The Strong Life Project
The Strong Life Project Podcast Daily is your essential 10-minute guide to building an unbreakable mindset, delivered by Shaun O’Gorman—a former elite police officer turned high-performance coach, author, and founder of The Strong Life Project. Shaun’s raw and powerful insights come from the front lines of life, where he’s battled PTSD, depression, and the darkest moments of suicidal despair. Now, he’s committed to helping others rise from their challenges and live a life of strength, resilience, and purpose. In each episode, Shaun draws from his 20 years of hard-earned wisdom and experience in personal development, mental health, an...
EP 3512 Whatever you were told is your truth
The stories you were told growing up, about success, worth, strength, and love, became the foundation of your truth. But what if those stories were never yours to begin with? In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores how conditioning, belief systems, and early influences shape the way you see yourself and the world. High performers know that to reach their full potential, they must question the narratives they were given and rewrite their own truth.
Key Takeaways:
How childhood and cultural conditioning create your personal reality Why most people live by oth...EP 3511 Through the toughest battles you emerge stronger and wiser
It’s not the easy times that shape you—it’s the battles that test every part of who you are. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores how life’s hardest moments forge strength, wisdom, and perspective. True growth doesn’t come from comfort; it comes from the challenges that break you down and force you to rebuild stronger. High performers and resilient leaders know that adversity is the ultimate teacher.
Key Takeaways:
How adversity builds unshakable resilience and inner strength Why pain and struggle are essential for real personal growth The m...EP 3510 Growth means change Change involves risk
Real growth never happens in your comfort zone. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores why every step toward success demands risk, discomfort, and uncertainty. If you want to evolve as a leader, partner, or human being, you must be willing to let go of what’s familiar and face what’s uncomfortable. Change is never easy—but staying the same costs far more.
Key Takeaways:
Why growth and comfort can’t coexist How fear of failure keeps you stuck where you are The mindset shift that helps you embrace uncertainty How to mak...EP 3509 No one can steal your thunder when you are the storm
True power comes from within. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores what it means to be unshakable—to build the kind of inner strength that makes you unstoppable, no matter what life throws your way. When you become the storm, no one can take your confidence, control your emotions, or dictate your path. This is how elite performers, leaders, and resilient individuals operate—calm, confident, and in command of their own energy.
Key Takeaways:
How to develop unshakable confidence and self-belief Why external validation keeps you weak and reactive The mindse...EP 3508 Turn the page and write the next chapter of your story
No matter what’s happened in your past, you have the power to start again. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman talks about how to let go of old mistakes, failures, and regrets so you can write a new story for your life. High performers and resilient leaders understand that growth comes from accepting the past, learning the lessons, and moving forward with purpose. Your next chapter starts the moment you decide to stop rereading the last one.
Key Takeaways:
Why your past doesn’t define your future How to let go of...EP 3507 You meet yourself where you least want to look
The parts of yourself you avoid are the ones that hold the key to your growth. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dives into the uncomfortable truth that real transformation happens when you face the things you’d rather ignore—your fears, insecurities, and emotional pain. High performers and strong leaders understand that confronting their inner challenges is what creates real strength, clarity, and resilience.
Key Takeaways:
Why avoiding your inner struggles keeps you stuck How self-awareness and honesty drive true personal growth The link between emotional pain and high performance How to...EP 3506 What they hate in you is missing in them
When people criticize or resent you, it often says more about them than it does about you. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores how judgment, jealousy, and resentment are reflections of other people’s insecurities and unfulfilled potential. High performers and strong leaders learn not to take it personally—they recognize that the qualities others attack are often the ones they secretly wish they had.
Key Takeaways:
Why other people’s opinions are rarely about you How to identify projection and not absorb it The psychology behind jealousy, criticism, and resentme...EP 3505 You make the decision They have their reaction
You are responsible for your decisions—not for how others react to them. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores the freedom and power that come from owning your choices without letting guilt, fear, or people-pleasing dictate your path. True leadership and personal strength mean doing what’s right for you, even when it makes others uncomfortable.
Key Takeaways:
Why taking ownership of your choices builds confidence and self-respect How to stop letting other people’s opinions control your actions The mindset shift that separates strong leaders from approval-seekers How to deal wit...EP 3504 You can only change it once you accept it
You can’t change what you refuse to face. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dives into the power of acceptance as the first step to transformation. Whether it’s your stress, relationships, performance, or mindset—nothing shifts until you stop denying the truth and own your reality. High performers don’t waste energy pretending things are fine; they face the facts, take responsibility, and make the changes that matter.
Key Takeaways:
Why acceptance is the foundation of growth and change How denial and avoidance keep you stuck in the same patterns T...EP 3503 In 1 year it won’t even matter
Most of what stresses you out right now won’t even matter a year from today. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman challenges you to get perspective on the problems consuming your energy. High performers and resilient leaders know how to zoom out, detach from the noise, and focus on what truly matters. The truth is, most situations are temporary—but your reaction determines how long they control you.
Key Takeaways
How to stop giving energy to things that don’t matter long-term Why perspective is a superpower in high performance and lead...EP 3502 Your ego will ruin you
Your ego is the biggest threat to your success, not your competition. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman exposes how ego blinds leaders, destroys relationships, and limits growth. High performers who can’t control their ego eventually lose perspective, connection, and credibility. True strength comes from humility—the ability to listen, learn, and evolve without needing to prove you’re right.
Key Takeaways:
How ego blocks growth and honest self-assessment Why humility is the foundation of elite performance and leadership The difference between confidence and arrogance How to identify when ego is runni...EP 3501 On the days you aren’t motivated stay consistent
Motivation fades—but consistency builds greatness. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dives into why discipline matters more than motivation when it comes to achieving success. High performers don’t rely on how they feel; they rely on the habits they’ve built. When you stay consistent through the tough days, you separate yourself from the average and create unstoppable momentum.
Key Takeaways:
Why motivation is temporary but consistency is powerful How to build habits that keep you moving forward when you don’t feel like it The mindset shift from emotion-dr...EP 3500 People are jealous of what you got They’re never jealous of the work it took
Everyone admires the success, but few respect the struggle. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman exposes the truth behind envy and achievement. People see the results—money, confidence, success—but they don’t see the sleepless nights, sacrifice, and discipline that built it. High performers understand that jealousy comes from those unwilling to do the work themselves.
Key Takeaways:
Why people envy success but ignore the grind behind it How to handle jealousy and criticism without losing focus The mindset shift from seeking validation to building legacy Why discipline, not luck, creates...EP 3499 When you focus on progress you get sent your destiny
Your destiny isn’t found by chasing perfection—it’s revealed through consistent progress. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks how focusing on daily growth and forward momentum attracts the opportunities, people, and results you’re meant for. High performers understand that success is built one step at a time, and when you stay committed to progress, life opens the doors that were meant for you all along.
Key Takeaways:
Why consistency matters more than perfection in achieving success How small daily wins create massive long-term transformation The mindset shift that keeps...EP 3498 Sometimes you have to stand alone just to make sure you can
There are moments in life when you have to walk alone—not because you want to, but because it proves your strength. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman shares why standing on your own is one of the most powerful tests of character and resilience. High performers and strong leaders know that independence builds confidence, clarity, and conviction. When you stop needing approval and start trusting yourself, you become unstoppable.
Key Takeaways:
Why solitude is essential for building true strength and self-belief How standing alone reveals your values and priorities The conn...EP 3497 You can anything you want you just have to wait a bit longer
Success takes time. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dives into the power of patience, persistence, and long-term focus. High performers understand that great results are built through consistency and endurance, not instant gratification. When you stay disciplined and keep showing up, even when it feels like nothing is happening, that’s when success is being built behind the scenes.
Key Takeaways:
Why patience is a core component of high performance How instant gratification destroys long-term success The mindset shift that helps you stay committed during slow progress How to trust the...EP 3496 Big dreams take big commitment
Everyone wants success, but few are willing to commit at the level their goals demand. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down what it really takes to turn big dreams into reality. High performers don’t rely on motivation—they rely on discipline, consistency, and an unshakable commitment to doing the work even when it’s hard. If you want an extraordinary life, you must be prepared to put in extraordinary effort.
Key Takeaways:
Why commitment matters more than talent or motivation How to stay disciplined when results aren’t immediate ...EP 3495 You will never see new places if you stay still
Growth never happens in comfort. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman talks about why staying in the same place—mentally, emotionally, or physically—keeps you trapped in mediocrity. Progress demands movement. Whether it’s taking a risk in your career, confronting fear, or stepping into the unknown, every new level of your life requires action. High performers don’t wait for the right time—they create it.
Key Takeaways:
Why comfort is the enemy of growth and progress How fear of change keeps you stuck where you are The power of taking actio...EP 3494 Fall in love with the life you want
You can’t create an extraordinary life if you’re not in love with the vision you’re building. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman shares how high performers design their future by falling in love with the process, not just the outcome. The life you want isn’t found through luck or motivation—it’s built through clarity, discipline, and daily commitment to the person you’re becoming.
Key Takeaways:
Why passion for your vision fuels resilience and consistency How to reconnect with what truly matters to you The importance of designing a l...EP 3493 Don’t think about what might go wrong. Think about what might go right
Most people let fear control their decisions by focusing on everything that could go wrong. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman challenges that mindset and shows why high performers succeed by flipping the script. When you train your mind to look for what could go right, you open the door to opportunity, courage, and growth. Success comes to those who think forward, not those who live in fear.
Key Takeaways:
How fear-based thinking limits your potential and performance The power of shifting focus from risk to possibility Why optimism is a hi...EP 3492 What you put up with is what you will have
The standards you accept become the limits of your life. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman breaks down how tolerating poor behaviour, weak habits, or low standards slowly destroys your potential. Whether it’s in your relationships, career, or personal discipline, what you allow will always continue. High performers and strong leaders set clear boundaries and demand excellence—from themselves first.
Key Takeaways:
Why accepting mediocrity leads to frustration and burnout How your personal standards shape your success and fulfilment The difference between patience and weakness How to raise your expectations withou...EP 3491 Your peace of mind is waiting on the other side of self doubt
The greatest battle you’ll ever fight is the one inside your own head. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dives deep into how self-doubt keeps you trapped in fear, hesitation, and stress—and how breaking through it leads to true peace of mind. When you stop questioning your worth and start trusting your capability, everything changes. This is how high performers and strong leaders rise above the noise and find calm in the chaos.
Key Takeaways:
How self-doubt destroys confidence and decision-making Why peace of mind only comes when you take a...EP 3490 Try living outside your head
Most people live trapped inside their own thoughts, overanalyzing, doubting, and replaying every scenario until they paralyze themselves. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explains why living in your head keeps you from living in the moment. High performers and resilient leaders know that clarity, peace, and confidence come from action, not overthinking. When you get out of your head and into your life, everything changes.
Key Takeaways:
Why overthinking kills momentum and confidence How to quiet the mental noise and stay focused on what matters The link between awareness, action, and...EP 3489 We all make mistakes but you have to learn from them
Mistakes are inevitable, but repeating them is a choice. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why owning your mistakes is one of the most powerful things you can do to grow as a leader, partner, or performer. High achievers don’t fear failure—they use it as feedback. Every setback holds a lesson that can make you stronger, smarter, and more resilient if you’re willing to face it honestly.
Key Takeaways:
Why avoiding responsibility keeps you stuck in the same patterns How to turn failure into a valuable learning experien...EP 3488 Live your lfe to be happy People will judge you anyway
No matter what you do, someone will always have an opinion. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman challenges you to stop living for approval and start living for happiness. True freedom comes when you let go of other people’s judgments and focus on what genuinely matters to you. High performers and strong leaders understand that their peace, purpose, and fulfillment can’t depend on the opinions of others.
Key Takeaways:
Why seeking approval destroys your confidence and authenticity How to stop letting judgment control your decisions The mindset that empowers you to...EP 3487 A real friend walks in when everyone else walks out
In a world full of surface-level connections, true friendship is rare. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores what it really means to have and be a real friend. When life falls apart, most people disappear—but the ones who stay, who show up when it’s hard, are the ones who truly matter. Real friendship is built on loyalty, honesty, and courage, not convenience.
Key Takeaways:
The difference between real friends and fair-weather connections Why true friendship requires vulnerability and accountability How to recognise the people who genuinely have your back T...EP 3486 Cynicism kills your brain curiosity saves it
Cynicism is the enemy of growth. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks how a cynical mindset shuts down creativity, destroys relationships, and limits your potential. When you approach life with curiosity instead of judgment, you open your mind to learning, connection, and opportunity. High performers understand that curiosity fuels progress while cynicism keeps you stuck in fear and negativity.
Key Takeaways:
How cynicism limits your ability to learn and evolve Why curiosity is the foundation of resilience and high performance How to shift from judgment to awareness and understanding The im...EP 3485 tenacity gets you there, consistency keeps you there
Success isn’t about one big push, it’s about showing up every day with discipline and focus. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why tenacity might get you started, but consistency is what keeps you performing at the top. High performers don’t rely on motivation; they build habits that create unstoppable momentum. Whether in leadership, business, or personal growth, this episode will challenge you to commit to the long game and do the work that others won’t.
Key Takeaways:
Why tenacity gets you started but consistency sustains success How...EP 3484 Small hinges swing big doors
The smallest actions often create the biggest results. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explains how consistent, disciplined effort in the small things builds the foundation for massive success. High performers understand that transformation doesn’t come from one big move, it comes from daily habits, decisions, and commitments that compound over time.
Key Takeaways:
How small consistent actions create major long-term results Why success is built on discipline not motivation How to identify the small habits that have the biggest impact The mindset shift from instant gratification to strategic patience How...EP 3483 Feel the void, don’t fill the void
Most people spend their lives running from discomfort, numbing the pain instead of facing it. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman dives into the truth about emotional avoidance and why filling the void with distractions, achievements, or addictions only makes it deeper. High performers and leaders learn to sit with the void, understand it, and grow through it. Real strength comes from feeling what hurts, not escaping it.
Key Takeaways:
Why emotional avoidance keeps you stuck and unfulfilled How facing pain leads to real growth and transformation The difference between temporary rel...EP 3482 What you do on the days you don’t feel like it, makes the difference
Success isn’t built on motivation, it’s built on discipline. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why the days you don’t feel like showing up are the ones that define your results. High performers, leaders, and resilient people know that consistency is the true separator between average and exceptional. When you push through resistance and take action despite how you feel, you build the habits that lead to long-term success.
Key Takeaways:
Why discipline beats motivation every time How to build resilience by showing up when it’s hardest The...EP 3481 You can’t change the people around you, but you can change the people around you
Trying to change others is a losing game. The real power lies in choosing who you allow into your life. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why surrounding yourself with the right people is critical for success, resilience, and happiness. High performers know that your environment shapes your mindset, habits, and outcomes. If you want to grow, you must be intentional about who you give your time and energy to.
Key Takeaways:
Why you cannot force people to change their behaviour How your circle influences your mindset and performance The di...EP 3480 Give more than you receive
The most powerful way to build relationships, success, and fulfilment is to focus on what you give, not what you get. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks why generosity, contribution, and service are the true markers of strength and leadership. High performers understand that long-term success is built by adding value first and trusting that rewards will follow.
Key Takeaways:
Why giving more creates stronger connections and opportunities How contribution builds resilience and leadership credibility The difference between self-interest and service-driven success How to create abundance by focusing on value, no...EP 3479 Why did I fuck around for so long with that?
We’ve all looked back at decisions, habits, or relationships and wondered, why did I waste so much time? In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman unpacks the lessons hidden in those moments of frustration. Instead of beating yourself up, the key is recognising the growth, accepting the truth, and moving forward stronger. High performers know that regret is wasted energy, clarity and action are what create progress.
Key Takeaways:
Why self-awareness matters more than self-criticism How wasted time can still teach you valuable lessons The mindset shift from regret to responsibility How t...EP 3478 Thoughts don’t get you, believing them does
Your thoughts aren’t the problem, it’s the power you give them that holds you back. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explains how to separate yourself from the constant noise in your head and stop letting negative thoughts control your decisions, confidence, and future. High performers understand that thoughts are just stories, not facts. The difference between success and struggle often comes down to whether you choose to believe those stories or challenge them.
Key Takeaways:
Why your thoughts don’t define who you are How believing negative stories creates f...EP 3477 Calm seas don’t make skilled sailors
Strength, resilience, and leadership are forged in the storms, not in comfort. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman shares why adversity is the ultimate training ground for high performance. Calm waters may feel safe, but they don’t build the skills, courage, or mindset required to thrive when life gets tough. True growth happens when you face challenges head-on and learn to navigate uncertainty with confidence.
Key Takeaways:
Why adversity builds resilience more than comfort ever can How challenges shape your leadership, discipline, and character The mindset shift that transforms obstacles into...EP 3476 Catastrophising will paralyse you
When you blow problems out of proportion, you don’t solve them, you freeze. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explains how catastrophising creates unnecessary fear, anxiety, and inaction. High performers know that clear thinking under pressure is what separates success from failure. By breaking situations down into reality, not worst-case scenarios, you build resilience, confidence, and the ability to take decisive action.
Key Takeaways:
Why catastrophising exaggerates problems and fuels stress How fear-based thinking destroys clarity and performance Practical tools to reframe challenges into manageable steps The link between catastrophising and p...EP 3475 Getting back up is the only backup plan
Failure isn’t the end, it’s the test. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explains why resilience isn’t about never falling, but about always getting back up. Life, business, and leadership will knock you down, sometimes hard, but the only true backup plan is refusing to stay there. High performers don’t avoid setbacks, they use them as fuel to rise stronger.
Key Takeaways:
Why resilience is the defining trait of high performers How to reframe failure as feedback, not defeat The mindset shift that turns obstacles into opportunities Why persist...EP 3474 Warrior, Scholar and Lover
What makes a great man? In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explores the three essential archetypes every man must embrace to live a life of strength, purpose, and impact. The Warrior brings courage, discipline, and protection. The Scholar offers wisdom, learning, and perspective. The Lover brings connection, compassion, and heart. When these three qualities are balanced, a man becomes powerful, grounded, and complete.
Key Takeaways:
Why the strongest men balance strength with wisdom and love How to embody the warrior without becoming aggressive Why learning and curiosity make you a true le...EP 3473 It’s not a circle, it’s a cage
The people you surround yourself with determine whether you rise or stay stuck. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O’Gorman explains why a strong, supportive circle elevates you, while a toxic or limiting one becomes a cage that holds you back. High performers know that your environment shapes your mindset, habits, and results. If your circle isn’t challenging you to grow, it’s chaining you to mediocrity.
Key Takeaways:
How to recognise when your “circle” has become a cage Why the wrong people limit your growth and confidence The power of surroundin...