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By: the Girl Named Blake

The Speakeasy Podcast is a place to have underground conversations out loud. Whether we're diving into theology, politics, culture, real life, or the way they often all intersect, we're going to do it together, with kindness and curiosity. Hosted by Blake Guichet (known as @thegirlnamedblake online) - the best-selling author, Instagrammer, wife, & homeschool mom - the Speakeasy has a place for you, if you want it. The Speakeasy Podcast was formerly the Confessions of Crappy Christian Podcast.

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Moving with God | Jenessa Wait | Episode 437
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In this episode, I sit down with author and entrepreneur, Jenessa Wait, to talk about waiting on God when nothing seems to be happening. Her book, Moving with God, is all about getting unstuck and taking faithful steps toward what He's placed on your heart, even when you can't see the path.

We talk about active waiting, which means preparing, praying, and stewarding what's already in your hands instead of sitting still. We also talk about how to tell the difference between God's promises and our own desires, and how the long way with Jesus is always...


Misplaced Identity, Forgiving the Unrepentant, and the God Over It All | Leanna Crawford | Episode 436
11/04/2026

In this episode, I sit down with Christian recording artist Leanna Crawford, whose music has carried me through some of my darkest seasons. We talk about the pressure that can come with a dream career, how easily our God-given gifts can become sources of identity, and what it looks like to forgive someone who never apologizes.

We also get honest about infertility and the hard work of waiting on God. Leanna shares the stories behind her songs Still Waters, Revenge, and Ask Him Again, and how each one came from a real place of struggle.

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What Happens When You Actually Trust God With Your Kids | Bethany Kimsey
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10/28/2026

In this episode, I sit down with Bethany Kimsey, mother of eight and host of The Warrior Mama Podcast, for a convicting conversation about surrender. We talk about how easily we start treating our children like products to produce instead of souls God has entrusted to us.

Bethany shares how motherhood exposed her obsession with outcomes, and how God used an oak tree she planted to remind her that most growth happens beneath the surface. I also get honest about catching myself measuring my girls by benchmarks that had little to do with who God made them...


Everyone Saw It Fall Apart, Here's What It Took to Rebuild | Carl & Laura Lentz | Episode 434
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10/21/2026

In this episode, I sit down with Carl and Laura Lentz to talk about infidelity, betrayal, forgiveness, and what it takes to rebuild after everything falls apart. Their story isn't about why every woman should stay. It's about why every person deserves the chance to heal.

I ask Laura why she stayed. Her answer was a day-by-day decision built on evidence. Carl didn't just promise to change, he showed it through consistent action, accountability, and counseling. Laura also shares why it took three years before she could truly say she forgave him.

This conversation isn't...


Maybe We Need to Be a Little More Judgy | Blake | Episode 433
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10/14/2026

In this solo episode, I'm getting honest about friendship, discernment, and boundaries. I knew what the Bible said about boundaries, but I wasn't always putting that wisdom into practice. And the red flags I ignored? They were there all along.

I spent years understanding Jesus' warning about judging as a reason to never make any judgments. But Matthew 7 also tells us to recognize people by their fruit. Jesus calls us to make wise judgments without becoming judgmental. Loving someone doesn't mean trusting them. Forgiving doesn't mean ignoring their behavior. And extending grace doesn't require pretending the red...


Are You Staying in the Shallow End? | Guest: Angie Smith
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10/07/2026

In this episode, Angie Smith and I talk about moving beyond a faith that puts Bible-verse Band-Aids over our struggles into a deep, honest, surrendered relationship with Jesus. The shallow end can look like white-knuckling, performing, using perfectionism for control, or ignoring painful patterns. Angie encourages us to go underneath: Where did I learn this? What am I afraid of? What does this reveal about what I believe about God?

I got personal about my own perfectionism and realizing it was an attempt to control outcomes and stay worthy of God's favor. But our coping mechanisms aren't...


Letting Go of What You've Built (& What God Gives Back) | Guest: Erin Meinel
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09/30/2026

Erin and I are talking about the hardest question: what do you do when God asks you to lay down something you worked hard to build? We're both walking through seasons of transition, so this is less "here's how to do it" and more "me too."

Erin spent over a decade building businesses and finding success as an entrepreneur before God asked her to step back to homeschool her family. We get honest about the hardest part: identity. When you've spent years becoming known for something, suddenly losing it feels like losing yourself. The questions start: Who...


She's Going to Hear About It, Make Sure She Hears it from You | Guest: Kristen A. Jenson
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09/23/2026

Content Advisory: This episode contains a respectful but direct conversation about pornography, sexual content, and protecting children from exposure. Parents may want to listen with headphones when little ears are nearby.

In this episode, Kristen A. Jensen, founder of Defend Young Minds, and I talk about something every parent needs to consider: preparing our kids for pornography exposure.

I was scared talking about pornography would take away my daughters' innocence. But Kristen helped me rethink the goal entirely: innocence isn't the ultimate goal, preparation is. Our kids need to recognize harmful content, understand why it...


When Homeschooling Feels Hard | Guest: Jennifer Pepito
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09/16/2026

Jennifer Pepito is back on the podcast talking about the hard stuff: homeschooling can be beautiful and really hard at the same time. She has thirty years of wisdom and helped me work through the questions we all quietly ask—are my kids learning enough? When is it okay to just put the curriculum down?

Here's what Jennifer keeps reminding me: the curriculum serves your family, not the other way around. Sometimes the best thing you can do is close the books and come back tomorrow. The goal isn't measuring success by grade levels, it's asking who yo...


Never Let It Be Said You Didn't Try | Guest: James Finke
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09/09/2026

James Finke is back on the podcast to talk about apologetics and why Christians should be ready to explain what we believe and why we believe it. He's passionate about making this accessible to regular people like us, and we dig into the historical evidence for Jesus, his resurrection, and the early church. But this isn't about winning arguments, it's about being prepared when someone you love starts asking questions.

James shares a story that changed him: an acquaintance died unexpectedly after they'd talked casually about Jesus. It left him asking, what if our silence costs someone...


Flowers Through the Concrete: How Whimsy Finds You When You're Healing
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09/02/2026

In this solo episode, I'm reflecting on what happens when we finally begin to heal. What if joy, playfulness, and whimsy aren't distractions from a serious life with Jesus, but actually evidence that we're getting better? Over the past year, God has been teaching me to slow down and rediscover the enjoyment of life. I spent years understanding the Christian life through suffering and perseverance, but He's showing me another truth: He created us to experience joy too.

This past year has required dismantling identities I built and allowing God to tear down what I could never...


You Should Pray Together | Brad & Heidi Mitchell | Episode 426
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08/26/2026

What if one of the most powerful things you could do for your marriage is also one of the simplest, and most overlooked?

In this episode of The Speakeasy Podcast, I sit down with Brad and Heidi Mitchell of Build Your Marriage for an honest, practical conversation about praying together as a married couple and why this simple spiritual rhythm can have such a profound impact on a relationship.

Brad and Heidi have been married for more than four decades, but their story hasn't been without difficult seasons. They share how they met as teenagers...


When Surrender is the Only Play Left | Darryl Strawberry | Episode 425
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08/19/2026

What happens when you've achieved everything the world says should make you happy, and you're still empty?

In this episode of The Speakeasy Podcast, I sit down with baseball legend and ordained minister, Darryl Strawberry, for a powerful conversation about surrender, grace, obedience, and the transformation that happens when Jesus becomes Lord over every part of your life. Darryl is a four-time World Series champion and eight-time All-Star, but today, he says the most important part of his story isn't what happened on the baseball field. It's what happened when a man who seemingly had everything finally...


The List God Gave Me That Wrecked Everything
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08/12/2026

If you're feeling stressed, exhausted, and disconnected, it might not be because life is too busy—it might be because your priorities are out of order.

In this solo episode, I share a deeply personal lesson God has been teaching me over the past year: there is a biblical order to where our time, energy, attention, and devotion belong. After a season where work and ministry had climbed to the top of my priorities, God gave me a vision showing just how disordered my life had become. Then the board changed, revealing a simple order that would be...


The Conversations You Really, Really Need to Have With Your Kids | Kate Henderson
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07/29/2026

How do we raise kids who actually want to come to us with the hard questions?

In this episode of The Speakeasy Podcast, I sat down with Kate Henderson, co-founder of Gather Moms, to talk about intentional motherhood and navigating conversations our parents never had to have. Our children are constantly receiving messages from everywhere, so if we want to shape their worldview, we have to start meaningful conversations first.

Kate and I discuss practical ways to make those conversations feel natural, and why asking questions is often better than giving answers. We also tackle...


Wide Awake: What Everyone Needs to Know About Trafficking | Susan Peters
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07/22/2026

I sat down with Susan Peters, CEO of Unbound Now, to discuss the myths that keep people from recognizing trafficking and how we can respond when something doesn't seem right. Susan explains that trafficking rarely looks like movies portray it. Instead, victims are often groomed over time through manipulation and relationships with people they already know.

Susan and I discuss how parents, teachers, coaches, and community members can recognize warning signs and what to do when something doesn't seem right. We also talk about the hope found in restoration and how survivors can heal with compassionate support.<...


What Are We Actually Feeding Our Families? | Steven Rofrano
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07/15/2026

On today's episode, I have a conversation with Steven Rofrano, founder of Ancient Crunch, to unpack the growing conversation around seed oils, processed foods, and how the modern food system impacts our health. Steven's childhood health struggles led him to question the foods most of us consume every day.

Together we discuss why families are rethinking processed foods, what seed oils are and why they became so prevalent in America, and the contrast between American food culture and more traditional approaches found in Europe. We also talk about paying attention to how food makes you feel instead...


Mid-Year Check In, Seasons, & Rooted Hope | Episode 420
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07/01/2026

As we reach the halfway point of the year, I reflect on the importance of slowing down long enough to evaluate where we've been, where we're headed, and how God is shaping us in the process. Rather than chasing constant productivity, I encourage you to embrace the natural rhythms of each season, recognizing that every season has a purpose. Just as creation doesn't bloom year-round, neither are we meant to live at the same pace all the time.

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The Secret to Couples Who Are Still Crazy About Each Other | Chris & Jamie Bailey
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06/24/2026

This episode is an invitation to rethink what a thriving marriage actually looks like. If you've been focused on loving your spouse but wondering how to genuinely like them too, this conversation is for you.

I sat down with Christian counselors Chris and Jamie Bailey of Expedition Marriage to discuss building a marriage where both people are willing to let God transform them. Their story is proof that healthy marriages aren't built by perfect people.

Chris and Jamie share how their relationship began before either knew Christ and how years of anxiety, unhealthy expectations, and...


One Morning Changed Everything | Rachel Barkley
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06/17/2026

In this powerful episode, I sit down with Rachel Barkley to discuss disability, suffering, identity, resilience, and what it means to trust God when life changes overnight. What began as a conversation about disability quickly became a deeper discussion about hope, purpose, and finding God's goodness in the middle of unexpected circumstances.

Rachel shares her profound story of becoming paralyzed just two weeks after giving birth to her first child. After experiencing worsening symptoms during pregnancy, she woke up one morning unable to move her legs. Doctors eventually discovered a large tumor growing inside her spinal cord...


A Different Perspective on Caring for the Orphan | Elli Oswald
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06/10/2026

This episode is an invitation to rethink what we mean by orphan care and how Christians can best support vulnerable children around the world.

I sat down with Elli Oswald, Executive Director of Faith to Action, for a conversation about orphan care and global missions. Elli brings over a decade of experience in global child welfare and shares why many organizations are shifting focus from institutional care toward strengthening families.

Key takeaways:

The majority of children in orphanages worldwide have living family, poverty separates them, not death Children thrive when they stay with family...


Presence, Intentionality, & Laying It All Down | Elise Orozco | Episode 416
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05/27/2026

This week I sit down with Elise Orozco from Raising Rock for a conversation that feels deeply personal and incredibly timely. We share remarkably similar stories of stepping away from ambition, hustle, and outside success in exchange for something we discovered mattered far more: presence.

Elise opens up about leaving a high-level corporate career after realizing that while she was succeeding professionally, her family was often receiving the exhausted leftovers of what remained. What follows is an honest conversation about motherhood, identity, slowing down, surrender, and learning to embrace God's priorities instead of culture's expectations.

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Homeschooling Year 2 Recap & Answering Your Questions | Episode 415
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05/20/2026

Year two of homeschooling is officially in the books, and I'm sitting down for an honest recap of what worked, what didn't, and what I wish I had known sooner.

If you're considering homeschooling, preparing for your first year, or just curious what life actually looks like after the highlight reels, this episode offers a realistic look at the beauty and challenges of homeschooling life.

I share the biggest lessons from year two:

Year one felt like survival, year two finally felt like life Every path has challenges, choose the hard that works best...


Becoming Like Jesus | Matt Chandler
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05/13/2026

This episode is an invitation to rethink what sanctification actually looks like. If you've felt pressure to transform yourself overnight or believed that becoming like Jesus should be faster and cleaner than it is, this conversation will meet you right where you are.

I sat down with Matt Chandler to talk about sanctification, suffering, surrender, and the slow process of spiritual formation. This feels less like an interview and more like a mentoring session with someone who has walked with God through incredible highs and devastating lows.

Matt makes the case that becoming like Jesus...


How the Heck Should We Pray? | Addison Bevere
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05/06/2026

In this powerful and practical conversation, I sat down with Addison Bevere to unpack one of the most common struggles in the Christian life: prayer. If you've ever felt like you're "bad at prayer," distracted, or unsure what to say, this episode meets you right there and gently reframes everything. Addison shares that even growing up in a spiritually strong family, he felt like he didn't measure up.

His journey into understanding prayer began from a place of deficiency, not mastery.

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Why Are Christian Women So Disconnected From Their Bodies | Brooke Rozmenoski
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04/29/2026

In this episode, Brooke and I dive into a struggle so many Christian women share: feeling disconnected from their bodies, overwhelmed in their lives, and genuinely unsure why their health is suffering.

What often shows up:

Constant stress and urgency
Snapping at loved ones
Poor health or confusing symptoms
Feeling unable to slow down 

The root issue isn't just physical, it's a whole-person misalignment.

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Where Do I Start? (Bible Reading, Journaling, & Staying Rooted)
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04/15/2026

Today I'm answering two of the most common questions I get: where to start in the Bible and how to journal in a way that actually helps you grow. Not a rigid formula, just some simple, practical rhythms that have helped me stay grounded in my relationship with God.

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Communication, Expectations, & Life in the Trenches | Jeremy Guichet
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04/08/2026

In this episode, I sat down with my husband Jeremy to talk about 15 years of marriage, the early struggles, the growth, and how we got to where we are today. Because what you see now? It didn't always exist. And that's kind of the whole point. We laughed, we got vulnerable, and we talked about the stuff a lot of couples deal with but don't always say out loud, especially in those early years. Whether you're newly married, in the thick of parenting, or feeling stuck in communication patterns, I hope this episode reminds you that strong marriages are...


Spiritual Habits That Actually Change You (Without Burning You Out) | Hanna Seymour
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04/01/2026

In this episode, I sit down with author and Bible teacher Hanna Seymour to talk about what it really looks like to grow spiritually in the middle of real life with busy schedules, motherhood, exhaustion, and all.

We unpack Hanna's book Everyday Spiritual Habits and tackle one of the most common questions believers wrestle with: How do I actually stay consistent in my faith without feeling overwhelmed or burnt out? This conversation blends practical wisdom, biblical truth, and even habit science to help you build rhythms that truly last.

Throughout our chat, we share our p...


Radical Restoration, Forgiveness, & the God Who Makes It Possible | Guest: Stephen McWhirter
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03/25/2026

In today's episode, I sit down with Christian artist and author Stephen McWhirter for a raw, hope-filled conversation about redemption, forgiveness, and the transforming power of Jesus.

Stephen shares the powerful story behind his music and about his book, Radical Restoration, where he talks about how he grew up in a home marked by abuse, spiraling into deep addiction, and ultimately encountering God in a life-changing moment that set him on a completely new path. His testimony is a reminder that no one is too far gone for grace and that restoration is possible even after years o...


Navigating Change: How God's Shifted My Entire Life | Episode 407
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03/18/2026

Today's episode is a long overdue catch-up. I'm finally sharing the fuller story of what happened in 2025: the year God completely flipped my life, my work, my identity, and my priorities upside down.

If you've noticed that my content has shifted a lot over the last year, this is the why.

For years, this podcast has felt like the most full expression of me. Faith, motherhood, politics, wellness, the Bible, all of it. But Instagram had become heavily political. Eventually, the very work I thought was most important started costing me more than I realized...


The Lies Anxiety Tells & the Truth that Silences Them | Maddie Joy Fischer
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03/11/2026

Today we're talking about anxiety, not the casual "I'm stressed" kind, but the kind that takes over your body, your thoughts, your sleep, your peace, and your sense of safety.

My friend Maddie Joy Fischer joins me to talk about our very real stories with anxiety, panic, fear, and the lies at the root of it all. We both know what it's like to feel trapped by fear and to wonder if this is just how life will always be. But we also know what it's like for God to meet us there, unravel self-reliance, expose the...


Alone in Plain Sight | Ben Higgins | Episode 405
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03/04/2026

Today's conversation is one I didn't expect to have, but I'm so glad we did. I'm joined by Ben Higgins, known from The Bachelor franchise, but more importantly, a man willing to talk honestly about something many of us feel and few of us admit: loneliness.

Ben's book, Alone in Plain Sight: Searching for Connection When You're Seen But Not Known, explores what it's like to feel invisible, even while millions are watching. From reality TV to marriage, from church culture to platform pressure, Ben opens up about insecurity, performance, and the quiet fear that if people r...


A Christian Parent's Guide to Youth Sports | Brian Smith and Ed Usyznski | Episode 404
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02/25/2026

Today we're diving into the wide world of youth sports, and fair warning: this one might give you permission, step on your toes… or both.

Ed and Brian are former athletes, longtime sports ministry leaders, and dads currently navigating youth sports with their own kids. They're also the authors of Away Game: A Christian Parent's Guide to Navigating Youth Sports, and this conversation is honest, clarifying, and deeply needed.

We talk about what they call the "youth sports industrial complex," how we went from backyard games and rec leagues to a $40+ billion industry built on tr...


Boyhood Resurrected | Rebekah Lovell | Episode 403
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02/18/2026

Today's episode is all about raising boys, even if you're a girl mom like me. I sat down with Rebekah Lovell, author of Boyhood Resurrected, for a powerful and honest conversation about how modern systems are failing our boys, and what we can do about it.

We talk about how boys are hardwired for adventure, movement, risk, curiosity, and strength, and how over-scheduling, over-screening, and over-labeling can slowly extinguish the light in their eyes. Rebekah shares her family's journey navigating early schooling challenges, why institutional systems often misunderstand boys, and how moms (especially!) play a crucial role i...


Look What God Has Done | Jeremy Guichet | Episode 402
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02/11/2026

Welcome back to the Big Easy Podcast with everybody's favorite guest, my husband, Jeremy. This episode is a candid, hope-filled conversation about what God has been doing in us lately: in our faith, our marriage, our home, and our conversations.

While the recent "Ending Well" series focused on reflection, this episode is about real-time transformation. Jeremy shares how a simple observation: watching me consistently in the Word sparked a hunger for Scripture and spiritual leadership. From listening to the Bible on Audible during long commutes, to diving deep into biblical manhood, marriage, and trust in God, his w...


No More Boring Bible Study | Faith Womack | Episode 401
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02/04/2026

What if Bible study didn't feel dry, intimidating, or guilt-driven, but instead felt alive, honest, and deeply formative?

In this episode of The Speakeasy Podcast, Blake sits down with Faith Womack, author of No More Boring Bible Study and self-proclaimed Bible nerd, to talk about how Scripture can actually come to life in your everyday faith. Faith shares her powerful story of growing up with Scripture misused and weaponized—and how God redeemed that pain by drawing her into a deep, life-giving love for His Word.

Together, they unpack:

Why Bible study often fe...


Biblical Marriage, Negotiations, & Make Out Sessions | Joby Martin | Episode 400
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01/28/2026

In today's episode, Blake sits down with Joby Martin, lead pastor of Church of 11:22, for a candid, practical, and surprisingly fun conversation about biblical marriage.

This is a must-listen—especially with your husband.

Together, they talk honestly about leadership, submission, responsibility, and why keeping score in marriage quietly kills intimacy. Pastor Joby brings clarity (and humor) to what Scripture actually calls men to be—and how that leadership is meant to free wives, not burden them. From encouragement and repentance to negotiation, gratitude, and yes… make out sessions—this episode covers what healthy, Christ-centered marriage looks li...


Fighting For Your Family Instead of With Your Family | Craig Thompson | Episode 399
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01/21/2026

This episode continues an unexpected but timely series focused on strengthening families at the start of the year. Blake sits down with Pastor Craig Thompson, author of Fighting for Your Family, for an honest, practical conversation about marriage, parenting, and spiritual warfare.

Too often, the hardest battles feel like they're inside the home—spouses clashing, tension with kids, constant frustration. But Craig reframes the fight: your spouse and your family are not the enemy. The real shift happens when couples stop fighting each other and start standing back-to-back, fighting for their family's mission and future.

To...


January Isn't a Reset — But It Is for Roots | Episode 398
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01/14/2026

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This episode is an invitation to rethink what January is actually for. If you've felt pressure to reinvent your entire life on January 1st (or swung the other direction and rejected January altogether) this conversation lives in the middle.

Blake makes the case that January isn't meant for revamps or visible productivity. Historically and biologically, it's a hinge month: a season for taking stock, repair, learning, and quiet preparation. For most of human history, the "new year" was tied to nature and spring, not politics or calendars. That's why the...