The Midlife Reinvention: How to Find Your Ikigai, Deal with Imposter Syndrome & Build Your Confidence in Career & Life Transitions
Are you experiencing a Career or Life Transition, and are asking yourself "What's Next"? Join Kavita Ahuja, Certified Career and Life Transitions Coach, and founder of It's My Time Now Coaching https://itsmytimenowcoaching.com/ as she gives her own wonderful insights and interviews incredible women across the globe will give you inspiration to rediscover who you really are, what you really want, and how to get there!You will learn how to overcome obstacles, find your true calling, and make your next chapter in life your best chapter ever. Reinvention doesn't mean giving up everything; it means rediscovering what has...
#316: When Everything You Have Lived Through Becomes Your Reason for Being
What if everything you have survived was quietly preparing you for the very thing you were put here to do?
In the finale of the My Story series, Kavita shares what happened after she took the leap, when the relief gave way to quiet panic and the only thing left to do was take one small step, and then another. This is the story of how a wide open unknown slowly became a life she loves, and how the four circles of ikigai, your strengths, your passions, your values, and your contribution, were inside her all along...
#315: The Fourth Circle of Ikigai That Reveals Where the World Needs You in Midlife Transitions
Have you been told that finding your purpose means solving some big, world-changing problem, and quietly decided it must not be for you?
That belief is one of the biggest reasons women in midlife stop short of finding their Ikigai. The fourth circle, what the world needs, is not about the whole world. It is about your corner of it, where your gifts meet a real need in the lives around you. And the experiences you think disqualify you, including the hardest parts of your own career and life transitions, are often the very thing someone walking...
#314: How to Work With the Inner Critic That Keeps You Stuck in a Career or Life Transition
Have you been waiting for a dramatic sign before you let yourself admit something needs to change?
For most women, the moment that begins a career transition does not arrive as a crisis. It builds quietly, over months or years, in the form of a question you cannot stop turning over, a Monday morning that feels heavier than it should, or a quiet dissatisfaction you keep explaining away as tiredness. This episode continues Kavita's My Story series and picks up in the morning everything cracked open, the gremlins that kept her stuck for two more years, and...
#313: The Hidden Strengths That Can Reshape Your Midlife Career and Life Transitions
What if the greatest strength you have is one you can no longer see, or one you set down years ago?
In this Thursday companion to Monday's conversation with Deborah Knight (episode 312), Kavita continues the My Story series with a closer look at the first circle of ikigai: your strengths. The ones that can change your whole next chapter are often the ones you would never put on a resume. Some have gone invisible because they come so easily to you. Others have simply gone quiet, waiting for you to pick them back up. In midlife career...
#312: How to Reinvent Yourself After 50 When Everything You Built Falls Apart, with Deborah Knight
Have you ever wondered if it is too late to start over after the ground has shifted beneath you?
If you are in the middle of a midlife career or life transition, where a layoff, a relationship ending, a diagnosis, or simply a quiet sense that this is no longer me has cracked open the life you spent years building, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. My guest, Deborah Knight, has lived through layoffs, single motherhood at 42, marriage to a partner battling addiction, the loss of her home, and a cancer diagnosis that launched...
#311: How Your Buried Passions Reveal Your Ikigai in Midlife Transitions
What did you love doing as a girl, before life told you to be practical?
If you have spent decades inside the playbook of career, family, and what you were supposed to want, there is a good chance you have left someone important behind: the girl who knew exactly what made her come alive. In this Thursday check-in of the My Story series, Kavita continues unpacking ikigai, this time exploring how your buried passions are not nostalgia. They are signals, and they hold real information about your purpose and your next chapter.
In this...
#310: The Playbook You Did Not Know You Were Following in Your Career and Life Transition
From the outside, your life looks right. The career, the marriage, the achievements that everyone around you agrees count. From the inside, something has started to whisper a question you have been dismissing as exhaustion or burnout or just a hard week.
Most of us follow a playbook through our thirties and forties without realizing we are following one. The values our parents handed us. The script our culture wrote. The version of success we never stopped to question. It works beautifully for a long time. Until the day it doesn't.
In this episode...
#309: The Values That Built You May Not Be the Ones Leading You Forward in a Midlife Career or Life Transition
Have you ever looked at the life you've built and quietly wondered why it no longer feels like yours, even though nothing on the outside looks wrong?
Every career and life transition is, underneath everything, a conversation with your values. The values that carried you through your earlier chapters are not always the same ones calling you forward into who you are becoming, and learning to tell the difference is some of the most important work of midlife. In this Thursday mini, a companion to Monday's episode 308, Kavita picks up one thread from her own story and...
#308: The Inheritance You've Forgotten About in Your Career and Life Transition
Have you ever felt like the woman you are today is missing something the woman you used to be already knew?
This week marks the start of a brand new series called My Story, where Kavita finally answers a question one of her clients asked that she had been quietly avoiding for five years. As you sit in your own career or life transition, this series is an invitation to listen for yourself in someone else's story, to notice where your themes echo, and to remember the courage that has been sitting inside you all along, waiting...
#307: How to Tell the Difference Between Your Inner Critic and Your Inner Wisdom in a Midlife Career or Life Transition
What if the voice that has been telling you you are not ready, not qualified, or not allowed to want something different is not your wisdom at all, but the part of you that has the most to lose if you actually move forward?
In midlife, when so much of who you were is quietly reorganizing, the voice in your head tends to get louder. The more you move toward something new, the more that voice works to keep you where you are. The hard part is that your inner critic and your inner wisdom can sound...
#306: What to Do When the Identity That Got You Here No Longer Fits in a Career or Life Transition, with Kathleen Perry
What if the identity that has defined you for decades - the career, the titles, the roles you have spent a lifetime building - is not actually who you are?
For so many women navigating a career or life transition, the most disorienting part is not the change itself. It is the quiet, unsettling realization that when the role falls away, you are not sure who is left. This conversation with Dr. Kathleen Perry - transformational coach, former chiropractor, and host of the Identity Matters podcast - goes straight to the heart of that question. After five...
#305: The One Ikigai Question to Ask Yourself in Every Career or Life Transition
What if the questions you have been asking about your career or life transition are the very reason the answers keep slipping away from you?
Most women in midlife spend years asking what they want, what is missing, and what is wrong with them. Those questions feel productive. They feel like the right place to start. But they have a hidden cost - they keep you looking inward at what you lack, and the more you look, the deeper the stuckness grows. This Thursday mini episode builds on Episode 304 and offers the one ikigai question that quietly...
#304: 3 Ikigai Lessons From My Own Midlife Transition (And My Son's Wedding)
Three Ikigai lessons. One unexpected midlife transition. And a son's wedding in Cartagena that taught Kavita more about purpose, identity, and reinvention than any framework ever has.
Most of us in midlife are exhausted because we're asking the wrong question. We're asking what do I want, what's missing from my life, what's wrong with me. And the more we ask, the deeper into stuckness we sink. But there's a different question that changes everything.Â
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why asking "what does the world need from me right now?" is one o...#303: 3 Shifts to Move from Burnout to Clarity in a Career or Life Transition
Have you built a successful career, cared for everyone around you, and checked every box - and still find yourself running on fumes?
That exhaustion is not a sign that something is wrong with you. For so many accomplished women in a career or life transition, burnout is not the end of the story. It is the signal that something inside is ready to evolve. This episode is a re-release of Episode 248 - one of the most listened-to mini episodes from the archive, brought back by popular demand as a companion to this week's Monday episode on...
#302: Why Burnout at Midlife Is the Beginning of Your Career Transition Not the End
What if the exhaustion you cannot shake is not a sign that something has gone wrong - but the most honest signal your life has sent you in years?
So many accomplished women reach a point in their midlife career or life transition where they have done everything right - the title, the recognition, the security - and still wake up wondering if this is all there is. The fatigue does not lift. The things that once energized you feel flat. And underneath the quiet ache is a question you are almost afraid to ask: what now...
#301: The One Question to Ask Before Any Hard Decision in a Career or Life Transition
What if the reason you keep going in circles on a decision is not that you lack clarity - but that you have not yet stopped long enough to hear the one voice that actually knows?
When you are in a career or life transition, the noise gets loud. The voice of fear, the voice of what other people might think, the old stories about who you are allowed to be. And underneath all of it, quieter and steadier, is the voice that has been there the whole time. This episode gives you one question and one...
#300: Why Women Lose Their Inner Voice in a Career or Life Transition with Gail Harris
Are you navigating a midlife career or life transition and finding it harder than ever to trust what you actually know?
When you have spent years making decisions based on responsibility, logic, and other people's expectations, the quieter voice inside you - the one that knows - can become almost impossible to hear. This episode goes beyond strategy and practical steps. It is about what it actually takes to reconnect with yourself when life is asking you to change, and why so many accomplished women are discovering that the most important transition they will ever make is...
#299: What the In-Between Phase of a Midlife Career or Life Transition Is Actually Trying to Tell You
What if the phase of your midlife transition that feels the most uncertain and untethered is not a sign that something has gone wrong - but the place where everything important is quietly taking root?
Most women navigating a career or life transition want to move through the uncomfortable in-between as quickly as possible. The pressure to decide, to act, to just feel like something is moving again is real - and it is exactly what causes so many accomplished women to end up six months later feeling like something is still missing. This episode offers a...
#298: What Letting Go of a Role That Defines You Can Teach You About Your Own Life Transition
What if the grief you feel alongside the joy of a milestone is not something to push down - but the most honest signal you have about what this season of life is really asking of you?
Many women navigating midlife find themselves caught between two true things at once: profound happiness for someone they love, and a quiet, unnamed sadness they don't quite know what to do with. That combination can feel disorienting, even wrong. But it isn't wrong. It is one of the clearest signs that a real transition is underway - one that deserves...
#297: 3 Small Shifts to Start Building Real Confidence in a Midlife Career or Life Transition
Are you waiting to feel confident before you take the next step in your midlife career or life transition, and wondering why that feeling never quite arrives?
Most women in transition have been taught to treat confidence like a green light - something that has to show up before they are allowed to go. But confidence is not something you find before the step. It is something you build by taking it. This mini episode gives you three very specific, practical shifts you can use to start building real, lasting confidence from the inside out - so...
#296: How Your Ikigai Builds Real Confidence in Midlife Career & Life Transitions
Have you done the inner work, gained real clarity about what you want in your midlife career transition, and still can't seem to take the first step?
That gap between knowing and doing is one of the most disorienting places to be - and it has nothing to do with not being ready. For so many accomplished women navigating a career or life transition, the missing piece is not more reflection. It is understanding why confidence works backwards from what most of us were taught. You do not wait for confidence to arrive before you begin. Confidence...
#295: 3 Ways Your Inner Critic Sounds Like Wisdom and the One Question That Exposes It
What if the thoughts keeping you stuck in your midlife career or life transition are not doubts at all - but ideas that sound completely wise and responsible?
The inner critic's most powerful trick is not making you feel bad about yourself. It is giving you thoughts that sound mature, measured, and sensible - thoughts you never think to question. For accomplished women navigating a career or life transition, these do not feel like fear. They feel like common sense. And that is exactly what makes them so difficult to catch.
In this episode...
#294: The Inner Critic Disguises That Keeps Women Stuck in Midlife Career and Life Transitions
What if the voice you have been trusting to keep you safe is actually the thing keeping you stuck in your career and life transition?
Most women in midlife expect the inner critic to be loud and harsh. But for accomplished, capable women navigating a career or life transition, it almost never sounds that way. It sounds like common sense. It sounds like practicality, responsibility, and wisdom - and that is exactly what makes it so difficult to see and so hard to challenge. This episode names the specific disguises that inner critic wears, why it is...
#293: 3 Ways to Find Clarity When Midlife Transitions Have You Feeling Lost
Have you ever looked in the mirror during a midlife transition and wondered not just where you went, but how to find your way back?
When career change, perimenopause, divorce, grief, or empty nesting arrive all at once, the sense of not recognizing yourself can feel permanent. But it is not. This mini episode draws on the conversation with grief guide and life coach Marie Crews from Episode 292, and offers three practical, grounding shifts that will help you move from disorientation to self-trust - without waiting until everything feels certain first.
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#292: She Never Left - How to Find Your Way Back to Yourself in Midlife Transitions, with Marie Crews
Have you ever sensed that the woman you truly are is still in there, but life has made her harder to hear?
When you are moving through a life transition, whether it arrives through grief, divorce, perimenopause, career change, or years of putting everyone else first, finding your way back to yourself can feel like the hardest part. This episode offers a grounding, hopeful path forward - one that starts not with a dramatic overhaul, but with a single honest question and a willingness to listen.
This conversation with grief guide, life coach, and author...
#291: 3 Ways Your Ikigai Shifts in a Midlife Career Transition
What if your Ikigai - your reason for being - is not something you find once and hold onto forever, but something that evolves as you do?
You may still be good at what you do. You may still get recognition for it. But the deeper sense of meaning is not there the way it once was - and that can be incredibly confusing when everything still looks fine from the outside. If you have been wondering why something that once made so much sense no longer feels like enough, this episode is for you.
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#290: How to Redefine Success During Midlife Transitions Using Ikigai
What if the version of success that no longer feels like enough is actually pointing you toward the one that truly fits?
Many accomplished women reach a point in midlife career or life transition where the titles, the recognition, and the milestones they worked so hard for stop feeling like enough. This is not a sign that something is wrong. It is a sign that something important is ready to shift. When the old scoreboard stops working, it creates an opening - a chance to define success on your own terms, from the inside out.
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#289: How to Find Clarity in the In-Between Phase of a Career Transition
What if the uncertainty you're feeling in your career transition is not a sign that you're lost, but a sign that you're paying attention?
The in-between phase of a career or life transition is one of the most disorienting places to be. Your old identity no longer fits the way it used to, and your next chapter is not fully clear yet. But there is real meaning in this phase - and when you understand what it is telling you, it becomes far less frightening and far more useful.
This mini episode gives you three...
#288: The Hidden Costs of Staying Stuck in a Career That No Longer Fits and What to Do Instead
What if feeling stuck in your career is not a sign that something is wrong with you, but a sign that something important in you is ready to be heard?
So many accomplished women in career and life transitions are not stuck because they are lazy or unclear. They are stuck because they have been trying to solve a deeper misalignment with logic alone. This episode offers a more honest and grounding perspective. One that helps you stop overriding what you already know and start moving toward work that genuinely fits.
When you understand what...
#287: 5 Practical Shifts to Reclaim Yourself During Midlife Transitions
Are you in midlife and sensing that the life you’ve been holding together no longer fits the woman you’re becoming?
This mini episode speaks directly to women navigating midlife changes in career, identity, relationships, health, or purpose who feel stretched, depleted, or unsure of what comes next. Instead of pressuring you to reinvent yourself through a dramatic overhaul, it offers a more honest and grounding path back to who you already are.
In this episode you’ll discover:
How to view midlife reinvention as self-reclamation instead of starting over.Why clarit...#286: How to Navigate Midlife Transitions of Menopause, Grief, Divorce, and Career Change - with Angela Burk
What if midlife is not the end of who you were, but the beginning of choosing yourself again?
When life feels unfamiliar because of menopause, grief, divorce, career change, or shifting family roles, it is easy to wonder who you are now. This episode speaks directly to women in transition who are ready to stop shrinking, release old expectations, and move forward with more honesty, self-compassion, and clarity.
This conversation with Angela Burke, author of Real Girls Guide to Midlife, explores what it really takes to move through the messy middle of transition: grief, identity...
#285: 3 Things Women in Transition Need to Rebuild Confidence and Move Forward
What if the clarity you are searching for in this season of transition does not come from doing more, but from finally giving yourself what you truly need?
If you’re navigating a life or career transition, it’s easy to rush into the next decision, ignore what feels off, and carry the weight of uncertainty on your own. This episode speaks directly to that experience and shows how giving yourself time, truth, and support can help you move forward with more alignment instead of pressure.
In this episode, you'll discover:
Why slow...#284: Why International Women’s Day Matters in Career and Life Transitions
What does International Women’s Day have to do with career transitions, life transitions, reinvention, purpose, and confidence?
If you’ve been moving through a career or life transition and quietly wondering what’s next, this episode will speak directly to your heart.Â
In this deeply personal International Women’s Day reflection, Kavita Ahuja shares why this day matters so much to her, what five years of podcasting has taught her, and why reinvention begins the moment a woman gives herself permission to pause, reflect, and choose what truly fits.
In this episode...
#283: Why Imposter Syndrome Gets Louder After You Gain Clarity in a Career or Life Transition
Have you ever noticed that imposter syndrome sometimes gets louder right after you gain clarity about a career or life change?
Many women expect imposter syndrome to show up at the beginning of a life or career transition - but it often appears right after clarity arrives. The moment you admit you want something different, your mind may rush in with doubts, questions, and fears about leaving what feels familiar.
If you’re navigating a midlife transition and wondering why confidence hasn’t caught up with your clarity yet, this episode explains what’s really happen...
#282: Imposter Syndrome During Career and Life Transitions and How to Rebuild Confidence
Have you ever reached a moment in your career or life where something shifts - and instead of excitement, you feel self doubt or Imposter Syndrome?
If you’re a high-achieving woman standing at a crossroads - facing a layoff, a promotion that feels heavy, a divorce, a health shift, or simply a growing inner restlessness - you may be questioning everything you’ve built. What used to energize you now drains you. And instead of clarity, self-doubt creeps in. This episode unpacks why Imposter Syndrome intensifies during transitions and why that doubt does not mean you’re inc...
#281: The Hidden Cost of Your Inner Critic During Career and Life Transitions
Is your inner critic quietly draining your energy - while convincing you it’s just being practical?
If you’re in a career or life transition and feeling a subtle heaviness you can’t quite name, this episode will resonate deeply. From the outside, your life may look stable, successful, even admirable. But internally, you might feel a quiet misalignment - a spark of curiosity or expansion that gets immediately overridden by responsibility and logic.Â
Many women aren’t exhausted because they’re busy; they’re exhausted because they’re constantly negotiating with themselves. This mini episode unc...
#280: How Your Inner Critic Keeps You Stuck and How to Reclaim Your Ikigai Instead
What if the voice you trust most - the “logical” one in your head - is actually the very thing keeping you stuck? Discover how your Inner Critic keeps you stuck and how to reclaim your Ikigai instead.
If you’ve ever felt a quiet pull toward something more - a career pivot, a creative pursuit, a leadership role, or simply a deeper sense of meaning - only to talk yourself out of it with “reasonable” excuses, this episode is for you.Â
So many capable, accomplished women aren’t lacking clarity or courage. They’re mistaking fear...
#279: 5 Ikigai Shifts You Need For Clarity in Career & Life Transitions
Are you feeling a quiet pull toward something new - but not ready to blow up your life to find it? Learn 5 Ikigai shifts you need for clarity in career & life transitions today.Â
If you’re in midlife and sensing misalignment, you may be torn between staying comfortable and making a dramatic leap. This episode breaks down five practical Ikigai shifts to help you navigate transition intentionally drawing from our conversation with Francesc Miralles - so you can build momentum toward your next chapter without blowing up your life or staying stuck on autopilot.
#278: How to Sustain Purpose for a Lifetime: Ikigai, Flow, and Longevity with Francesc Miralles
What if the real secret to a meaningful next chapter isn’t figuring everything out - but learning how to live with purpose, flow, and sustainability for decades to come?
If you’re in a season where what once fit no longer does - career, identity, routines, or even success itself - this episode meets you exactly there. In part two of this deep conversation Kavita Ahuja continues her conversation with Francesc Miralles and explores how to design a life that doesn’t just look good on the outside, but actually feels right on the inside. This isn’t...
#277: Ikigai Explained: How Purpose Evolves Through Career and Life Transitions, with Francesc Miralles
What if the quiet dissatisfaction you’ve been feeling isn’t a problem to fix - but a signal pointing you toward your next Ikigai?
Many accomplished women reach a point where life looks “successful” on paper, yet something inside feels off. In this powerful re-release, Kavita Ahuja revisits one of the most downloaded conversations on the podcast with Francesc Miralles, co-author of Ikigai: Japan’s Secret to a Long and Happy Life.
Together, they explore why fulfillment often shifts in midlife, how purpose evolves over time, and why feeling restless or bored may...
