Your Life
Exploring the questions everyone has about life, love, parenting and relationships. Tony Haire is a independent Certified Coach, Teacher and Speaker with The John Maxwell Team, author and inspirational speaker who lives in Fayetteville, NC. He has a Bachelors Degree in Criminal Justice, a Masters Degree in Pastoral Counseling, and a Doctorate of Philosophy in Christian Counseling.Dan DeBruler is a Pastor, teacher, and retired US Army communications specialist, and has spent more than 25 years encouraging listeners through Christian radio.
Your Life | 189 | Positioned to Stand. Called to Live
In this thoughtâprovoking episode of YourâŻLife, Dr.âŻTonyâŻHaire and DanâŻDeBruler invite listeners to rediscover the believerâs true position in Christ. Drawing deeply from ColossiansâŻ2âŻandâŻ3, they unpack what it means to be rooted, built up, and established in faith â even as a world full of noise, temptation, and confusion constantly pulls us in other directions.
Dr.âŻHaire reminds us that the life of faith isnât about performing religion; itâs about being hidden in Christ. DanâŻconnects the conversation to the way everyday habits â what we watch, listen to, and entertain â shape our walk with God. Together, they offer...
Your Life | 188 | The Law of Addition
Dr.âŻTonyâŻHaireâŻandâŻDanâŻDeBrulerâŻdiscussâŻhowâŻrealâŻleadershipâŻisnâtâŻtitleâŻorâŻstatusâŻââŻitâsâŻservice.âŻThroughâŻColossiansâŻ1,âŻPaulâsâŻwritingsâŻrevealâŻtheâŻheartâŻofâŻaâŻleaderâŻwhoâŻsacrificesâŻselfâŻtoâŻaddâŻvalueâŻtoâŻothers.âŻ
ThisâŻconversationâŻinspiresâŻbelieversâŻtoâŻbringâŻChristâsâŻpresenceâŻintoâŻeverydayâŻlifeâŻbyâŻmentoring,âŻlistening,âŻandâŻloving.âŻEachâŻofâŻusâŻhasâŻinfluenceâŻââŻandâŻthroughâŻChristâlikeâŻleadershipâŻweâŻcanâŻturnâŻthatâŻinfluenceâŻintoâŻ
impactâŻthatâŻtransformsâŻhomes,âŻcommunities,âŻandâŻnations.
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Your Life 187 | What Shall I Say?
There are moments when purpose becomes clear, but costly.
In this Easterâseason edition of YourâŻLife, Dr.âŻTonyâŻHaire and DanâŻDeBruler explore Jesusâ powerful words in JohnâŻ12:27âŻââŻ28:
âNowâŻmyâŻsoulâŻisâŻtroubled,âŻandâŻwhatâŻshallâŻIâŻsay?âŻâFather,âŻsaveâŻmeâŻfromâŻthisâŻhourâ?âŻNo,âŻitâŻwasâŻforâŻthisâŻveryâŻreasonâŻIâŻcameâŻtoâŻthisâŻhour.âŻFather,âŻglorifyâŻyourâŻname.â
Together they trace the humanity and the divinity of Christ as He moves toward the cross, showing that His obedience was costly, purposeful, and redemptive.
Through this conversation youâll discover how Jesusâ resolve provides a model for navigating our own difficu...
Your Life 186-How Do You Respond to Jesus?
In this episode of Your Life, DanâŻDeBruler and Dr.âŻTonyâŻHaire open JohnâŻ12 to explore one of lifeâs most important questions: What is your response to Jesus?
From Maryâs devotion to Judasâ deception and Marthaâs service to Lazarusâ quiet gratitude, every heart at that table responded differently to the same Savior. Their conversation challenges us to look closely at our own response â how we serve, give, speak, and live when Jesus fills the room with His presence.
Through honest dialogue and biblical insight, DanâŻandâŻTony take listeners beyond the familiar story to consider how comfort...
Your Life 185-Are You Willing To Sacrifice?
When obedience costs something, how far are you willing to go?
In this episode of YourâŻLife, DanâŻDeBruler and TonyâŻHaire dig into one of Scriptureâs most powerful tests of faithâAbrahamâs willingness to place Isaac on the altar.⯠From GenesisâŻ22, they explore what real trust looks like when God asks for what we hold most dear.Together they reveal how Abrahamâs experience foreshadows the ultimate sacrifice of Godâs own Sonâand how the same principle still challenges believers today. What are we clinging to that keeps us from total surrender? Is it time, finances, relati...
Your Life 184-The Purpose of a Lamp
Join Tony and Dan for a conversation about light and purpose based on Mark 4:21-25.
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Your Life 183-Stay Focused
What do we do when life feels unfairâwhen those who seem far from God appear to be winning?
In this episode of Your Life,
Dr.âŻTonyâŻHaireâŻandâŻDanâŻDeBruler dig into JeremiahâŻ12, where the prophet asks God a question weâve all wondered: âWhy do the wicked prosper?â
Through that honest conversation between Jeremiah and God, TonyâŻandâŻDan remind us that God welcomes our questionsâHe can handle every doubt and frustration we bring. But His reply to Jeremiah still echoes today: âIf you have raced with the footmen and they have worn you out, how c...
Your Life 182-The Way
When life feels uncertain, what does it mean that Jesus is the Way?
Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler trace the context around John 14âJudasâ betrayal, Peterâs denial, Thomasâ questionâand explain why the âwayâ isnât a route but a Person.
They model Christlike responses to real-world tensions (customer conflicts, online pushback), talk trust vs. feelings, and urge believers to leverage media to spread hope.
The episode ends with a clear invitation to follow Jesus and next steps for new believers.
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Pastorâcounselor Dr. Tony Haire and broadcasterâpastor Dan DeBruler unpack John...
Your Life 181-âDo You Really Know Him?â â Rediscovering an Intimate Relationship with Jesus
Many believers talk about God. Fewer truly know Him.This week on YourâŻLife, DanâŻDeBruler and Dr.âŻTonyâŻHaire dismantle the idea that religion alone equals relationship. Looking at JohnâŻ7âŻthrough fresh eyes, they challenge listeners to trade surface familiarity for deep, personal communion with Jesus.In this episode:JohnâŻ7âŻ:âŻ25â31âŻ(NIV)âŻââŻWhen the religious crowd couldnât recognize Christ standing in front of them.Why âknowing aboutâ God isnât the same as knowing Him.How daily surrender deepens intimacy with Christ.When faith becomes personal â and transforms how we see ourselves and others.Practical steps to cultivate an everyday awareness of His presence.This is ho...
Your Life | 179 | Take Responsibility: Josephâs Christmas Lesson
Joseph didnât cause the crisisâbut it was his assignment; hereâs how taking responsibility becomes part of Godâs redemption story.Â
Dan and Tony walk through Matthew 1:18â25 to show how Josephâs obedience reframes responsibility. God breaks 400 years of silence, interrupts Josephâs plans, and asks him to own an assignment he didnât causeâto take Mary as his wife, name the child Jesus, and steward a story bigger than his reputation.
Youâll hear practical, pastoral counsel for men and families: slowing down to hear God, choosing obedience over optics, and enga...
Your Life 178-CONformed or TRANSformed?
How to diagnose whether youâre conforming to the culture or being transformed by the renewing of your mindâand what to do next.
Todayâs question is simple and searching: Am I being conformed or transformed? Romans 12:1â2 says real worship is a whole-life offering, a refusal to copy the patterns of this world, and a mind God keeps renewing. Weâll look at clear signs of conformity, the fruits of true transformation, and a one-week plan to reset your mind and rhythmsâso your faith looks like Tuesday afternoon, not just Sunday morning.
Conformed: 5 telltales (q...
Your Life 177-Anatomy Of A Dispute
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Your Life | 176 | God-Pleasing Faith: More Relationship, Less Performance
Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler unpack how ordinary believers can actually please Godânot by spiritual hustle, but by a daily, dependent relationship with Him. What does it really take to please God?
Today wer boil it down to one word: relationship. Pulling from Hebrews 11 and Enochâs walk with God, they contrast performance-driven religion with simple, stubborn faith that trusts Godâs character, obeys His voice, and keeps walkingâespecially when life is messy. Youâll hear practical handles for cultivating closeness with God: honest prayer, Scripture before screens, quick repentance, and small steps of obedience...
Your Life 175-The Race of Faith
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Your Life | 174 | Follow God to Your Promised Land (Even When Itâs the Long Way)
What if Godâs path to your promised land isnât the fastest, but the safest? In this episode of Your Life, Dan DeBruler and Dr. Tony Hare walk through Exodus 13:17â22 and explore why God sometimes âreroutesâ usâprotecting us from battles weâre not ready for and preparing us for the ones ahead. From relationships and marriage to church life and calling, they talk about letting go, being led, and finding peace in obedience. Youâll hear:Why shortcuts can sabotage spiritual growthHow Godâs detours are mercy, not punishmentWhat it means to stand at the edge of your wilderness...
Your Life | 173 | Stop Complaining, Start Thanking: The Secret to Contentment
Why do we so often long for the past while overlooking the blessings of the present? In this episode, Dr. Tony Hair and Dan De Bruer unpack the biblical tension between had and have. Through the lens of the Israelitesâ complaints in the wilderness, they reveal how distorted memories can rob us of gratitude, why grumbling blinds us to Godâs provision, and how choosing conversation with God over complaint changes everything. Listeners will discover:The danger of romanticizing the past (Exodus 16, Numbers 11)How complaining distorts reality and blocks gratitudeWhy gratitude is the antidote to discontentHow to replace grumbling with hone...
Your Life | 172 | Whatâs Your Aim? How to Align Your Life with Godâs Purpose
What are you aiming at in lifeâsuccess, comfort, recognition, or something greater? In this teaching, we dive into the biblical perspective of living with a clear aim: to please God. Drawing from 2 Corinthians 5 and John 15, we examine how our daily choices reveal where our aim is truly set. Youâll discover:Why Paulâs words about âmaking it our aimâ matter for us todayThe difference between aiming to please self and aiming to please GodHow to keep perspective through the lens of eternity and the judgment seat of ChristThe joy of remaining connected to Jesus as the true source of fulfill...
Your Life | 171 | The Power of Thought: How Your Mind Shapes Your Life
Your greatest battles may not be against the world around you, but within your own mind.
In this episode of Your Life, hosts Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler discuss the power of thoughts, the dangers of defilement from within, and the life-changing call to take every thought captive.
Through biblical insight and practical reflection, they reveal how our thought life influences our behavior, relationships, and spiritual growth. From understanding Jesusâ teaching in Mark 7 to applying Paulâs wisdom in 2 Corinthians 10, this conversation challenges you to examine what you think, why you think it, and how to r...
Your Life | 170 | Influence, Trust, and Humility: What Jesus Teaches About Communication
So often we wonder: âWhy donât people listen to me?â
In this teaching, we explore that very question through the lens of Jesusâ first miracleâturning water into wine at Cana. Weâll look at how Jesus earned trust, demonstrated humility, and served others in ways that gave His words lasting weight. Youâll learn:Why trust and consistency are essential to being heardHow humility opens the door for influenceWhy serving others creates space for real communicationWhat Jesusâ miracle reveals about building credibilityWhether at home, work, or church, these lessons help us move from frustration to influenceâso tha...
Your Life 169-What Does God Want To See
The Question That Matters: "What does God want to see?"
It's not just what others see in us, or even what we want to show.
The real question is: What does God desire to see when He looks at your life?
Paul gives us the answer in Colossians 1:27 â Christ in you, the hope of glory.
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Your Life 168 - Image and Identity: How Do You See Yourself?
âYou canât live in the worldâs image and fulfill Godâs purpose.â
In this inspiring and thought-provoking episode of Your Life, Dr. Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler dive deep into the question: "Whose image are you living in?" Anchored in Numbers 13â14, they examine the contrast between those who saw themselves through the world's eyesâand Caleb and Joshua, who saw themselves through God's image.
They explore how your self-image, when detached from Godâs truth, leads to fear, hesitation, and missed opportunities. But when you see yourself the way God sees you, everything chang...
Your Life 167-Just For Today
One day. Three choices. A Christ-centered mindset.
Choose and display the right attitude (Phil 2:3-8)Determine anc act on important priorities (Eph 5:15-17)Practice and develop good thinking (Prov 4:5-9)Â
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Your Life 166-There's Nothig Wrong With The World
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Your Life 165-Why You Should Rejoice Daily
In Luke 10 the disciples return thrilled by their victoriesâthen Jesus redirects them: donât anchor your joy in results, but in the reality that your names are written in heaven (Luke 10:20). In this conversation we unpack how that one truth reframes our emotions, our milestones, and our setbacks. Weâll look at Jesusâ promise of authority amid adversity (Luke 10:19), why wins are wonderful but temporary, and how to practice a daily rhythm of rejoicing thatâs rooted in eternal security, not changing circumstances.
Youâll walk away with a clear, Scripture-shaped mindset: wake up, preach the gospel to your soul, a...
Your Life 164-Lesson from The Master
Lesson From The Master Luke 9:46-56
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Your Life 163-Can You See Where You're Going
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Your Life 162-A Great Way to Live Your Day
Psalm 27:1-8
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Your Life 161-A Withered Life
A Withered Life
Mark 3:1-6
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Your Life 160-Unnecessary Distractions
Unnecessary Distractions:
Mark 1:35-39
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Your Life 159-Correction
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Your Life 158-20 20 Vision
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Your Life 157-Go To Him
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Your Life 156-No Stumbling
John 11:1-11
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Your Life 155-A Year of Purfoseful Work
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Your Life 154-Work Is Available
Acts 1:8-11
 8But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come on you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth.â
9After he had said this, he was taken up as they were watching, and a cloud took him out of their sight.
10While he was going, they were gazing into heaven, and suddenly two men in white clothes stood by them.Â
11They said, âMen of Galilee, why do you stand looking up into heaven? This same J...
Your Life 153-Deny Yourself
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Your Life 152-Just For Today
What if -Â just for today _ we focused on being our best in three simple ways:
Good Thinking - Proverbs 4:5-9The Right Attitude - Philippians 3:8Solid Relationships - Colossians 3:12-16In this episode of "Your Life," Tony Haire and Dan DeBruler look to the significance of setting goals and cultivating a positive mindset. They highlight the transformative power of God's Word, emphasizing the need to not only read Scripture but to internalize its teachings.
Listen as they underscore the importance of practicing good thinking, aligning our thoughts with God's Word. B...
Your Life 151-Spiritual Transformation
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Your Life 150-Don't Lose Focus
Join us for a close look at Psalms 37:1-8
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Your Life 148-Helping Others Stay On Course
We are encouraged...to encourage!
Philippians 1:9; 12-18
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