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Join Joe McDonald as he celebrates the freedom and liberation experienced by individuals on their recovery journey, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe highlights the importance of being free inside before being able to live free outside, sharing the powerful stories of those who have found inner freedom. These moments are always celebrated, whether publicly or privately, as milestones in the journey to full recovery. Joe asks if anyone is joining for the first time tonight, extending the invitation to new individuals who are starting their own path to freedom.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the importance of growing in understanding and effectiveness in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe emphasizes that it’s not just about the act of giving, but knowing when and how to give. He shares that we can only understand the right moments to give when we consult the Spirit and that our motive is just as important. Addressing the concern that people may use what they’re given to harm themselves, Joe reminds us that he was told to show respect to everyone who asked of him, leaving the rest to the Spirit.

Join Joe McDonald as he shares a relatable story about getting distracted by a “bright idea,” as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe recounts the story of a man who, after having a few words with his boss, got the idea to head out into the woods where car buyers that don’t come to dealerships might be. Joe humorously asks if anyone has ever had the same experience of coming up with a bright idea to leave where they’re supposed to be and head somewhere else. It’s a reminder that distractions can lead us off course, bu...

Join Joe McDonald as he addresses the harsh reality of alcoholism’s end result in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains the “hopeless feature of the malady,” which always ends in death, insanity, or institutionalization. Sometimes, it can include a combination of these outcomes. Joe emphasizes that if you truly understand the severity of the disease, you know this is where it leads. His message serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of staying committed to recovery.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses how the past, once seen as wasteful or shameful, can be transformed into something infinitely valuable, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that many of us have felt burdened by our pasts, but through recovery, we start to see how those experiences can be used to help others. He emphasizes the difference between being “recovered” and “recovering,” a distinction made multiple times in the Big Book. Joe encourages us to walk in our purpose, knowing that what was once painful has become a tool for freedom and service.

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Join Joe McDonald as he shares a powerful and unexpected encounter while walking through a mall, as told in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe recalls a woman who came directly to him, asking for exactly $8—the exact amount he had in his wallet at the time. Joe reflects on the moment, emphasizing that sometimes we’re entertaining angels without even realizing it. He reminds us that these moments of giving, even when they seem random or strange, are opportunities to act in alignment with the Spirit’s guidance.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses how to share your story in Alcoholics Anonymous without moralizing, as outlined in Step 12. Joe explains that when someone is not communicative, we should give them a sketch of our drinking career up to the time we quit, but without getting into the details of how we accomplished sobriety right away. He emphasizes the importance of sharing our experiences without lecturing or moralizing, allowing others to connect with us on a personal level rather than feeling judged. Joe humorously points out that sometimes, we use overly harsh terms about ourselves to avoid sounding...

Join Joe McDonald as he shares a moving story about an encounter that humbled him in his recovery journey, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe recounts how a man approached him with tears streaming down his face, sharing his struggles and why he couldn’t leave his situation. Moved by the Spirit, Joe gave the man the contents of his wallet and realized the lesson—he was not there to judge, but to heal, though he was not the healer. Joe reminds us that improved consciousness is essential in recovery, as we are called to be vessels for...

Join Joe McDonald as he explains the importance of service commitments and genuine connection in Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe shares how meetings before or after the main session are often the best times to really get to know someone. During the meeting, people tend to present the version of themselves they want others to see, but in smaller settings, like service commitments, people reveal who they truly are. Joe encourages us to engage in service and stay connected, as this helps build authentic relationships in recovery.

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Join Joe McDonald as he reflects on the importance of approach when carrying the message of recovery, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe shares that how we approach others determines the response we receive, a lesson learned from those who come from prison yards. He emphasizes that if someone is offended before they have the chance to hear the message, the opportunity is lost. Joe invites us to meditate on how we approach others in service, ensuring that we create the best opportunity for connection and understanding.

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Join Joe McDonald as he talks about the challenges of staying in recovery when the memory of suffering isn’t enough to stop us from launching out again, as outlined in Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that the two things that keep us trapped are the fading memory of suffering and the inability to stay in the present moment. He emphasizes the importance of discovering who we are, finding the power that has sent us, and sharing the manner of living that has helped so much in recovery. Joe also highlights the need to outline the program of action, explaining ho...

Join Joe McDonald as he dives into Step 12, emphasizing the importance of carrying the message to others and walking in redemption, as outlined in Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that after experiencing a spiritual awakening through the steps, our job is not just to claim redemption, but to live it and share it with others. He reminds us that the next chapter in our recovery is about putting faith into action, as faith without works is dead. Joe encourages us to offer our redemption to others, embodying the principles found within the steps.

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Join Joe McDonald as he clarifies a common misconception about spiritual progress in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that the Big Book isn’t talking about theology, but about a conscious, sensory relationship with the power that animates us. This is about feeling and sharing that power, not just talking about it. He emphasizes that both you and the new man must walk day by day in the path of spiritual progress—not just by having a “new guy,” but by experiencing spiritual growth yourself.

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Join Joe McDonald as he delves into the importance of making a self-appraisal and straightening out the past in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe emphasizes that credibility comes from having made a self-appraisal yourself, rather than just telling others what to do. He explains that while we are all working to straighten out our own pasts, helping others with their steps is part of this process. However, Joe reminds us that the true work of straightening out one’s past is between each individual and the power that animates them.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the importance of walking in faith and understanding alcoholism as a fatal illness in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that both faith and recovery require us to believe in things we cannot see, which is why improving our consciousness is essential. He also emphasizes that alcoholism is not just a condition of the mind but also of the body, referencing the doctor’s opinion that alcoholism may manifest as an allergy. Joe asks us to reflect on how alcohol, a sedative, paradoxically energized many of us, further complicating our understanding of the il...

Join Joe McDonald as he reflects on the importance of consulting the Spirit when deciding how and when to give, as taught in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe emphasizes that it’s not about assuming the outcome of our giving, but about our motive and the respect we show. He reminds us that sometimes we’re entertaining angels without realizing it, and that if we’re called to give, it’s because the Creator has ordained it. He shares how we must be guided by the Spirit and act with pure intentions, knowing that it’s not about what the recipi...

Join Joe McDonald as he shares the story of Jim, a man who didn’t start drinking until his thirties but quickly lost his business due to alcohol. Jim, once an entrepreneur, found himself taking a job at the car dealership he used to own, a humbling experience. Joe reflects on how Jim’s agitation mirrors the frustrations many of us face when we feel we’re in situations “less than” what we think we deserve. Even though Jim had a few words with his boss, it was nothing serious—just part of the journey of adjusting to a new reality...

Join Joe McDonald as he shares a powerful story of encountering someone who asked for exactly $8, reminding us that sometimes we’re entertaining angels without even knowing it. Joe explains that when the Big Book talks about burning the idea of recovery into consciousness, it’s about speaking life into others with depth and weight. This isn’t about impressing others with stories of the past, but about sharing the power that animates us, speaking from a place of truth that will resonate and come with force.

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Join Joe McDonald as he shares a heartfelt story about an unexpected encounter at a rest stop. While initially laughing at the sight of a beat-up trailer with a “Just Married” sign, Joe’s experience took a turn. He realized that the people inside were struggling, and despite his initial reaction, he felt compelled to give them everything in his wallet. This moment of spontaneous giving reminds us that Step 12 is about practicing these principles in all our affairs, including showing compassion and generosity where we least expect it.

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Join Joe McDonald as he celebrates a special milestone in the recovery community at New Freedom. Joe shares the story of John, who, after serving a life sentence, has been stepped down from house arrest to general parole for the first time in 33 years. Joe emphasizes the importance of these victories in recovery, reminding us that by the grace of a loving God and the support of the community, real transformation is possible.

In Alcoholics Anonymous, Step 12 is about carrying the message to others and recognizing the transformative power of recovery. Joe highlights that recovery...

Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the importance of sharing personal experiences in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that while some doctors, ministers, or hospitals may be hesitant to assist, those who truly know you and recognize your redemption will call upon you to help others. He reminds us not to start out as an evangelist or a reformer but to simply share what we were like, what happened, and what we are striving to be now. Joe emphasizes that every connection made in recovery is not by accident and that sharing your story is enough to help...

Join Joe McDonald as he shares insights on the mental condition surrounding the first drink, as discussed in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe emphasizes that this “queer mental condition” prevents normal functioning of willpower. He shares how even with clean time, a tough week can bring the temptation to let off steam by having a few drinks, illustrating the mental battles many face in recovery. Joe asks us to reflect on how often our minds lead us into situations where our willpower alone isn’t enough to stay sober.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the delicate balance of conversation when helping others in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that sometimes, we want to let off steam, but doing so can lead to significant consequences. He highlights the importance of not labeling someone as an alcoholic during the early stages of conversation, and instead allowing them to draw their own conclusions. Joe reminds us that we’re not powerful enough to argue with the voice of addiction, but we can speak to the part of them that wants to live.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the practical approach to helping others in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains how most of us meet people in recovery settings, through family members, or by simply being asked for help. He emphasizes the importance of engaging in general conversation first, as outlined on page 91 of the Big Book. Joe also highlights that the moment we humble ourselves to ask someone for help, we are already in Step 12—this step is all-inclusive in its nature. Helping others is not just a part of recovery, but the very foundation of it.

Join Joe McDonald as he emphasizes the importance of intensive work with others in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that practical experience shows nothing will ensure immunity from drinking more than this intensive work with fellow alcoholics. He highlights the promise and the condition—that other activities may fail, but working closely with others in recovery is key. Joe reminds us that emotional and mental challenges will come, but the support and connection we build through service will help us stay grounded and strong.

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Join Captain Lee as he opens the meeting with a powerful prayer, giving praise and thanks for the victories in recovery. This prayer acknowledges that all glory belongs to our Higher Power, reminding us that without divine guidance, we are nothing. Captain Lee offers thanks for the lives transformed through recovery and asks for continued strength to walk through the doors that only our Higher Power can open. This prayer sets the tone for recognizing the power and victory within us as we step into who we are truly called to be.

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Join Joe McDonald as he shares the powerful lesson of the Good Samaritan, relating it to Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that the Good Samaritan, although unlikely and even forbidden to help, could not walk past his brother who was beaten by the side of the road. Instead, he stopped, tended to his wounds, and took responsibility for his care. This story reminds us that in recovery, we are called to take ownership of the care of our brothers and sisters, even when it’s inconvenient or unexpected.

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Join Joe McDonald as he shares the powerful message that everyone in recovery has a calling, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe emphasizes that if you’re in New Freedom, you are called to deliver this message to thousands of people, reminding them of their infinite value—despite what life circumstances may have taught them. He encourages us to awaken to this truth, even when the world conspires to convince us otherwise.

In Alcoholics Anonymous, Step 12 is about carrying the message of recovery to others and living by spiritual principles. Joe reminds us that...

Join Joe McDonald as he reflects on the powerful experience of seeing the world differently through recovery, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe asks, why do the authors say “this is an experience you must not miss” instead of “a sight”? He explains that when we begin to see things differently, we also feel them—because truth has a feel. Joe emphasizes that this feeling of truth is the power we call God, and it’s a transformative part of the recovery journey.

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Join Joe McDonald as he delves into the promises of Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous, where helping others becomes the foundation stone of recovery. Joe explains that a simple kind act every now and then is not enough—being of service may require great sacrifices, including the loss of sleep, interruptions to your life, and sharing your resources with others. It may mean countless trips to jails, hospitals, and even asylums, but this is the work we do in recovery. Joe asks us to reflect on how many of us have been to these places and how strangers have shown up...

Join Joe McDonald as he shares insights into the spiritual journey of recovery in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that, much like addiction takes over when we feed it, recovery begins to take control when we put the spirit of recovery inside us. This spirit once sought to devour us, but now it guides us toward healing. He emphasizes that newcomers to recovery are relieved to find that AA is not about judgment but about support and understanding—people seeking to help, not condemn.

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Join Joe McDonald as he reflects on the promise of living in a new and wonderful world by following the dictates of a Higher Power, as outlined in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe asks participants to recall moments when their external circumstances—such as prison, homelessness, or hospitalization—didn’t immediately change, but their attitude shifted dramatically. He emphasizes that our external situations don’t define us, but the power within us will guide us through. This promise of internal transformation, regardless of circumstances, is a key aspect of recovery.

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Join Joe McDonald as he explains why prayer and meditation are essential in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe shares that when we speak to the divine within us, we receive answers through intuitive thoughts or decisions. He emphasizes that we won’t take these actions unless we know it’s real. Drawing from personal stories, Joe highlights the importance of empowering people to connect with the power that animates them, rather than making them dependent on us. This is crucial, especially for those who come from homelessness or situations where they had to ask for everything.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the progressive nature of recovery and spiritual awakening in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that, just as addiction is progressive, so is recovery. He reflects on the powerful experience of watching people recover, seeing them help others, and witnessing the growth of a fellowship around you. Joe highlights the importance of not missing out on this experience, encouraging participants to pay close attention to the intentional language used in the Big Book of AA.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the importance of taking personal responsibility in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains how in environments like prison, choices are taken away, leading people to feel powerless. However, in recovery, we learn that we matter, and our choices are significant. Joe emphasizes that helping others is the foundation stone of recovery. He reminds us that we must not avoid responsibility but be sure that we are doing the right thing by consulting with both the people we’re helping and the spirit within us. This ensures that our actions are aligned with our Hi...

Join Joe McDonald as he explores the importance of prayer and the proper attitude to have when approaching it, as outlined in Steps 10 and 11 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe emphasizes that prayer works if we have the right attitude and are willing to work at it. He asks what the proper attitude is, explaining that the book provides the answer—prayer isn’t about just avoiding behavior, but about addressing the thinking that leads to it. Joe also reflects on how the grace we experience throughout the day gives us a chance to clean up our thoughts and actions, helping us f...

Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the critical role of service in Step 12 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that within each of us, there is a voice that wants us to live and another that wants us to die. The voice that has led us to destruction is the reason we find ourselves in recovery. But there is also a voice of life, and we must listen to it and walk in the freedom that comes from serving others. Joe emphasizes that the reason faith without works is dead is because faith must be demonstrated through action—and that ac...

Join Chaplain Lee as he opens the session with a powerful prayer, inviting the presence of the Holy Spirit to guide the meeting. The room is filled with gratitude and a request for divine clarity and power. This session reminds us of the importance of connecting with our Higher Power and allowing spiritual strength to rise within us. The prayer sets the tone for another transformative night at New Freedom, as participants seek guidance and strength to continue on their recovery journey.

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Join Joe McDonald as he discusses the importance of using spiritual tools in Steps 10 and 11 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe reflects on how early in the program, Ebby shared a set of spiritual tools with Bill, emphasizing that we must pick them up willingly and consciously. Joe explains that to move into a conscious relationship with a Higher Power, we must do so intentionally—it can’t happen by accident or trickery. He also reminds us that after making our daily review, we ask for God’s forgiveness and inquire about the corrective measures we should take to stay spiritually aligne...

Join Joe McDonald as he shares practical wisdom on facing indecision, as outlined in Steps 10 and 11 of Alcoholics Anonymous. Joe explains that it’s common to face moments of uncertainty, whether you’re new to the program or have been walking the path for years. On days when we don’t know which course to take, Joe encourages us to simply ask God for inspiration: “God, inspire me.” This simple prayer allows us to seek spiritual guidance, and the answer often comes to us as an intuitive thought or decision. Joe emphasizes that walking the spiritual path is simple, but it req...