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This week on So Shameless, Tahoe welcomes Marcus, author of How to Be a Professional Side Dude, and Chrys for an unfiltered conversation about dating, relationships, commitment, sexual expectations, and the complicated dynamics between successful men and women.

Tahoe kicks things off by asking Marcus a question everybody wants answered: Can a man who built his reputation as a professional side dude actually settle down and be faithful? Marcus opens up about his dating history, whether he believes his past behavior with women has brought him bad karma, and why he once...

In Part Two of this week's So Shameless, the conversations get even deeper as Tahoe, Kelly G, Lama, and the crew tackle friendship, vulnerability, gender double standards, race, and accountability.

We kick things off by asking whether men give their female friends relationship advice from a male perspective instead of understanding how women think. Lama takes things a step further when he admits that sometimes he's willing to play the long game as a friend, hoping a woman will eventually see him as something more. Is that genuine friendship or just waiting for an opportunity?

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This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Kelly G, “The Drill Fairy,” and Lama, owner of Slyte Studios, for an episode packed with controversial opinions, hilarious dating stories, and some uncomfortable conversations about Black culture.

We kick things off with Lama asking a question that might make you rethink your entire circle: What’s the difference between a real friend and somebody you’re just cool with?

Then things heat up as we discuss Davinci’s controversial interview with Cam Newton, where he calls Americans lazy and incompetent compared to...

Part Two of this week’s So Shameless gets HEAVY as the crew tackles some uncomfortable conversations about accountability, race, relationships, and the expectations Black men and women have of each other.

We start with the Cornell 7 conversation and debate who was actually culpable. Was the young woman victimized, were there multiple people responsible for what happened, or is there more nuance to the situation than people are willing to acknowledge?

Then a young woman makes the statement that “Black men are hard to love.” What makes someone feel that way, and are Black men being judged...

The So Shameless crew is back, and we’re starting this episode in HOMIE COURT! 😂 Who is Yesssterday mad at this time?! After a few people show up late, we have to figure out why Yesssterday has an attitude — and who deserves the blame.

Then we get into a viral couple who records their arguments and posts them online so the internet can decide who’s wrong. Is bringing social media into your relationship ever a good idea? 

That leads us into a HEATED conversation when Reg explains the things he will and won’t accept fro...

Part Two of So Shameless featuring Kizzle of @expressyourselfblackman and life coach Coach Bellamy (@mrsbellamy.callmecoach) gets personal as we talk about insecurity, fatherhood, relationships, responsibility and some uncomfortable truths about ourselves.

We start with something almost everybody experiences but doesn’t always admit: feelings of inadequacy. What do you do when you don’t feel like you’re enough? And how much of overcoming those feelings comes from changing your circumstances versus changing the way you see yourself?

Then we get into fatherhood and discipline. What h...

This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Kizzle of @expressyourselfblackman and life coach Coach Bellamy (@mrsbellamy.callmecoach) for a conversation that goes from astrology and self-awareness to war, politics, the media and how we talk about the Black community.

First, we have to figure out why so many of us believe our zodiac signs explain the way we move through life. How much of our personality is really connected to our sign — and how much are we just using astrology to explain behavior we already wanted to justify? 😂

Part Two of So Shameless gets into the battle between the male and female experience — and whether we’re so busy proving who has it harder that we’ve stopped actually listening to each other.

We start with men living in survival mode and whether conversations about men’s struggles are too often dismissed by immediately comparing them to what women experience. Are men genuinely not being heard — or do men sometimes do the exact same thing when women talk about their problems?

Then we take that argument to social media. Do some women...

This week on So Shameless, Tahoe tries to do a good deed by buying a stranger some food — only to realize afterward that what HE thought was kindness might have made another man feel emasculated. Can helping somebody cross the line into disrespecting their pride?

Then we get into Lil Durk being found NOT GUILTY in his federal murder-for-hire trial and a much bigger conversation about Black culture, street life and accountability. Regardless of the verdict, should we be more critical of the way we celebrate rappers, drug dealers, scammers and other people associated wi...

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Part Two starts with the important questions…like WHO THE HELL IS STILL EATING MOUSSE?! 😂

But once we get past that, things get a lot more serious. 

This week on So Shameless, we ask what friendship really means when life gets difficult. If you have a friend you would do absolutely anything for, should you expect that person to stand beside you through your trials and tribulations — or are there circumstances where even your closest friends have the right to step away?

Then we get i...

After 8 long years Dajahbelle records her last episode with Tahoe, Traum and Yesterday...and of course they start it off with one last homie court. Enjoy.

Welcome Back To Part Two Feat Tasia, Rell and Alexa Leighton.

We get even more shameless as Alexa Leighton, Rell Easy and Tasia stay on the couch for a conversation about patriarchy, gender roles, double standards, motherhood, fatherhood and what men and women REALLY expect from each other.

First, why have some women started using “gay” as an insult toward straight men they disagree with or aren’t attracted to? Then we get into the story of Daejon Love, the alleged football scammer, and debate a controversial question: when the red flags are right in front of you...

This week on So Shameless, the crew gets into money, masculinity, street culture and everything the internet thinks a man is supposed to be.

Tahoe explains why he has absolutely NO interest in spending his money at the strip club when he’s there with his woman and her friends — but does that make him cheap, smart…or a simp? That leads us into the internet’s favorite insult: what actually makes a man a simp, and why are people calling Tahoe one?

We also debate Zoe Saldaña vs. Halle Berry...

In part Two of this weeks episode of So Shameless, the crew gets into dating, gender roles, friendship boundaries and what actually counts as disrespect when you’re in a relationship.

Should men be expected to handle the traditionally masculine things while women handle the feminine things in a relationship—or are those expectations outdated? 

We also debate whether men ruin friendships with women by eventually wanting sex, and whether a woman planning AND paying for the third date is showing healthy interest or doing way too much, way too soon. P...

This week on So Shameless, Tahoe is joined by Paris Danielle, Lola The Divine and Yesssterday for a conversation that goes from hilarious relationship misunderstandings to some much heavier questions about race, safety and what Black Americans should be paying attention to.
 
Paris opens up about realizing bartending simply wasn’t for her, before the crew asks why women are so quick to hit their man with “WRONG B*TCH!” when he remembers something she doesn’t. Why is the first assumption that he must be confusing her with another woman?

Then things get serious. ...

Part Two with celebrity chef Chef Cream gets even more controversial as we dive into dating, marriage, masculinity, race, colorism, and the double standards between men and women.

We start with a woman who says she’s only interested in men who are intentionally dating for marriage—but are men and women actually being prepared to become good husbands and wives? We debate fathers who teach their daughters to stay single, distrust men, and “be a boss” versus also teaching them what it takes to build a healthy relationship with a man.

Then thi...

This week on So Shameless, celebrity chef @Chef.Cream joins us on the couch for a conversation that goes from entrepreneurship and community to race, culture, and some of the biggest debates happening in Black America.
 
We kick things off talking about Traum’s successful block party, the work that went into curating the event, and Tahoe’s new icee cart—which leads to a conversation about his hustler mentality and why he’s always looking for the next opportunity.
 
Then we address the backlash from last week’s episode...

Tahoe and Norense go head to head in a conversation about racism, christianity, masculinity, black pride and we revisit the covid discussion. This was alot. Enjoy.

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This week we welcome motivation and wellness influencer Norense Odiase to talk the difference in how black men view life at 30 vs how they view life at 50, dealing with a friend that has thoughts of ending it all, defining what a perfect life is, how trauma changes us at our core, affecting the people around us positively and what that does for you, being a dark skin Nigerian American and the difference between how Norense was treated when he was young vs how he is treated now that he is...

This week on So Shameless, we’re back with Emanny of The Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for Part Two of a conversation about money, relationships, and modern dating expectations.

We discuss Mandi, of Decision, Decisions, controversial claim that marriage is for broke women, whether men and women experience dating someone with more money differently, and if dating up versus dating down changes relationship dynamics. We also react to a woman who says she’ll only date a man with...

This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Emanny from the Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for a conversation about the fine line between comfort and losing the plot in relationships.

We debate whether women get too comfortable passing gas around their partners, react to Usher getting curved by a fan during his concert, discuss what it’s like loving someone whose behavior constantly embarrasses you, and ask if you can ever truly move forward with someone who’s still emotionally attached to their ex.

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Melanie of the "I'm Not A Lawyer But.." page walks the team through a few cases for us to determine who we found liable in the crime presented vs what the court decided. From a mother who unalived her children, to a grandfather who is doing life for simply gave his car keys to a teenager...this episode was GOOD! ENJOY!!!

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This week Tahoe is super excited about his guest Melanie of the popular web page "I'm Not A Lawyer But.." to talk Tahoe's beef with Vanessa and Jojo Simmons, the Memphis Bleek interview where he is grilled about the Jayz backlash and whether Jay deserves the backlash he gets from the black community about his roles in the Barneys, NFL and Target protests. ENJOY!!

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We continue talking the Jay-Z concerts, what we liked about them and the missed opportunities, being acknowledged by ppl in the public and Tahoe flirting with his fans, a lady shoots her shot at a taken man, what ppl would think if they saw us out in public with somebody, a young lady says she does not cook for men and she wont be doing it, and a woman says she does not know if a guy likes her if he does not buy her things... ENJOY!!!

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This week our problem child Diamond joins us with renown host extraordinaire Young Prince to talk why Brooklyn and Bronx guys dont see eye to eye, how Tahoe and Diamond got into the Jay Z concert without tickets, and how we all felt about our experience at the historic Three day Jay-Z Yankee stadium weekend. Young Princes rise to fame and how to tell ppl that your rate is your rate.. ENJOY!!

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Welcome Back To Part two and sorry for the wait!!! We open the convo speaking about Jack n Jill of america and the children that are involved in this community, the backlash Yung Miami has gotten about her hit song "Spend That", and terrible lyrics from the past and why they get backlash today. ENJOY!!

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This week we welcome comedian and content creator @Mel.Vybz to the couch as Tahoe asks why black people celebrate Independence Day, why our influencers dont influence our communities to do more positive things, inviting white people to the "BBQ", Black men needing to step up and provide community for their children and neighborhood children, Tahoe recounts what made him want to be a better father and his disappointment in recent events in his peronal life, Mel speaking on what inspired him to be present in his childrens lives, and Daj speaks on...

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We get back into the conversation with Amy (@TheFlyGirlCoach) as we ask is there such a thing as being too direct, code switching and what it does to your personality, men pulling up to girls night and paying for everybody, are women okay with their man paying for his lady friends when they go out, and the men who still wont snitch no matter what happens to them. Great episode yall.. ENJOY!!!

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Welcome back to So Shameless as we invite Amy (@TheFlyGirlCoach) to sit with us and chile.. Tahoe is in rare form today (and not in a good way). We start off explaining his neuro- divergence and how it affects his charcater when Daj suggests that he probably had an IAP in school which he gets insulted by. The team explains why it isnt an insult to have an IAP but of course he is not trying to hear that. (exhausting). Parents needing to go to therapy more than the child needing to go to therapy and why the older generation...

Welcome back to part two of thus weeks episode featuring Lucky and Dave of the Life over likes podcast.

We get back into the conversation as Tahoe asks how Lucky and Dave know the guy who walked out on the bill thinks he is better than them, Dave explains how he feels being from Africa but living in America, Lucky asks why Black ppl love Mamdani, why Africans and black ppl from other countries dont like the Black American mindset. Enjoy!

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This week we welcome Dave and Lucky of the Life Over Likes Podcast to ask what exactly is the beef between Brooklyn and Queens, Tahoe speaks on a situation that happened to him where he almost lost his cool, why black men don't like other black men, has classism taken over racism, and do men argue over splitting the bill? Hilarious episode!! Stay Tuned for part two releasing this friday or head to patreon right now to listen to the entire episode ad free.

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Things get interesting as we speak Jay-z's new deal with Target, the Asian community vs the Black community, what marraige really means to men, and where are you on the scale of morality. This episode gets deep! ENJOY!!!

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WELCOME BACK TO THE WONDERFUL WORLD OF SO SHAMELESS!!! Oh sorry for the caps lock..The Knicks are world champions!!!! We bring actor, writer, musician and lifetime Knicks fan Julito Mccullum to the couch to talk being a REAL Knicks fan, how he feels about bandwagon Knicks fans, The road to success of the 2026 NBA Champions, and how we feel about the mayhem that was happening outside of Madison Square Garden the night the Knicks lost game 3. We ask Julito about what his life was like after starring on the hit TV show "The Wire", how that character affected his...

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We get into a quick recap of the drake album release then we get into a clip where Georgie says the person who offends cannot dictate a persons response as Tahoe and Yesterday go over a disagreement that they had. Kevin Harts roast and the pushback he is getting from the black community. Enjoy!

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Tahoe and Yesssterday return from the Roots picnic and have a story to tell and the crew get into Jay-Z's return and the historic Roc-a-fella and State Property reunion. 

Tune into part two releasing this Saturday or head over to patreon to hear the entire episode ad free!

Welcome Back To Part Two of this weeks episode feat Jordan and Jaylin of the @BeingBlackIsGhetto podcast. We get back into it as Tahoe tells a personal story about his family home, charging your child for their childhood room once they are an adult, The Knicks are in the Finals, Ian of the JBP asks if you would take $100,000 or a series of meetings with him and Joe Budden to help your business, and a man tells his wife she needs to lose the weight after a pregnancy because he is no longer attracted to her. 😳 ENJOY!

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Whew hold onto your seats because this is about to be a bumpy ride. The crew is in full force as we welcome Jordan and Jaylin of the being Black Is Ghetto podcast and it gets spicy real quick as Jordan explains why he didn't vote and says if he DID it would've been for Trump, should your children be allowed to have sex changes before they are an adult, the possible repeal of the 14th amendment, Quanell X confronts white Texas attorney who allegedly called a black woman the N word, should black people let go of the N...

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We dive right into Funky Dineva asking straight men why they are taking so long to catch up with black women and gay ppl in terms of success, will black people ever be viewed as equal here in america, a young man is sentenced to life in jail because the US needs his "sweat equity' and his youthfulness to put to work, a father is asked what he would do to protect his daughter and his answer is surprising, and how much should fathers educate their daughters about sex...

Welcome Back To So Shameless!! This week we welcome Loon of The Hard Or Soft Show and DJ BenHaMeen of the For All Nerds podcast to talk the new Drake release and where we stand with the project or.. projects. Hilarious episode! ENJOY!

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Stephon Diggs court battle with the BBL chef and Tahoe tells a story to explain why he empathizes with the chef in this situation. The D4vd situation, Boston Richie and...ENJOY!