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Day 38: In the Father’s Hands – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 38: In the Father’s Hands

Scripture Reading: (Jerusalem Bible)

John 10:31–42

The Jews fetched stones to stone Him, so Jesus said to them, ā€œI have done many good works for you to see, works from My Father; for which of these are you stoning Me?ā€ The Jews answered Him, ā€œWe are not stoning You for doing a good work, but for blasphemy: You are only a man and You claim to be God.ā€

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5th Friday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
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5th Friday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of John 10:31-42

The Jews fetched stones to stone him...


PoC-39 5th Saturday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
Today at 2:30 AM


The Cross of Christ Restores. . .Justice

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—Do I see myself as a child of God?

Seek——Focus on the crucified Christ as you meet him throughout the day. Stand up for your brother or sister, always appealing to the brother or sister who might seek to harm him or her.

Knock—Meditate on Micah 2:12–13.

I will surely gather all of you, O Jacob, I will gather the remnant of Israel; I will set them together like sheep in a fold, li...


PoC-38 5th Friday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
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The Cross of Christ Restores. . .The Dignity of Work

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—Am I doing what God wants me to do?

Seek—To pray, to put God first in all things, in every aspect of your life. Ask God to bless your home and your work, making all that you do fruitful.

Knock—Meditate on Genesis 2:2–3.

And on the seventh day God finished his work which he had done. (. . . )So God blessed the seventh day and hallowed it, because on it God rested f...


BW37 – Friendship With the Lord – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 37 – St. Gertrude the Great – Friendship With the Lord

In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor turns to St. Gertrude the Great, a Benedictine nun formed in the remarkable monastery of Helfta. Her love for Christ is tender, reverent, and deeply rooted in the life of prayer. Gertrude did not grow in isolation. She was shaped within a community ordered by the Holy Rule, the Divi...


ROF10 – Defending Human Life – Roots of the Faith with Mike Aquilina – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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Defending Human Life – Roots of the Faith with Mike Aquilina

Mike Aquilina and Kris McGregor discuss how early Christian leaders upheld the dignity of human life in a culture where infanticide and abortion were common and widely accepted. In the ancient pagan world, unwanted infants—especially girls—were often abandoned or killed, and abortion was supported by prominent thinkers. Jewish and Christian communities consistently rejected these practices, a stance clearly reflected in early writings such as the Didache and works by Church Fathers like Justin Martyr and Athenagoras. Across centuries, these sources present a unifie...


Day 37: Before Abraham Was, I Am – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 37: Before Abraham Was, I Am

Scripture Reading: (Jerusalem Bible)

John 8:51–59Ā 

Jesus said to the Jews: ā€œI tell you solemnly, if anyone keeps My word he will never see death.ā€ The Jews said, ā€œNow we know that You are possessed. Abraham is dead, and the prophets are dead, and yet You say, ā€˜If anyone keeps My word he will never know the taste of death.’ Are You greater than our father Abraham, who is...


5th Thursday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
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5th Thursday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of John 8:51-59

Jesus said to the Jews...


PoC-37 5th Thursday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
Yesterday at 2:30 AM



The Cross of Christ Restores. . .Obedience

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—Am I obedient to the commands of Jesus?

Seek—To be open to God. Receive the Eucharist and ask God to enrich you with his Body and Blood, enabling you to be an obedient son or daughter, abiding in Christ.

Knock—Meditate on 1 John 2:3–6.

We can be sure that we know God only by keeping his commandments.Ā Anyone who says, ā€˜I know him’, and does not keep his commandments, is a liar, refusing to adm...


BW36 – Living In Harmony – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 36 – St. Hildegard of Bingen – Living in Harmony

In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor reflects on St. Hildegard of Bingen’s vision of healing as the restoration of harmony. For Hildegard, healing is not only the easing of pain or the correction of one part of life. It is the return of right order, where soul, body, and daily life begin to come back into balanc...


IP#353 Sally Read – Annunciation on Inside the Pages with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Catholic Podcasts
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Annunciation – by Sally Read on Inside the Pages with Kris McGregor

Kris McGregor speaks with Sally Read about Annunciation: A Call to Faith in a Broken World, a book Sally wrote as a letter to her daughter and as a reflection on faith, motherhood, and conversion. Sally describes the Annunciation as a pattern for every life: God calls, the soul answers, and trust must continue even when prayer feels dry or difficult. She presents Mary not as weak or passive, but as courageous, powerful, and deeply faithful, and shares how her own view of Mary ch...


The Annunciation – Building a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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The Annunciation – Building a Kingdom of Love with Msgr. John Esseff

Msgr. John Esseff reflects on the Feast of the Annunciation, which falls in the heart of Lent. He shares how personal and significant this date is to him, as it marks the wedding anniversary of his parents. Their story, including seeking a dispensation to marry during Lent and defying an arranged marriage, mirrors the boldness and surrender exemplified by Mary’s own ā€œyesā€ to God; drawing a connection between Mary’s total openness to God’s will and the Lenten call to deeper prayer, sacrifice, a...


Day 36: The Truth Will Set You Free – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 36: The Truth Will Set You Free

Scripture Reading: (Jerusalem Bible)

John 8:31–42Ā 

To the Jews who believed in Him, Jesus said: ā€œIf you make My word your home you will indeed be My disciples, you will learn the truth and the truth will make you free.ā€

They answered, ā€œWe are descended from Abraham and we have never been the slaves of anyone; what do you mean, ā€˜You will be made...


The Annunciation of the Lord – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
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The Annunciation of the Lord – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of Luke 1:26-38

The angel Gabriel was sent by God...


PoC-36 5th Wednesday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
Last Wednesday at 2:30 AM



The Cross of Christ Restores. . .Our Freedom

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—Are there areas of my life where I am still enslaved?

Seek—Persevere in the teaching of Jesus. Experience the joy of the small victories when standing your ground against the enemy, especially when he seeks to seduce you back into the slavery of sin.

Knock—Meditate on Romans 6:22–23.

Now, however, you have been set free from sin, you have been made slaves of God, and you get a reward leading to your sa...


BW35 – Bearing Fruit in Steadfastness – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
Last Tuesday at 7:46 PM


The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 35 – St. Hildegard of Bingen – Bearing Fruit in Steadfastness

In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor reflects on St. Hildegard of Bingen’s vision of fruitfulness as something that grows slowly through steadfastness. Healing is not the end of the spiritual life. It prepares the soul for deeper growth. For Hildegard, fruitfulness is not measured by visible success, intensity or quick results. It comes through remain...


CTD5 – Leaving the Desert – Crossing the Desert: Lent and Conversion with Deacon James Keating – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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Leaving the Desert – Crossing the Desert: Lent and Conversion with Deacon James Keating

In this episode, Deacon James Keating and Kris McGregor explore Lent’s significance, urging introspection and acknowledgment of sin. Deacon Keating highlights society’s loss of this sense, attributing it partly to psychology’s influence.

This reminds us of personal responsibility and freedom in recognizing sin; especially cultural desensitization to sin, emphasizing intentional conscience formation through spiritually grounded fellowship. They advocate for gentle yet firm engagement on moral issues to foster genuine community within parishes.

Discerning Hearts Reflecti...


Day 35: Look Upon the One They Have Pierced – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 35: Look Upon the One They Have Pierced

Scripture Reading: (Jerusalem Bible)

John 8:21–30

Again Jesus said to them: ā€œI am going away; you will look for Me and you will die in your sin. Where I am going, you cannot come.ā€

The Jews said to one another, ā€œWill He kill Himself? Is that what He means by saying, ā€˜Where I am going, you cannot come’?ā€

Jesus went on: ā€œ...


A Novena for the Annunciation – Day 9 – Mary, Woman of Faith
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Day 9:Ā Mary, Woman of Faith

Lord let it be done to me as you have saidā€ (Luke I:38) Let us pray: Almighty Father, we are Your children. We call You by name and follow in the footsteps of Jesus, Your Son. Give us the grace to have and live the faith of Mary so we may become worthy of the eternal life You promised. Father, let us fill our hearts with faith to be able to accept Your will for us without reservations. Help us remove the doubts and perplexities that plague our minds to face the dif...


5th Tuesday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
Last Tuesday at 3:00 AM

5th Tuesday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of John 8:21-30

Jesus said to the Pharisees:
ā€˜I am...


PoC-35 5th Tuesday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
Last Tuesday at 2:30 AM



The Cross of Christ Restores. . .The Image of God

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—What can make me more like Christ in his humility?

Seek—Ask God to reveal to you his purpose for your life. When you do not feel accepted by others, look to the rejection that Jesus endured on the cross and unite your suffering to his.

Knock—Meditate on Numbers 21:8–9.

The Lord answered him, ā€˜Make a fiery serpent and put it on a standard. If anyone is bitten and looks at it...


BW34 – The Ruler of All – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 34 – St. Hildegard of Bingen – The Ruler of All

In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor continues with St. Hildegard of Bingen and her vision of God as the One who orders and sustains all things. Hildegard begins not with the self but with God, whose power gives life, fruitfulness, and right order to creation. Her Benedictine formation matters deeply here. Living within the Holy Rule, the...


SISL10 – I Don’t Feel God’s Love – Struggles in the Spiritual Life with Fr. Timothy Gallagher – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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I Don’t Feel God’s Love – Struggles in the Spiritual Life with Fr. Timothy Gallagher O.M.V.

Fr. Timothy Gallagher and Kris McGregor discuss how ongoing struggles are a normal part of the spiritual life, where both consolation and desolation play important roles in growth. Through Kathy’s experience, they show how prayer can begin with deep peace, a sense of being loved, and visible fruit in daily life, only to later shift into dryness and inner turmoil. When a Scripture passage unexpectedly brings up unresolved pain from her past, Kathy enters a state of...


A Novena for the Annunciation – Day 8 – Mary, handmaid of the Lord
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Day 8:Ā Mary, handmaid of the Lord

Then Mary said ā€œI am the Handmaid of the Lordā€ (Luke I:38)

Let us pray: Ā O God, our loving Father, You infused into our hearts the gifts of service, charity and vocation. We come to You in humility. Grant us the spirit of divine love so that that we may imitate the Blessed Virgin Mary. Teach us how to genuinely serve, unconditionally respond to, and lovingly care for our family and brethren. Help us to respond to Your call so that we may become worthy instruments of Your divine work...


Day 34: Mercy Meets Us in Our Sin – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 34: Mercy Meets Us in Our Sin

Scripture Reading (Jerusalem Bible):

John 8:1–11 (Jerusalem Bible)

Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. At daybreak, He appeared in the Temple again; and as all the people came to Him, He sat down and began to teach them.

The scribes and Pharisees brought a woman along who had been caught committing adultery; and making her stand there in full view of everybody, they said to Jesus, ā€œMaster...


5th Monday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
Last Monday at 3:00 AM


5th Monday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of St. John 8:1-11

Jesus went to the...


PoC-34 5th Monday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
Last Monday at 2:30 AM



The Cross of Christ Restores. . .Forgiveness

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—Do I believe in the power of Jesus to forgive?

Seek—Acknowledge your sinfulness before God. Make a daily examination of conscience. In whom are you placing your trust, in Jesus or yourself? Frequently ask God to help you to sin no more.

Knock—Meditate on Philippians 3:8–11.

Not only that, but I believe nothing can happen that will outweigh the supreme advantage of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For him I have accepted the...


The Fifth Sunday of Lent: Resurrection and New Life – Building a Kingdom of Love w/ Msgr. John Esseff Podcast
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The Fifth Sunday of Lent: Resurrection and New Life – Building a Kingdom of Love w/ Msgr. John Esseff Podcast

In this Fifth Sunday of Lent reflection, Msgr. John Esseff turns to the Gospel of the raising of Lazarus and the promise spoken through the prophet Ezekiel that God will open the graves and restore life to his people. He proclaims that apart from Christ, humanity lives in a state of spiritual death, but through faith in Jesus, the resurrection and the life, new life is given even now.

Msgr. Esseff reflects on Jesus’ ques...


BW33 – Scivias: God’s Living Work – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 33 – St. Hildegard of Bingen – Scivias: God’s Living Work

In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor turns to St. Hildegard of Bingen and her great work Scivias. Formed by the Benedictine life of prayer, stability, obedience, and attentive listening, Hildegard speaks from within the wisdom of the Holy Rule. Her visions are not distractions from that life, but expressions of a soul deeply grounded in it.


A Novena for the Annunciation – Day 7 – Mary, Help of Christians
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Day 7:Ā Mary, Help of Christians

Even your relative Elizabeth is expecting a son in her old age, although she was unable to have a child, and she is now in her sixth month. With God, nothing is impossibleā€ (Luke I:36-37)

Let us pray:Ā God, our Father, we come to You with confidence that You will enlighten us with Your grace and love. Today as we worry about the world’s miseries, where love is disappearing among families and neighbors, where we find disunity everywhere, where love and respect for Your Son Jesus Christ are no...


POC#6 The Power of the Cross with Michael Dubruiel episode 6 – Discerning Hearts
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Episode 6 – The Cross of Christ restores… – Fifth Week

In ā€œThe Power of the Crossā€, Michael Dubruiel penned a truly exceptional meditation on the Cross of Christ which serves beautifully as a source for reflection any time of the year, but it is particularly poignant and compelling during the weeks of Lent. Several years ago Bruce and I had the chance to have a series of conversations with Michael during Lent using his book for reflection…it was a big hit with the audience. Those discussions have been remastered and made available once again here. Michael died unexpectedly in February...


Day 33: Trusting the One Who Calls Us to Life – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 33: Trusting the One Who Calls Us to Life

Scripture Reading (Jerusalem Bible):

John 11: 11:3-7,​17,​20-27,​33-45

Mary and Martha sent this message to Jesus, ā€˜Lord, the man you love is ill.’ On receiving the message, Jesus said, ā€˜This sickness will end not in death but in God’s glory, and through it the Son of God will be glorified.’

Ā Ā Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus, yet when he heard that Lazarus was ill he s...


5th Sunday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
Last Sunday at 3:00 AM


5th Sunday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of St. John 11:1-45

There was a man n...


PoC-33 5th Sunday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
Last Sunday at 2:30 AM

The Cross of Christ Restores. . .Life

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—What still binds me?

Seek—See the restorative power of the cross to see all things made new by the death of Jesus—spend some time allowing your past failings, relationships, and the deaths of loved ones to come forward, and present them to the Lord.

Knock—Meditate on Acts 9:40–41.

Peter sent them all out of the room and knelt down and prayed. Then he turned to the dead woman and said, ā€˜Tabitha, stand up’. She opened her...


BW32 – Love Returned in God – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 32 – St. Bernard of Clairvaux – Love Returned in God

In Episode 32 of our Week 4 Lenten journey with St. Bernard of Clairvaux’s On Loving God, we reflect on the furthest reach of love: when love is so healed and rightly ordered in God that a person can receive even his own life as gift. St. Bernard is careful here. He is not describing a return to self-interest, but a self restored by grace and ri...


Day 32: The Hidden Work of God – Discerning Hearts Podcast
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A Lenten Spiritual Journey with Discerning Hearts: From Ashes to Glory – Discerning Hearts Podcast

Day 32: The Hidden Work of God

Scripture Reading (Jerusalem Bible):

Jeremiah 11:18–20
The Lord revealed it to me; I was warned.
O Lord, that was when You opened my eyes to their scheming.
I for my part was like a trustful lamb being led to the slaughter,
not knowing the schemes they were plotting against me.
ā€œLet us destroy the tree in its strength,
cut him off from the land of the living...


A Novena for the Annunciation – Day 6 – Mary, Mother of Light
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Day 6:Ā Mary, Mother of Light

The Holy Spirit will come upon you and the power of the Most High will overshadow you. (Luke 1:35)

Let us pray:

Father, true to Your promise, You sent the Holy Spirit to dwell in us and to call us out of darkness into Your wonderful Light. Help us to remember this whenever we are beset with life’s perils and miseries. Fill us with hope and faith in Your providence. As we journey through life, give us the strength to courageously encounter suffering. Send us Your love and...


4th Saturday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast
Last Saturday at 3:00 AM

4th Saturday of Lent – A Time of Lectio Divina for the Discerning Heart Podcast

As you begin, take a deep breath and exhale slowly.Ā  For at least the next few moments, surrender all the cares and concerns of this day to the Lord.

Say slowly from your heart ā€œJesus, I Trust In You…You Take Overā€

Become aware that He is with you, looking upon you with love, wanting to be heard deep within in your heart…

From the Holy Gospel of John 7:40-52

Several people who had been listening t...


PoC-32 4th Saturday of Lent: The Power of the Cross Lenten Meditation
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The Cross of Christ Illumines. . .The Way to True Unity

Steps to Take as You Follow Christ

Ask—Am I focused on unity or division within the body of Christ?

Seek—Give thanks to God ahead of time in your prayers. Think of how Jesus instituted the Eucharist (i.e., ā€œthanksgivingā€) on the night before he died. When you are at Mass, consciously give thanks to God through Jesus for all that God has done and will do in your life.

Knock—Meditate on Ephesians 5:1–2.

Try, then, to imita...


BW31 – Loving God for God’s Sake – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts
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The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor

Episode 31 – St. Bernard of Clairvaux – Loving God for God’s Sake

In Episode 31 of our Week 4 Lenten journey, we continue with St. Bernard of Clairvaux’s On Loving God and reflect on a deeper purification of love: learning to love God for His own sake. St. Bernard shows that this is a work of grace over time. The soul no longer turns toward God mainly for help, strength, or consolation, but begins to love Him...