Pilates Elephants

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By: Raphael Bender

We get to grips with new research, teaching strategies, and social issues around Pilates and Pilates teaching. This is 100% authentic, unscripted, real talk about everything Pilates.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: AdBarker - https://adbarker.com/privacy

359. How to Train Great Pilates Instructors Fast
#359
Today at 6:15 AM

Train instructors faster by focusing on “good enough to start”, not perfection.

Most studio owners overwhelm new instructors by trying to teach everything upfront. This slows learning and reduces confidence.

Instead:

Define the minimum skill set needed to teach one class competentlyGive instructors a clear, repeatable “recipe” (exact class plan)Have them practice and teach the same class repeatedlyLayer in new skills only after mastery

Key ideas:

Prioritize depth over breadthUse real teaching reps + feedback as the main learning driverStandardize your class before trying to scale your team

Result: faster r...


358. Is your studio a Food Hall or a Restaurant?
#358
04/19/2026

Studio owners often think they need a new trend, new machine, or new offer to stand out.

In this episode, Raphael and Heath argue the opposite.

They explain why the studios that win are not the ones chasing novelty. They are the ones with a clear style, a consistent client experience, and a team that delivers the same standard every time.

They also unpack the difference between running a food hall, where every instructor does their own thing under one roof. And running a restaurant, where the whole team delivers one clear product...


357. Live Lecture: Foundations of Rehab
#357
04/12/2026

This lecture was delivered live for our Diploma of Clinical Pilates.

You'll also find it as a video on YouTube if you want to see the visuals. Here's the YouTube link: https://youtu.be/UATwStlLVWI

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356. Are contraindications actually real?
#356
04/06/2026

Short answer - mostly not. But in a few cases, yes.

I delve into a better way to think about contrainidications, and working with people with pain, injury and chronic conditions.

Links:

Brinjikji et al. 2015a - disc bulge is highly prevalent in pain-free people hereBrinjikji et al. 2015b - disc bulge is slightly MORE prevalent in people with back pain herePainful exercises are slightly BETTER than non-painful exercises for people with chronic pain here

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355. Great instructors DO fill classes - here's why
#355
03/29/2026

Why I don't believe there is a better definition of a good instructor than a full class of strong clients.

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354. What to do if your classes are not full
#354
03/22/2026

This is for instructors AND studio owners.

It's the exact troubleshooting process I use to help studio owners fill their classes - based on the best practices of 100+ studios I've seen the numbers for, and what's working right now for the 30+ studios I currently work with.

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353. Don't confuse giving information with teaching
#353
03/15/2026

Many Pilates instructors make the same mistake when introducing an exercise: they give too much information.

Instead of helping clients move, long explanations overwhelm them and nothing sticks.

In this episode, we explore the difference between explaining and teaching, and why fewer, simpler cues often lead to better movement and faster learning.

If you want clients to actually do the exercise well, this mindset shift is essential.

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352. Adam McAtee - We Don't Get to Redefine Physics
#352
03/08/2026

While we can adapt Pilates to the laws of physiology, we cannot change the definition of technical words like "strength" just to fit a specific teaching style or Pilates philosophy.

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351. Nathan Ross Rees - Total Instructor Accountability
#351
03/01/2026

Nathan makes the case that instructors should take 100% responsibility for filling our classes.

If our attendance is low,we should see that as a personal indicator that something in the experience or connection is missing.

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350. The Law of the Spring:
#350
02/22/2026

A common mistake is assuming that two Pilates exercises are the same just because they look identical.

However, the actual "exercise" depends on where the load and force are being applied.

Nerd out with us.

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349. Great Instructors Fill Classes
#349
02/15/2026

Studios hire Pilates instructors to fill classes with happy clients.

If your instructors' classes are not full, by definition are not good at their job - yet.

As a studio owner, it's your job to help them become good!

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348. Progressing Strength, Flexibility & Skill In Pilates
#348
02/08/2026

Every Pilates exercise trains strength, range of motion, and skill.

We explore how to progress your clients intelligently by adjusting one dimension at a time to build capacity, clarity, and confidence in movement.

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347. Why “Quiet the Big Muscles” Is Wrong
#347
02/01/2026

Special shout out to Adam McAtee for this post

Citations in these episodes:

ep 278 Does Pilates strengthen your little muscles?ep 216 Why knowing which muscles are working in a movement is a waste of timeep 160 Can we even feel muscles activating?

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346. Why Dallas sold half her studio - then bought it back
#346
01/25/2026

Dallas Noerdlinger (Core Pilates, Oklahoma City) shares why she sold 50% of her studio during pregnancy, what changed in the business and culture, and how she bought it back.

We talk boutique vs franchise positioning, keeping instructors happy, managing owner overwhelm, and the “unlimited membership” + waitlist problem—plus practical fixes for capacity, pricing, and schedule structure.

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345. Where Should I Be Feeling This?
#345
01/18/2026

The most useful kind of body awareness is mostly unconscious and automatic control, like a cat. This is built through practice, not narration.

Links:

Glute activation drills increase perception but not actual glute activation hereEpisode 160 "Can we even feel muscles activating?" here

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344. Text Neck Isn’t Causing Your Neck Pain
#344
01/11/2026

Studies mentioned in this episode:

2025 longitudinal study finds text neck is not associated with future neck pain here2023 systematic review of interventions for neck pain finds strengthening works here2017 Chen et al. systematic review finds neck strengthening is the most effective intervention for workplace neck pain - more effective than posture or ergonomic advice here

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343. Why Your Clients Don’t Show Up (Even When They Want To)
#343
01/04/2026

Your clients don’t skip Pilates because they don’t care.

They skip because the system asks them to do work they don’t have the capacity for.

In this short episode, Raphael shares:

Why flexibility often reduces attendanceThe paradox of overwhelm: needing structure but lacking the bandwidth to create itHow studios unintentionally design for no-shows and drop-offA simple shift from “choice” to “default” that increases consistency and retention

If your clients say they “don’t have time”, this episode explains what’s really happening and how to fix it.

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342. 3 Pilates exercises walk into a bar...
#342
12/28/2025

What do flamingo, arms in straps and knee pulls have in common?

They look different. They feel different.

They’re secretly doing the exact same thing.

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341. There's a grape under your back
#341
12/21/2025

A Pilates cue goes off the rails and exposes everything we get wrong about “perfect form.” Expect heresy, biomechanics, and a very small grape that ruins neutral forever.

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340. What's the minimum effective dose of Pilates for strengthening?
#340
12/14/2025

How much Pilates do you need to do to get stronger?

Probably less than you think!

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339. Is Pilates Education Increasing Our Risk Of Injury?
#339
12/07/2025

Resources:

Strength training reduces injury risk substantially here and here and hereResistance training itself is a very safe activity here and hereFoot pronation increases risk of shin splints here, but has no effect on overall injury risk here and there is minimal evidence that any biomechanical variable predicts running injuries hereKnee valgus does not predict future ACL injury here

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338. The 3 Skills That Differentiate Average Pilates Instructors From Superstars
#338
11/27/2025

What to look for when coaching your team - or critiquing your own classes.

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337. What are lunges for?
#337
11/23/2025

The humble lunge - there's a LOT more there than meets the eye. We go there - biomechanics, cueing, how to layer it and why most instructors don't get the full value from it.

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336. How Build A Studio That Attracts VIP Clients with Patricia Robinson
#336
11/20/2025

In this episode Patricia Robinson from Pilates Vita, London, breaks down how she built a boutique, premium-priced Pilates studio serving VIP clients in Kensington.

Find Patricia here:

https://www.pilatesvita.com/

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335. How Ana is making €100k+ teaching Pilates in a Tiny Dutch Town
#335
11/16/2025

The story of how Ana Maria Borrero went from from €17/hr employee to nearly €10k/month in revenue with 6 reformers, 20 classes, and a waitlist in a small Dutch town.

Find Ana here:

https://movewithana.nl/ https://www.instagram.com/movewithanapilates/


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334. Leaving Classpass with Sari Sadhati
#334
11/09/2025

Many studio owners have a love/hate relationship with Classpass - Sari and I have an honest conversation about the pros and cons, and why (and how) her studios are leaving Classpass.

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333. What To Cue (It's Not What You Think)
#333
11/02/2025

There IS a right thing to cue in each exercise in Pilates. Here's how to know what it is.

Bonus - There is no consistent pattern of muscle activation in the prone hip extension test. Except that gluteus maximus is consistently the last muscle to activate - here

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332. You're using layers wrong, with Heath Lander and Raphael Bender
#332
10/26/2025

Many instructors use layers, but most miss the most powerful part of this amazing programming tool.

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331. 100 First Visits/Month With $0 Ads - Cassie & Henry from Sunny Space studio
#331
10/19/2025

Cassie and Henry from Sunny Space Studio share how they grew their reformer studio in Kelowna, British Columbia, Canada, to $65k a month within a year - without spending a dollar on ads.

They break down how they attract over 100 first visits per month through exceptional client experience, brand consistency, and word of mouth. Plus how they train loyal clients into instructors, create SOPs that scale, and keep classes sold out with clear standards and warm service.

This episode is a playbook for studio owners doing $10k+ who want to grow fast, without chaos or...


330. How this husband & wife team built 2 thriving studios in 1 year - Laura & Sam from Form & Flow UK
#330
10/12/2025

Laura and Sam from Form & Flow Pilates share how they grew from one to two thriving studios in a year. They reveal the systems, standards, and teamwork that made it possible—and how they balance marriage, business, and growth without burnout.

Find Laura and Sam's studios here: https://formandflow.co.uk/

Connect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Download a free course guide:

Pilates CertificationStudio MastermindTeaching Mastery Program

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329. Boundaries protect culture - with Alison Ward of Pilates Process Vancouver
#329
10/05/2025

Pilates Process Vancouver co-owner Alison Ward shares how clear boundaries protect studio culture, staff morale, and client respect.

We dive into setting policies, holding firm under pressure, and why saying no can actually grow your business.

Find Pilates Process Vancouver here: https://www.pilatesprocessvancouver.ca/

Connect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Download a free course guide:

Pilates CertificationStudio MastermindTeaching Mastery Program

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328. Why You Shouldn't Offer Mat, Yoga or Barre In Your Studio
#328
09/28/2025

Most studio owners think offering more types of movement classes will attract more clients.

In this episode, I explain why those formats actually hurt your studio by lowering margins, confusing your brand, and competing with cheap alternatives.

Connect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Download a free course guide:

Pilates CertificationStudio MastermindTeaching Mastery Program

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327. What No One Tells You About Opening a Second Pilates Studio, with Laura Saggers and Raphael Bender
#327
09/21/2025

Laura Saggers joins me to share the real story behind expanding from one to two Pilates studios.

We cover the unexpected challenges of growth, what worked at one location but not the other, and how she navigated ClassPass, staffing, and competition.

If you’re considering opening a second studio, this conversation will show you what no one tells you before you take the leap.

Find Laura here:

https://www.instagram.com/laurasaggers/ https://risepilates.com.au/

Connect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Download a free course guide:

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326. How a 23-Year-Old Built a Waitlisted Pilates Studio in Just 1 Year, with Chelsea McBride and Raphael Bender
#326
09/14/2025

At just 23, Chelsea McBride turned personal struggles into purpose and built a Pilates studio that filled up so fast she had to close the books.

In this episode, you’ll hear how Chelsea:

Grew from teaching private sessions at home to running 50 weekly reformer classes with 11 beds.Built a team of sixCreated so much demand she now has a waitlist for new clientsAll in a town of only 15,000 people

Connect with Chelsea:

Online https://www.themindandbodyclub.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themindandbodyclub

Connect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

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325. How to build a loyal community, with Sara Leach and Raphael Bender
#325
09/07/2025

Sara Leach, owner of Downtown Pilates in Mississippi, shares how she built a thriving reformer studio serving mostly 50+ clients, scaled to six teachers, and runs 40+ classes a week. We dive into how she built an incredibly tight and loyal community, plus key challenges she faces in her business.

Connect with Sara and Downtown Pilates Studio

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/dpstudios042Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dPstudios042

Connect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Download a free course guide:

Pilates CertificationStudio MastermindTeaching Mastery Program

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324. The Biggest Hiring Mistake Studio Owners Make - And How To Fix It
#324
08/31/2025

We discuss:

How to tell if you've made this hiring mistake (you almost certainly have)How to properly filter potential hiresPractical steps to get your existing team delivering a consistent high quality experienceThe exact hiring process we used to set up our studio for growth and retention

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323. Why the best instructors encourage messy form, with Heath Lander and Raphael Bender
#323
08/24/2025

Heath and Raphael challenge the myth that flawless form makes for safe, effective Pilates. They discuss why, and when, form should “fall apart” in strength and balance work, how load, not alignment, predicts injury, and why real progress comes from reps at the edge of fatigue and wobble.

Bootsy's Basic Funk Formula: https://youtu.be/IHE6hZU72A4?si=1MMYdLpKd6UVjoo1

Connect with me Raph on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Connect with Heath on Instagram: @contrologycollective

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322. From Zero to $23K/mo in 34 Days: Jennifer Tan’s Pilates Studio Launch in the Philippines
#322
08/17/2025

Jennifer Tan opened Bacolod’s first reformer Pilates boutique, Madila Pilates, and hit $23K revenue with 87% margins in her first month.

She shares her journey from student success team member to thriving studio owner, why she expanded just weeks after launch, and the strategies fueling her rapid growth.

Resources mentioned in the episode:

Find Madila Pilates online here and on Instagram hereConnect with me on Instagram: @the_raphaelbender

Download a free course guide:

Pilates CertificationStudio MastermindTeaching Mastery Program

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321. When did Pilates become so obsessed with specific cues? With Raphael Bender
#321
08/10/2025

Pilates is all about cueing specific muscles, neutral spine and avoiding locking your joints, right?

Often - yes. But it wasn't always that way. In fact all those things have flipped 180 degrees over the years since Joseph Pilates' day.

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Pilates CertificationStudio MastermindTeaching Mastery Program

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320. The 5 stages of Pilates studio business, with Raphael Bender
#320
08/03/2025

These are the 5 predictable stages every Pilates studio owner goes through — from dreamer to thriving CEO. Exactly what breaks, plus what to do to grow at each stage.

Stage 0 – Wantrepreneur

Stuck in planning mode. No revenue.

Fix: Stop thinking, start doing. Follow Ep 273 for exact steps.

Stage 1 – Solopreneur ($1k–$10k/mo)

Teaching, cleaning, selling — overwhelmed.

Fix: Raise prices, set client boundaries, focus on one offer, outsource admin.

Stage 2 – Builder ($10k–$40k/mo)

Small team, people problems, misalignment.

Fix: Get clear on values, enforc...