Sholom Bayis and important life topics

Personality Types #37.
the 16 personality types "INFJ"; introverted; intuitive; feeling; judging; quite inspiration to others; approaching life with deep thoughtfulness and imagination; inner vision; personal values helping others bringing out their best potential;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/PT (potential weaknesses of each type).pdf

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Power of words series #97.
positive word power; words are a solid tangible reality, and one needs to handle their words with great care; how words can leave a permanent mark on the person you are speaking to;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #25.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 6. Part 1. - Embracing relationships:; primary good middos for marriage is fear, respect, love; kavod is required before love; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Life Transforming Advice #30.
your specific obligations in life depends on your unique situation and circumstance; transforming the mundane from something boring/frustrating into something beautiful/meaningful;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #24.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 5. Part 4. - Bringing the holy union down to earth:; eating with pleasure; deveikus and pleasure; danger of physicality for its own sake; staying focused on your spouse only; intro to lesson 6. Crucial middos needed in marriage; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Bitachon #30.
Perek 4; practicing Bitachon when you have family and friends;

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Personality Types #36.
the 16 personality types "ESFJ"; extraverted; sensing; feeling; judging; social harmonizer; great hosts; attentive; people-focused; enjoy taking part in their social community; great desire to be of service to others;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/PT (potential weaknesses of each type).pdf

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a person's own mind creates the quality of each experience (Rav Chaim Shmuelevitz ZT"L); using our minds to elevate even our mundane tasks infusing them with meaning and joy;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #23.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 5. Part 3. - Bringing the holy union down to earth:; sefer Chassidim on the inseparable connection between physical desire and proper onah; healthy concept of needs; intimacy's true purpose is NOT to pacify the yetzer haRah but to use the desire to unify with your spouse; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Bitachon #29.
Perek 4; practicing Bitachon when you are alone and when you are with people; aloneness, though painful, can be a precious opportunity to be with Hashem; even when you can't sleep, you can talk to Hashem then;

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Personality Types #35.
the 16 personality types "ESFP"; extraverted; sensing; feeling; perceiving; entertainer; charming; optimistic; enjoy life to fullest; could be generous to a fault; easygoing but at the risk of being self-indulgent;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/PT (potential weaknesses of each type).pdf

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Power of words series #96.
obstacles and indicators; various patterns that exists in a verbally abusive relationship;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #22.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 5. Part 2. - Bringing the holy union down to earth:; 3 points in strengthening intimacy (power of Unifier, power within us, expression of love, healthy balance in physical desire); https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Life Transforming Advice #29.
feeling joy when doing a mitzvah; discovering simcha in serving Hashem even in routine daily behaviors;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #21.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 5. Part 1. - Bringing the holy union down to earth:; physical drives must be incorporated into the couple's union; purpose of the yichud room; Rav Chaim Kanievsky's statement regarding achieving intimacy; Maharal and Ramban on the intimate union; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Bitachon #28.
Perek 4; the fallacy of wealth; the true source of wealth and honor; tests of bitachon; when income is restricted;

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Personality Types #34.
the 16 personality types "ISFP"; introverted; sensing; feeling; perceiving; introverted adventurer; sees much but shares little; gentle; open minded in approaching life; embraces new experiences; treats people with a grounded warmth;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/PT (potential weaknesses of each type).pdf

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turning on the power of self esteem; 1. accept the possibility that our self-concept is invalid; 2. make lifestyle changes that promote a more positive self-image even if there may be fierce resistance; 3. to be extremely patient, learning to trust ourselves, view mistakes as positive learning experiences, not devastating failures;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #20.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 4. Part 3. - A holy union:; a new look at modesty; tznius IS intimacy; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Life Transforming Advice #28.
joy of praying and Birchas HaMazon;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #19.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 4. Part 2. - A holy union:; kedusha bringing in God's light; Zohar's words regarding the marital union; holiness is NOT separating from physical desire towards one's wife but embracing this desire in an exclusive unified way; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Bitachon #27.
Perek 4; 3 tests of wealthy people; employers; anyone who has money to recognize its all from Hashem;

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Personality Types #33.
the 16 personality types "ISFJ"; introverted; sensing; feeling; judging; manager of facts and details; defenders; high sense of duty; warm; loyal; unassuming; efficient; responsible; careful attention to practical details in their lives;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/PT (potential weaknesses of each type).pdf

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Power of words series #95.
painting beautiful self-portraits with your words; a gift-wrapped word; adding more lashon tov to the power of your speech;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #18.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 4. Part 1. - A holy union:; the Stiepler's fundamental teachings on what kedusha is, which is a prerequisite in approaching the subject of marital intimacy properly; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Life Transforming Advice #27.
joy of mitzvos and learning Torah has infinitely greater joy than the physical pleasures;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #17.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 3. Part 6. - Piyus:; Friday night; the day of the mikvah; 3 steps process; Ramban's words; summary of lesson; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Personality Types #32.
the 16 personality types "ENTJ"; extraverted; intuitive; thinking; judging; commanders; life's natural leaders; decisive people who love momentum and accomplishment;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/PT (potential weaknesses of each type).pdf

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Bitachon #26.
Perek 4; how bitachon and effort in the right mindset are two mitzvos; with the right bitachon in your mind, you are doing a great mitzvah with every effort you make;

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enjoy your self-talk while doing things that you must; using your minds to generate gratitude and joy; "to do with joy" list; you have the ability to build your mind and attitudes with healthy joy;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #16.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 3. Part 5. - Piyus:; the Stiepler's lessons regarding Rav Chisda's instruction to his daughters; piyus before the bedroom during the day; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Life Transforming Advice #26.
joy for fulfilling a mitzvah IS a mitzvah; the benefits of joy for fulfilling mitzvos;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #15.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 3. Part 4. - Piyus:; the letter of the Stiepler; physical pius; Rav Chisda's instruction to his daughter; "married tznius" includes a woman using her body to bring her husband to a state that he will be ready for their union; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Bitachon #25.
Perek 4; taking risks; 2 possibilities; lesson from Shmuel; difficult mitzvah of required effort and to still recognize it is Hashem who gave you success, not the efforts;

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Personality Types #31.
the 16 personality types "ENTP"; extraverted; intuitive; thinking; perceiving; the designer of systems; debater; enjoying one exciting challenge after another; bold; creative; pursue their goals and ideas despite any resistance they may encounter;

http://streamdigitalvideo.com/pd_sb/MBTI-16 personality summary.pdf

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the feelings and inner reality of the victims of verbal abuse; frustration; rejection; sadness; fear; confusion;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #14.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 3. Part 3. - Piyus:; the length of pius; "binding her before a lying"; important point by R. Shomo Zalman ZT"L regarding acceptable pius in realistic situations; being emotionally intelligent in interacting with your wife in piyus; https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Life Transforming Advice #25.
learning the skills of developing peace of mind; joy in keeping mitzvos greatly helps reduce anxiety and developing menuchas hanefesh;

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Binyan Habayis - The Living Marriage. #13.
teachings of Rav Moshe Shuchatowitz; Lesson 3. Part 2. - Piyus:; the piyus after the union; a deeper look into piyus; primarily husband's work (though a wife can create great healing and love in her efforts as well); https://www.amazon.com/Living-Marriage-Torah-Guide-Intimacy/dp/9655727475;

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Bitachon #24.
Perek 4; circumstances requiring bitachon; for your physical well being; bitachon often requires action but not to "rely" on that action;

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