Sex Addiction Recovery Podcast

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/09/Episode-140-Self-Shame_-When-Punishing-Yourself-Feels-Like-Repentance-But-Isnt.mp3 A lot of us have learned to treat self-hatred as proof of sincerity — beating ourselves up in front of our wives, or in the privacy of our own heads, as if the depth of our misery is what makes our sorrow real. This week, Chris unpacks the difference between Judas's self-destructive remorse and […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 140 – Self-Shame: When Punishing Yourself Feels Like Repentance (But Isn't) appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/Episode-139-The-First-Two-Seconds.mp3 After a road-rage moment with a stranger, Chris breaks down the real sequence behind every outburst — trigger, then adrenaline, then emotion, then reaction and shows how the exact same neurological hijack drives both anger and sexual temptation. This episode covers identifying what you're really protecting when you react, building a "preloaded response" before […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 139: The First Two Seconds appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/07/Episode-138.mp3 Why do men who love God, hate their sin, and genuinely want freedom keep going back? In this episode, Chris breaks down the neuroscience behind pornography addiction — dopamine hijacking, receptor downregulation, trigger wiring, and what the first 90 days of recovery actually feel like from the inside. Then he maps it all onto […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 138: Your Brain on Pornography appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/06/Episode-137-Transformation-Not-Transaction_-Romans-12-and-the-Recovery-Matrix.mp3 In this episode, Chris explores the Bible through the lens of addiction recovery and the Transformational Recovery Matrix. Drawing on themes from The Transformational Recovery Matrix, this conversation unpacks the differences between sobriety and transformation, performance and surrender, and behavior management and heart renewal. Chris explains: The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 137: Transformation, Not Transaction | Romans 12 and the Recovery Matrix appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

https://castimonia.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Episode-136-Interview-with-Chandler-from-Relay-App.mp3 What if the problem isn’t that men don’t know enough… but that they’re trying to recover alone? In this episode of Purity Podcast, Chris sits down with Chandler from Relay (JoinRelay.app) to discuss the role of connection, vulnerability, and community in sexual addiction recovery. Together they explore: This conversation is honest, practical, and deeply […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 136: Interview with Chandler from Relay App appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this episode, Chris examines Dallas Willard’s powerful VIM framework (Vision, Intention, Means) and why many men remain stuck in pornography despite strong accountability and safeguards. Drawing on Willard’s teaching on spiritual formation, Chris explores why lasting freedom requires deeper transformation—not just behavior management. Chris then plugs this into his Transformational Recovery Matrix to show […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 135 – Beyond Pornography: Why Behavior Change Isn’t Enough appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today on the Purity Podcast, Chris interviews Dana Hargus, licensed professional counselor and founder of Restore of Ada, about the deep connection between trauma, nervous-system dysregulation, sexual addiction, and betrayal trauma. This episode explores: Learn more about Dana’s work:Restore of Ada – https://restoreofada.com This conversation is essential listening for addicts, spouses, and leaders who want recovery that goes […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 134: Interview with Dana Hargus appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

What does The Hunt for Red October have in common with helping your wife through her pain?  In this episode, we explore what it actually means to sit with your wife’s pain after betrayal, and why most men struggle to do it well. Using the framework of CVE: Compassion, Validation, and Empathy, we look at why pain isn’t […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 133 – How to Sit With Your Wife’s Pain  appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today on the Purity Podcast, Chris is interviewing Rick Reynolds, LCSW, founder and president of AffairRecovery.com. Rick brings more than three decades of clinical experience helping individuals and couples heal from the devastation of infidelity, along with the weight and credibility of his own story of betrayal and restoration that began in 1984. As the […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 132: Interview with Rick Reynolds appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this episode, we sit down with therapist, coach, and author Taylor Chambers — founder of The Good and the Free. Taylor opens up about his own journey through religious upbringing, porn addiction, relapse, and the long — and still ongoing — process of rebuilding his life. He shares why traditional addiction-recovery rhetoric fell short […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 131 – Taylor Chambers Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this powerful conversation, Chris sits down with Joe Madison, founder of Demand Disruption, an organization dedicated to ending human trafficking by addressing the demand side—the buyers. Joe exposes some of the hardest truths about exploitation, pornography, and the cultural attitudes that fuel the trafficking market. This episode is a wake-up call for men pursuing purity, integrity, and […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 130: Disrupting Demand: The Hidden Link Between Porn and Trafficking appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

The first 90 days of recovery can feel overwhelming, disorienting, and emotionally exhausting — but they’re also the most transformational part of the journey. In this episode, Chris walks through what makes the early stages of recovery so challenging and what actually works to build a strong foundation for sexual purity. Through teaching, Scripture, and […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 129: The First 90 Days: Building Your Foundation for Freedom appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Join Chris today as he interviews Brian Shillingburg. Brian is the founder of 9th Inning Project, where he walks with men out of pornography and sexual compulsivity through honest conversation, courageous accountability, and the transforming power of Jesus Christ. A certified Sexual Addiction Recovery Coach (SARC) with a master’s in education, Brian has spent his […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 128 – Brian Shillingburg Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today, Chris is interviewing Dan Johnson. Dan was on Episode 106 where he introduced his P.A.T.H. Plan. Today, he unpacks more of his strategy for recovery by telling us about a concept he calls the Frontline Framework.  In order to have a solid recovery, you first have to have a solid plan. The Frontline Framework […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 127: Dan Johnson Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Many of us men don't understand how to relate to our addiction with compassion. We get sober by suppressing the "addict parts" of our mind, without realizing the roots of our behaviors and what those parts were trying to do for us. We sit on top of them, try to control ourselves, and force our […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 126 – Jake Kastleman Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this episode, Chris wraps up the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by equipping men with a practical Transformation Playbook. After exploring the four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—we now land on the heart of the journey: becoming the man God has called you to be. This conversation isn’t about trying harder or managing your image—it’s […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 125: Building a Transformation Playbook appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this episode, Chris unpacks the Transformational Recovery Matrix—a simple but powerful way to see where you are in your recovery journey. The four quadrants—Trivial, Trapped, Transactional, and Transformational—show the difference between just managing sin and truly living free. Chris shares his own turning point, when recovery stopped being a fight to “just stop sinning” and […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 124: Transformational: Living in Integrity appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this episode, we explore the Transactional Quadrant—where recovery becomes more about checking boxes than changing hearts. You may be sober, but are you truly free? We discuss the difference between compliance and transformation, the trap of religious performance, and how to let your tools (filters, check-ins, groups) lead to real intimacy with Jesus. Reflection Questions: Quote: […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 123: Transactional: Living in Compliance appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Welcome back to The Purity Podcast, sponsored by Castimonia, a Christ-centered 12-step recovery program for men battling sexual addiction. In today’s episode, we dive into the Trapped Quadrant of the Transformational Recovery Matrix—the place where denial stops working but true change still feels impossible. We’ll break it down in three parts: The Wall — When […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 122: Trapped: Living in Captivity appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this powerful episode, Chris continues the series on the Transformational Recovery Matrix (TRM) by diving deep into the Trivial Quadrant—where most men begin their journey into recovery. Marked by low awareness and low action, the Trivial Quadrant is where denial thrives. It’s the place of rationalizations, secrets, and shallow commitment. Chris shares personal experiences, insights from the […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 121: Trivial – Living in Denial appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In this episode of The Purity Podcast, Chris introduces the Transformational Recovery Matrix. Chris created this powerful tool to help men identify where they are in their recovery journey and how to move toward true, Christ-centered transformation. Whether you’re feeling stuck, just going through the motions, or longing for deeper freedom, this episode will give you […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 120: The Transformational Recovery Matrix appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

What could stop you from becoming the man God has called you to be? In this personal episode, Chris explores the potential obstacles on the path to purity and integrity, driven by his commitment to recovery from past unfaithfulness and sexual addiction and his relentless pursuit of God, his wife, and his kids. We'll examine […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 119: Relentless Pursuit: What Could Stop You? appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today on Episode 18, Chris has the privilege of interviewing Robert Switala. Robert is an engineer by trade turned Licensed Mental Health Counselor. He is the owner of Mindview Mental Health Counseling. Chris invited Robert to join the podcast today when he introduced me to his Vowel Principle. He’s gonna talk us through the importance […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 118: Robert Switala Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

The holidays can bring joy and celebration, but they can also amplify struggles—whether it’s stress, loneliness, or old habits trying to creep back in. But here’s the good news: Christmas isn’t about surviving; it’s about thriving through the renewal, strength, and freedom Christ offers us. In this episode, we’ll explore practical, Christ-centered steps to guard […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 117 – Purity Podcast Holiday Edition appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

On today’s episode, Chris is joined by Deborah Schiller and Erick, where Erick will share his journey from an early childhood porn addiction that escalated into child sexual abuse images and his ultimate arrest. Deborah, has a Master of Science in Counseling, is a Licensed Professional Counselor, and Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist, and she’s here […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 116 – Interview with Deborah Schiller and Erick appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

On the Purity Podcast today, Chris discusses theology as recovery with Mike. Mike is a regular recovery guy like you and me. He approached me with this topic as a result of his growth in recovery when he discovered that while books on recovery are fantastic and help change our behavior, we are missing out […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 115 – Theology as Recovery appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today I’m interviewing Chelsea and Layton Boovie of liberator podcast. Chelsea and Layton are on mission to help couples understand the impact of pornography and equip those couples to find restoration in their marriages. To learn more about Chelsea and Layton and their resources, go to liberatorpodcast.com. Through their podcast and mission, you will find […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 114 – Chelsea and Layton Boovie of Liberator Podcast appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today Chris tackles a sensitive topic with the help of Kelton and Lynson. Today we’re exploring a topic that’s close to the hearts of many but can be difficult to discuss—same-sex attraction. I know this subject can be deeply personal and complex, touching on issues of identity, acceptance, and love. Our goal is to create […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 113 – Kelton and Lynson appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Remember that on this path of recovery, you are not walking alone. The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 112 – Developing a Recovery Plan appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In today's episode, Chris takes a break from sobriety and recovery topics to discuss the most important thing regarding sobriety and recovery…a relationship with Jesus Christ. Chris’s brother will be in Paris for about 10 days with International Sports Chaplains street witnessing using a “Salvation Pin” they will give out for free. The pin comes […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 111 – Salvation Pin appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Remember that on this path of recovery, you are not walking alone. The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 110 – Chrisdom, Part 2 appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

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I’m interviewing The Purity Coach, Steve Etner. He has a point of purity program that will equip and train you in how to overcome porn addiction. His plan is Bible based and Christ centered, and he can help you create a strategic plan for ongoing purity. To learn more about Steve and the coaching he […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 108 – Steve Etner Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Found yourself in a place you never thought you’d be? The shame and hopelessness sexual addiction and compulsive sexual behaviors can ignite are real…but there is hope. Today Chris talks about how he entered recovery and reached sobriety early on.  The difference between behavioral change and heart change, what steps he took early on, and […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 107 – The Road to Recovery  appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Today I’m excited to interview Dan Johnson from New Paths. I recently listened to Dan’s podcast and was blown away by his simple, yet profound method for how he stopped watching porn. Grab a pen and paper or open up your favorite note-taking app to capture this method. We might as well call Dan the […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 106 – Dan Johnson Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

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Jorge joins Season 8 for the first time to talk about Healthy Sexuality. The conversation (that involved a lot of editing, lol) is designed to help men understand what healthy sexuality looks like and steps needed to help move from unhealthy sexuality into healthy sexuality. Because of our addiction, we have taken sexuality and distorted […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 104 – Healthy Sexuality appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

In Episode 3 Chris interviews Mark Denison to talk about his new book, Recovery Rules. In his book Mark gives 100 crazy awesome rules to a healthy recovery. We touch on several of the rules, talk about the difference between sobriety and recovery, and close with what I call your “go-to story.” Mark shocked me […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 103 – Mark Denison Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

Join Chris as he interviews Thomas Berry from Redemptive Living. Thomas was the speaker at the Castimonia Retreat in November of 2023 and he gives a recap from his sessions. Thomas also shares some observations he had from the retreat and we unpack some of the differences between sobriety and recovery. Redemptive Living was founded […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 102 – Thomas Berry Interview appeared first on CASTIMONIA.

After 7 years of hosting the Purity Podcast Doug has passed the baton to Chris. Today, Chris introduces himself and welcomes you into his journey of recovery as well as your own. You may find yourself in a very dark place right now, but you are not alone, and there is hope. He challenges the […] The post Castimonia Purity Podcast Episode 101 appeared first on CASTIMONIA.