90 Day Fiance Mmkay

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By: Miss H and Mr O

Brought to you by your favorite high school teachers: Miss H and Mr O. Miss H has been riding this Hot Mess Express since day 1, and Mr O hopped on (or was dragged on) at the last stop. Join them for snark and teachable moments on every 90 day journey!

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The Worst Thing That Has Ever Happened
#377
Today at 12:38 AM

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 8 episode 4 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. On this episode, we meet Michelle, who's partners father has weird boundaries, Vittorio wants to yell at but not discuss things with Jessy in public, Niles brings presents for Matilda, but forgets presents for Mr Arc, John just keeps whining about how being asked about getting a job and saving money is just too much, and we (but not Andi) finally get to meet Nigels "lover" Azreal.

We will be back next week to talk about Episode 5 of 90 Day...


No More Squishing, Please
#376
10/20/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 8 episode 3 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. On this episode, Ben forces Zuri to totally immerse herself in French, Andi and Nigel walk barefoot through a store, Jessy and Vittorio debate if omitting the truth is a lie, Niles finds out Matilda has been squirreling money, and John gets mad about the picture Ally is painting him to her friends.

We will be back next week to talk about Episode 4 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.

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I Just Forgot to Tell You
#375
10/14/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 8 episode 2 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. We meet Zuri, who is going to France to contend with some ice throwing friends of her partner Benjamin, Andi and Nigel have a flash mob in the airport that may or may not be related to Nigel's lifestyle, Jessy finds out she's going to live in a Tuscan villa and isn't happy about it at all, Nigel gets in touch with Mr. Arc who is again arranging his affairs, and John sure seems to have a lot of steps between...


Secrets, Babies, and Cringey Lovers
#374
10/06/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 8 premiere of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way. In this episode, Niles doesn't tell Matilda he's moving to Ghana, Jessy defends her choice to move to Italy to be with Vittorio, Andi proceeds to be uneasy about moving to be with her boyfriend Nigel after all the red flags, and John isn't about Ally telling him what to do. 

We will be back next week to talk about Episode 2 of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.

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Bad Acting and Bad Framing
#373
09/29/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Tell All Part 3 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Mallorie and Rasit finish up with their segment, Debby explains Mido's lack of sense of humor to everyone, Thomas defends his non-negotiables to the rest of the cast, Ashia is getting tired of arguing with her godbrother Rod, and Marissa and Edward start to discuss baby options. 

We will be back next week to talk about Episode one of 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way.

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Closing Time
#372
09/22/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Tell All Part 2 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Edward starts to think that not having kids is a mistake, Rasit continues to ruin Thomas' day with vaping in the van, and Josh continues to look after Catie's childish behavior.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Tell All Part 3 of 90 Day Fiance.

If you watch Love After Lockup, check out our other podcast channel Love After Lockup Haha, mmkay, where we'll be covering the new season of Love After Lockup: h...


Aggressive Perfume Hugs
#371
09/15/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Tell All Part 1 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Marissa gets grilled for thinking she's too smart for Edward, Rasit ruins Thomas' day as a pranky greeting, Annabelle doesn't really seem to care what anyone else has to say, and Catie cannot handle the mildest amount of heat without lashing out. 

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Tell All Part 2 of 90 Day Fiance.

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Won't Someone Think of the Bullies?
#370
09/08/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 18 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Mido posts a picture of Debbie on his social media, Edward's family is impressed by Marissa's mom, Rasit and Mallorie strengthen their relationships with her mom and Brandy, Maxwell and Ashia say a prayer, Josh isn't sure if Catie is going to show up to their wedding, and Paula and Thomas make it down the aisle.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Episode 19 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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Welcome to Dominican Barbershop
#369
09/01/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 17 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Mido finds a band to play at the wedding, Marissa is less sure about her wedding as it gets closer, Rasit breaks out into tears when he meets Mallorie's mom, Maxwell and his new hair make it to the altar with Ashia, Josh and Catie are both not sure she can give up the ho life, and Paula can't decide if she wants to stay on this roller coaster of a relationship.

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Hold On with Two Hands!
#368
08/25/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episodes 16 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episodes, Mallorie and Rasit have a bachelor/bachelorette party, Josh dresses like a Spice Girl, Annabelle and Shea exchange vows, Ashia is determined to marry Maxwell, Paula threatens to go back to Brazil, and Marissa's mom has concerns about money.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Episode 17 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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4 Days Just Isn't Enough Time
#367
08/18/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episodes 15 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episodes, Mallorie and Rasit agree to no prenup, Catie has 4 days to pull off a DIY wedding, Annabelle meets Shea's other daughters, Paula adds one more family member to the apartment, Marissa and Edward are fighting about vibes, and Mido meets Debbie's son.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Episode 16 of 90 Day Fiance. 

If you watch Love After Lockup, check out our other podcast channel Love After Lockup Haha, mmkay, where we'll be covering t...


10 People and 800 Square Feet
#366
08/11/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episodes 13-14 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episodes, Mallorie and Rasit's venue shopping doesn't go well because of the children question, Catie has an open-minded suggestion to open her relationship, Shea finally gets Annabelle and Alison to make up, Paula squeezes too many people into the apartment with rude host Thomas, Ashia's plan to get Maxwell a job is for Rod to hook him up, Marissa can't stop Edward from taking their conversations to deep dark places, and Mido doesn't need cooking lessons because he can do everything...


Chaos, Surprises, and MILFs
#365
07/27/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episodes 11-12 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Catie once again dismisses Josh, Mido "surprises" Debbie, Paula and Thomas work on getting to a good place with his dad and step mom, Shea takes Annabelle to church, Ashia invites her family to Nigeria for her wedding to Maxwell, Marissa and Edward talk about their future, and Mallorie tells Rashit that she's not interested in parenthood.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Episode 13 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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I Don't Want to Be Your Friend
#364
07/13/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 10 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Mido and Debbie are back on the path to marriage with no changes, Paula and Thomas want to get everyone to their wedding, Shea keeps on partying despite Annabel's wishes, Catie isn't sure what she wants from Josh or life, Ashia and Maxwell figure out how to overcome his family's objections, Marissa doesn't like the person she is when she's near Edward, and Rasit refuses yet again to be a normal person when Brandon is around. 

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Lake Shea and Ghost Ships
#363
07/06/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 9 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Shea gets drunk and starts just sending money to young women, Catie is dealing with the mental and physical aftermath of her birthday party, Ashia and Maxwell make up and decide which visa to go for, Mallorie asks for a prenup, and Edward has to study up on New York City skyscrapers if he's going to be the man.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Episode 10 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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Needs vs Wants
#362
06/29/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 8 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode Marissa isn't too thrilled with Edward's handywork, Aisha disrespects Maxwell's family, Catie is being rejected by men other than Josh, Paula buys a tiny couch because Thomas won't buy her a real one, Rashit and Mallorie go bidet shopping, and Annabelle insists that Shea evict his ex's belongings from the shed.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Epsiode 9 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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Respect & Loyalty
#361
06/23/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 7 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episodes, Marissa and Edward meet the family, Aisha is trying to makeover Maxwell, Catie making out with a friend in front of Josh isn't a deal breaker, Thomas is nervous about giving Paula a credit card, Rashit and Mallorie disagree on a friendship with Brandy, Shea tries to preemptively prepare Annabelle for more drunken secrets, and Mido and Debbie are both mad, but not quite sure why.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Epsiode 8 of 90 Day...


Sitting on a Man's Tailgate - Uninvited
#360
06/16/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episodes 5 and 6 of 90 Day Fiance. In these episodes, Marissa gets to see Edwards new package in person for the first time, Aisha's mom annoys her all the way to Africa, Catie thinks that the concept of dining tables are stupid, Thomas superglues Paula's perfume, Rashit confronts Brandon about deleting Mallorie's number, Annabelle wants answers from Angie about Shea's Cheating, and Mido gets a C+ in acting.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Epsiode 7 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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It Was Only a Kiss, How Did It End Up Like This?
#359
06/02/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 4 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Debby and Mido upgrade their apartment and downgrade their relationship, Rashit and Mallorie have a flirty fun time traveling on a four leg flight, Paula doesn't think that Thomas made enough room for her in his life, Shea comes clean to Annabelle to get his side of the story out there, and Aisha gets advice from a prophetess and some geese. 

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Epsiode 5 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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Daddy Can I Have $10
#358
05/25/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 3 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, We meet minimalist Thomas and maximalist Paula who want to prove that opposites can work, Mido makes it to the US and shows us his DeNiro impression, Marissa enjoys one last moment of Zen before Edward's arrival brings the chaos, Annabelle is not a fan of Shea's jealous daughter Alison, Catie is suffering from some serious hangxiety after blacking out last night, and Rashit's family reminds him how much help his parents still need.

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"Loose" Cannons
#357
05/19/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 2 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, Marissa promises her sons a puppy when Edward moves in, Shea gets a scrub down from Annabell, Aisha doesn't take no for an answer, Debbie can't wait for her actor fiance Mido to move to the US, and Catie lets her many makeout partners meet Josh.

We will be back next week to talk about Season 12, Epsiode 3 of 90 Day Fiance. 

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Making out with Strangers
#356
05/12/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss Season 12 Episode 1 of 90 Day Fiance. In this episode, we meet most of the new cast. Marissa is worried that her executive lifestyle might be too much of a change for Edward, Shea seems to have his daughter and his vengeful ex ready to break him up with Annabell, Aisha spends most of the episode speaking in tongues to pray for Maxwell, Rasit has no idea what kind of redneck culture is waiting for him in Alabama with Mallorie, and Catie just can't stop making out with people when she's...


Do Not Recycle
#355
05/06/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 tell all part 2of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. In this episode, Emma tries to stay relevant by fighting with Elise, Sheena is caught in another lie, or maybe misunderstanding, Lisa finds another Nigerian soulmate, neither Aviva nor Stig have actual evidence, and Rick proves how terrible he is by trying to reuse his ex's sex sheet with Trish. 

We will be back next week to talk about the new season of 90 Day Fiance. 

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The Curse of the African Priest
#354
04/28/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 tell all part 1of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. In this episode, we get a quick update on everyone, then jump into Emma's sister throwing her under the bus, Birkan winning the exact amount of money he needed to get out of debt, a secret scene of Jovon showing all the prejudices at once, and Lisa and Daniel having their relationship decided when Lisa didn't know about it

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Tell all part 2 of Before the 90 Days. 


#Single
#353
04/21/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 19 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. In this episode, Aviva and Stig end things, Elise and Josh end things, Lisa and Daniel end things, Forrest says good bye and leaves his favorite hat with Sheena, Birkan proposes to Laura with a string, Rick will do anything for Trish except block his ex, and Anna wakes up Jovon to tell him he's going to be a dad.  

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 20 of Before the 90 Days. 

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Abs are Cool, Sailing is Cool...
#352
04/14/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 18 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. In this episode, Stig wants to move closer to his ex in Houston, Elise's facetime dreams get dashed, Laura tries to win Birkan back, Jovon gets Anna what she wants on his time, Rick can't let go of his ex, and Forrest goes back and forth about where he's going to live. 

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 19 of Before the 90 Days. 

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Older Not Wiser
#351
04/06/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 17 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. In this episode, Elise tries to make Josh pasta, Lisa complains that Daniel doesn't do oral, Forrest and Sheena tell Forrest's mom they're planning on staying, Birkan refuses to talk to Laura, Jovon doesn't want to spend money on a ring for Annalynn, and Rick is caught texting his ex again.

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 18 of Before the 90 Days. 

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Hey Everyone in the Bar: Am I Crazy?
#350
03/31/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 16 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. In this episode, Emma is still around, and gets Ziad to meet her, Elise wants to meet with Nat and makes a huge scene, Aviva and Stig get the results of her pregnancy test, an oracle / shaman shouts incantations at Lisa, Forrest and Sheena try their best to be sexy for each other, and Rick keeps trying to run out the clock on the baby question. 

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 17 of B...


Not Not Trying
#349
03/24/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 15 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Trish's family laughs at Rick's village living, Lisa and Daniel ask for his uncle's blessing again, Elise cries and Josh does a 180 and leaves, Birkan starts to warm up to Laura's friend Michael, Aviva and Stig suspect she might be pregnant, and Emma finally gives up on Moroccan men. 

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 16 of Before the 90 Days. 

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Evil and Annoying People
#348
03/17/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 14 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Rick makes his way to Trish's village and immediately starts alienating her family, Jovon and Annalyn promise to be a little bit less like themselves to make their relationship smoother, Lisa and Daniel do their best to be the worse person in the relationship, Forrest and Sheena get some tough news from an immigration lawyer, and Elise flirts fights with Josh and his friends. 

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 15 o...


Team No One
#347
03/10/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 13 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Lisa final tells Daniel that she was married to a woman, Rick gets mad at the mere mention of Trish's ex, Elise starts making a list of demands for Josh, Jovon tells Annalyn that she's getting too comfortable, Birkan meets Laura's best friend Michael, and Emma tries desperately to stay on the show by trying to meet up with her ex fiance Mohammad.

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 14 of...


Rolling in Sh*t (Lies)
#346
03/03/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 12 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Lisa attempts to come clean to Daniel about her current marriage, Forrest gives his mom an ultimatum about Sheena, Aviva isn't sure who to believe, Rick thinks he still has a chance in bed with Trish, and Elise tries to be the cool girlfriend after a very long flight. 

We will be back in two weeks to talk about the Season 8 Episode 13 of Before the 90 Days. 

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Dancing For the King
#345
02/25/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 11 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Lisa and Daniel visit the king, Ziad breaks up with Emma, Forrest proposes to Sheena, Aviva's family threatens Stig to show Aviva incriminating pictures, Laura's friend has reservations over Birkan, and Elise anticipates meeting her Australian boyfriend Josh who is 39 and still lives at home. 

We will be back in two weeks to talk about the Season 8 Episode 12 of Before the 90 Days. 

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Closing the Barn Door
#344
02/17/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 10 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Daniel blames Lisa for his lying, Jovon is jealous of Annalyn's house, Ziad is cold and is acting cold towards Emma, Sheena tries to compromise with Forrest over access to her bank account, Stig thinks this might not be the best time to breed Aviva after all, and Birkan makes it pretty clear to Laura that he can't be told what to do.

We will be back in two weeks to talk about the Season 8 Episode 11...


Shut Up, Rick
#343
02/03/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 9 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Daniel makes it pretty clear he is dating Lisa's wig and not her, Annalyn points out what a downer Jovon is, Rick tells Trish about his cheating and she tells him to shut up, Ziad and Emma learn the difference between dessert and desert, and Laura finds out how bad Birkan's gambling really is.

We will be back in two weeks to talk about the Season 8 Episode 10 of Before the 90 Days. There is no new episode...


Liars Who Lie
#342
01/26/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 8 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Lisa lies to Daniel's uncle to cover her lies to Daniel, Jovon's podcasts tell him that providing is enough romance for anyone, Sheena gets confronted with her lies about her "abusive" parents, Rick tries to keep his relationship with Trish going even though she clearly wants kids soon, and Laura finds out about Birkan's gambling habit

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 9 of Before the 90 Days.

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Coco Nuts
#341
01/19/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 7 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Sheena and Forrest get a blessing, Daniel tries to school Lisa, Aviva is disengaged at Stig's show, Rick refuses to buy Trish a bathing suit, and Birkan tries to romance his way out of Laura's suspicions.

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 8 of Before the 90 Days.

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0% Chance at Love
#340
01/13/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 6 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Sheena and Forrest squeeze into a bus, Lisa and Daniel share a disturbing kiss, Aviva starts to question Stig's commitment, Emma and Ziad can't decide which one of them is the liar, Rick gives Trisha the third degree over her ex, Birkan comes clean about his money situation, and Jovon thinks Annalynn is unhinged again over a hypothetical baby. 

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 7 of Before the 90 Days.


Going Through a Bad Breakup (x3)
#339
01/06/2026

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 5 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Sheena tells Forrest they need her parents' blessing, Laura takes Birkan to the plastic surgeon's office, Ziad and Emma are suspicious of one another, Daniel tries to consume Lisa's face, and Jovon finally meets his wife Annalyn.

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 6 of Before the 90 Days.

If you watch Love After Lockup, check out our other podcast channel Love After Lockup Haha, mmkay, which will be back...


Your First Time Visiting Your Wife
#338
12/29/2025

On this podcast episode, Miss H and Mr O discuss season 8 episode 4 of 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days. On this episode, Forrest shuts his mom down when she starts listing sex acts at him and Sheena, Laura is taken by Birkan's quirky philosopher's mind, Ziad doesn't want to hear about Emma's past, Lisa still might want to marry Daniel even though she promised she wouldn't, and we meet Jovon, who still hasn't met his wife of 3 (or 2) years.

We will be back next week to talk about the Season 8 Episode 5 of Before the 90 Days.

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