Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Do you suffer with premature ejaculation (PE)? Want to control how long you last during sex? Is it having a damaging effect on your self confidence, your sexual confidence and your overall happiness in life, with women or in your sexual, intimate connection in your marriage?

In this episode I talk to Keeley Rankin who is a Sex and Relationship coach from California, we discuss her work with men around this issue for the past 14 years, what she's learnt, how she helps her clients, the stages she takes them through in her program and whether there are specific...

Is your wife having an emotional affair? Or maybe she's in a physical affair? Or she could be connected to another man (or woman) emotionally and is keeping you at arms length while going out more or being on the phone with other people rather than building the relationship with you...

In this episode I talk about the process that we take men through which helps them to find the confidence and strength to know exactly how they want to respond to this painful and challenging situation including stating the clear lines that you are willing to accept...

Are you struggling with anxiety. Maybe you've thought to yourself "I can't find my happiness" and you're searching the web for help that will fix this ongoing uneasy anxious and restless rollercoaster of emotions.

In this episode I talk about where your happiness comes from, why we find ourselves in a constant state of unhappiness and what you need to think and do differently to be able to consistently feel happy again.

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Are you confused with your relationship? Maybe you can't decide whether to stay married or divorce? Maybe you're unsure how to go about improving the connection and intimacy and affection with your wife?

In this episode I talk about the core of our coaching with men around making the right choices or even knowing what the right choice is for you and your future. This changes everything. The more clear and committed you are to the future you are choosing to head towards, the more chance you have of creating that, even if it seems as though your...

Do you get easily triggered and lose your self confidence when facing your wife's negative feedback? Does her opinion of you matter so much that she can question anything you've just done, no matter how trivial, and you get defensive?

In this episode I talk about why this happens and give you a new way to approach these situations so that you can stay calm, grounded and centered and know how to lead the relationship forward in a positive way.

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Mediocre, that's a word us men don't like and it's how we see ourselves when we feel trapped in an uninspiring marriage, it's like we believe that this is our lot, there's nothing more available, no more passion, no more fun, no more playful flirting and sexual exploration, but I'm here to tell you that's not true.

In this episode I talk about why we get to this stage in long-term relationships and marriage, what's causing it and I introduce an article I wrote detailing the traits to cultivate that will totally change you, your marriage and your...

We talk to a lot of men who are trying to find some peace because their marriage is falling apart and they are constantly anxious and overwhelmed, desperately trying to fix it so they can find some peace and happiness again.

In this episode I talk about why this situation is so debilitating for so many men, how to think about it differently so that you can respond to it differently and then your emotions will find their new resting place - be warned, people may look at you as a crazy person because you're calm and happy...

Are you questioning whether to stay married? Do you feel unhappy, unloved, disrespected and lonely even though you're in a relationship? This is the disillusionment or power struggle stage of relationshiop that EVERYONE hits without exception.

In this episode I talk about this stage of relationship, how we find ourselves here, what you may have already tried to get past it and how our advice for a man is different to most other coaches and therapists because we know that to reach the next stage requires that you become a stronger, more self assured, more confident leader of...

Do you want your wife to want you again like she used to when things were passionate and easy, when you both looked at each other with the eyes of acceptance and curiosity?

In this episode I talk about the common situation many of us men find ourselves in where the spark, passion, trust and fun has disappeared from our intimate relationship and how to change that and bring back the desire that had you both unable to keep your hands off each other.

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Yes your wife needs you to take the initiative and define a new path forward that she can trust and choose to join you on. Yes she will test you on this new direction and so she should, if you don't have confidence and conviction, why would she take the risk? It's a very vulnerable thing to open up and come closer again especially if she's been hurt by your untrustable behaviour in the past.

In this episode I talk a little about the last element from free PDF of ours called the 5 secrets of an unhappy wife...

Want to know the first step to becoming a more confident man? Maybe you're struggling with confidence in your romantic relationship, or meeting new people, or at a job, or even starting a new career or hobby?

In this episode I talk about the basis for knowing who you are and what you want - nothing you create will give you the same sense of confidence and fulfillment as when you've started with this exercise - we do it with ALL our coaching clients without fail.

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What does it mean "what kind of man do you want to become?" No-one ever asks us this question, but it's essential both in you feeling directed, fulfilled and confident in yourself.

In this episode I talk about the reason we ask this question, why it's inportant for men to be deliberate about who they are and what they want to develop about themselves - not to gain any material wealth, but to gain a sense of purpose and internal happiness with who you are. It also helps other people to trust you, respect you and be attracted...

Want to know how to be happy even though your marriage sucks? We know what it feels like to be in a long-term, committed, monogamous, romantic relationship that is cold, distant, adversarial and bitter and we can help you identify whether this is just a phase or whether it's time to start moving on.

In this episode I talk about the common story that most of the men in our community are living before they reach out and start getting the support and understanding from our coaches and the initiated, strong, good men in our community who get...

Are you frustrated because your wife can't let go of the past? Do you feel lost and frustrated by the lack of progress even after it seems like you've moved on to a better place in your relationship and then suddenly she brings up memories from the past and uses them to hold herself at a distance from you?

In this episode I talk about how those past hurts can be healed in connection with you, why we struggle dealing with this kind of situation and what's really going on when it happens.

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This is the start of a new series of video podcast episodes on the topic of "What makes this man great" where we will be taking specific topics and stories of real life scenarios and breaking them down to show how a great man handles them.

In this episode Steve and Dan talk about dealing with anger and being labeled an angry man and what to think and do with anger, why it happens, what causes it and how to handle it better.

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If you want a fulfilling marriage then understanding what it takes to have a more passionate relationship is key.

In this episode I talk about why so many men get stuck feeling numb, checked out or like there's no hope of re-finding that spark of passion that we so easily enjoyed early on in the marriage, plus I explain how to change that and bring the passion and life back to the relationship.

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It's very confusing to hear a partner say that they need space, what's really going on? Most of the time the person asking for space is needing space because they feel overwhelmed by so many things needing their time and attention all the time, or sometimes it's depression, menopause or some other struggles with mental and physical health. Yes sometimes it's because there is another male interest in her life too.

So it's essential to get to the root of what's causing the request for space.

In this episode I talk about this in more detail...

Are you worried that your anxiety is ruining your marriage? Does just being around your wife make your heart beat faster and your palms sweat? What about when you want to initiate some kind of conversation or intimacy?

In this episode I talk about why we get anxious around her, what causes it, why it's happening now and what to think and do differently to move past this unsettling time.

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Are you feeling lost and confused in your relationship? Are you overwhelmed with people telling you what to do, what not to do, why you're wrong or why you're right to be upset...?

In this episode I discuss what causes us to lose direction, confidence and the ability to feel like we have agency and a creative approach to changing our current reality into the reality we really want.

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Is your life lacking connection, fun & passion? Do you know how to create connection with other people - I mean real connection where they actually care about you and want to spend time with you and know how you're really doing...?

In this episode I talk about some ways people have created connection with me recently, how good it made me feel to know I was important to those people and how to have more of it in YOUR life too.

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Want a more sexual marriage? It will require that you learn how to create more emotional connection first and also how you sabotage the emotional connection so you can stop doing that too.

In this episode I talk about a really common factor that breaks the intimate emotional connection that women need to feel safe and attracted to us men before they can be sexually intimate with us again.

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Would you like more fun and laughter in your marriage again? Are you dealing with arguments, coldness, judgement and criticism? Does it feel like you try to make her happy but she only sees negatives all the time?

In this episode I discuss a key component of being able to create more of the moments you enjoy with your wife and less of the disconnection that's been happening lately.

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Do you want to know how to get the affection back in your marriage? Do you feel unfulfilled and unloved and like you're living with a roommate?

In this episode I give you a challenge that if you use it correctly will completely change the quality of the connection, intimacy and passion in your relationship.

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In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing...

Your relationship is falling apart and it feels like the bottom is dropping out of your whole world, how can you recenter and find your calm, masculine confidence and clarity again?

In this episode from one of our men's group coaching calls around relationships, we discuss what's happening and why it feels to hard to deal with, as well as some stories, hints and tips to help you get clear, calm and re-find your own sense of direction, confidence and self worth.

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This question "what if you already have exactly what you need?" is a classic coaching question because it makes you think a little deeper about the perspective that you are choosing to adopt about your current circumstances. You always have a choice about how you want to proceed with the situation you find yourself facing and coaching helps you to get clear about what that response will be.

In this episode I talk about this question in more detail and how we men can lose the belief that we can change our circumstances - hint: it's fear and...

What does that even mean "Be a grown ass man?" And why would you want to be that? What benefits are there to becoming a mature, confident, secure man? And how does it help with whatever struggles you are facing right now in your life?

In this episode I talk about why men are often criticized for not "making women happy", how the focus should be on taking care of your own emotional well-being first, how it's ridiculous to think you can have a happy, affectionate, sexual, connected marriage if you yourself are not a happy, sexual, connected...

If you're frustrated by your low sex or sexless marriage you may wonder what causes a wife to lose interest in sex with you?

In this episode I explain how this happens to a large percentage of men, as well as a lack of sex happening at certain times in all relationships. I also explain how to think about this and what to do to change it.

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I know what it feels like to be in an intimate, romantic, monogamous relationship and yet to feel totally alone. Especially hard at time of celebration or "happy holidays!"

In this episode, I talk about how we men get into this kind of situation and no matter what you're going through at this moment, how to find the strength, faith and clarity to know...above anything else...that your happiness is within you - it's not defined by someone else.

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Well why did you stop trusting yourself in your relationship? Was is feedback from her or a lack of interest in you that knocked you on your heels? We get knocked back in many areas of our lives yet you can pick yourself up and dust yourself off and move forward confidently the very next day....how come?

In this episode I talk about two traits that you can cultivate that turn things you're currently allowing to stop you having the life and relationship you want into things you enjoy engaging with again.

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Has your wife said she needs space? Are you now worrying what that means and asking yourself (and maybe her) whether she is planning to leave?

In this episode I explain what space means in this context, how to know whether she's really needing space but still committed to the relationship or whether she is getting her plans together ready to leave.

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Feeling overwhelmed and anxious? Want to know why you can't stop worrying about your marriage? Maybe you recently noticed a change in how your wife is being around you or maybe she recently said she's not happy in the relationship...?

In this episode I talk about the way the mind works and how it affects us and how we feel in this kind of situation, as well as some examples of how to change the thoughts and change the overwhelming feelings so that you can start living life as a confident, masculine man again.

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Do you have this annoying problem too? You want to have a great, passionate, sexual marriage but your wife won't talk about sex with you and whenever you try it always goes badly?

In this episode I talk about 3 options you have to deal with this situation, what happens when you try each option and which has the best chance of creating more safety, intimacy, connection and even laughter.

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What we know from over 10 years of coaching men in relationship turmoil is that the only way a man attracts his wife back is by USING this moment in his life to learn something about himself and to grow into being MORE of the man he really wants to be.

In this episode I explain why relationship issues are so painful for us men to face and know how to handle, plus some advice on how to think about this differently and how to reconnect to your calm, confident, masculine energy of self belief and a knowing that...

Are you reeling and feeling hurt from a failing marriage? Want to know how to stop the painful feelings that seem to be overwhelming you?

In this episode I talk about where the feelings come from, how to notice them, control their effect on you and how to create the kind of future and felt experience that you really want instead.

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Want to know how to create the healthy sex filled marriage you want? If you're living in a relationship where intimacy, affection, touch, playfulness and sex is infrequent or missing altogether then you will find this very helpful.

In this episode I explain how men find themselves in sexless marriages or facing the possibility of separation or divorce with a partner who's unhappy, feeling unloved and thinking that nothing can be done as well as what needs to change to bring back the spark and passion again.

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Do you want to know how to overcome sexual rejection from your wife or girlfriend? It's one of the most painful experiences you can have in relationship with another person and it seems impossible to fix - but it's not!

In this episode I talk about the reason why you may be experiencing painful rejections in your marriage and what you can do differently to help your wife relax, lighten up and join you in a more fun, more playful and yes, more sexual relationship.

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Do you feel powerless in your marriage? Do you feel like nothing you do is ever good enough for your wife? Do you get constant negative feedback, criticism, eye rolls, snarky comments? Are you tired of this BS and ready for a relationship where you see the best in each other again?

In this episode I talk about the main cause of your unhappiness, why it happens and what you can do to change it.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply...

Do you want your wife to trust you again? Has she said she doesn't trust you? If you aren't being intimate with each other that's is a clear sign that trust is an issue between you - but not in the way you might expect.

In this episode I talk about what we men need to get better at to create trust in our monogamous romantic sexual relationships.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself...

Are you in a struggling relationship feeling unhappy and unloved by your wife or girlfriend? Would you like to learn how to fix your marriage and also understand what she needs from you?

In this episode I discuss with Dr Alexis Shepperd how men can cut off the connection in our relationship, how we do it, why we do it and how to learn to be a confident "creator" of intimate connection, whenever and wherever you want.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...

Wife not currently available for sex but you're going mad without it?!!! We want to know how you are using that creative sexual energy to continue to create more of what you want in your life (hint: it's all part of her wanting sex with you because she's watching your actions all the time).

In this episode I talk about how hard (tsk) it is to deal with that urgent physical need for physical connection when the other person in your committed, monogamous romantic relationship is not available or willing to join you in physical intimacy right now.<...