The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
Tuesday Talks: Overcoming Anxiety and Insecurities in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Overcoming Anxiety and Insecurities in the Lifestyle | Episode 72
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another heartfelt "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer listener questions with honesty and experience.
This week, Paige from Louisiana calls in to share her struggles as she and her partner begin exploring the lifestyle. While she’s excited by the idea, her insecurities and social anxiety are creating roadblocks that are making her experiences di...
Hedonism II Part 2: Steamy Makeouts, Naughty Games & Wild Group Play
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Hedonism II Part 2: Steamy Makeouts, Naughty Games & Wild Group Play | Episode 207
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy continue their wild recap of Young Lifestylers Week at the legendary Hedonism II resort in Negril, Jamaica, in partnership with Topless Travel.
After a rocky start in Part 1, things heat up as our hosts dive into the full Hedonism experience—flirty makeout sessions with sexy strangers, naughty pool games at the wild nude pool day pa...
Tuesday Talks: How to Find the Perfect Third for Your First MFM
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Tuesday Talks: How to Find the Perfect Third for Your First MFM| Episode 71
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they answer listener questions straight from the community.
This week, a couple known as Texsuncpl writes in to share their excitement—and nerves—about exploring their first MFM threesome. They want to know the best way to find the right third partner and what positions might make...
Hedonism II Part 1: Dan Spins Beats, Lacy Gets Fisted & The Party Begins
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Hedonism II Part 1: Dan Spins Beats, Lacy Gets Fisted & The Party Begins | Episode 206
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take listeners along on their trip to the legendary Hedonism II resort in Negril, Jamaica, for their Young Lifestylers Week takeover in partnership with Topless Travel.
After a rocky start with delayed flights and some creative airplane “repairs,” the duo finally arrives in paradise, ready to welcome their guests. Dan jumps behind the DJ b...
Tuesday Talks: Are Good Men the Real Unicorns in the Lifestyle?
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Tuesday Talks: Are Good Men the Real Unicorns in the Lifestyle?| Episode 70
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they answer listener questions straight from the community.
This week, Will from Minneapolis calls in with a dilemma many couples can relate to. While he and his wife have found plenty of beautiful women they’re attracted to, the true unicorn for them seems to be finding su...
When the Lifestyle Gets Hard… or Doesn’t – With Shameless Care
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When the Lifestyle Gets Hard… or Doesn’t – With Shameless Care | Episode 205
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Robert and Anna from Shameless Care to tackle a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—erectile dysfunction in the lifestyle.
They dig into the science behind why even experienced swingers can sometimes struggle to perform in these high-energy, exciting environments, and how common this issue really is. The conversation then shift...
Tuesday Talks: Navigating the Lifestyle as a Straight Woman
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Tuesday Talks: Navigating the Lifestyle as a Straight Woman| Episode 69
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer listener questions with honesty and experience.
This week, they hear from “Aussie Girl,” a straight female new to the lifestyle who is finding it difficult to make connections. She shares that she isn’t looking to explore her sexuality with other women and is struggling to connect with men...
The Swinger OG: 86-Year-Old Sam L. Feldman Tells All
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The Swinger OG: 86-Year-Old Sam L. Feldman Tells All | Episode 204
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with the incredibly sharp and endlessly spicy 86-year-old author, Sam L. Feldman.
Sam, the mind behind HOOKUPS, HICCUPS, AND HAPPENSTANCES—a bold collection of erotic short stories—shares his unique perspective as a women’s advocate, sex educator, and storyteller of the Sexual Revolution. Together, they dive into the world of non-monogamy, sex positivity, and th...
Tuesday Talks: Lifestyle Longevity—Can You Swing at Any Age?
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Tuesday Talks: Lifestyle Longevity—Can You Swing at Any Age? | Episode 68
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another insightful “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from real people in the lifestyle.
This week, a listener from Northern California calls in after celebrating a milestone birthday—he just turned 60, and his stunning wife is 58 and still turning heads. They want to know: Is there a shelf life in the lifestyl...
Naughty N’awlins Part 3: Rodeo Rides & One Epic After Party
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Naughty N’awlins Part 3: Rodeo Rides & One Epic After Party | Episode 203
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy wrap up their unforgettable trip to Naughty N’awlins 2025, the largest lifestyle convention in the country.
The finale kicks off with topless bull riding and line dancing at their wild Boot Scootin’ Rodeo Party right on Bourbon Street. From there, Dan and Lacy dive into meaningful conversations with industry leaders, highlighting how social media is transf...
Tuesday Talks: Escaping the Clingy Couple—Vacation Edition
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Tuesday Talks: Escaping the Clingy Couple—Vacation Edition | Episode 67
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle real questions from real people navigating the lifestyle.
This week, an anonymous listener shares a story from their recent trip to Desire Resorts. On the very first night, they connected with a new couple and had an amazing play experience—but things got tricky when that couple seem...
Naughty N’awlins Part 2: Dan had Lesbian Sex?
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Naughty N’awlins Part 2: Dan had Lesbian Sex? | Episode 202
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with Part 2 of their unforgettable adventure at Naughty N’awlins, the largest lifestyle convention in the country.
From topless pool parties to wild Bourbon Street day parties, Dan and Lacy dive into all the daytime debauchery that set the tone for a weekend full of connection and chaos. They also share their emotional experience marching in t...
Tuesday Talks: 5 Secrets to Slaying Your First Secrets Hideaway Trip
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Tuesday Talks: 5 Secrets to Slaying Your First Secrets Hideaway Trip | Episode 66
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another listener-favorite "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from real people in the lifestyle.
This week, a listener who goes by LetsFlamingle texts in with a great question: What are five tips every first-timer should know before heading to Secrets Hideaway Resort? With Dan and Lacy gearing up to host the...
Naughty N’awlins Part 1: Pre-Parties, Pressure & a Slow Start
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Naughty N’awlins Part 1: Pre-Parties, Pressure & a Slow Start | Episode 201
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy head to New Orleans for one of the biggest events in the lifestyle—Naughty N’awlins!
From the chaos of travel to reconnecting with friends at the pre-party inside Club colette, Dan and Lacy dive into the unique energy of this massive convention. With Bourbon Street buzzing and the clubs packed, the weekend is off to a wild...
Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Relax in Group Rooms?
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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Relax in Group Rooms? | Episode 65
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another powerful “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from listeners navigating the lifestyle.
This week, Mr. Rabbit calls in with a heartfelt question for Dan. As a fellow military veteran, he shares that he struggles to relax in group play settings—constantly scanning the room and unable to fully focus on the experience. He ask...
Hot Tubs, Hangovers & Hookups in Nashville
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Hot Tubs, Hangovers & Hookups in Nashville | Episode 200
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy head to Nashville for a wild weekend with some of their favorite content creator friends.
Friday kicks off with a night out on Bourbon Street—surrounded by vanilla partygoers, strong drinks, and a hot tub that hits a little too hard. The night ends early for Dan and Lacy, who find themselves tucked in bed while listening to the fu...
Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker
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Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker | Episode 64
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another spicy and relatable "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from real lifestyle listeners.
This week, Elanna calls in to share a recent experience with a couple that didn’t go quite as planned. During their play session, the male half of the couple wouldn’t stop talking—and not in...
Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson
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Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson | Episode 199
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson.
Dr. Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a Board Certified Sexologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor with over 30 years of experience working with couples and individuals exploring flexible monogamy and non-traditional relationships...
Tuesday Talks: Lacy’s Secrets to Sexy, Standout Style
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Tuesday Talks: Lacy’s Secrets to Sexy, Standout Style | Episode 63
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another fun and fashion-forward "Tuesday Talks" segment, answering a listener’s question on one of Lacy’s all-time favorite topics—outfits.Â
This week, an anonymous caller wants to know: In a room full of beautiful women in lingerie, what actually makes someone stand out? Lacy shares her honest, and maybe unexpected, take on what really tu...
Splash Atlanta Part 2: Games, Gangbangs & Group Play
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Lifestyle Stories: Splash Atlanta Part 2: Games, Gangbangs & Group Play | Episode 198
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with Part 2 of their wild weekend recap from the Splash Hotel Takeover in Atlanta, Georgia.
After a rough start with rainy weather and a misunderstanding with close friends, the skies cleared and the vibe shifted. Dan got back to MCing the pool party, bringing the energy with fun games and great prizes while t...
Tuesday Talks: Is My Wig Getting in the Way of Play?
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Tuesday Talks: Is My Wig Getting in the Way of Play? | Episode 62
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another heartfelt installment of their “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from real listeners navigating the lifestyle.
This week, an anonymous caller opens up about her journey in the lifestyle with her husband —and shares a deeply personal challenge. She has alopecia, and she feels her condition has become a barrie...
Splash Atlanta Part 1: When a Good Night Goes Sideways
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Lifestyle Stories: Splash Atlanta Part 1: When a Good Night Goes Sideways | Episode 197
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy share part one of their steamy and emotional adventure at the Splash Hotel Takeover in Atlanta, Georgia.
The weekend kicked off with rainy skies, but that didn’t stop the fun. Dan and Lacy turned up the heat indoors with a spicy content collaboration featuring their unicorn friend, Poly Pineapple. From there, th...
Tuesday Talks: How to Make Sure Everyone Gets Off
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Tuesday Talks: How to Make Sure Everyone Gets Off | Episode 61
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid "Tuesday Talks" listener question.
This week, an anonymous caller opens up about a frustrating dynamic in his lifestyle journey: he’s having a great time, but his wife often walks away from experiences feeling unfulfilled. They want to know how to better connect with couples where everyone’s need...
Can a Swinger Win an Election? Yvonne Rorrer Thinks So
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Lifestyle Interview: Can a Swinger Win an Election? Yvonne Rorrer Thinks So | Episode 196
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Yvonne Rorrer, a Democratic candidate for the Virginia House of Delegates, who recently made headlines around the world.
After publicly sharing on social media that she and her husband are swingers, Yvonne sparked a wave of media attention—including a spotlight on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert. Da...
Tuesday Talks: Nude Pics, Respect, and Group Chat Protocol
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Tuesday Talks: Nude Pics, Respect, and Group Chat Protocol | Episode 60
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another juicy installment of their "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from listeners just like you.
This week, they dive into a spicy question from HW, who asks about the proper etiquette around sending sexy photos in group chats. How do you navigate sharing steamy pics without overstepping? What's the right...
Seductive Circus Takeover: Orgies, Content & Controversy
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Lifestyle Stories: Seductive Circus Takeover: Orgies, Content & Controversy | Episode 195
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you behind the scenes of their unforgettable Seductive Circus Swinger Society takeover at Club Tempted in Louisville, Kentucky.
The weekend was packed with high-energy parties, sultry scenes, and unforgettable moments—starting with Dan stepping behind the decks as the opening DJ and setting the tone for a weekend full of fun and fantasy. From la...
Tuesday Talks: What If You’re Not Into Squirting?
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Tuesday Talks: What If You’re Not Into Squirting? | Episode 59
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another installment of their "Tuesday Talks" series, where they answer real questions from curious and candid listeners.
This week, E&J write in with a steamy—but surprisingly tricky—question. They recently met a couple they really vibed with, but there's one unexpected hurdle: they’re not into squirting. Now they’...
Dr. Stoehr on MGEN, The STI You Might Not Know You Have
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Lifestyle Education: Dr. Stoehr on MGEN, The STI You Might Not Know You Have | Episode 194
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr for an important conversation about sexual health in the lifestyle community.
They dive into the topic of MGEN (Mycoplasma Genitalium), an increasingly common and often overlooked STI that sexually active people—especially swingers—should be aware of. Dr. Stoehr breaks down what it is, how...
Tuesday Talks: I Want to F* Your Wife
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Tuesday Talks: I Want to F* Your Wife | Episode 58
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another listener question on their “Tuesday Talks” segment.
This week, Bunny writes in with a spicy etiquette question: Is it ever okay to say “I want to fuck your wife” or “I want to fuck your husband” when expressing interest in the lifestyle? While it might seem direct (and hot), Bunny shares that...
Bliss Cruise Part 3: Birthday Kisses, Fetish Flops & a Steamy Solarium Orgy
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Lifestyle Stories: Bliss Cruise Part 3: Birthday Kisses, Fetish Flops & a Steamy Solarium Orgy | Episode 193
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into Part 3 of their wild and steamy Bliss Cruise adventure.
Picking up on Day 5 of the cruise, they celebrate Daddy Mike’s birthday in true swinger style—starting with My Frisky Business’ pool party where things heat up fast as Mike shares birthday kisses with all the girls. After a sush...
Tuesday Talks: Can't Cum? Delayed Ejaculation in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Can't Cum? Delayed Ejaculation in the Lifestyle | Episode 57
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take on a unique listener question from Tulsa, Oklahoma.
While many people talk about premature ejaculation, this listener is facing the opposite issue—he struggles to climax and often gets worn out before finishing. He asks if Dan and Lacy have any advice or know of potential treatments that could help.
Tu...
Bliss Cruise Part 2: Margaritas, Male Revues & Midnight Mischief
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Lifestyle Stories: Bliss Cruise Part 2: Margaritas, Male Revues & Midnight Mischief | Episode 192
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for Part 2 of their wild and unforgettable recap of the Bliss Cruise—a full-ship swingers takeover packed with sun, sex, and surprises.
Picking up on Day 3 in the Dominican Republic, the crew kicks things off with a clothing-optional catamaran ride before heading back on board, where Lacy and Daphne dive into a st...
Tuesday Talks: Veterans, Brotherhood, and Lifestyle Community
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Tuesday Talks: Veterans, Brotherhood, and Lifestyle Community | Episode 56
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for another heartfelt Tuesday Talks segment—this time with a powerful question from a listener with a military background.
John from California, a proud Marine Corps veteran, calls in to share that it was Dan’s own service as a veteran that first drew him to the show. Although John isn't in the lifestyle himself, he’s notice...
Bliss Cruise Part 1: Real Talk, Rough Waters & Sexy Beginnings
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Lifestyle Stories: Bliss Cruise Part 1: Real Talk, Rough Waters & Sexy Beginnings | Episode 191
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy kick off Part 1 of their recap of the Bliss Cruise, a full ship takeover for swingers sailing out of Miami, Florida.
Before diving into the wild, sexy fun, Dan and Lacy open up with some honest reflections on where they are in their lifestyle journey. From navigating grief and personal challenges to...
Tuesday Talks: Is Gender-Based Pricing Outdated in the Lifestyle?
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Tuesday Talks: Is Gender-Based Pricing Outdated in the Lifestyle? | Episode 55
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for another "Tuesday Talks" segment to answer a thoughtful listener question that touches on inclusivity in the lifestyle space.
Nicole calls in and shares her experience as a non-binary individual transitioning to present femme, and asks a meaningful question: How do lifestyle clubs typically handle gender-based pricing for people who don’t identify as cisgender?...
Treasures and Pleasures Part 2: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover
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Lifestyle Stories: Treasures and Pleasures Part 2: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover | Episode 190
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, a top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with Part 2 of their wild and unforgettable recap of the “Treasures and Pleasures” Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida.
After an emotional start to the weekend, things heat up quickly as the party kicks into full swing. From a poolside Motorbunny session that turned into a splash zone, to L...
Tuesday Talks: Where Should Newbies Start Their Swinging Journey?
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Tuesday Talks: Where Should Newbies Start Their Swinging Journey? | Episode 54
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another "Tuesday Talks" listener question that’s as sweet as it is spicy!
Laura calls in to share that she and her husband—together since 7th grade and completely new to any experience outside their marriage—are feeling excited and turned on about exploring the lifestyle together. With a big trip planned to Hedoni...
Treasures and Pleasures Part 1: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover
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Lifestyle Stories: Treasures and Pleasures Part 1: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover | Episode 189
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy share an intimate and emotional recap of Part 1 of their latest lifestyle adventure—the “Treasures and Pleasures” Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida.
While the weekend was full of sexy fun and non-stop energy, it also came with personal challenges. Lacy opens up about the emotional weight she carried throug...
Tuesday Talks: When Lifestyle Friends Cross the Line in Public
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Tuesday Talks: When Lifestyle Friends Cross the Line in Public | Episode 53
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid conversation for their "Tuesday Talks" segment—this time tackling a question that hits close to home for many in the lifestyle.
A listener writes in, frustrated after discovering that their lifestyle friends outed them as swingers to other lifestyle people they all ran into at a public bar. Now they’re wond...
Tuesday Talks: Why We Went Silent – A Heartbreaking Life Update
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Tuesday Talks: Why We Went Silent – A Heartbreaking Life Update | Episode 52
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for a deeply personal edition of their "Tuesday Talks" segment to answer a question many of you have been asking—why the podcast went silent for over two weeks.
In a candid and emotional conversation, they open up about a devastating life event that brought their world to a halt. With vulnerability and honesty, Dan...
