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Mandii B and Weezy are joined by doula, author, and women’s health educator Erica Chidi for a conversation about knowing your body, asking for what you want, and refusing to audition for love. Erica opens up about her marriage to a man, exploring non-monogamy, and the breakup conversation that helped her embrace being gay. The three debate whether the right partner can change your relationship style, why foreplay deserves a rethink, and how outercourse can become the main event.

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Kara Leona joins Weezy to talk marriage, motherhood, OnlyFans, and making decisions the internet doesn’t approve of. Kara shares her side of the split with Guillermo, explains why their problems went deeper than adult content, and clarifies the conversation around her six-figure months. Plus, the double standard between Hollywood nudity and sex work, the comments that actually hurt, new music, and why she’s paying for her own boob job. It’s an honest conversation about providing for your family without giving up yourself.

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Connie of First Date Diaries is back, and even Mandii and Weezy have questions about where the freak flag stops flying. The trio gets into sleeping with friends, working as a sex-party guardian, and the wild encounters that put everyone’s boundaries to the test. Plus, degradation that feels a little too personal, London versus New York nightlife, and why Hollywood keeps getting kink wrong. Beneath the outrageous stories is a real conversation about consent, accountability, and knowing your limits.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B opens with an important Breast Cancer Awareness Month screening information [ 00:47 ] before previewing the week’s topics [ 01:12 ] and joining A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee for some back-in-New-York banter [ 02:49 ]. The crew recaps CultureCon with the Spill app [ 05:07 ], praising its sexual-health advocacy while critiquing event logistics [ 07:45 ], panel value and press-run fatigue [ 11:30 ], and ticket prices—with a vodka debate mixed in [ 15:14 ]. From there, they question growing concerns around food safety and lab-grown foods [ 20:14 ], including federally approved lab-grown egg alternatives, labeling practices, and how consumers know what they’re actually eating [ 23:49 ], before connecting the confusion to corporate...

Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Eddin for a wild conversation about dating, intimacy, non-monogamy, and what happens when friendship and parenthood start to overlap. From debating whether two friends can have a baby together without catching feelings, to navigating jealousy, emotional intimacy, and the unspoken rules of open relationships, the crew gets into just how complicated modern relationships can really be. Plus, they talk dating women versus men, whether bad sex can actually keep things less messy, and how their views on love, sex, and partnership continue to evolve.

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Would you take your ex back to split the bills? Mandii B and Weezy help a listener choosing between her child’s father and a new man who wants a vegan, off-the-grid lifestyle. From confusing good co-parenting with romantic compatibility to sacrificing your happiness for financial stability, the ladies unpack when choosing yourself means choosing neither.

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Mandii B and Weezy welcome Olivia and Kelly to talk about their 19-year age gap, the eight-hour drive that started their love story, and finding a connection neither of them expected. From coming out later in life and navigating intimacy to handling strangers who mistake them for mother and daughter, the couple shares what their relationship looks like beyond the comments. The conversation also gets heated over surrogacy, reproductive choices, and LGBTQ+ representation in schools, with Olivia opening up about her experience as a gay kindergarten teacher before the ladies close things out with bedroom questions and some hilarious...

In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B joined by A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and guest artist Akeem Ali, who previews his upcoming fall tour [ 00:44 ][ 02:53 ]. After debating the workweek and distractions [ 06:32 ] and reacting to major cocaine seizures at U.S. ports [ 09:38 ], the crew questions why “partner” has become a popular label for significant others [ 12:26 ]. They defend personal boundaries while discussing Cardi B swiping away a fan who touched her [ 22:11 ], meet-and-greet horror stories [ 26:28 ], fan entitlement and parasocial behavior [ 27:20 ], and even photo etiquette at clothing-optional resorts [ 30:39 ]. In “This Is America,” they react to Converse apologizing for a Chuck 70 X campaign image featuring K...

Carter the Body joins Mandii B and Weezy for a conversation about catching feelings, setting boundaries, and why nobody wants to be somebody’s experiment. The All the Queen’s Men actress shares how she built an international exotic dancing career without taking it all off, explains why masculinity doesn’t erase her womanhood, and challenges the idea that bad men make women gay. Plus, the trio debates a lesbian Mount Rushmore, bisexual dating stereotypes, representation in Hollywood, and whether being romantic makes you a “soft stud.”

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On this episode of You Got Decisions, a 24-year-old listener loves his girlfriend but is bored, tempted to cheat, and still living with her parents. Mandii B and Weezy unpack whether his seven-year relationship needs a reset or an exit, debating open relationships, mismatched goals, and whether marriage and baby plans should come before financial stability. 

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Mandii B and Weezy are joined by relationship expert Dr. Stacii Jae Johnson for a candid conversation about the patterns we inherit and the ones we need to break. Dr. Stacii opens up about her childhood and the experiences that shaped her work, while the ladies unpack emotional abuse, taking accountability, friends getting too involved, and why flowers after cheating don’t equal changed behavior. Plus, they discuss non-monogamy, forgiveness, femininity, and finding love without losing yourself.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B, A-King, and Jason “Jah” Lee tackle food safety, religion, manifestation, surveillance, privacy, and politics. After previewing the episode [ 00:38 ], the crew debates a mango recall and food safety scares [ 03:50 ], questioning whether deregulation and Project 2025 could contribute to broader disruption [ 08:00 ]. After jokes about honorary degrees [ 11:32 ], they discuss Fivio Foreign’s baptism and church hypocrisy [ 13:56 ], before Mandii recounts a tense debate about Christianity, astrology, witchcraft, science, and credible sources [ 17:13 ]. The conversation turns to manifestation and the “power of the tongue” [ 27:09 ], goals outside podcasting [ 28:47 ], and whether speaking things into existence influences outcomes [ 29:39 ]. They reflect on career and...

Mandii B and Weezy sit down with acclaimed writer and cultural critic Jamilah Lemieux to discuss her book Black Single Mother and unpack the stigma surrounding single motherhood, dating, co-parenting and blended families. Jamilah recalls discovering that her ex was engaged shortly after she gave birth, developing a healthy relationship with her daughter’s stepmother and why every woman who wants children should be prepared for the possibility of becoming a single mother. They also debate inconsistent fathers, discipline, introducing new partners to children and whether someone can be a bad partner but a good parent.

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Maino joins Mandii B and Weezy to discuss his dating philosophy, why he no longer promises women traditional commitment, and whether actions should matter more than relationship titles. He opens up about sleeping with a pregnant woman, keeping intimate videos, dating ambitious women, navigating non-monogamy, the places New Yorkers should never go while cheating, and his upcoming relationship show, 1-800-Maino.

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation spanning Atlanta culture, policing, politics, infrastructure, race, hip-hop, gender identity, and the WNBA. After previewing the episode’s biggest stories [ 00:38 ], the crew catches up on their weekends [ 02:43 ] before debating Atlanta’s dining scene, happy-hour culture, restaurant service, and food experiences [ 03:26 ]. Jah’s “Ignorant Thought” turns serious as he reacts to reports about the death in prison of the former officer who shot Sonya Massey, prompting a larger conversation about policing, accountability, and Elon Musk’s suggestion that...

In this solo episode, Mandii B and Weezy revisit the conversation surrounding marriage, prenups and protecting assets before discussing gift-giving, women paying for their partners and how couples divide travel expenses. The ladies also talk about living together, compromising between New York City and the Catskills, former hookups resurfacing and spinning the block after months apart. Later, they discuss kink-informed therapy, grief, religion, gender identity, therapist responsibility, sexual trauma and the relationship between kink and past experiences.

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Mandii and Weezy are joined by certified sex and relationship coach, board-certified sexologist, and registered nurse Bryanna Gená for an honest and hilarious conversation about purity culture, ethical non-monogamy, and what relationship labels are supposed to mean. Bryanna explains why opening a relationship will not repair the damage caused by cheating, how emotional intimacy can complicate casual sex, and why someone who says they “don't like labels” may simply be misaligned with what you want. The ladies also discuss dating short kings, how late is too late for a date, play Hoetry, and hear Bryanna’s wild story about catchin...

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring politics, current events, media, sports, internet culture, and accountability. Mandii opens the show by previewing another packed episode [ 00:38 ]. After introducing the producers and celebrating a birthday [ 03:02 ], the crew eases into the conversation with playful banter about Spanish language skills, cultural identity, respectability politics, and internet clapbacks [ 03:25 ][ 07:22 ][ 08:25 ]. Mandii's signature "Ignorant Take" argues that society has lost its sense of humor, using the story of a Welsh man arrested for standing on a hospital roof dressed as th...

Killah Bee joins Mandii B and Weezy WTF for a hilarious and unfiltered conversation about whether sex-positive women can still find lasting love, when women should stop dating men for their potential, and why lifestyle compatibility can matter more than a paycheck. The trio debates body counts, dating 9-to-5 workers, male best friends with house keys, the lack of attractive men in Atlanta, and how porn can affect pleasure. Killah Bee also reveals why she once tried dating women, Weezy shares a wild story from a gay club, and the episode ends with a brutally funny hookup story involving...

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Mandii and Weezy reflect on high school reunions, homeownership, motherhood, and whether a $250,000 dream wedding is worth the price. This week’s listener ended a 10-year relationship with her high school sweetheart after years of feeling unappreciated and a frightening physical altercation. Now she wonders if her intense new romance is genuine love or a trauma response as she considers moving in and getting matching tattoos after only three months.

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Matchmaker, author, and Love Match Atlanta personality Shae Primus joins Mandii B and Weezy for a raw conversation about dating successful professionals, what really happens at a vetted play party, and the differences between kink, BDSM, and the lifestyle. Shae opens up about healing from church hurt and sexual trauma, practicing responsible nonmonogamy, having sex without emotional attachment, skipping aftercare, and using sex magic and orgasmic manifestation. The ladies also unpack a shocking marriage dilemma involving a baby mama, six secret dating apps, years of deception, and a wife struggling to decide whether being single is better than staying...

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, journalist Jason Rodriguez, and headline king Jason “Jah” Lee for a wide-ranging conversation exploring American politics, relationships, self-defense laws, free speech, travel, race, and celebrity culture. The episode opens with a preview of the week's biggest stories [ 00:38 ], before the full crew checks in and shares stories about travel mishaps, delayed flights, and the ever-changing airline experience [ 02:28 ][ 04:06 ]. The conversation then shifts to a thought-provoking debate over which underrepresented community has the greatest chance of producing a future President of the United States, examining the political trajectories of f...

Mandii B and Weezy sit down with Troy Millings and Rashad Bilal of Earn Your Leisure for a candid conversation about how money shapes dating, marriage and business. They break down financial due diligence before marriage, the risks of combining debt and assets, buying a house before the wedding, expensive ceremonies, bringing romantic partners into a company, workplace attraction and whether image plays a role in business success. The conversation also turns to OnlyFans, the business of sex, the barriers Black women face in podcasting, mainstream brand support and why Black-owned platforms must do more to champion one another...

Delivering Happiness starring Nick Turturro is a series that follows Big Nick as he begins his new life with Prince St. Pizza. Every delivery turns into an unscripted moment of connection, laughter, and truth — with special guests along the way.

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On this episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy are joined by Joshua Adams, better known as Mr. What Chair, for an honest and unfiltered conversation about sex, dating, disability, and the search for real intimacy. Joshua opens up about losing his virginity to a sex worker, spending years in transactional sexual relationships, navigating dating in a wheelchair, and why he has never experienced a traditional romantic relationship. He also gets candid about wheelchair sex, threesomes, rejection, childhood trauma, mental health, therapy, and learning to see himself as a blessing instead of a burden. From hilarious demonstrations to...

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King and Jason “Jah” Lee, for a timely conversation covering hip-hop culture, media legacy, politics, sports, race, and misinformation. The episode opens with Mandii's monologue and a preview of the week's biggest conversations [00:57 ], before A-King introduces Dreamville's new 144-page print magazine, The Falloff [ 02:28 ]. The crew celebrates the publication's commitment to long-form hip-hop journalism and reflects on its featured tribute to Combat Jack, using the moment to discuss the enduring impact of The Combat Jack Show on podcasting, rap journalism, and today's media landscape [ 04:02 ][ 08:33 ]. After Jason joins the co...

On this solo episode of Decisions, Decisions, Mandii and Weezy get back in their niche with a hilarious and honest catch-up about fan pushback, age-gap relationships, platforming love, Anwar’s viral appeal, pets interrupting intimacy, robots, aliens, and why people might be scarier than both. The conversation gets deeper as they unpack friendship breakups, messy behavior, political differences, family dynamics, Pride Month, mom shaming, boundaries, and identity, before jumping into “We Listen & We Judge” with a funny but real conversation about backhanded compliments, hair, relationships, skincare, fans putting dirt on their names, pillow talking, and what gets you exiled from t...

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In this episode of Selective Ignorance, Mandii B is joined by super producer A-King, Jason “Jah” Lee, and Yomi for a wide-ranging conversation examining American politics, Black identity, race, parenting, religion, celebrity culture, and the social issues shaping today's headlines. The episode opens with discussions surrounding the 2028 presidential landscape and speculation about Kamala Harris' political future [ 02:52 ], before the crew reflects on the Fourth of July and the complicated relationship many Black Americans have with patriotism and national celebrations [06:03 ]. From there, they take a nostalgic detour into the influence of '90s R&B and hip-hop on sexuality, relationships, and cult...

*TRIGGER WARNING* - Mentions of depression and s*icide This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy link up with Maiya The Don for a real, honest, and super relatable convo about leveling up. Fresh off dropping her latest album Precious Cargo, Maiya gets into her journey with sobriety, staying disciplined, hitting the gym, and even choosing celibacy while putting herself first. She also keeps it real about body image, weight loss, and protecting her peace at all costs. Of course, they dive into dating too—Maiya talks about setting her standards high and navigating relationships her way, no...

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