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The holiday rush is about to start. Hal and Melanie Young on keeping Thanksgiving and Christmas centered on Christ, and still making them a joy.

Thanksgiving only makes sense if there’s Someone to thank. Christmas is the celebration of Jesus’ birth. But between now and New Year’s, the shopping, the cooking, the travel and the calendar can crowd out the very thi...

It’s one of the most common questions we get – “How can I get my kids to work?” Surveys find that a large number of families don’t expect their kids to do chores – and many that do, have a running battle over getting them done cheerfully. This episode, we’re talking about a balanced, Biblical attitude toward our children’s work (as well as our own), and what we can do to encourage them in it!

“How in the world do I get my kids to work?” Hal and Melanie Young hear this question all the time, and in...

If you have more than one child, then chances are the decision to start homeschooling carries the question, “How can I teach more than one grade level at a time?” This episode, we talk about practical lessons we learned along the way of homeschooling six grades at once … with a toddler in the mix, too!

A father at a homeschool conference asked Hal and Melanie Young the question nearly every new homeschool parent is quietly wondering: How in the world do you teach different children on different grade levels at the same tim...

News from the government and public schools has been disturbing recently, and homeschool organizations are reporting an increase in inquiries from families who are now considering moving away from the public school option. There are always questions though – is this legal here? Will my kids be able to get into college or a job one day? Will my family turn out weird?

This episode, we’ll share some of our own observations from over twenty years of homeschooling our own family – and maybe encourage you to take a serious look at homeschooling your own!

Thinking About...

Hal and Melanie have been on this network since nearly the beginning. Felice met them on the conference circuit, asked if they would podcast, and they said yes — and they are still here thirteen years later.

For the network’s birthday, every host answers one question a real homeschool mom actually asked. This is that episode.

Their question: “Your boys will not sit still, and you are out of ideas.”

You know the answer if you have been listening a while, but it never stops being true: boys need to move, and the...

Helping Your Perfectionist Child

Melanie’s phone rang. It was their son, away at college, nearly hysterical.

He was going to get an A-minus. If you’re raising a perfectionist child, you know that phone call in your bones.

If you have a child like that — the one who bursts into tears over a missed problem, who won’t try anything unless he already knows he’ll be good at it, who announces he’s “terrible at everything” the moment something is hard — this episode is for you. Hal and Melanie Young take on perfectionism i...

Family Worship That Actually Works | What to Actually Do

Last week we talked about why family worship matters and why it’s so hard. You came away convinced. Then Monday morning arrives, everybody’s on the couch, and the question hits: what do we actually do for the next fifteen minutes?

Hal and Melanie Young — parents of ten — walk through exactly that. Not a theory of family devotions, but the pieces you can pick from, and permission to leave most of them out on any given day.

The building blocks:

You know you should be having family devotions. You’ve started three times this year. Somebody bounced on the couch the whole time, somebody else couldn’t stop giggling, and by Thursday it had quietly disappeared again — along with a fresh layer of guilt.

Family Worship Without the Guilt: Making Devotions Stick This School Year

Hal and Melanie Young have been there. In this episode they talk honestly about why family worship is so hard, why it matters more than you can see right now, and how to build a rhythm that survives a real week i...

It’s that time again — the planners are out, the curriculum catalogs are dog-eared, and the pressure is building. Before you map out every minute of the coming year, Hal and Melanie Young want to give you some relief, some freedom, and a whole lot of grace.

In this back-to-school favorite, Hal and Melanie share the planning approach that carried them through 25+ years and five graduates (all offered academic scholarships): plan well, but hold your plans with humility and flexibility. They walk through the “big rocks” principle — if you fill your jar with sand first, the important things nev...

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Boys and Noise: Managing a Houseful of Energetic Boys

“Got boys? Then probably, you’ve got noise!” This week Hal and Melanie Young open up an email from a desperate homeschooling mom of four boys, all eight and under — two quiet, peace-loving firstborn parents completely overwhelmed by the volume, the wrestling, and the endless bickering. As parents of six boys themselves, Hal and Melanie have been exactly there, and they walk through what actually helps.

The heart...

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Happily Married While Homeschooling?

Happily Married and Homeschooling, podcast episode of Making Biblical Family Life Practical with Hal & Melanie Young.

Everyone tells you that homeschooling isn’t an educational choice, but a lifestyle! Should we be surprised if we discover that homeschooling has an impact on our marriage? It’s true, and if we’re not watchful, our marriage could be a weak...

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On the eve of the mid-term elections, how do we talk about the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity? How can we help keep the next generation from trading our hard-won freedom for supposed security or momentary gain? Do we appreciate the importance of even these small local races that clutter up the bottom of the ballot? Join us as we share some of the things...

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It’s almost summer and water safety is a big concern. Peter walked on water when Jesus called him (Matthew 14) but most of us don’t have that direct command! We share some thoughts about how we train our kids to be safe around the lake, pool, or beach – even if you can’t afford a country-club swim instructor. It’s important!

When You Can’t...

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Boy Question Free-for-All | Making Biblical Family Life Practical

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Summer Movies and Christian Discernment

The summer movie season is fast approaching and lots of our kids are will be lining up at the Multiplex for one opening night after another. How do you choose appropriate movies for your family, or give reasonable guidance to your youngsters, or is there a framework for a Christian to really engage the cinema at all? Join...

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Cheap Family Travel Tips for Large Families (Without Breaking the Budget)

Looking for affordable family travel ideas that actually work for large families? Whether you’re planning a homeschool field trip, ministry travel, a family vacation, or traveling for work, there are ways to travel well on a budget. In this episode of Making Biblical Family Life Practical, Hal and Melanie Young share...

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Boys and Books: How to Help Boys Love Reading (and What They’ll Actually Read)

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Struggling to get your son to read? You’re not alone—and you’re not without options.

In this episode, Hal and Melanie Young tackle a question many h...

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Boy-Friendly Homeschooling

In this episode of Making Biblical Family Life Practical, Raising Real Men founders Hal and Melanie Young share practical, encouraging strategies for homeschooling boys in a way that works with their design—not against it.

If you’ve ever wondered why your son struggles to sit still, resist worksheets, or stay focused… this conversation wil...

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Electronics and Temptation: Christian Parenting in a Digital World

Technology is part of everyday life—but that doesn’t mean families should approach it casually.

In this episode of Making Biblical Family Life Practical, Hal and Melanie Young discuss how Christian families can think wisely about electronics, internet access, gaming, and digital temptation. From internet safety and screen habits to accountabi...

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Kids need discipline, and in fact, God tells us that a child who doesn’t receive discipline has been rejected by his parents! (Hebrews 12) Discipline, after all, is discipleship – it’s meant to teach, not just punish. But there are good and very bad ideas for administering the needed correction to our kids. How can you discipline your child without breaking their spirit? That’s what we’re...

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“Mom, I think I’m an atheist.” That was the chilling announcement from the back of the van, from our nine-year-old child. Spiritual doubts may arise at any time, especially with young teens, and this episode we’re talking about some practical things you can do to help shepherd your young person through this stormy time.

Spiritual Doubt and Your Kids

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“What makes you think you’re qualified to homeschool?”

That’s one of the frequently asked questions, isn’t it? And if nobody in your family, church, or neighborhood asks — you’ll probably ask yourself. Don’t you have to have a teacher’s certificate to really be a teacher? Shouldn’t you go to college and get an education degree first? Or is the credential less important for a homeschool than a classroom?

This episode, we’re taking a listener’s question and talking about homeschooling with confidence – without specialized training or professional certification...

Motivating Boys to Write (Replay)

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Does your son hate writing?

If every writing assignment turns into frustration, avoidance, or even tears—you’re not alone.

This episode will help you understand why boys struggle with writing—and what actually works.

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If you’re homeschooling a boy (or just helping your son with his homework!) you’ve probably seen his frustration about writing. Yet the ability to put thoughts i...

Dealing With Conflict With Tweens and Teens: Anger, Hormones, and Staying the Adult in the Room

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“Is it normal for a nine-year-old boy to be angry?”

In this episode, Hal and Melanie Young respond to a parent’s honest question—with a big backstory behind it. Family stress, pressure, and emotional overload can collide with early puberty changes and create what the Youngs call the “rage monster years.” The good news: while it can feel sca...

Husbands and Dads: Love Like Jesus

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Teaching Adulting: How to Prepare Teens for Real-Life Responsibility (Replay)

Studies show that young adults are often not prepared for adult independence. Psychologists say the current generation is growing up slowly, and some even say “Twenty-five is the new fifteen”!* But if our parents and grandparents were functioning adults at 18 or 20, why can’t our kids be the same? This episode we’re talking about how to teach adult skills intentionally to our teenagers – and what to do if they graduated before you were done teaching!

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Choosing Meaningful Gifts for the Family

We like the whole giving-and-receiving tradition of Christmas because it celebrates God’s greatest gift – His Son, bringing His grace — and face it, it’s just fun! But sometimes we get discouraged at not just the commercialization of the holiday, but how thoughtless and mechanical that gift buying can become. This episode we’ll talk about how you make this tradition more meaningful for the giver and the receiver alike.

Be sure to check out our gift guide at Raising Real Men.

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This week we’re talking about gift giving – it’s Biblical, you know!  But how do you manage it without being immersed in the commercialism of a secular holiday, while glorifying God and having fun together? We’ve found that being more intentional and deliberate in choosing gifts and even in how we open them together, and encouraging our children to think of people rather than stuff at Christmas, has great benefits!

Biblical Passages We Mentioned

The wise men who brought gifts to Jesus – Matthew 2:1-11

Celebrating Thanksgiving: Christ-Centered Traditions & History

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Thanksgiving is one of the few holidays that still says what it means—giving thanks. But how do we move it beyond food, football, and stress, and turn it into a joyful, Christ-centered family tradition?

In this episode, Hal and Melanie share how you can reclaim Thanksgiving as a time of purposeful remembrance, gratitude, and witness to your extended family—without losing the fun or the feast.

In This Episode, We Talk About:

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Most of our eight kids are adults now and we are so blessed to have good relationships with all of them – and they all get along with their siblings, too!  Some people ask if they’ve always been peaceable, and we have to say NOPE. But we found several things along the way that helped shape the sort of family we have today – that’s the subject of this episode!

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Where do wars and fights come from among you? Do they not come from your desires for pleasure that war in your...

Christians and Jews are sometimes called “People of the Book” because we rest our beliefs on the written word of God. It’s natural for a new believer to have a new desire to read the Bible — but there are a lot of different versions on the shelf! What makes them different? Which Bible is best for new believers? What would we recommend for young readers? We’ve used many different Bibles over the years, and this episode we’re talking about what we’ve experienced, what we used with our family, and what we’d recommend for someone new...

After the shocking and tragic death of Charlie Kirk last month, there was an unexpected tide of people online who found themselves drawn to God in a way they never had. Some had left the church of their childhood years ago, while others had never been in church at all! Suddenly they felt a call to be in church now. And many had questions – how do I approach this? Do I need an invitation? What’s expected of me? This episode, we’ll look at some common questions and give some good news for those whose hearts are st...

On October 31, 1517, a young theologian and priest named Martin Luther posted a list of debate questions on the door of the university church in Wittemburg, Germany. What was intended as a invitation for scholars and theologians to meet and consider, became the starting point of a sweeping reformation of Christ’s church – and led to a life-and-death decision for the young Brother Martin. Our family takes time each year to remember the heroism of one man who stood up for the authority of God’s word against the challenge of an emperor, when that stand could have cost h...

Halloween and the Reformation

Halloween and the Reformation may not seem to have much in common. What does Halloween have to do with the Reformation? In this episode listen as you learn about Halloween alternatives.

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Among the secular holidays, Halloween probably is the most controversial … with good reas...

Rules are a good and necessary part of running a home and raising a family.

Why do our best efforts sometimes breed resentment or even rebellion, when it’s all so well-intentioned? This episode we’re looking at the crucial balance between rules and relationship in our home!

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If God has called you to teach your children at home, that’s what you need to do! But it’s easier if everyone around you is cheering you on. What do you do if your parents or in-laws or extended family are skeptical? How do you and your family keep on the path when there are headwinds? How do you handle questions, criticisms, or other opposition? And what can you do to find the encouragement you’re not getting from the family?

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Christianity, Homeschooling, and Patriotism (Replay)

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Episode Theme: How Christians can love their earthly country without confusing it with their true citizenship in heaven—and how to teach those principles at home.

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Hal (former military) and Melanie talk candidly about the tension some believers feel around “God and country.” As Christians, our first allegiance is to Christ and His Kingdom—yet Scripture also calls us to seek the peace and good of the place where God has...

Teen Boys Who Hate School? Why It Happens—and What Actually Helps (MBFLP #178)

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Episode: #178

Title: Teen Boys Who Hate School? Why It Happens—and What Actually Helps

Hosts: Hal & Melanie Young

Do you have a teen boy who drags his feet, loses focus, or declares he’s “just not a school person”? You’re not alone. In this episode of Making Biblical Family Life Practical, Hal & Melanie explain what’s going on under the hood (hello, brain remodeli...

You spend years teaching your sons right from wrong, good manners instead of bad, and all the right social skills. Yet in a super-sensitive time, even a hint of misbehavior toward a female – sometimes just an accusation – can affect the rest of their lives! When you’ve worked hard to keep your son’s conscience clear and his life innocent … how can you keep him from stumbling into trouble he didn’t deserve? This episode, we’re talking about training your son how to keep his life above reproach – and sometimes, making hard choices because they’re not only right, bu...

Part 2 – Making Competition Helpful, Not Harmful

When you’ve got more than one child, you are going to have challenges. How can you teach them to play together and enjoy games without the older ones overrunning the younger? We had six boys over a twelve-year span, so we had to figure this out! This episode, we’re talking about some practical ways to make family competition helpful, not harmful.

Games, sports, and competition are Biblical. Remember the Bible often describes our Christian lives as a race (Acts 20:24, 2 Timothy 4:7, Hebrews 12:1). The apostle Paul points out tha...