Goodguys2Greatmen Podcast

Have you heard the women in your life say that all men want is sex? Whatever you think about that statement and it's validity, there is an opposite, alternative question from a man's perspective and that is, if all men want is sex, what is it that women want?

In this episode I talk about what men can learn to understand about the female sexual experience and how a certain type of masculinity affects them just like a beautiful woman showing herself to you affects you.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new...

Do you want more closeness and affection in your marriage? Do you want to understand how your wife smells your fear like poo on her shoe and she cannot move towards you when she smells it.

In this episode I talk about what creates the fear, anxiety and insecurity in you, how it affects the relationship and use a metaphor to give you a path forward that will change the fearful emotion and energy in you as well as in your relationship.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you...

Do you want to know how to increase your attractiveness to your wife? Maybe she has said she's not attracted to you, or you just notice that intimacy, connection, flirtation, sex and affection are missing from the relationship you have now and you want to see if you can bring them back again.

In this episode I talk about the common mistake men make when trying to re-attract their wives and how modern day therapy gets this wrong by encouraging him to blurt out all his unprocessed anxious thoughts and feelings - plus what choices you can make...

Are you pretending to be happy in your marriage? It's a common experience for the men we coach, they stay passive and trying to make her happy while all the while inside they are miserable.

In this episode I talk about why this is a doomed approach if you want to ever feel confident and alive again, let alone feeling masculine and sexy and leading the attraction in your marriage.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that...

Want to know how to turn fighting into attraction in your marriage? Are you facing a lot of disrespect and disapproval from your wife of late? What about affection and intimacy? Are they in short supply too?

In this episode I explain and provide a demonstration of the most important trait of a calm, secure, confident and sexially satisfied husband with a wife who trusts and respects him - plus it's one of the hottest things about a man.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love...

Is your wife avoiding you? Would you like to learn how to respond in a way that draws her back towards you and brings her closer as well as helping her relax and become more affectionate again?

In this episode I explain the one thing that nearly all women in this scenario need and how you can provide it to her so that she can be the loving wife you want again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally...

Are you struggling with low or no intimacy in your marriage? Do you try to bring it up and end up in a cycle of arguing, silence, disconnection and then eventual reconciliation but still no affection?

In this episode I talk about 3 prerequisites that we teach men to develop BEFORE they can lead the intimacy and connection in their marriage back to a place of passion, fun and flirtation.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within...

Are you feeling stuck hoping your marriage will change? Have you seen your wife become less interested, less affectionate, less sexual and less kind and loving with you recently?

In this episode I talk about the problem with staying stuck in hoping for things to change, how it affects your confidence and what to think and do about it so that things start to improve.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset...

Are you frustrated with the lack of intimacy, care, love and connection in your marriage? Would you like to know how to make your wife love you again?

In this episode I talk about the truth behind the information you're looking for and how you need to work on the foundations of becoming a man you love before you can expect anyone else to love you too.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Want to know how to create a more affectionate wife and marriage? Is your marriage flat, passionless, sexless, and lacking affection?

In this episode I talk about why she is always so kind, loving and affectionate with other people - even the dog - but with you she's cold, matter of fact, and the loving, affectionate version of her is nowhere to be seen.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows...

Is your marriage lacking trust and connection? Do you feel like your partner doesn't trust you? Maybe you've heard them say that they don't feel safe with you or that they are feeling controlled or pressured by you?

In this episode we talk about what trust is and how the belief that it must be earned will keep you stuck in an untrusting relationship, plus how to think about it differently so that you can lead the marriage forward and have that trust and closeness and intimacy again.

In our coaching, we help men get a...

Is your wife detaching from your marriage? Are you feeling overwhelmed with anxiety? Is it affecting you all day every day, stopping you focusing at work or sleeping at night? Is she avoiding relationship talks with you and saying she needs space or ignoring you?

In this episode I talk about limboland - a place that we can find ourselves in marriage or long term relationships, especially around midlife or as the kids are getting older and needing you both less.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to...

Want to have more trust respect and confidence in your relationship with your wife, your business colleagues, your clients, your friends and family?

In this episode I talk about one simple but very powerful trait of a consistently calm, confident and mature man who gets what he wants from life and in his marriage, because he knows what is required to come out FROM him first before he can receive the trust, respect and confidence he wants from others.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love...

Ever wonder what makes a man subconsciously attractive to women? Do you want a more affectionate, passionate marriage or relationship?

In this episode Dan and I discuss what we see happening time and time again for the men we coach to become more confident in themselves and suddenly start noticing women (and yes often their wives or ex wives) becoming more and more attracted to them.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This...

I keep hearing the worst marriage advice for handling your walk-away wife from the men who contact us for support and coaching to deal with a wife who is seemingly uninterested, unengaged, pulling away from the marriage, the family, going out spending all her time and money with friends (often divorced) drinking, getting tattoos or suddenly being obsessed with exercise and seemingly changing who she is completely right in front of your eyes - but telling you it's none of your business.

In this episode I talk about the advise most men receive from counsellors and therapists in...

Toxic Masculinity...have you been told you're a man who is toxic? Maybe you've got involved in a conversation where the term toxic masculinity was being thrown around and it got under your skin...

In this episode I explain why I don't believe toxic masculinity is a thing that's ever worth debating and what you can do instead that is way more effective and productive.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset...

Are you feeling anxious and worried about your unhappy marriage? Do you wish you could understand how to fix it and lead it back to connection, fun and peace again?

In this episode I talk about the cause of our anxiety and worry when a relationship is struggling and what you can do to change it starting today.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen...

Is your marriage lacking passion and fun? Do you feel like roommates and miss the ease, playfulness and flirtation that used to be so natural?

In this episode I explain a real life example of taking a moment of disconnection and turning it around into a potential moment of fun and passion.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're...

Do you want a more fun, sexual passionate marriage? What is holding you back from having that now?

In this short clip from on of our live group coaching calls, I talk about the thing that keeps men from leading their life and relationship forward and how to thinkk about it differently...

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're...

Are you struggling with feeling anxious? Would you like to feel like a consistently calm confident man? Would you like to know without doubt that whatever is happening around you, you have the ability to use the difficulty and create a different circumstance?

In this episode I talk about the common mistake most of us make when faced with difficulty and change in our lives and relationships.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Have you ever said to yourself "I don't initiate intimacy because I don't want to be rejected?" You are not alone!!! Most of the men we work with are very successful and confident at work, but at home, they feel weak and unsure of themselves, especially when it comes to the vulnerable, emotional areas of intimacy and sex.

In this episode I talk about two different types of confidence that are happening behind the scenes inside you and between you and your wife and how to change that so that you can start bringing more of that sexy...

Are you living in a cold & disconnected marriage? Is your wife always on her phone or constantly keeping her distance from you?

In this episode we discuss what causes a woman to shut down like this, what happens to the man and how to think and respond in a way that creates an opportunity for her to relax and open up to tell you what's really going on.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself...

Do you want more confidence as a married man? Have you heard women talk about how other men seem to be magnetic in terms of their presence, and a sense of calm confidence? Would you like to know how to have some of that for yourself?

In this episode I explain the most important thing men with more confidence understand and consistently employ in their life and relationships.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself...

Are you in a sexless marriage or a relationship where the intimacy and sex is not where you want it to be? Do you ask yourself the question whether you want to stay or go or whether this relationship will ever get back to the ease, fun and connected sex life that you used to have?

In this episode I talk about the thing that helped me when I was in your situation and how to start making the changes that will end this state of limbo you're in.

In our coaching, we help men get...

Would you like to know the most common sexless marriage mistake that men make? I have a lot of data from over 10 years of coaching men to turn around their unsatisfactory marriages and helping them reignite the passion and attraction again.

In this episode I talk about one of the worst mindsets that men take in their long term intimate relationships that trashes the passion and positive sexual tension they loved at the beginning.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because...

Do you want to be a confident masculine man? Do you want more passion, fulfillment and intimacy in your life?

In this episode Dan and I talk about the value of creating connections with other initiated men and mentors in your life and the effect those men will have on your future - it's quite amazing what happens when high quality men get together to support each other.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself...

Do you want more confidence as a married man? Have you heard women talk about how other men seem to be magnetic in terms of their presence, and a sense of calm confidence? Would you like to know how to have some of that for yourself?

In this episode I explain the most important thing men with more confidence understand and consistently employ in their life and relationships.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself...

Are you in a sexless marriage or a relationship where the intimacy and sex is not where you want it to be? Do you ask yourself the question whether you want to stay or go or whether this relationship will ever get back to the ease, fun and connected sex life that you used to have?

In this episode I talk about the thing that helped me when I was in your situation and how to start making the changes that will end this state of limbo you're in.

In our coaching, we help men get...

Do you want a more fun, sexual passionate marriage? What is holding you back from having that now?

In this short clip from on of our live group coaching calls, I talk about the thing that keeps men from leading their life and relationship forward and how to thinkk about it differently...

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who you're...

Is the passion and sexual attraction in your marriage floundering? Do you wish you could reignite the spark between you and get the passion back?

In this episode I talk about the way we work with men in our community and coach them to start taking more risks and overcoming their fear of rejection to lead the relationship back to fun, flirtation and sexual attraction again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This...

Is your wife detaching from your marriage? Are you feeling overwhelmed with anxiety? Is it affecting you all day every day, stopping you focusing at work or sleeping at night? Is she avoiding relationship talks with you and saying she needs space or ignoring you?

In this episode I talk about limboland - a place that we can find ourselves in marriage or long term relationships, especially around midlife or as the kids are getting older and needing you both less.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to...

Do you know that there are things we men do that turn off her desire for you sexually? Is your marriage suffering from a lack of connection, a lack of affection and a lack of fun and playful intimacy?

In this episode I describe 3 ways that men damage the sexual tension and positive sexual energy in their marriage or long term relationship .

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust...

Are you feeling anxious and worried about your unhappy marriage? Do you wish you could understand how to fix it and lead it back to connection, fun and peace again?

In this episode I talk about the cause of our anxiety and worry when a relationship is struggling and what you can do to change it starting today.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen...

Do you ever say Have a good day? What about when you hear other people say it to you?

In this episode I talk about the difference between hoping you'll have a good day and knowing you'll have a good day and how to live life in the knowing more than the hoping...

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to happen because you're confident in who...

Are you frustrated with the lack of intimacy, care, love and connection in your marriage? Would you like to know how to make your wife love you again?

In this episode I talk about the truth behind the information you're looking for and how you need to work on the foundations of becoming a man you love before you can expect anyone else to love you too.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first...

Are you a husband struggling with a sexless or low sex marriage? Are you wondering what you have to do to understand what it is that your wife is attracted to?

In this episode I talk about the way we teach men to live their lives that consistently gets reactions from their wives (and other women) such as "I don't know what you're doing right now...but PLEASE don't stop!" Yep...we hear that reaction A LOT!

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect...

Does your wife get angry about small things and then the conversation ends up blowing up into a huge argument? Over such an insignificant thing!!! What's going on? Why does she do that?

In this episode I talk about how to think about this situation differently so that you can avoid the stress and lead the relationship forward and out of this frustrating repeating cycle.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset...

Do you want unshakeable confidence? Women say that one of the most attractive, safe and trustable things about a man is his confidence in himself.

In this episode I explain why honesty in knowing who you are, what you're thinking, what you're feeling and what you want to create next is the key to becoming confident in yourself again.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally doing that within yourself first. This mindset allows empathy, trust and connection to...

I speak to many men asking themselves how they can know if they should get divorced or stay married. They tell me stories about their relationship and what they want and we dig into the details of what causes the breakdown in the passion and care that is currently missing.

In this episode I talk about the key question to ask yourself before making the decision to stay married or get divorced.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply because you're finally...

If you want a happy, Sexual Marriage, there are some things we men have to learn to create the kind of feelings in our wives that make them want to be sexual with us.

In this episode I talk about the kind of men that women find attractive and why, plus what does that mean for you and your ability to lead your marriage to more passion, more desire, more intimacy and yes, more sex.

In our coaching, we help men get a powerful new mindset that empowers you to give, love and connect more deeply...