The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
Secrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect
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Secrets Hideaway Survival Guide: Pack, Play & Connect | Episode 238
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down everything you need to know before your first trip to Secrets Hideaway Resort.
With the next Swinger Society takeover just weeks away, they’re here to make sure you show up confident, prepared, and ready to have an unforgettable experience. From what to wear and what to pack, to understanding the daily flow of events and ho...
Tuesday Talks: Bare Necessities, A Real Conversation on Ditching Condoms in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Bare Necessities, A Real Conversation on Ditching Condoms in the Lifestyle | Episode 102
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, a listener writes in with a question a lot of couples are thinking but not asking out loud — when is it actually okay to go bare in the lifestyle, and how do you even start that conversation? They wa...
Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions
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Electric Pleasures Atlanta: Beats, Bodies & Bad Decisions | Episode 237
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their recent Electric Pleasures Alternative Lifestyle Festival in Atlanta, Georgia — and it was nothing short of electric.
From kandi-making meet and greets that brought everyone together, to non-stop DJs spinning everything from dance pop to dubstep, the energy stayed high all weekend long. Add in twerking and lap dance classes, packed dance floors, and plenty of playful, se...
Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Play, Pause or Pass? Periods in the Lifestyle | Episode 101
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they get a call from Chris, who’s dealing with a frustrating but very real situation — what happens when your period shows up right before a big lifestyle event? He wants to know how couples typically handle it, and whet...
Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen
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Love, Sex & Society with Katie Bogen | Episode 236
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Katherine (Katie) Bogen — a doctoral candidate in clinical psychology, scholar-activist with over 500K followers, and the debut author of Queering Him.
Together, they dive into her new book and unpack the social dynamics between monogamy and the lifestyle. Katie shares her perspective on how cultural norms, expectations, and moral frameworks shape the way people view non-monogamy, an...
Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns
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Tuesday Talks: AI Catfishing, Fake Abs & Real-Life Letdowns | Episode 100
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they hear from a frustrated fan who’s fed up with what they’re calling the catfishing epidemic — and it’s only getting worse with AI. From flawless skin, perfect outfits, and six-packs online to a very different reality in person, they’re wonderi...
Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan
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Bliss Cruise Part 2: Glow Night, Jungle Orgies & a Very Sick Dan | Episode 235
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 2 of their Bliss Cruise adventure, picking up right where last week’s story left off.
After finishing a wild beach party, the crew heads back to the ship where Lacy and Daphne attend a male review while Dan and Mike hit the casino. The night ends quietly for Dan and Lacy after wa...
Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties
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Tuesday Talks: The BYOB Guide to Swinger Parties | Episode 99
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they hear from a listener who is preparing to attend a BYOB lifestyle event and has a lot of practical questions. What kind of drinks should you bring? Do you need a bag to carry them? Are you expected to haul...
Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat
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Bliss Cruise Recap Part 1: Rocking the Boat | Episode 234
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap Part 1 of their latest adventure aboard the legendary Bliss Cruise.
The trip kicks off in Ft. Lauderdale with a high-energy pre-party hosted by Topless Travel before everyone sets sail for a week at sea with thousands of lifestyle couples. Day 1’s theme? Pirates. But before the real fun could begin, Mother Nature had other plans. Uns...
Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication
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Tuesday Talks: Hand Signals, Code Words & Playtime Communication | Episode 98
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks — answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they respond to a message from a listener who shares that she and her husband use hand signals during play to communicate. One signal means “I’m having fun,” and another means “It’s time to wrap this up and go.” She wants to k...
Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr
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Sensitive Situations: Allergies & Intimacy with Dr. Stoehr | Episode 233
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain and sexual dysfunction. With a strong interest in the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyle communities, she brings both professional expertise and an open-minded perspective to the conversation.
Together, they dive into common — and not so common — allergies people can experience during sex...
Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties?
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Tuesday Talks: Why Is There Always Food at Sex Parties? | Episode 97
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they get a call from a listener who leans more toward the BDSM community but also attends lifestyle and kink events. One thing has them puzzled? The food. From elaborate spreads at house parties to midnight pizza at hotel...
Hollywood Hotwife: Behind the Scenes at WIFEY Studios
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Hollywood Hotwife: Behind the Scenes at WIFEY Studios | Episode 232
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you inside one of their most unforgettable experiences yet.
The duo travels to Los Angeles, California to the studio of WIFEY, a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples step onto a Hollywood-style set to live out their fantasies in a high-end, professionally produced environment.
They recap the entire trip a...
Tuesday Talks: Cursed in the Lifestyle, When Nobody Can Get It Up
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Tuesday Talks: Cursed in the Lifestyle, When Nobody Can Get It Up | Episode 96
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions from inside the lifestyle.
This week, they hear from a listener who feels like she’s cursed. She entered the lifestyle excited and full of energy, but keeps running into the same frustrating problem — multiple potential partners struggling with performance issues. After enough awkw...
TSN & WIFEY: On set at the WIFEY studio with Jessi & Matt
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TSN & WIFEY: On set at the WIFEY studio with Jessi & Matt | Episode 231
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy travel to Los Angeles, California to visit the studio of WIFEY — a luxurious adult content platform where real hot wife couples get to live out their fantasies on a Hollywood-style set.
They sit down with Jessi and Matt, one of the original WIFEY couples, to talk all things WIFEY and what makes the platform di...
Tuesday Talks: Don’t Let the Internet Ruin Your Lifestyle Experience
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Tuesday Talks: Don’t Let the Internet Ruin Your Lifestyle Experience | Episode 95
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks, answering real questions from listeners and creators in the lifestyle.
This week, they get a message from an anonymous content creator who’s preparing for a local Valentine’s Day lifestyle event but is feeling overwhelmed after being flooded with explicit messages and requests for naughty pics — despite clearly...
Inside Bliss Cruise: The Man Leading the World’s Largest Swingers Voyage
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Inside Bliss Cruise: The Man Leading the World’s Largest Swingers Voyage | Episode 230
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Russell, the new CEO of the world’s largest swingers cruise — Bliss Cruise.
Russell shares his incredible journey of over 25 years in the lifestyle, from being one of Bliss Cruise’s very first guests to now stepping into the role of CEO and leading the most iconic b...
Tuesday Talks: Getting the Sex You Want in a Swap
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Tuesday Talks: Getting the Sex You Want in a Swap | Episode 94
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another round of Tuesday Talks, answering real listener questions.
This week, they get a text from an experienced woman in the lifestyle who’s been struggling to communicate what she wants and needs during intimate encounters — and worries that coming across too strong might be hurting her connections. Dan and Lacy break down the...
The Birth of Electric Pleasures: Music, Madness & Memories
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The Birth of Electric Pleasures: Music, Madness & Memories | Episode 229
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap the very first Electric Pleasures takeover in Gulf Breeze, Florida.
They break down what it was really like hosting their first-ever Alternative Lifestyle Music Festival and hotel takeover — from blown breakers and chaotic logistics to room crawls, polar plunges, and unforgettable community moments. Dan and Lacy share the highs, the challenges, and the behind-the-scenes reality of bu...
Tuesday Talks: The Truth About Throwing Your Own Swinger Party
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Tuesday Talks: The Truth About Throwing Your Own Swinger Party | Episode 93
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another listener-driven Tuesday Talks question — this time from the Hot North Texas Couple.
New to the lifestyle, they’ve been to a few house parties and hotel takeovers but walked away feeling underwhelmed. Now they’re considering hosting their own events and want to know what it really takes to do it right.
...Swinging Isn’t What You Think: Busting the Biggest Lifestyle Myths
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Swinging Isn’t What You Think: Busting the Biggest Lifestyle Myths | Episode 228
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down Swinger Myths vs. Reality and tackle some of the biggest misconceptions about the lifestyle.
They dive into common myths like “everyone has to hook up,” “only certain body types are welcome,” and the idea that you must look or perform a certain way to belong. Dan and Lacy explain how much choice, autonomy...
Tuesday Talks: When the Camera’s Off — What Our Sex Life Really Looks Like
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Tuesday Talks: When the Camera’s Off — What Our Sex Life Really Looks Like | Episode 92
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid Tuesday Talks listener question.
This week, they hear from Nikki and Randy from Missouri, a couple who have been in the lifestyle for over 22 years and have successfully balanced their home life with their lifestyle journey. They’re curious how Dan and Lacy manage the attention that comes...
New Year’s Eve Unfiltered: Tears, Tension & Turning It Around
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New Year’s Eve Unfiltered: Tears, Tension & Turning It Around | Episode 227
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy recap their wild trip to ALT for the Open Instinct New Year’s Eve Hotel Takeover, sponsored by their brand-new project, Electric Pleasures.
They arrive early with Dan handling sound and lighting production to set the vibe, while Lacy wastes no time having her own kind of fun, spending the day connecting with fans and film...
Tuesday Talks: Bush, Bare, or Somewhere in Between? Grooming in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Bush, Bare, or Somewhere in Between? Grooming in the Lifestyle | Episode 91
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another Tuesday Talks listener question—this time tackling a topic a lot of people wonder about but don’t always ask out loud: body hair in the lifestyle.
This week’s text comes from The Sexy Scientists, who are gearing up for their first lifestyle takeover and feeling curious (and maybe...
Body Positivity Uncensored — Our 2026 Reset
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Body Positivity Uncensored — Our 2026 Reset | Episode 226
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for a real, no-BS conversation about something everyone thinks about but few talk about honestly — body positivity. And spoiler alert: it’s about a whole lot more than a number on a scale.
Dan and Lacy break down what body positivity really means to them, exploring how it shows up both physically and mentally, and how confidence, and emotio...
Tuesday Talks: How Do You Swing with a Teen at Home?
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Tuesday Talks: How Do You Swing with a Teen at Home? | Episode 90
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks listener question.
This week, they hear from Kristen, who, along with her partner, is new to the lifestyle and navigating a unique challenge: having a teenager at home. She wants to know how couples can travel, attend clubs, and explore the lifestyle without raising suspicion from a curious or...
The Swing Nation 2025 Recap: Highs, Lows & Everything In Between
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The Swing Nation 2025 Recap: Highs, Lows & Everything In Between | Episode 225
In this special New Year’s edition of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take a look back at everything 2025 had to offer.
Month by month, they recap the events, trips, takeovers, and unforgettable moments that shaped the year — celebrating the highs, acknowledging the challenges, and reflecting on the lessons learned along the way. From incredible community connections to personal growth behind the scenes, nothing is o...
Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — Cock Confidence in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Grower, Not a Shower — Cock Confidence in the Lifestyle | Episode 89
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from a male listener who’s struggling to connect with women at clubs and resorts.
He shares that he feels confident once things progress, but worries he’s being judged too quickly because he’s a grower, not a shower, and his softer size doesn’t reflect his fu...
Everything You Need to Know: Before Your First Hotel Takeover
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Everything You Need to Know: Before Your First Hotel Takeover | Episode 224
In this special Christmas episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down to talk about a topic that’s especially relevant as we head into a brand-new year: hotel takeovers. With New Year’s being the granddaddy of all swinger hotel takeovers, there’s no better time to break down what these events are really about and how to get the most out of them.
D...
Tuesday Talks: Not as Experienced as Everyone Else? You’re Not Alone
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Tuesday Talks: Not as Experienced as Everyone Else? You’re Not Alone | Episode 88
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another heartfelt Tuesday Talks listener question—this time from a couple they previously met on Bliss Cruise.
The couple shares that they don’t have much sexual experience and often feel inadequate or overlooked in lifestyle spaces. They struggle with confidence and worry that most people aren’t willing to slow down, of...
Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze
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Naughty For a Purpose: Giving Back & Getting Dirty at Club Trapeze | Episode 223
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, hosted by Dan and Lacy, your favorite top-rated lifestyle podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, the duo recap an unforgettable weekend in Atlanta, Georgia.
Dan and Lacy team up with Swinger Society and Club Trapeze ATL for a Toys for Tots toy drive that raised over $5,000 in toys for kids in need, proving the lifestyle community can party hard and give back. But before the...
Tuesday Talks: Newbie Advice for Hedonism II
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Tuesday Talks: Newbie Advice for Hedonism II | Episode 87
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Kim, a fellow Army retiree who’s brand new to the lifestyle.
Kim shares that she and her boyfriend are planning to attend the upcoming Swinger Society Hedonism II resort takeover with Dan and Lacy after hearing rave reviews from friends who went last year. She’s excited, but also n...
Inside Naughty N'awlins: The Rise of the World’s Largest Swingers Convention
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Inside Naughty N'awlins: The Rise of the World’s Largest Swingers Convention | Episode 222
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Bob Hannaford — CEO of Naughty Events and the mastermind behind the world’s largest swingers convention, Naughty N’awlins.
Bob pulls back the curtain on how Naughty Events began, sharing the surprising origins, early challenges, and major milestones that shaped the powerhouse brand it is today. He also opens up about hi...
Tuesday Talks: The Secret World of Hot Husband Couples
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Tuesday Talks: The Secret World of Hot Husband Couples | Episode 86
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another revealing “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Shannon, who recently discovered she loves watching her husband with other women.
Shannon shares that this new turn-on has surprised her, and while she and her husband are excited to explore being a hot-husband couple, she feels a little weird admitting it out loud. She worrie...
Bliss Cruise Part 3: The Nude Beach, The Orgy… and the Fight That Ended It All
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Bliss Cruise Part 3: The Nude Beach, The Orgy… and the Fight That Ended It All | Episode 221
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you into Part 3 of their wild and unforgettable Bliss Cruise adventure—and this chapter is packed with both the highs and the hard moments of lifestyle travel.
The story picks up in St. Martin, where an alcohol-fueled port day at one of the island’s nude beaches sets the tone f...
Tuesday Talks: How To Make Friends on a Lifestyle Vacation?
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Tuesday Talks: How To Make Friends on a Lifestyle Vacation? | Episode 85
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy tackle another “Tuesday Talks” listener question — this time from Rachel, who’s prepping for a lifestyle vacation but feeling unsure about how to make connections.
Rachel worries she and her partner won’t have the same fun, social experiences Dan and Lacy often describe since they aren’t traveling with a friend group. She wants to know how...
Bliss Cruise Part 2: Lost Meds, Doctor Hookups & Group Play
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Bliss Cruise Part 2: Lost Meds, Doctor Hookups & Group Play | Episode 220
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy bring you Bliss Cruise Part 2, picking up on Day 2 and 3 after setting sail out of Fort Lauderdale, Florida aboard the Celebrity Reflection.
Lacy shares the very real scramble of realizing her essential medicine was left on shore, leading to a nerve-wracking trip to the ship’s medical center to see if a replacement is even possible. Mea...
Tuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette
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Tuesday Talks: Is Talking in the Playroom Rude? BDSM vs. Swinger Etiquette | Episode 84
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another intriguing “Tuesday Talks” listener question .
This week’s anonymous caller shares that they’re used to the structure, etiquette, and quiet focus of BDSM environments, but they also love the thrill of being watched in swinger clubs. Recently, while playing in an open room at Trapeze Atlanta, they found themselves distract...
Bliss Cruise Part 1: Delays, Drama & a Devastating Discovery
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Bliss Cruise Part 1: Delays, Drama & a Devastating Discovery | Episode 219
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy kick off their newest adventure as they travel to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, to board the Celebrity Reflection for 7 wild nights at sea on the world-famous Bliss Cruise — a full ship takeover packed with swingers from around the globe.
But before the fun begins, things get… complicated. From travel hiccups and unexpected delays to a few laugh-out-loud missteps along...
Tuesday Talks: Serenity Cox on Bliss Cruise, Hotwife Life & WIFEY
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Tuesday Talks: Serenity Cox on Bliss Cruise, Hotwife Life & WIFEY | Episode 83
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy shake things up with a special “Tuesday Talks” throwback. This week, they take you back aboard the Bliss Cruise, where Lacy sat down for an intimate and energizing conversation with Serenity Cox — award-winning actress, Vixen Media contract star, and WIFEY.com ambassador.
Serenity, known for her wildly popular hotwife content, opens up about her very first...
