Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Are you worried that your anxiety is ruining your marriage? Does just being around your wife make your heart beat faster and your palms sweat? What about when you want to initiate some kind of conversation or intimacy?

In this episode I talk about why we get anxious around her, what causes it, why it's happening now and what to think and do differently to move past this unsettling time.

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Are you feeling lost and confused in your relationship? Are you overwhelmed with people telling you what to do, what not to do, why you're wrong or why you're right to be upset...?

In this episode I discuss what causes us to lose direction, confidence and the ability to feel like we have agency and a creative approach to changing our current reality into the reality we really want.

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Is your life lacking connection, fun & passion? Do you know how to create connection with other people - I mean real connection where they actually care about you and want to spend time with you and know how you're really doing...?

In this episode I talk about some ways people have created connection with me recently, how good it made me feel to know I was important to those people and how to have more of it in YOUR life too.

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Want a more sexual marriage? It will require that you learn how to create more emotional connection first and also how you sabotage the emotional connection so you can stop doing that too.

In this episode I talk about a really common factor that breaks the intimate emotional connection that women need to feel safe and attracted to us men before they can be sexually intimate with us again.

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Would you like more fun and laughter in your marriage again? Are you dealing with arguments, coldness, judgement and criticism? Does it feel like you try to make her happy but she only sees negatives all the time?

In this episode I discuss a key component of being able to create more of the moments you enjoy with your wife and less of the disconnection that's been happening lately.

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Do you want to know how to get the affection back in your marriage? Do you feel unfulfilled and unloved and like you're living with a roommate?

In this episode I give you a challenge that if you use it correctly will completely change the quality of the connection, intimacy and passion in your relationship.

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Your relationship is falling apart and it feels like the bottom is dropping out of your whole world, how can you recenter and find your calm, masculine confidence and clarity again?

In this episode from one of our men's group coaching calls around relationships, we discuss what's happening and why it feels to hard to deal with, as well as some stories, hints and tips to help you get clear, calm and re-find your own sense of direction, confidence and self worth.

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This question "what if you already have exactly what you need?" is a classic coaching question because it makes you think a little deeper about the perspective that you are choosing to adopt about your current circumstances. You always have a choice about how you want to proceed with the situation you find yourself facing and coaching helps you to get clear about what that response will be.

In this episode I talk about this question in more detail and how we men can lose the belief that we can change our circumstances - hint: it's fear and...

What does that even mean "Be a grown ass man?" And why would you want to be that? What benefits are there to becoming a mature, confident, secure man? And how does it help with whatever struggles you are facing right now in your life?

In this episode I talk about why men are often criticized for not "making women happy", how the focus should be on taking care of your own emotional well-being first, how it's ridiculous to think you can have a happy, affectionate, sexual, connected marriage if you yourself are not a happy, sexual, connected...

If you're frustrated by your low sex or sexless marriage you may wonder what causes a wife to lose interest in sex with you?

In this episode I explain how this happens to a large percentage of men, as well as a lack of sex happening at certain times in all relationships. I also explain how to think about this and what to do to change it.

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I know what it feels like to be in an intimate, romantic, monogamous relationship and yet to feel totally alone. Especially hard at time of celebration or "happy holidays!"

In this episode, I talk about how we men get into this kind of situation and no matter what you're going through at this moment, how to find the strength, faith and clarity to know...above anything else...that your happiness is within you - it's not defined by someone else.

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Well why did you stop trusting yourself in your relationship? Was is feedback from her or a lack of interest in you that knocked you on your heels? We get knocked back in many areas of our lives yet you can pick yourself up and dust yourself off and move forward confidently the very next day....how come?

In this episode I talk about two traits that you can cultivate that turn things you're currently allowing to stop you having the life and relationship you want into things you enjoy engaging with again.

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Has your wife said she needs space? Are you now worrying what that means and asking yourself (and maybe her) whether she is planning to leave?

In this episode I explain what space means in this context, how to know whether she's really needing space but still committed to the relationship or whether she is getting her plans together ready to leave.

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Feeling overwhelmed and anxious? Want to know why you can't stop worrying about your marriage? Maybe you recently noticed a change in how your wife is being around you or maybe she recently said she's not happy in the relationship...?

In this episode I talk about the way the mind works and how it affects us and how we feel in this kind of situation, as well as some examples of how to change the thoughts and change the overwhelming feelings so that you can start living life as a confident, masculine man again.

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Do you have this annoying problem too? You want to have a great, passionate, sexual marriage but your wife won't talk about sex with you and whenever you try it always goes badly?

In this episode I talk about 3 options you have to deal with this situation, what happens when you try each option and which has the best chance of creating more safety, intimacy, connection and even laughter.

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What we know from over 10 years of coaching men in relationship turmoil is that the only way a man attracts his wife back is by USING this moment in his life to learn something about himself and to grow into being MORE of the man he really wants to be.

In this episode I explain why relationship issues are so painful for us men to face and know how to handle, plus some advice on how to think about this differently and how to reconnect to your calm, confident, masculine energy of self belief and a knowing that...

Are you reeling and feeling hurt from a failing marriage? Want to know how to stop the painful feelings that seem to be overwhelming you?

In this episode I talk about where the feelings come from, how to notice them, control their effect on you and how to create the kind of future and felt experience that you really want instead.

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Want to know how to create the healthy sex filled marriage you want? If you're living in a relationship where intimacy, affection, touch, playfulness and sex is infrequent or missing altogether then you will find this very helpful.

In this episode I explain how men find themselves in sexless marriages or facing the possibility of separation or divorce with a partner who's unhappy, feeling unloved and thinking that nothing can be done as well as what needs to change to bring back the spark and passion again.

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Do you want to know how to overcome sexual rejection from your wife or girlfriend? It's one of the most painful experiences you can have in relationship with another person and it seems impossible to fix - but it's not!

In this episode I talk about the reason why you may be experiencing painful rejections in your marriage and what you can do differently to help your wife relax, lighten up and join you in a more fun, more playful and yes, more sexual relationship.

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Do you feel powerless in your marriage? Do you feel like nothing you do is ever good enough for your wife? Do you get constant negative feedback, criticism, eye rolls, snarky comments? Are you tired of this BS and ready for a relationship where you see the best in each other again?

In this episode I talk about the main cause of your unhappiness, why it happens and what you can do to change it.

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Do you want your wife to trust you again? Has she said she doesn't trust you? If you aren't being intimate with each other that's is a clear sign that trust is an issue between you - but not in the way you might expect.

In this episode I talk about what we men need to get better at to create trust in our monogamous romantic sexual relationships.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself...

Are you in a struggling relationship feeling unhappy and unloved by your wife or girlfriend? Would you like to learn how to fix your marriage and also understand what she needs from you?

In this episode I discuss with Dr Alexis Shepperd how men can cut off the connection in our relationship, how we do it, why we do it and how to learn to be a confident "creator" of intimate connection, whenever and wherever you want.

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Wife not currently available for sex but you're going mad without it?!!! We want to know how you are using that creative sexual energy to continue to create more of what you want in your life (hint: it's all part of her wanting sex with you because she's watching your actions all the time).

In this episode I talk about how hard (tsk) it is to deal with that urgent physical need for physical connection when the other person in your committed, monogamous romantic relationship is not available or willing to join you in physical intimacy right now.<...

Want to understand how to know the context behind your wife's words? Do you seem to make things worse when you're trying to make things better in your relationship?

In this episode I explain 4 different ways that women express themselves and how understanding this can help you to relate to her words better so that she feels you understand her and how she's really feeling right now.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Do you feel anxious for attention and affection around your wife or partner? Want to know how to stop being needy and become an attractive man again?

In this episode I talk about what makes us needy, how it affects our romantic partner and her attraction to you and what is going on when you are being called needy or controlling.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and...

Want to know a simple way for you to feel more manly today, starting straight away?

In this episode I explain an easy was for you to start feeling more manly and taking back your sense of self confidence and masculine strength today!

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
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Do you feel unsure and tentative in your relationship? Want to know about the one habit to stop to have more confidence?

In this episode I talk about the habit of comparing yourself to other people or even to an imaginbed "perfect" version of yourself and then using that comparison to wallow in self doubt, self pity and self destructive thinking - which of course makes us feel even more unconfident - I also give you a new way to think about feedback you receive which isn't positive (at first glance).

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Is your marriage or relationship lacking passion and intimacy? Want to know how attraction works in long term relationships or marriages?

In this episode I talk about the way that men can negatively affect the attraction, connection,.trust and sexual intimacy in your long term relationship and how to change that.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.<...

Have you ever asked yourself "Am I supposed to just tolerate her abuse?" in relation to your committed, monogamous, romantic relationship...otherwise known as marriage.

In this episode I answer one of the most common questions we get around dealing with toxic, shaming, abusive behaviour by women towards their long-term partners. How should you handle it when she loses her sh*t?! We give you some practical advice and the reasoning behind it too.

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Want to know how to become more secure and less dependent on your wife or girlfriend and sex or intimacy with her to feel confidfent in yourself?

In this episode I explain why women need you to get this, what happens when you don't, why men are annoyed that I'm even saying this and what understanding it will do to help you and your relationship going forward.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Why are mature men so attractive to women? It's a well know fact that men become more attractive as they age, but why is that?

In this episode I explain why this is true and how we help men to get to that attractive, secure, mature, confident mojo.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
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If your marriage is failing and you're feeling anxious, fearful, and lost, somehow you must to find a way to feel stronger as a man again. Women are attracted to strength in many different forms, they also want more emotional honesty from men but if your relationship is causing you to feel anxious, lonely and unloved, how can you be emotionally honest without feeling weak and needy?

In this episode I discuss what we help men achieve with our coaching which is honing and developing their core masculine identity and ALSO their ability to express how they are...

Are you in a sexless marriage? Officially this means that in your marriage, sex happens less than 10 times a year. Do you want to know how to address it in a way that is productive and yields positive results?

In this episode I talk about a key skill that men are required to develop in able to lead the intimate romantic and sexual part of their marriage or long term relationship if you want it to retain the passion and excitement it once had.

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Do you feel miserable or frustrated with your life at the moment? Want to know how to be a healthy happy masculine man again?

In this episode I give you 3 key traits that any man needs to cultivate to reignite his sense of masculinity and his self respect and self confidence again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're...

What is the foundation of sexy mojo and confidence? Do you find yourself resisting going after the things you really want, whether that's sex with your wife or a new job or making a decision to alter the direction of your life...then you will find some value in this.

In this episode we discuss what is required BEFORE you can feel more confident in yourself and trust that you will take action to go for what you want.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love...

Do you want a more sexual relationship? Then learning how to cultivate this strength will make all the difference to your ability to create it.

In this episode I talk about what ruins the sexual connection in long term relationships and how to think about it differently so that you can act differently and change the path your relationship is currently on.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust...

Do you feel stuck in your romantic relationship or marriage? Do you want to know how to have rock solid self confidence in yourself? Would you like to be so confident that you never feel like you're walking on egg shells around your wife or girlfriend - where you can say or do anything you want and just be confident in your honesty and self worth?

In this episode I talk about the foundation of self confidence and how we go about creating confidence by doing and achieving and how that approach falls down when we're faced with...

We often talk about attraction secrets such as learning how to lead your relationship if you want more intimacy and passion with your partner.

In this episode I discuss the difference between leading and being controlling and why it's important that men learn how to dance with the subtleties of intimate connection if you want to know what kind of leadership to bring to any moment within your relationship.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within...

Do you get angry about the sexual rejection in your marriage? Does it piss you off when you get turned down for sex or intimacy? Do you get shamed for even "wanting" to connect with her in that way?

In this episode I talk about why we get like this and how it makes you feel as well as how it makes her feel - plus some information about how to move forward in a better, more confident way that will also help you create more of what you really want in your relationship.

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If you're living in a sexless marriage you may want to know what you can do to change the direction you're headed in and start to reignite the spark that you had between you before.

In this episode I talk about the common issue that effects every area of our lives but is almost guaranteed to be involved in some way or another when you find yourself in a low sex or no sex marriage or sexless relationship.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and...