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Introducing Therapy for Addiction - Learning Never Stops – Planning Your CPD In Episode 344 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at the ethical use of AI in therapy, highlighting potential risks and ethical responsibilities. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Caroline Evers Endicott about her lecture Introducing Therapy for Addiction - a vital area of practice that’s often underrepresented in core training. And finally, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss how learning never stops in counselling - and why planning your...

Race and Everyday Friction – Ending Well in Counselling Training In Episode 343 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, they explore the importance of having an online and telephone informed supervisor when you work in this way. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Sarah Henry about her concept of race and everyday friction - how these subtle, often hidden experiences shape identity and create barriers in life and therapy. And finally in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss the significance of ending well in counsell...

Shame in Supervision – Creative Learning During an Academic Break In Episode 342 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore the art of apologising as a counsellor - why it matters, how to do it effectively, and how to avoid making it about yourself. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Dr. Ruth Birkbeck about a powerful and often unspoken topic: shame in supervision. We explore what it looks like, how it can impact both supervision and client work, and what can be done to r...

Working with Parents of Children with Disabilities – What to Do if You Don’t Get Onto the Next Course In Episode 341 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts, Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly, take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore the concept of everyday trauma. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Ellie Finch and Dr. Jo Griffin about their CPD lecture, which focuses on working with parents of children with disabilities, complex medical conditions, and special educational needs. And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss what to do if you don’t get acce...

Supporting Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse - Carl Rogers'Seven Stages of Process In Episode 340 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at the question: Can clients ask you to delete their data? - covering legal, ethical, and practical considerations. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Jeremy Sachs about supporting male survivors of sexual abuse, with a focus on the intersectional challenges they face and practical considerations for therapists. And finally, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken explain and simplify Carl Rogers' S...

Practising Good Self-care – What is My Counselling Philosophy? In Episode 339 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore the potential dangers of dual relationships in counselling and psychotherapy  – how they arise, the ethical implications, and strategies to manage them appropriately. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Sally Anne Armitage about her lecture on practising good self-care – a vital skill for therapists at every stage of their careers. And finally, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken reflect on the importance of defining and understa...

REBT for Pain Management and Exercise - Counselling Skills Feedback In Episode 338 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore the essential and sensitive topic of supporting suicidal clients – discussing how therapists can respond ethically and effectively, including risk assessment and safety planning. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Ruth Hill about her lecture on REBT for pain management and exercise – blending cognitive therapy with physical wellbeing to support client recovery. And lastly, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss the importance of...

iCloud Changes and Client Confidentiality – Dealing with DNAs in Placement and Practice In Episode 337 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we explore how to talk to children about death – covering developmental understanding, appropriate language, and how to support children through bereavement. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Catherine Knibbs about changes in Apple’s encryption policy and what this means for therapists in terms of data protection and confidentiality. And lastly, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss how to respond when a client d...

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – Reviewing Client Progress In Episode 336 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at building your counselling CV – including key features to include, ways to stand out, and how to present yourself professionally. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Nicola Durrant about working with clients who have Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – a profile on the autism spectrum that requires a unique and flexible therapeutic approach. And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken look at how to review a client’s...

Supporting Male Clients in Therapy – How to Begin a Counselling Session In Episode 334 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week’s three topics: Firstly in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at extra-therapeutic factors in Supervision and how a client’s world outside the therapy room can influence outcomes. Then in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory interviews James Hawes, author of The Secret Lives of Men, exploring how we can better understand and support male clients in therapy. And lastly in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken talk about how to begin a counselling session, and what...

Understanding Website Design for Therapists with Daragh McLaughlin Key Takeaways: Ensuring Your Website’s Future:Your website is an essential part of your practice. By taking the right steps and asking the right questions, you can ensure that it remains a valuable asset as your business grows. Red Flags When Choosing a Web Designer:Be aware of slow response times, lack of a formal contract, and poor communication. These are signs that a web design company may not be the best fit for your needs. Understanding Digital Assets:Your website is a valuable digital asset that supports your practice. Ensuring yo...

Selective Mutism – Ideal Client Load for Student Counsellors In Episode 334 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week’s three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice’, we look at managing triggers and flashbacks—offering insights into how counsellors can support clients dealing with trauma responses. Then, in ‘Practice Matters’, Rory speaks with Antje Bothin about her book Annika and the Treasure of Iceland and how it helps give a deeper understanding of selective mutism. And lastly, in ‘Student Services’, Rory and Ken discuss the ideal client load for student counsellors, offering guidance on balanc...

Autistic Therapists in Practice - The Essential Skill of Academic Referencing In Episode 333 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly, take us through this week's three key topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice' we look at understanding the Dunning-Kruger Effect in trauma-informed therapy and how it can impact professional competence. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews an autistic therapist who has chosen to stay anonymous to allow for an open and honest conversation. This discussion is about their lived experience and insights into neurodivergence in the profession. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken...

AI in Therapy - Comparing Ethical Frameworks In Episode 332 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide you through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at developing an online mindset to effectively work with clients online. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Richard Miller, a counsellor, supervisor, and AI ethicist, about the ethical use of AI in therapy, its possibilities, challenges, and implications. Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss comparing ethical frameworks and why it's an important exercise in counselling training. In this section, Rory and Ken...

Working with Life-restricting Conditions - Challenging Stereotypes in Counselling In Episode 331 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore ethical dilemmas in supervision and discuss strategies for resolving them effectively. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dorothy Hodgkinson about working with clients who have 'life-restricting' conditions and how these conditions impact the therapeutic relationship. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the importance of challenging stereotypes in counselling training, offering insights into how counsellors can avoid stereotyping clients in...

Importance of Psychosexual Therapy - Meeting Supervision Hour Requirements In Episode 330 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore the challenges and considerations of offering online therapy to clients abroad, particularly focusing on legal, ethical, and practical concerns. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Lohani Noor about the importance of psychosexual therapy and how therapists can gain the skills to support clients navigating intimate issues. Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken provide practical advice for counselling students on meeting course...

Navigating Client Complaints Effectively - Managing Observed Skills Sessions In Episode 329 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss distinguishing PTSD and Complex PTSD, exploring the evolution of trauma therapy and the importance of understanding physiological responses in trauma-informed practice. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Susie Jamieson about how to navigate client complaints effectively, sharing practical strategies and personal experiences to help therapists be complaint-ready. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about managing overwhelm during...

Special Edition: Expanding Therapeutic Approaches with NHS Policies In this Special Edition of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your host Rory Lees-Oakes speaks with Meg Moss from the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) about how NHS policy design could support a wider range of therapeutic approaches. Key Takeaways: Human Connection in Therapy: Human connection is a vital factor of effective therapy. Common Factors research highlights that the quality of the therapist-client relationship is the most significant predictor of therapeutic success. Limitations of RCTs: NHS systems often prioritise structured interventions like CBT due to their reliance on Randomised Controlled Trials (RCTs...

Couples Therapy using the Developmental Model - Choosing the Therapy Modality In Episode 328 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we delve into professional letter writing by counsellors when communicating with other professionals. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Claire Ratcliffe about relationship therapy using the developmental model, focusing on how couples evolve and how therapists can support growth at each stage. Lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss how to choose the therapy modality that is the best fit for...

PD Groups for Counsellors - Supportive Supervision before Placement In Episode 327 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we explore the 7-eyed model of supervision in clinical practice. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Sonja Falck about facilitating personal development (PD) groups and their importance for both trainees and qualified counsellors. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the essential topic of accessing supervision before going into placement and why it's crucial to be well-prepared. 7-eyed Model of Supervision...

Virtual Reality in Therapy - Vicarious Trauma In Episode 326 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: First up in Ethical, Sustainable Practice: Understanding ambiguous loss, its complexities, and how it presents in therapy. Then in Practice Matters: Rory speaks with Nina Solomons about the innovative use of virtual reality in therapy. Lastly, in Student Services: Rory and Ken discuss a critique of the person-centred model, addressing its strengths and limitations. Ambiguous Loss [starts at 03:07 mins] In this week's Ethical, Sustainable Practice, Rory and Ken explore ambiguous loss...

Neurodivergence and Eating Disorders - Managing Overwhelm In Episode 325 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice,' we look at applying Attachment Theory in therapy and how understanding attachment styles helps build a strong therapeutic relationship. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Bernie Wright and Lisa Smith about the connection between eating disorders, disordered eating, and neurodivergence. Lastly, in 'Student Services, Rory and Ken discuss how counselling students can manage overwhelm and stay motivated through their training journey. Applying Attachment Theory [starts...

Managing Risk in Online Therapy - Contracting in Counselling In Episode 324 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at managing risk in online therapy and the considerations for safe practice. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Meg Moss about the regulation of counselling and psychotherapy. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the importance of contracting in counselling. Managing Risk in Online Therapy [starts at 04:30 mins] Managing risk in online therapy is essential to ensure the safety of...

Regulation in Counselling and Psychotherapy - Power Up your Counselling Skills through Observation In Episode 323 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at engaging with clinical supervision and how to get the most from it. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Susie Jamerson in the second part of a three-part series exploring regulation in counselling and psychotherapy. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss powering up your counselling skills through observation. Engaging with Clinical Supervision [starts at 03:54 mins] ...

Statutory Regulation in Counselling and Psychotherapy - Dual Relationships in Counselling In Episode 322 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we discuss the theory of mind and its implications in neurodivergence. Then, in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr. Anne Guy about the pros and cons of statutory regulation in counselling and psychotherapy. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken explore managing dual relationships in counselling. Theory of Mind [starts at 04:38 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken discuss Theory of Mind...

Counselling Boys and Men Part 2 - Managing Boundaries in Counselling In Episode 321 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly guide us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice' we look at effective online counselling for neurodivergent clients. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory interviews Phil Mitchell about part two of his lecture on counselling boys and men. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss managing boundaries in counselling. Online Counselling for Neurodivergent Clients [starts at 03:41 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken explore the unique considerations of offering online counselling for n...

Navigating the Complaints Process Part 2 - Skill of Challenge in Counselling In Episode 320 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken look at preparing the therapeutic environment for autism-friendly care. Then in 'Practice Matters' we have part 2 of last week's interview with Susie Jamieson about her journey navigating the complaints process. And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at the skill of challenge in counselling. Preparing the Therapeutic Environment [starts at 03:25 mins] Inclusivity and accessibility are incredibly important in counselling. Making...

Navigating the Complaints Process - Developing Your Inner Supervisor In Episode 319 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at understanding the Double Empathy Problem in Neurodivergent Therapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', we have the first part of an interview where Rory speaks with Susie Jamieson about her journey navigating the complaints process. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss developing your inner supervisor. Double Empathy Problem [starts at 03:33 mins] When working with neurodivergent individuals, we might encounter barriers to...

Relational Ethics in Psychotherapy and Counselling Private Practice - Claiming Expenses as a Placement Counsellor In Episode 318 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at Autism and the Law Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Caz Binstead about her book Relational Ethics in Psychotherapy and Counselling Private Practice: Solidarity, Compassion, Justice. And lastly in 'Student Services' we look at claiming expenses as a placement counsellor. Autism and the Law [starts at 03:12 mins] There are now multiple laws that protect autistic...

Finding Work through EAP - Closing a Skills Session In Episode 317 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly look at this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at the different strengths and challenges in autism that individuals may face. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sharon McCormick about how an ethical EAP (Employment Assistant Program) operates and the benefits for both clients and employers. And lastly in 'Student Services, Rory and Ken discuss closing a skills session. Strengths and Challenges in Autism [starts at 02:55 mins] There are some traits that...

Child Abuse in Online Interactions - Listen to Understand, Not to Respond In Episode 316 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly are back with this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', continuing with our new focus on neurodivergence we'll look at how to see the individual, not the label. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Catherine Knibbs about how seemingly innocent online interactions can lead to child abuse. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken look at listening to understand, not listening to respond. See the Individual, Not the Label [starts...

Digital Tools in Online Therapy Sessions - Developing an Emotional Vocabulary In Episode 315 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: First up in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken discuss Neurodivergence-Affirming Psychotherapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ellie Finch about using digital tools in online therapy sessions. And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at developing an emotional vocabulary. Neurodivergence and Autism [starts at 03:19 mins] All clients deserve to feel seen and understood within the therapy room. In this section, Rory and Ken discuss neurodivergence and...

Language and the Therapeutic Relationship - Research Projects and What to Research In Episode 314 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at understanding the diverse perspectives and definitions of trauma. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Nadine Pittham about how our use of language can develop and strengthen the therapeutic relationship. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about research projects, and more specifically, what should you research? Perspectives and Definitions of Trauma [starts at 03:19 mins] Working with...

Transitioning from Student to Qualified Practitioner - Working Around Barriers in Communication In Episode 313 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', Rory and Ken ask what is trauma-informed practice? Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Alex Gulland about her transition from student to qualified counsellor. And lastly in 'Student Services', we look at barriers in communication. What is Trauma-Informed Practice [starts at 03:13 mins] Understanding and responding to the impact of trauma is essential to be able to best serve our clients. In...

Critical Incident Debriefing - The Importance of your 'Why' In Episode 312 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at working within your competence in counselling and psychotherapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Karen Moore about Critical Incident debriefing. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about using your 'why' when things get tough. Working Within Your Competence [starts at 03:41 mins] Understanding working within your competence with clients is so important. In this section, Rory and Ken highlight wh...

Personal Preparation Plan for Trauma-Informed Practice - Discussing Racial Identity Respectfully In Episode 311 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at creating your personal preparation plan for trauma-informed practice. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Sarah Henry about discussing racial identity respectfully. And lastly, in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about confidentiality laws for therapists. Personal Preparation Plan for Trauma-Informed Practice [starts at 04:00 mins] Hope for the best, prepare for the worst. Transference - an emotional time machine. Transference...

Relational Depth in Trauma Therapy - Getting Your Reading List in Order In Episode 310 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at relational depth. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr Sonja Falck about the importance of personal development (PD) groups to a qualified practitioner. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about getting your reading list in order for the academic year. Relational Depth in Trauma Therapy [starts in 03:34 mins] Relational depth is an important aspect of...

Online Trauma Therapy - Exploring Neurodivergence Creatively in Therapy In Episode 309 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at online trauma therapy. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Amy Peters about exploring neurodiversity creatively. And lastly,in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about how to recognise vicarious trauma. Online Trauma Therapy [starts at 03:10 mins] Online and telephone counselling have become increasingly popular in recent years, making it even more important that we're aware of the challenges that can come...

Writing Creatively in Therapy - Trauma: What Counselling Students Need to Know In Episode 308 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly in 'Ethical, Sustainable Practice', we look at grounding techniques for trauma. Then in 'Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Dr Jessica J. Clapham about writing creatively in therapy and its benefits to well-being. And lastly in 'Student Services', Rory and Ken talk about trauma, and what to know as a counselling student. Grounding Techniques for Trauma [starts at 03:43 mins] Grounding techniques are an essential skill when working...

Special Edition: The Importance of Human Connection in Counselling Training In this Special Episode of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your host Rory Lees-Oakes speaks with Kelly Budd from the Counselling and Psychotherapy Central Awarding Body (CPCAB), and Meg Moss from the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society (NCPS) about the integrity of counselling training. Both the CPCAB and the NCPS are coming together to tackle the increase in digital distance learning and stress the importance of human connection in counselling training through their campaign: Therapeutic Relationships: the Human Connection. The key takeaways of this week's podcast include: Certain places online offer...