Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Want to understand how to know the context behind your wife's words? Do you seem to make things worse when you're trying to make things better in your relationship?

In this episode I explain 4 different ways that women express themselves and how understanding this can help you to relate to her words better so that she feels you understand her and how she's really feeling right now.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Do you feel anxious for attention and affection around your wife or partner? Want to know how to stop being needy and become an attractive man again?

In this episode I talk about what makes us needy, how it affects our romantic partner and her attraction to you and what is going on when you are being called needy or controlling.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and...

Want to know a simple way for you to feel more manly today, starting straight away?

In this episode I explain an easy was for you to start feeling more manly and taking back your sense of self confidence and masculine strength today!

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that n...

Do you feel unsure and tentative in your relationship? Want to know about the one habit to stop to have more confidence?

In this episode I talk about the habit of comparing yourself to other people or even to an imaginbed "perfect" version of yourself and then using that comparison to wallow in self doubt, self pity and self destructive thinking - which of course makes us feel even more unconfident - I also give you a new way to think about feedback you receive which isn't positive (at first glance).

In our coaching, we help...

Is your marriage or relationship lacking passion and intimacy? Want to know how attraction works in long term relationships or marriages?

In this episode I talk about the way that men can negatively affect the attraction, connection,.trust and sexual intimacy in your long term relationship and how to change that.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.<...

Have you ever asked yourself "Am I supposed to just tolerate her abuse?" in relation to your committed, monogamous, romantic relationship...otherwise known as marriage.

In this episode I answer one of the most common questions we get around dealing with toxic, shaming, abusive behaviour by women towards their long-term partners. How should you handle it when she loses her sh*t?! We give you some practical advice and the reasoning behind it too.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because...

Want to know how to become more secure and less dependent on your wife or girlfriend and sex or intimacy with her to feel confidfent in yourself?

In this episode I explain why women need you to get this, what happens when you don't, why men are annoyed that I'm even saying this and what understanding it will do to help you and your relationship going forward.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Why are mature men so attractive to women? It's a well know fact that men become more attractive as they age, but why is that?

In this episode I explain why this is true and how we help men to get to that attractive, secure, mature, confident mojo.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
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If your marriage is failing and you're feeling anxious, fearful, and lost, somehow you must to find a way to feel stronger as a man again. Women are attracted to strength in many different forms, they also want more emotional honesty from men but if your relationship is causing you to feel anxious, lonely and unloved, how can you be emotionally honest without feeling weak and needy?

In this episode I discuss what we help men achieve with our coaching which is honing and developing their core masculine identity and ALSO their ability to express how they are...

Are you in a sexless marriage? Officially this means that in your marriage, sex happens less than 10 times a year. Do you want to know how to address it in a way that is productive and yields positive results?

In this episode I talk about a key skill that men are required to develop in able to lead the intimate romantic and sexual part of their marriage or long term relationship if you want it to retain the passion and excitement it once had.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that...

Do you feel miserable or frustrated with your life at the moment? Want to know how to be a healthy happy masculine man again?

In this episode I give you 3 key traits that any man needs to cultivate to reignite his sense of masculinity and his self respect and self confidence again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're...

What is the foundation of sexy mojo and confidence? Do you find yourself resisting going after the things you really want, whether that's sex with your wife or a new job or making a decision to alter the direction of your life...then you will find some value in this.

In this episode we discuss what is required BEFORE you can feel more confident in yourself and trust that you will take action to go for what you want.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love...

Do you want a more sexual relationship? Then learning how to cultivate this strength will make all the difference to your ability to create it.

In this episode I talk about what ruins the sexual connection in long term relationships and how to think about it differently so that you can act differently and change the path your relationship is currently on.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust...

Do you feel stuck in your romantic relationship or marriage? Do you want to know how to have rock solid self confidence in yourself? Would you like to be so confident that you never feel like you're walking on egg shells around your wife or girlfriend - where you can say or do anything you want and just be confident in your honesty and self worth?

In this episode I talk about the foundation of self confidence and how we go about creating confidence by doing and achieving and how that approach falls down when we're faced with...

We often talk about attraction secrets such as learning how to lead your relationship if you want more intimacy and passion with your partner.

In this episode I discuss the difference between leading and being controlling and why it's important that men learn how to dance with the subtleties of intimate connection if you want to know what kind of leadership to bring to any moment within your relationship.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within...

Do you get angry about the sexual rejection in your marriage? Does it piss you off when you get turned down for sex or intimacy? Do you get shamed for even "wanting" to connect with her in that way?

In this episode I talk about why we get like this and how it makes you feel as well as how it makes her feel - plus some information about how to move forward in a better, more confident way that will also help you create more of what you really want in your relationship.

In our...

If you're living in a sexless marriage you may want to know what you can do to change the direction you're headed in and start to reignite the spark that you had between you before.

In this episode I talk about the common issue that effects every area of our lives but is almost guaranteed to be involved in some way or another when you find yourself in a low sex or no sex marriage or sexless relationship.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and...

Do you sense there's something odd going on in your relationship? Are you concerned that your wife is planning to walk away from your marriage?

In this episode I talk about the common problem that many men are facing today where their wife or girlfriend in starting to pull away, going out with friends more, acting different to how she usually does, withdrawing from the relationship and affection and intimacy with you. And I offer you two free books to help you respond with confidence to this unsettling scenario.

In our coaching, we help men get...

How do you know if you are a confident or insecure man? If your marriage or relationship is lacking closeness, affection and intimacy, this may be an important video for you...

In this episode I explain how to spot if you're being insecure as a man and what a secure man would look like instead.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident...

Do you avoid confrontation in your marriage or romantic relationship or do you generally choose to face it? This is a key indicator for whether your relationship evolves or stays stagnant and stuck in a familiar pattern.

In this episode I talk about the reasons we hate confrontation especially in intimate relationships and why, if you often choose to avoid it, you might want to rethink that. I also talk about WHY and HOW to face confrontation for it to be productive rather than reductive.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset...

Are you facing the possibility of divorce? We work with men helping them either turn around their failing marriage or supporting them through the painful process of divorce so that they come out the other side with a new perspective on their future a clear direction and crucially full of confidence in themselves again.

In this episode I explain why the reality you're facing right now is so painful and difficult to face and how to think about divorce differently so that you can function again and start looking toward the future that you really want.

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Do you want your wife to want you again? Has your marriage stagnated and become a co-parenting, roommate situation? Maybe you've heard her say that she's just not that bothered about sex anymore?

In this episode I talk about why this happens in long-term committed, romantic, monogamous partnerships and how it happens, as well as what needs to happen for the passion and fun to return again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Do you want to know how to calm down when you get triggered? Especially when the source of that trigger is something you just did!!! And in front of another person who's opinion you care about....!!!

In this episode I talk about what happens when we get triggered and become angry and frustrated, what causes it, why it happens and how to think about it in a way that will take away all the fury and return you to your natural calm, confident state.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that...

Are you struggling with feeling unhappy in your marriage? Do you find that you are ALWAYS thinking about your wife and the relationship and that it's affecting your ability to concentrate and be productive in other areas of your life?

In this episode I explain how we help men in exactly your situation - which is what we do all day every day - and guide them to be more confident and intentional about HOW they can create a different relationship or choose to leave this one and find one that better fits what you want.

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Want to know how to create more intimacy in your marriage? Are you feeling stuck and frustrated with the lack of closeness, connection, affection and sex in your relationship?

In this episode I discuss an analogy I use with my male coaching clients regularly to help them understand how to connect with their wife's emotional state and then lead her to a more relaxed, more fun, more flirtatious and sexual connection again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally...

Anxious, frustrated, annoyed, afraid, panicking....sound familiar - all these feelings are running rife when you're worried your marriage is ending. Want to know why "saving your marriage" isn't really what you need right now, even though I know it FEELS like the ONLY thing you should be concentrating on.

In this episode I talk about the counter-intuitive truth that we help men understand in our masculine confidence intensive coaching program - that the ONLY way to create security, love, safety and attraction again between you and your wife is for you to FIRST find your own sense...

Do you feel like you're living in a faulty marriage? Want to know whether it is fixable? Are you spending way too much time watching a reading relationship content on the internet and ending up more confused and frustrated than when you started - still not knowing what to do about it?

In this episode I explain why we do this as guys and what action you can take - free of charge - to stop the incessant questions and start getting some actionable answers today...

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new...

In this episode I explain why your efforts to improve yourself and become a better man do not guarantee your wife's forgiveness, admiration, or respect, especially if your changes come after years of neglect or hurt have built up.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're being.
 
We teach skills and knowledge that nobody ever teaches men when we're y...

Are you aware of the "manosphere" or "red pill"? Maybe you've heard of MGTOW (men going their own way) or "men's rights"? We constantly get asked about our take on these different men's groups so finally we decided to share our thoughts with you.

In this episode, I talk about red pill in terms of men's personal development, what to be aware of, what to avoid, how to think about it all and what really really matters in terms of men finding their own sense of self confidence and future direction.

In our coaching, we help...

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It's SIMPLE because it requires no study, no reading, no exercise and no money.

It's POWERFUL because it's the most effective way to quickly reduce anxiety and fear without using drugs.

And it's ELUSIVE because when you watch this 10-minute video you may get a huge AH-HA!!

And then you'll lose it just as quickly.

In fact, not everyone who listens to this episode is going to get it.
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Have you ever asked yourself why even though you're married you don't feel loved? It's such a common place for us to find ourselves, but how should you deal with those feelings of loneliness and lack?

In this episode I talk about what's causing the low feelings and how you can help yourself by giving yourself what no-one else can sustainably provide for you.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows...

Would you like a more fun, connected and sexual relationship? Would you like to understand how masculine strength creates sexual polarity with your wife or feminine partner?

In this episode I talk about how men can learn to handle their partner's upset and difficult emotions in a way that helps her feel safe enough to let go of the emotions and even feel attracted to you and move towards you for more closeness and connection - and when you learn this, she also can start to trust you more.

In our coaching, we help men get...

Would you like to have more intimacy in your marriage? Then it's time to learn how to create more emotional connection and enjoy more sex!!!

In this episode I talk about two essential traits of a man who is leading his relationship into a deeper, more connected, more loving and passionate future.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're...

Want to learn how to lead the intimacy in your marriage? Are you frustrated by the lack of connection, passion, fun and sexuality in your relationship?

In this episode I talk about the belief and confidence that we help men develop in themselves to be able to create and lead the emotional and physical connection with their wife or long-term partner any time they want.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset...

Have you ever thought to yourself "I'm afraid my wife will never make me happy" and then considered some unwanted possible paths of action?

In this episode I talk about the way we put our happiness onto other people's shoulders and then get sad, frustrated and resentful that they don't do everything in their power to make us happy - plus I talk about why that's the wrong approach and how to change it so that your marriage returns to fun, laughter, passion and playfulness again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new...

Did your wife sleep with someone else? Are you left wondering what to do now she's told you? Even if you were separated at the time I know how confusing and upsetting this can be for a man especially if there's still a possibility of working things out between you.

In this episode, I talk about why no-one else can tell you how you "should" respond to this situation, as well as the steps that you need to take should you decide that you do want to work on rebuilding a relationship with her.

In our...

Want to know how to stop arguing and fighting with your wife? Dr John Gottman says the common signs that mean your relationship is at high risk of ending are defensiveness, stonewalling, criticism or contempt.

In this episode, I talk about the subtle ways in which both men and women shame each other when we're getting reactive and how to change this detrimental habit.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows...

Want more trust, respect and intimacy in your marriage? Then you will need to learn why women trust & respect a man who stays calm more than a man who gets volatile and emotional, especially when she is feeling under pressure or upset and emotional.

In this episode, I talk about the remarkable ability that we men have to be able to deal with difficult, pressurised situations and yet, still stay calm, so that you can lead everyone forward towards more connection, more trust, more happiness, more peace and yes...more sex too :)

In our coaching, we...

When dealing with a partner in crisis, prioritize your own internal well-being and happiness, avoiding being dragged into their negativity. Bring an energy of compassion and Mountain Lion energy when returning home, including empathy while maintaining your own stable emotional state.

Avoid Tit for Tat arguments and slanging matches, instead focusing on compassionate communication even if your partner seeks negative attention. Stand firm in your own happiness while acknowledging your partner's situation, bringing a calm, compassionate presence without being overly cheerful or showering them with gifts. 

And don't allow yourself to be treated in a way t...

Want to know the answer to how rejection can INCREASE your confidence in yourself? Usually rejection is not something any of us look forward to, but there may be more to rejection than you've been thinking there is.

In this episode I talk about the way that we men view rejection from our intimate partners and how you can think about and use rejection in a positive way going forward in your life.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're...