ everyday lives.
And that can feel incredibly painful.
👉 Before you take your next step, grab the $50 Divorce Crash Course to avoid costly divorce mistakes and make smarter decisions from the start. Typically priced at 150, available now for $50, thanks to our angel underwriters, Our Family Wizard and Soberlink.
This episode is sponsored by Worthy: the...
