The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast

After years of hidden struggles with drinking, Tony Calatayud faced a family intervention  - and quit alcohol that same day. Now almost 8 years sober, he shares how his faith made addiction recovery and sobriety a reality. 

In this honest conversation, Tony sits down with host Steve Alessi to explain his experience with Alcoholics Anonymous and 12-step programs, why he refused to accept the label of "I am an alcoholic", and how alcohol addiction recovery through faith restored his marriage, family leadership, and business.

If you're pursuing sobriety or loving someone through alcohol addiction  this sobriety tes...

If you are grieving after losing a spouse, you may feel like there's no way to ever feel joy again. But there is hope. And you'll get a picture of that hope from our guest, Ann Alessi, mother of Steve Alessi. With faith and family grounding her, she found a path to healing after losing her husband, who had been by her side for 65 years. 

In this emotional episode, Pastor Ann opens up about becoming a widow at 85, what helped (and what hurt) in early grief, how to support someone who lost a loved one, and why j...

Why is it so hard to have a healthy and loving relationship with your siblings? Especially if you have to work right alongside them? 

In this flashback episode from Season 2, Steve Alessi sits down with his son, Chris Alessi, to discuss how they manage the challenges of serving with talented family members and how they avoid the dangers of sibling conflict in adulthood.  

In their business of ministry, the four Alessi children - Christopher, Stephanie, Lauren and Gaby - have had to learn how to navigate the day-to-day responsibilities and relational bumps in th...

In this flashback episode, you'll discover 7 practical ways to support your spouse through life's challenges and crises. Whether you are facing health scares, job loss, emotional struggles, or major life transitions in your marriage, this video shows you how to be there for your partner when you really can't figure out how to help. 

Steve and Mary Alessi dive into their own story of surviving a heart attack (the subject of Steve Alessi's debut book "Forty-Two") and other difficult seasons...and share the secrets that helped them survive and thrive despite facing situations that could have made t...

It's time to celebrate...America is turning 250, and so is our podcast! 

In our final episode of season 8, Steve and Mary Alessi mark our 250th episode by sharing how faithfulness and consistency lead to success, whether you're starting a podcast or raising a family. 

From wrangling toddlers and tackling teens’ screen time battles to managing mistakes and arguments with grace (even after missing the mark), they unpack why showing up—imperfectly but persistently—matters most.

They'll share our audience's family stories that reveal how The Family Business has impacted families like yours for the past...

Ever wonder what first-time moms truly wish someone would tell them about pregnancy, birth, and becoming a mom?

In this transparent and often heartfelt episode, sisters Stephanie Alessi Muiña and Gaby Alessi Calatayud, who are both expecting, get real about the unspoken struggles, surprises, and joys of motherhood. You'll learn why comparing yourself to Instagram-perfect moms can set up unrealistic expectations, and how to handle the endless opinions thrown at you during each stage of pregnancy.

You’ll hear how surrounding yourself with other moms, asking for help, and leaning on faith can make all...

When every other headline claims that the truth is being hidden from you...who can you REALLY trust? 

In this fascinating and timely conversation, Lauren Alessi Burgos and and her long-time friend Dania Montejo dive headfirst into the world of conspiracies—from the French presidency and Michael Jackson’s controversies to UFOs and cloud-manipulating chemtrails. 

Together, they unpack how curiosity, group chats, and modern journalism fuel these conversations, but also how exposing yourself to these constant debates can impact your mental health.

Find out why asking questions and staying open-minded matters, how to spot w...

Good things come to those who wait - and sometimes, to those who wait at the YMCA! 

In this incredible episode, you'll be introduced to the final son-in-law in the Alessi family, Daniel Burgos. His journey to meeting and eventually marrying Steve and Mary Alessi's daughter, Lauren, is as surprising and miraculous as you can imagine - a winding road that started in his native Columbia and ended at the altar in Miami with the love of his life. 

Daniel sits down with his father-in-law Steve, and brother in law Chris Alessi, to share how Go...

What happens when a young couple has to shift from talking about dream dates, honeymoons and wedding bells, to discussing bills and bank accounts? 

In this transparent and real-life talk, Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian share their experience of learning to manage their finances together—without losing their unity or peace of mind. They share why they are doing their best to learn wise strategies from the beginning - from balancing individual spending habits and setting up budgets to tackling debt and resisting the pressure to “look rich” on social media.

You’ll hear hone...

Are your kids talking back to you? Ignoring your directions? Giving you attitude? 

Every child has a way of making their parents feel rejected and disrespected. But how do you know when it's getting out of hand? What are the signs that a child's behavior is crossing the line from misbehavior to a total rejection of your parental authority?

In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi unpack what rebellion really looks like in kids and teens. You'll hear candid stories from their own parenting journey, as they share why every child has a seed of r...

Can moms love their sons too much? 

No mother wants to hinder their son from becoming a man, but the mother-son dynamic can create major headaches for the entire family if not handled properly. 

In this flashback episode from Season 6, we delve into the intricate dynamics of the mother-son relationship and the valuable roles both parents fill in their young man's life. 

From discussing the differences in parental roles to highlighting the importance of respect and clear communication, Steve and Mary Alessi sit down with their son Chris to offer insightful per...

Are you at your wit's end with a child who just won't listen? Does it mean that you're a bad parent - or are disobedience and emotional meltdowns just a natural part of a child's development? 

In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris sit down with their mom, Mary Alessi,  to get some advice and help on the chaotic journey of raising young kids—giving you valuable strategies to use when when your child is pushing the limits and rejecting your authority.  We'll discuss why age-appropriate behavior isn’t the same as permissive parenting, and how...

Who really comes first in a man’s life—his wife, his mother, or his daughter?

Step into the heart of family life with Steve and Mary Alessi as they pull back the curtain on the “priority puzzle” every husband and father faces. They share honest, sometimes emotional reflections on balancing love and loyalty between these key women, drawing from personal stories of raising daughters, caring for aging parents, and watching children marry.

You’ll hear why putting your spouse first isn’t just biblical or psychological wisdom—it’s the glue that holds everything together, settin...

How can today's young women handle the pressure to conform to the world's standards of beauty and self-worth?

In this episode, sisters Gaby and Stephanie dive deep into how Instagram, TikTok, and influencer culture impact confidence, modesty, and purity—especially for girls and young women.

You'll discover why the pursuit of "being pretty” can lead to insecurity, how social media poses and trends influence even the youngest girls, and why real-life character, kindness, and confidence matter more than online perfection. 

These two sisters get real about their personal battles with body image, comparison, and t...

Ever feel stuck in life’s waiting room, wondering when your "next" will finally arrive?

In this flashback to Season 3, Lauren Alessi and Mary Alessi dive into real talk about the messy, in-between seasons—whether you’re waiting for a new relationship, career move, or just something to change. Drawing from their own journeys, they break down why it’s normal to feel agitated in these pauses—and how it can actually mean you’re gearing up for growth.

The fun fact behind this flashback?  Lauren is now officially done with her single season! Lauren married the l...

What's it REALLY like to grow up with an identical twin? 

In today’s special cross-over episode, we have some exciting news: our podcast family is growing, and you are getting a first look! 

Not only has the Alessi family now branched into three different podcasts — including the lively “The Mary and Martha Show” with Mary Alessi and her twin sister, Martha Munizzi—but this episode features a sneak peek at one of their favorite twin-themed conversations.

You'll hear Mary and Martha as they hilariously recount childhood adventures, the reality of growing up as identical...

Feeling unsure about how to respond to the headlines about Israel, Iran, and the Middle East conflict? 

In this episode, the Alessis take a pastoral perspective and break down the real story behind the chaos—examining not just politics, but the spiritual and humanitarian battles at play. They pull back the curtain on how Israel is surrounded by enemies and outnumbered by billions, yet persists against the odds.

Drawing from their personal trips to Israel and firsthand encounters, Steve and Mary will show you how Christians can support Israel without guilt, how media narratives can twi...

Should preachers address political issues from the pulpit? In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi pull back the curtain on the tension pastors face when faith, politics, and cultural issues collide as they answer this controversial question.

You'll learn how political pressure has ramped up since COVID, and what it really means to preach truth without dividing a congregation. Sharing their own convictions, the Alessis reveal why speaking up on certain principles—not just staying silent—matters for the health of both the church and the nation.

You'll find out where they draw the line betw...

Is it possible that your greatest blessings - your spouse and your children - could also drain your spirit and prevent you from pursuing the hobbies and interests that give you joy? 

Parents often find themselves struggling to grow as individuals when their family responsibilities take over their lives - but finding the balance between personal growth and focusing on your marriage and parenting can be really difficult. 

In this episode, Stephanie Alessi Muina and her husband Chris take a honest look at how they are maintaining a sense of self-worth and identity while also gi...

Ever wonder if God’s still in your corner when your dreams seem stalled?

In this transparent episode, Stephanie Alessi Muiña and her husband Christopher Muiña dig into what it really means to trust God during slow seasons of growth—whether you’re wrestling with closed doors, struggling with burnout, or navigating tricky family relationships. You'll hear firsthand experiences from marriage, parenting, business, and ministry, revealing how the timing of God isn’t always what you expect, but His process shapes your perspective and aligns your heart.

Through these stories of perseverance and decisions...

Marriage is definitely worth the wait - but do you know what to focus on while you're preparing to marry the love of your life? 

In this episode, hosts Gaby Alessi Calatayud and her husband Christian make their debut as a couple on The Family Business and give you an honest, behind-the-scenes view on the first few weeks of newlywed life. 

Sharing their journey from childhood friends to marriage, you'll hear them reveal  the challenges of waiting for the right timing through dating and engagement, honoring family, and genuinely submitting to God's plan as they try...

In this episode, you'll discover why your child’s future spouse is more than just a relationship choice—they’re an investment in your family’s future... and how wisdom, clear expectations, and intentional love can help you build strong relationships with your in-laws from the very beginning.

Parenting adult children through dating, engagement, and marriage can be both beautiful and complicated. To help you navigate this important season, Steve and Mary Alessi share practical insight on how to recognize healthy relationships, guide your children with wisdom instead of control, and welcome in-laws as true family.

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Are you praying that the person you married becomes more like the person you THOUGHT you married? 

In this episode, you'll discover why praying "God, please change my wife / husband" may not be the right kind of prayer... and how you can build a thriving marriage by focusing on personal growth, realistic expectations, and true understanding.

Marriage can be beautiful, but it comes with some real challenges—especially when the quirks and habits that once seemed cute become real irritants. To help you navigate this common struggle in marriage, Steve and Mary Alessi explore how to...

Can the things that attracted you to your spouse when you were dating become annoyances when you're married? 

Perhaps, but if you make the effort, your differences can become the glue that keeps your marriage strong - even when those differences are like night and day. 

In this episode, recorded just before their 5th wedding anniversary, Chris and Richelle Alessi dive deep into the myth and reality of “opposites attract” in marriage, sharing candid stories from their own journey.

 From awkward first encounters and hilarious miscommunications to learning how to process conflicts and celebra...

The men had their turn - now the ladies respond. 

Mary Alessi and her daughters Stephanie Alessi Muiña, Gaby Alessi Calatayud, and daughter-in-law Richelle Alessi dive into the heart of what women really want men to know. Hint: it’s not about solving every problem, but being heard, valued, and understood. 

You'll hear candid laughs about double standards, quiet moments that actually mean something, and learn why one small effort (think surprise ice cream or a morning coffee) can transform a wife's day.

With real-life stories on teamwork, compromise, respect, and the power...

Ever wondered what husbands REALLY think about their wives? 

Get inside the minds of the men of the Family Business as they candidly unpack what’s going on beneath the surface in their relationships, from why men sometimes go quiet, to what makes them feel truly respected and appreciated. You'll discover how encouragement, shared decision-making, and even small acts of physical affection can have a huge impact on marriage.

Steve Alessi, along with his son Chris and sons-in-law Chris Muina and Christian Calatayud, share relatable stories about the pressure to provide and protect, the importance of...

"It's only a joke..." but is it really? 

Humor and sarcasm can be tricky in relationships—sometimes it’s playful, and other times it cuts deeper than intended. In this episode, you'll discover how joking, sarcasm, and humor play vital roles in healthy relationships—and what happens when jokes cross the line and reveal serious communication issues.

Drawing from wisdom gained after nearly 40 years of marriage, Steve and Mary Alessi open up about their own approach to humor, how sarcasm shaped their families, and how laughter can create closeness or mask deeper issues. You'll discover why som...

In this episode, we cover our best strategies for improving communication in marriage -  so that even your arguments can be turned into opportunities to build a stronger relationship with your spouse. 

Communication challenges are at the heart of most relationship struggles, whether it's disagreements over chores, different ways of processing conflict, or mismatched expectations. Couples often find themselves in arguments that seem to go nowhere, but understanding each other's styles and showing empathy can transform these moments into opportunities for growth.

Join Steve and Mary Alessi as they offer practical marriage advice from nearly fo...

Ever feel overwhelmed by the endless decisions you have to make as a parent - not to mention the barrage of advice from experts with ever-changing opinions? 

In this episode, we get the treat of having two of the next generation Alessi couples in the podcast booth -  Chris Muina and Stephanie Alessi Muina, and Richelle and Christopher Alessi.

 Together, they are jumping into the raw realities of raising young kids—sharing laughs, struggles, and honest takes on gentle parenting, immunization and trusting your doctors, discipline, and letting go of comparison. You'll discover how friendship, flexi...

Are you truly becoming a better person in 2026? Or are you just building things that won't bring you joy long-term? 

In this episode, you'll discover how to become a better version of yourself in 2026 by developing the right habits, cultivating inner peace, and building meaningful relationships—both at home and in business.

Hosts Steve Alessi and Mary Alessi kick off the new year with practical advice on why becoming matters more than what you build. Instead of chasing only achievements, learn how forming healthy habits, seeking peace, and prioritizing character can set the foundation for las...

What can you learn about your new brother-in-law while spending hours in a hunting blind? In this episode, we introduce the newest member of the family, Christian Catalayud, as he shares how he's growing a relationship with his new brothers-in-law, Chris Alessi and Chris Muina.

Christian married Gaby Alessi in October 2025, and over the first few months of their marriage, Christian has been introduced to the blessed but sometimes topsy-turvy world of being married into ministry.  

You'll hear a candid conversation about what it’s like to be welcomed into the Alessi family—especially through marri...

Wondering why your New Year’s resolutions never seem to stick?

As we kick off a new year, Chris Alessi teams up with his coach and close friend Chris Hart to break down the real reason that so many people fail to keep their New Year's resolutions —and how to finally build momentum for a powerful year ahead.

Together, they share simple strategies for transforming your personal and family life, like starting with prayer, creating a sharp plan, finding the right people for accountability, and locking in your purpose. You'll be inspired by Chris Hart's prac...

Has the medical establishment missed the boat when it comes to women's health? 

In this important and hard-hitting episode, Mary Alessi and her longtime friend Mory Martinez dive deep into the hidden crisis affecting women from their 20s onward. They unpack the impact of hormones on everything from energy and mood to heart and bone health, sharing personal stories about early menopause, misdiagnoses, and the confusion surrounding hot flashes and migraines.

You’ll pick up practical tips on how diet, sugar, sleep, and strength training are major players in hormone harmony—and why starting to pay a...

Are the holidays bringing more emotional chaos than cheer into your life?

Join Steve Alessi, Lauren Alessi, and licensed mental health counselor Ryan Landau as they unpack the real challenges of holiday stress, seasonal mood swings, and family drama. 

You'll get key insights on seasonal affective disorder, financial anxiety, loneliness, and the unique pressures men and women face during this time of year - as well as  practical tips for setting boundaries, finding community, and staying intentional—even when family relationships get tricky. 

You’ll learn how small shifts like slowing down, budgeting, and foc...

In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are diving into a topic every Christian family wrestles with—what should we be watching? 

When shows like Stranger Things and other popular series are based on dark themes, violence and anti-family values, should we draw the line and protect our families from being influenced?  

Steve and Mary Alessi provide some much-needed perspective on how to navigate entertainment choices in a world that's constantly pushing boundaries, so you can tell the difference between being overly religious and being wisely discerning about what to allow into your home. 

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Sometimes when you're looking for something - you find out a LOT more about yourself in the process. That's definitely what the Muinas discovered.  

In this episode, Stephanie and Christopher Muiña take you behind the scenes of their house hunt, revealing the real struggles, doubts, and faith lessons that come with navigating big life transitions as a family. 

Through honest stories of dead ends, closed doors, and a nail-biting home purchase, they share how trusting God, making wise plans, and pushing past fear can open the next chapter of your life.

You’ll pi...

Are you struggling to accept that your family is changing - even when it's for the best? 

It happens in every family relationship - especially among siblings who are used to relating to each other, until a potential spouse comes into the picture. 

In this special  episode, Gaby and Lauren Alessi are getting real about navigating marriage season with your siblings. 

The sisters share hilarious and heartwarming stories about dating, their engagements, and even their early attempt at creating a podcast (RIP "Girls Talking Sports"). They also open up about the realities of embr...

Ever have that guilty feeling when you realize you were on your phone during a conversation with a loved one? 

It's not just a harmless habit. It's a real danger to the mental health and vitality of your family - and it could harm the relationships that matter most to you. 

In this special guest episode, Chris Alessi sits down with Joey Odom, co-founder of Reclaim Well, for an eye-opening conversation about one of the biggest threats to healthy family relationships—our obsession with our phones. 

This episode will challenge you to take an ho...

If the title of this episode made you feel attacked - then you're the person that needs to listen the most. 

In this episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are tackling one of the biggest relationship killers—defensiveness. You'll hear raw, personal stories from their early life and marriage as they share practical advice—including how to recognize when YOU'RE the defensive one (even if you don't think you are), and how to listen to what people are saying without going into battle mode. 

If you're tired of always feeling like your walls are up or fighti...

Ready or not - the holidays are here...

...and if you're already feeling the pressure, we're here to help! 

In this week's episode, Steve and Mary Alessi are getting into the holiday spirit early and sharing their best tips for navigating the most wonderful (and sometimes most stressful) time of the year. They discuss everything from dealing with difficult family members to blending different cultural traditions, and share practical advice on how to plan ahead so you can actually enjoy the holidays, not just survive them. 

Whether you're juggling new in-laws, missing a lo...