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Wow, what an episode this was. And a bit of a rollercoaster ride at times; that needed some masterly editing by Paul to get right. As always, Charlotte's unmedicated ADHD, unscripted script had to be carefully puzzled together like an undeniably raw piece of art. (Pun intended hehe), but there are, without a doubt, some bubbles of wisdom. 

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The BBC did a podcast about the swinging community, and we listened. We explained our views and why it absolutely was coercion, but also how the brainwashing way in which the p...

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From last year's festivals, to what to expect and stories from last year's ones - that are guaranteed to get you a little wet....

So grab a beautifully hot coffee or a tea, or whatever it is that you enjoy, and maybe your favourite sex toy too..... and oops... hehe - got a little carried away then... And tune out the vanilla world and jump into our little corner of the swinging community, or the alternative lifestyle community, or the ENM or the mindful swinging community, or if you're purely vanilla...

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A catch-up after only four and a half months?! That's crazy for the pair of us; but life has really calmed down... so onwards a nd upwards!  And if you guys knew the sheer amount of self-control it took us for not end up spilling the beans on what happened at the epic Swingathon 2025; oh well - You would be even more impressed than what Paul managed to do in front of 250 (ish) people at the amazing May FOF at the Vanilla Alternative. (My word, did he steal the show; the greatest of s...

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In this episode, I had the pleasure of interviewing a naturist, you know who, as in Paul — someone who believes in embracing nature in a very natural way. You know, the kind of person who thinks “clothing optional” is just a bonus feature for life! We started this episode 7 weeks ago and finished it this evening; so buckle up or unbuckle and get the naked truth about what it is to be a naturist, and how it felt from Paul's phenomenological perspective, experiencing it as a child. 

Listen to how Paul discuss...

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Pleasures with the school girl night – listen to us discuss the principles of a theme night and how the main stream part of society – aka the vanilla world lost their mind when they found out people within the lifestyle like to take part in dress up/role play. Considering Charlotte found herself being hounded by trolls for days on end about how much of a pervert she is; listen on to how we've become humbled by our recent experiences- and how our own kink levels have truly humbled us. But even humbling experiences shou...

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We were forced to go vanilla for a bit but only by our own actions, so it's all cool. With our usual laid back chatter and giggling with plenty of possible Segway's, we managed to, (just about) to keep it on some sort of track. As always, it’s eloquently unprofessional manner shows through. 

With a very brief summery of the two adult lifestyle festival's that we attended last year, followed by the amazing outfits at swingathon that we both wore, that only a handful of people managed to see. Because of...

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For once we managed to get an episode out in a decent time frame; without the usual 9 month delay. 

 The degree is over - finally. Let’s hope I’m in good spirits the next episode as I could have failed, you just don’t know! The pressure is finally off and fingers crossed you can tell in char’s voice. Although in char’s own words… ‘I feel like the 5,000 word may have caused some damage and I may need to sleep until Christmas to recover hehe’. At lease you guys listening don...

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A very long awaited, yet equally laid back episode. Tune in and chill with us  - as we sit down on our sofa discussing our wedding, trips to pleasures and new adventures at the beautiful adult club that is  penthouse. Come and enjoy the non-scripted Banta and laughs; as we take you along for the ride in more ways than one :) We discuss the politics of the swinging adult life-style - all while maintaining our un-bias perspective - which with all of the telly programs coming out, its a raw & honest view.  We eve...

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Festival's, orgies and cake. Well there was a song titled 'cake by the ocean', so why can't there be a podcast named 'cake by the orgies'. hehe. Well to be completely honest, we was wandering around the Vanilla Alternative with bowls of fruit, but eating Victoria was well needed after the fun and in that, we do mean eating the Victoria sponge lol, not a person named Victoria.

Can't quite believe that its been a ridiculously 9 months  since we published an episode. We are 100% aiming to get another one done i...

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Its been 6 months since our last episode (which is pretty disappointing our behalf so apologies) Vanilla life at times gets in the way and sometimes its just enviably. With studying and employment effecting our enjoyment - we've just had our hands tied (and not in the way we like!) 

Focusing mainly upon the three festivals that we attended during the summer and considering it had been well over a year since we had done anything like that since the Covid lock downs happened last March. We 100% made the most out o...

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We're both so sorry for it being so damn long since doing an episode. With Paul working full time from home (which is making him work longer at times because his work is just there.)  Charlotte with her studies and juggling family responsibilities has been taking so much of her time, so being able to get the time and energy has been somewhat difficult.

With Covidageddon beginning to come to an end (fingers crossed the whole situation stays improving) we've decided to do an episode discussing some up and coming events, i...

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This episode is regarding the possible dangers of meeting new people on the scene and then we discuss the awesome time we both had at the Festival of fun (Which is held at the beautiful Vanilla Alternative located in Bedford) 

We've been almost taken back to see so many people wanting to dip their toes in regards to the scene and we're both so proud of you all for wanting to do that. Some of you have even taken those first step and have started up your own profiles on Fabswingers, w...

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This is our 2nd bonus episode for all of you lovely people out there who are tuning in to our swinging lifestyle podcast. 
We have taken quite some time editing this one and both want to give you a massive heart felt apology over just how long it took to get into publication. 

Our personal and vanilla lives have been crazy and since being able to get out and travel after the lockdown eased, we defiantly made up for lost time. Cornwall, Bournemouth, Lakes district and Brighton for Charlottes birthday,  

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This episode is our funny and insightful guide to how to use a swinging website and some of the things you will experience during your first time. Hopefully out views and tips on how to navigate your way round fabswingers will encourage you to take the plunge and get on it. 

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Just a small clip saying thanks to all the interest and constructive criticism. We are going to be having these bite-size episodes pop up occasionally along side our normal ones.

Thanks.

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Giving people out there a rough idea of how the UK swinging scene has affected our lives, and how we operate within the scene and just a very erratically erotic first episode with us Paul and Charlotte. 
From explaining our bi sexuality, to certain different abbreviations (But obviously not all of them, as there are just so many!) and our experience within the scene, and how the inner workings of our special and sexy community can change anyone's life.