The Swing Nation - A Sex Positive Swingers Podcast
The Swing Nation is a podcast by swingers, for swingers, where we look to shed a positive light on the underground world of swinging, push back against the negative stigmas associated with the lifestyle, and give an insiders perspective on what it’s like to be a consensual non-monogamous couple in the 21st century. Follow along with this top rated lifestyle podcast on our pineapple journey!
Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Relax in Group Rooms?
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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Relax in Group Rooms? | Episode 65
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another powerful “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from listeners navigating the lifestyle.
This week, Mr. Rabbit calls in with a heartfelt question for Dan. As a fellow military veteran, he shares that he struggles to relax in group play settings—constantly scanning the room and unable to fully focus on the experience. He ask...
Hot Tubs, Hangovers & Hookups in Nashville
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Hot Tubs, Hangovers & Hookups in Nashville | Episode 200
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy head to Nashville for a wild weekend with some of their favorite content creator friends.
Friday kicks off with a night out on Bourbon Street—surrounded by vanilla partygoers, strong drinks, and a hot tub that hits a little too hard. The night ends early for Dan and Lacy, who find themselves tucked in bed while listening to the fu...
Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker
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Tuesday Talks: Sexy Time or Story Time? How to Handle an Over-Talker | Episode 64
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another spicy and relatable "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from real lifestyle listeners.
This week, Elanna calls in to share a recent experience with a couple that didn’t go quite as planned. During their play session, the male half of the couple wouldn’t stop talking—and not in...
Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson
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Sex, Cheating & Modern Love: A Conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson | Episode 199
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for an insightful and thought-provoking conversation with Dr. Tammy Nelson.
Dr. Tammy Nelson, PhD, is a Board Certified Sexologist, AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Licensed Professional Counselor, Certified Imago Relationship Therapist, and Licensed Alcohol and Drug Abuse Counselor with over 30 years of experience working with couples and individuals exploring flexible monogamy and non-traditional relationships...
Tuesday Talks: Lacy’s Secrets to Sexy, Standout Style
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Tuesday Talks: Lacy’s Secrets to Sexy, Standout Style | Episode 63
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another fun and fashion-forward "Tuesday Talks" segment, answering a listener’s question on one of Lacy’s all-time favorite topics—outfits.Â
This week, an anonymous caller wants to know: In a room full of beautiful women in lingerie, what actually makes someone stand out? Lacy shares her honest, and maybe unexpected, take on what really tu...
Splash Atlanta Part 2: Games, Gangbangs & Group Play
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Lifestyle Stories: Splash Atlanta Part 2: Games, Gangbangs & Group Play | Episode 198
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with Part 2 of their wild weekend recap from the Splash Hotel Takeover in Atlanta, Georgia.
After a rough start with rainy weather and a misunderstanding with close friends, the skies cleared and the vibe shifted. Dan got back to MCing the pool party, bringing the energy with fun games and great prizes while t...
Tuesday Talks: Is My Wig Getting in the Way of Play?
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Tuesday Talks: Is My Wig Getting in the Way of Play? | Episode 62
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with another heartfelt installment of their “Tuesday Talks” segment, where they answer real questions from real listeners navigating the lifestyle.
This week, an anonymous caller opens up about her journey in the lifestyle with her husband —and shares a deeply personal challenge. She has alopecia, and she feels her condition has become a barrie...
Splash Atlanta Part 1: When a Good Night Goes Sideways
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Lifestyle Stories: Splash Atlanta Part 1: When a Good Night Goes Sideways | Episode 197
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy share part one of their steamy and emotional adventure at the Splash Hotel Takeover in Atlanta, Georgia.
The weekend kicked off with rainy skies, but that didn’t stop the fun. Dan and Lacy turned up the heat indoors with a spicy content collaboration featuring their unicorn friend, Poly Pineapple. From there, th...
Tuesday Talks: How to Make Sure Everyone Gets Off
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Tuesday Talks: How to Make Sure Everyone Gets Off | Episode 61
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid "Tuesday Talks" listener question.
This week, an anonymous caller opens up about a frustrating dynamic in his lifestyle journey: he’s having a great time, but his wife often walks away from experiences feeling unfulfilled. They want to know how to better connect with couples where everyone’s need...
Can a Swinger Win an Election? Yvonne Rorrer Thinks So
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Lifestyle Interview: Can a Swinger Win an Election? Yvonne Rorrer Thinks So | Episode 196
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Yvonne Rorrer, a Democratic candidate for the Virginia House of Delegates, who recently made headlines around the world.
After publicly sharing on social media that she and her husband are swingers, Yvonne sparked a wave of media attention—including a spotlight on The Late Show with Stephen Colbert. Da...
Tuesday Talks: Nude Pics, Respect, and Group Chat Protocol
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Tuesday Talks: Nude Pics, Respect, and Group Chat Protocol | Episode 60
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another juicy installment of their "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they answer real questions from listeners just like you.
This week, they dive into a spicy question from HW, who asks about the proper etiquette around sending sexy photos in group chats. How do you navigate sharing steamy pics without overstepping? What's the right...
Seductive Circus Takeover: Orgies, Content & Controversy
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Lifestyle Stories: Seductive Circus Takeover: Orgies, Content & Controversy | Episode 195
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you behind the scenes of their unforgettable Seductive Circus Swinger Society takeover at Club Tempted in Louisville, Kentucky.
The weekend was packed with high-energy parties, sultry scenes, and unforgettable moments—starting with Dan stepping behind the decks as the opening DJ and setting the tone for a weekend full of fun and fantasy. From la...
Tuesday Talks: What If You’re Not Into Squirting?
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Tuesday Talks: What If You’re Not Into Squirting? | Episode 59
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another installment of their "Tuesday Talks" series, where they answer real questions from curious and candid listeners.
This week, E&J write in with a steamy—but surprisingly tricky—question. They recently met a couple they really vibed with, but there's one unexpected hurdle: they’re not into squirting. Now they’...
Dr. Stoehr on MGEN, The STI You Might Not Know You Have
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Lifestyle Education: Dr. Stoehr on MGEN, The STI You Might Not Know You Have | Episode 194
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr for an important conversation about sexual health in the lifestyle community.
They dive into the topic of MGEN (Mycoplasma Genitalium), an increasingly common and often overlooked STI that sexually active people—especially swingers—should be aware of. Dr. Stoehr breaks down what it is, how...
Tuesday Talks: I Want to F* Your Wife
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Tuesday Talks: I Want to F* Your Wife | Episode 58
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another listener question on their “Tuesday Talks” segment.
This week, Bunny writes in with a spicy etiquette question: Is it ever okay to say “I want to fuck your wife” or “I want to fuck your husband” when expressing interest in the lifestyle? While it might seem direct (and hot), Bunny shares that...
Bliss Cruise Part 3: Birthday Kisses, Fetish Flops & a Steamy Solarium Orgy
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Lifestyle Stories: Bliss Cruise Part 3: Birthday Kisses, Fetish Flops & a Steamy Solarium Orgy | Episode 193
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into Part 3 of their wild and steamy Bliss Cruise adventure.
Picking up on Day 5 of the cruise, they celebrate Daddy Mike’s birthday in true swinger style—starting with My Frisky Business’ pool party where things heat up fast as Mike shares birthday kisses with all the girls. After a sush...
Tuesday Talks: Can't Cum? Delayed Ejaculation in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Can't Cum? Delayed Ejaculation in the Lifestyle | Episode 57
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take on a unique listener question from Tulsa, Oklahoma.
While many people talk about premature ejaculation, this listener is facing the opposite issue—he struggles to climax and often gets worn out before finishing. He asks if Dan and Lacy have any advice or know of potential treatments that could help.
Tu...
Bliss Cruise Part 2: Margaritas, Male Revues & Midnight Mischief
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Lifestyle Stories: Bliss Cruise Part 2: Margaritas, Male Revues & Midnight Mischief | Episode 192
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for Part 2 of their wild and unforgettable recap of the Bliss Cruise—a full-ship swingers takeover packed with sun, sex, and surprises.
Picking up on Day 3 in the Dominican Republic, the crew kicks things off with a clothing-optional catamaran ride before heading back on board, where Lacy and Daphne dive into a st...
Tuesday Talks: Veterans, Brotherhood, and Lifestyle Community
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Tuesday Talks: Veterans, Brotherhood, and Lifestyle Community | Episode 56
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for another heartfelt Tuesday Talks segment—this time with a powerful question from a listener with a military background.
John from California, a proud Marine Corps veteran, calls in to share that it was Dan’s own service as a veteran that first drew him to the show. Although John isn't in the lifestyle himself, he’s notice...
Bliss Cruise Part 1: Real Talk, Rough Waters & Sexy Beginnings
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Lifestyle Stories: Bliss Cruise Part 1: Real Talk, Rough Waters & Sexy Beginnings | Episode 191
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy kick off Part 1 of their recap of the Bliss Cruise, a full ship takeover for swingers sailing out of Miami, Florida.
Before diving into the wild, sexy fun, Dan and Lacy open up with some honest reflections on where they are in their lifestyle journey. From navigating grief and personal challenges to...
Tuesday Talks: Is Gender-Based Pricing Outdated in the Lifestyle?
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Tuesday Talks: Is Gender-Based Pricing Outdated in the Lifestyle? | Episode 55
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for another "Tuesday Talks" segment to answer a thoughtful listener question that touches on inclusivity in the lifestyle space.
Nicole calls in and shares her experience as a non-binary individual transitioning to present femme, and asks a meaningful question: How do lifestyle clubs typically handle gender-based pricing for people who don’t identify as cisgender?...
Treasures and Pleasures Part 2: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover
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Lifestyle Stories: Treasures and Pleasures Part 2: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover | Episode 190
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, a top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return with Part 2 of their wild and unforgettable recap of the “Treasures and Pleasures” Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida.
After an emotional start to the weekend, things heat up quickly as the party kicks into full swing. From a poolside Motorbunny session that turned into a splash zone, to L...
Tuesday Talks: Where Should Newbies Start Their Swinging Journey?
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Tuesday Talks: Where Should Newbies Start Their Swinging Journey? | Episode 54
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy are back with another "Tuesday Talks" listener question that’s as sweet as it is spicy!
Laura calls in to share that she and her husband—together since 7th grade and completely new to any experience outside their marriage—are feeling excited and turned on about exploring the lifestyle together. With a big trip planned to Hedoni...
Treasures and Pleasures Part 1: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover
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Lifestyle Stories: Treasures and Pleasures Part 1: Swinger Society Secrets Takeover | Episode 189
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy share an intimate and emotional recap of Part 1 of their latest lifestyle adventure—the “Treasures and Pleasures” Swinger Society takeover at Secrets Hideaway Resort in Kissimmee, Florida.
While the weekend was full of sexy fun and non-stop energy, it also came with personal challenges. Lacy opens up about the emotional weight she carried throug...
Tuesday Talks: When Lifestyle Friends Cross the Line in Public
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Tuesday Talks: When Lifestyle Friends Cross the Line in Public | Episode 53
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another candid conversation for their "Tuesday Talks" segment—this time tackling a question that hits close to home for many in the lifestyle.
A listener writes in, frustrated after discovering that their lifestyle friends outed them as swingers to other lifestyle people they all ran into at a public bar. Now they’re wond...
Tuesday Talks: Why We Went Silent – A Heartbreaking Life Update
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Tuesday Talks: Why We Went Silent – A Heartbreaking Life Update | Episode 52
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy return for a deeply personal edition of their "Tuesday Talks" segment to answer a question many of you have been asking—why the podcast went silent for over two weeks.
In a candid and emotional conversation, they open up about a devastating life event that brought their world to a halt. With vulnerability and honesty, Dan...
Ashley Madison Tells All: An Unfiltered Interview with Paul Keable
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Lifestyle Interview: Ashley Madison Tells All: An Unfiltered Interview with Paul Keable | Episode 188
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down for an uncensored interview with Paul Keable, the Chief Strategy Officer of Ashley Madison—the discreet dating platform with over 80 million users worldwide.
With the recent release of the Netflix documentary Ashley Madison: Sex, Lies & Scandal, Paul addresses the explosive claims made in the film, revisits the infamous 2015 data br...
Playroom Etiquette 101: Do’s & Don’ts for Lifestyle Events
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Lifestyle Education: Playroom Etiquette 101: Do’s & Don’ts for Lifestyle Events | Episode 187
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy break down the do’s and don’ts of playroom etiquette at lifestyle events.
From how to ask to join in to knowing when to step back, they cover everything you need to navigate play spaces with confidence and respect. They discuss consent, the importance of hygiene and boundaries, and how to graceful...
Tuesday Talks – Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks – Managing Anxiety in the Lifestyle| Episode 51
In this Tuesday Talks episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy tackle an important and often overlooked topic in the lifestyle—anxiety. Caller David and his partner, "Random Girl," reach out to ask how Lacy manages her anxiety while navigating non-monogamy and how Dan supports her through it.
Lacy gets real about her personal experiences, sharing the challenges, coping strategies, and mindset shifts that have helped her embrace the lifestyle with more confidence. Dan offe...
Kinky Cabin Adventures – A Wild Weekend in Chattanooga
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Lifestyle Stories: Kinky Cabin Adventures – A Wild Weekend in Chattanooga | Episode 186
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take you along for a steamy weekend getaway at The Kinky Cabin in Chattanooga, TN! Joined by their lifestyle friends, Adventurous4FunCouple, they kicked off the trip with a fun night out at a local gay/drag bar, where they met up with not only their friends but also the owners of The Kinky Cabin. Things took an unexpected turn when a tipsy Dan ex...
Tuesday Talks – Finding Pegging Partners in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks – Finding Pegging Partners in the Lifestyle | Episode 50
In this Tuesday Talks episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy dive into another round of listener questions—this time tackling a topic that doesn’t come up every day! A caller who goes by Hard Cock 74 reaches out looking for advice on how to find females in the lifestyle who are into pegging. He shares his frustration about how strap-on play between women is widely accepted in the swinging community, but when it comes to women peggin...
Miami Heat: Inside Our Sugar & Spice Takeover at Club Miami Velvet
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Lifestyle Stories: Miami Heat: Inside Our Sugar & Spice Takeover at Club Miami Velvet | Episode 185
In this steamy episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, Dan and Lacy take you inside their unforgettable Swinger Society Sugar & Spice Takeover at Club Miami Velvet! The weekend kicked off with a visit to their good friends and favorite photographers, Wings of Glory, in Orlando—where a sizzling couples' swap unfolded on camera after an incredible photoshoot.
From there, Dan and Lacy headed to Miami, making an important st...
Tuesday Talks: Holding Out or Missing Out? The Struggle to Find a First Swap
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Tuesday Talks: Holding Out or Missing Out? The Struggle to Find a First Swap | Episode 49
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty and experience.
This week, Wendy calls in to share her frustration after a year in the lifestyle without finding her first swap. She and her husband are committed to not "taking one for the team," but they’re st...
The Truth About GLP-1 Weight Loss Drugs in the Lifestyle
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Lifestyle Education: The Truth About GLP-1 Weight Loss Drugs in the Lifestyle | Episode 184
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Dr. Stoehr, a gynecologist specializing in pelvic and sexual pain, sexual dysfunction, and the intersection of medicine and alternative sexual lifestyles.
Together, they dive into the explosion of GLP-1 weight loss drugs in both society and the lifestyle community. Dr. Stoehr shares her personal journey of losing over 100...
Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Find an Orgy? Justin’s Dilemma
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Tuesday Talks: Struggling to Find an Orgy? Justin’s Dilemma | Episode 48
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another Tuesday Talks segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty and humor.
This week, Justin writes in, frustrated with lifestyle dating sites and struggling to find the motivation to travel an hour each way to his nearest club. He wonders if he’ll ever experience another orgy again—or if the lifestyle is jus...
Sex, Drugs & Swinging: What You Need to Know with Ashley Manta
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Sex, Drugs & Swinging: What You Need to Know with Ashley Manta | Episode 183
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Ashley Manta, a certified sexologist, award-winning pleasure & intimacy coach, and the creator of the term CannaSexual—the practice of mindfully combining sex and cannabis to enhance intimacy and pleasure.
Together, they dive into an open and honest conversation about drug use in the lifestyle, exploring the most common substances, their potential be...
Tuesday Talks: Using the Dick Shot in the Lifestyle – Do’s & Don’ts
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Tuesday Talks: Using the Dick Shot in the Lifestyle – Do’s & Don’ts | Episode 47
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle listener questions with honesty, humor, and real-world advice.
This week, a listener named "Bent" calls in with questions about the stigma surrounding performance-enhancing injections like Trimix. While many are familiar with pills like Viagra, Bent wonders how women and other men in the lifest...
Milking Tables & Public Play: Swinger Society Takes Over Club Colette
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Milking Tables & Public Play: Swinger Society Takes Over Club Colette | Episode 182
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy take you inside the unforgettable Swinger Society Wings and Waves takeover at Club Colette in Dallas, Texas.
From multi-handed birthday massages to wild orgies on oval beds—complete with an impromptu "Happy Birthday" singalong—this event had it all! Dan and Lacy spill all the juicy details, including their steamy milking table adventures and unexpected unic...
Tuesday Talks: Mastering Condom Use in the Lifestyle
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Tuesday Talks: Mastering Condom Use in the Lifestyle | Episode 46
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy dive into another "Tuesday Talks" segment, where they tackle listener questions with their signature mix of honesty and humor.
This week, an anonymous listener texts in after experiencing their first full swap, sharing that the husband struggled a bit with condom use. They’re wondering if practice makes perfect and what the proper etiquette is when it co...
I Know My Status: How Swingers Can Test Like the Porn Stars
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Lifestyle Education | I Know My Status: How Swingers Can Test Like the Porn Stars | Episode 181
In this episode of The Swing Nation Podcast, the top-rated podcast about non-monogamy and swinging, Dan and Lacy sit down with Nurse Practitioner Stacy Feemster from Talent Testing, the leading company that tests porn stars for STIs. Together, they dive into valuable lessons the swinging community can learn from the adult film industry, including best practices for testing, why herpes isn’t included in standard screenings, and how to navigate sexual health with co...
