The Starting Messy Podcast

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By: Misty Jayne

On this show, we're flipping the script on perfectionism and embracing the messy, imperfect journey of entrepreneurship as a hairstylist. Your host, Misty Jayne an accountability coach for beauty professionals ready to turn their desires to reality, invites guests to share the truth behind what it means to START MESSY and why it’s ALWAYS worth the leap. You can follow her on instagram for more: https://www.instagram.com/_mistyjayne_/

Why Raising Your Prices Feels Scary (and Why You Should Do It Anyway) w/ Maddi Cook
#254
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In this powerful throwback conversation, Misty Jayne sits down with Maddi Cook, the creator of Boss Your Salon, to talk about the real reason stylists struggle with pricing — and spoiler alert — it’s 90% mindset, 10% numbers.

They unpack why “charge your worth” is a misleading phrase, how people-pleasing keeps you undercharging, and why confidence comes after you take the scary step — not before. You’ll also learn:

Why you can’t wait to “feel ready” to raise your pricesHow fear, scarcity, and self-worth are all connectedWhat happens energetically when you start charging what your work deservesHow enforcing your boundaries actu...


Breaking the Silence: Conversations About Money w/ Jen Alden
#253
10/11/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne welcomes Jen Alden, an in-home salon owner and stylist, who shares her transformative journey towards financial awareness and empowerment. Jen discusses her struggles with debt, the importance of open conversations about money, and the pivotal decisions she made in her business.


How Hairstylists Can Start Feeling GOOD About Money NOW
#252
10/06/2025

Are you a hairstylist or salon owner who’s tired of feeling stressed every time you look at your bank account? In this episode, there is a replay of Jodie Brown's: The Hairstylist Rising Podcast, where Misty Jayne shares how beauty professionals can start feeling empowered and confident with money—without the guilt, shame, or outdated budgeting advice.

If you’ve ever thought, “I make good money, but I’m still living paycheck to paycheck,” this conversation is for you.


5 Money Myths Keeping Hairstylists Stuck
#251
09/29/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down the 5 biggest money myths that keep stylists financially stuck—like believing you just need to make more money, that budgeting means restriction, or that it’s “too late” to turn things around.

hairstylist money mindset, salon owner budgeting, hairstylist financial freedom, hairstylist debt payoff, hairstylist coaching


"It’s Always Something": Why this leads to Failure for Hairstylists (and How to Fix It)
#250
09/22/2025

Hairstylists and salon owners—does it feel like every time you start a budget, something knocks you off track? From broken tools to last-minute cancellations, it’s easy to believe “it’s always something.”

In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how a $20 parking ticket almost derailed her debt-free journey and the mindset shift that helped her pay off $48K in two years.

Perfect for hairstylists and salon owners ready to stop living paycheck to paycheck and finally create a money plan that works.


Ripple Effect of Hairstylists Serving Globally: Inside the Hair Aid Mission w/ Corey Gray
#249
09/15/2025

In this episode, Misty sits down with Corey Gray of Hairdustry to share his life-changing experience with Hair Aid in Cambodia. Corey opens up about teaching haircutting skills to people living in critical poverty, the power of community support, and how hairstylists can create ripple effects of impact far beyond the salon.

Whether you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or beauty industry professional, this conversation will inspire you to see how your skills can change lives—not only behind the chair but across the globe.


3 Things You Should Stop Getting Pissed Off About as a Hairstylist
#248
09/08/2025

Hairstylists, are you wasting energy on the wrong things? In this episode, Misty Jayne breaks down three triggers that keep stylists stuck: AI hair pictures, clients complaining about salon prices, and judging how other stylists run their business.


Messy, Real, and Magnetic: Growing Your Salon Career Through Storytelling
#247
09/01/2025

As a hairstylist or salon owner, your story is your greatest asset. In this episode Misty Jayne, talks about why your mess is your message—and how sharing it can attract the right clients, grow your confidence, and deepen connections in the beauty industry.

Forget perfection; authenticity is what inspires and sells.

hairstylist podcast, salon owner tips, hairstylist confidence, beauty business growth


Is your personal development journey hurting your progress? Let's talk about it!
#246
08/25/2025

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Are you a hairstylist or salon owner stuck in constant learning mode but not seeing real change? In this Starting Messy episode, Misty Jayne shares why personal development overload is holding you back—and how to finally take action.

Learn the difference between learning vs. fixing, why confidence comes from doing, and how to quiet the noise so you can trust yourself and grow your salon business with clarity.

hairstylist podcast, salon owner tips, hairstylist growth, salon business podcast, hairstylist mindset


Changing the narrative around wealth in the hair industry
#245
08/17/2025

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In this episode, Misty Jayne shares why money is only the symptom and how to create real success by setting boundaries, pricing with confidence, and regulating your nervous system.

If you’re ready to feel wealthy without burning out behind the chair, this one’s for you.

hairstylist money mindset, salon owner financial freedom, hairstylist burnout, hairstylist coach


Why Even Rest Feels Like Pressure for Hairstylists
#244
08/11/2025

Hairstylists and salon owners — ever feel guilty for not being busy?

Misty Jayne unpacks the invisible pressure beauty pros put on themselves to hustle 24/7. Learn how to spot performative productivity, release the “shoulds,” and build a business that includes rest, ease, and actual freedom.

hairstylist burnout, salon owner mindset, beauty professional pressure, people-pleasing stylist, rest is productive


People Pleasing Is Not the Flex You Think It Is (Especially Behind the Chair)
#243
08/04/2025

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Hairstylists and salon owners — if you’re saying “yes” to keep clients happy but feel burned out, resentful, or drained… this episode is your wake-up call.

Misty Jayne breaks down how people pleasing leads to broken boundaries, low energy, and inconsistent service. You’ll learn 4 practical strategies to protect your peace, set clear boundaries, and still give incredible client experiences — without sacrificing yourself.


Why EQ Is the Key to Changing Your Money Story
#242
07/28/2025

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Struggling with money stress as a hairstylist or salon owner? It’s not just about budgeting—it’s about emotional intelligence. In this episode of Starting Messy, Misty Jayne breaks down how your emotions shape your money habits and what to do about it.

Learn how to:

đź’¸ Recognize emotional money triggers

đź’¸ Build financial confidence

đź’¸ Create lasting money habits without burnout

Perfect for beauty pros ready to feel empowered—not overwhelmed—by their finances.


How to Quiet the Noise When You’re Ready for What’s Next
#241
07/21/2025

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Stylists—ready to raise your prices, leave the salon, or step into something new, but outside opinions are getting loud? In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how to quiet the noise, trust your gut, and move forward—even when others don’t get it.

You’ll hear:

✨ Real stories from Misty’s career and money journey

đź§  Mindset tips to block out fear-based advice

đź’¬ How to ask for support without needing permission

Perfect for hairstylists, booth renters, and salon owners ready...


Debt shame and How to reframe
#240
07/14/2025

Misty Jayne is diving headfirst into a topic most stylists avoid talking about—debt. And more importantly, the shame that often comes with it. Misty shares her own journey of paying off $48K in debt, going back into business debt (on purpose), and how our money stories can keep us stuck in guilt and avoidance. This is a must-listen for hairstylists and salon owners who are ready to stop spiraling, start facing their numbers, and move from panic to power.

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MISTY JAYNE | financial & personal growth for hairstylist

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No More Hiding: Why I'm Taking the Mic Solo
#239
07/07/2025

Misty Jayne shares her personal journey from hiding behind industry experts to fully owning her voice—and why it’s time for you to do the same. If you’ve ever felt like the behind-the-scenes magic maker, the support person, or the stylist who pours into everyone but yourself—this one’s for you.

👉 For coaching & details:

MISTY JAYNE | financial & personal growth for hairstylist

👉 Follow Misty on IG: @‌_mistyjayne_

hairstylist podcast, salon owner mindset, beauty industry empowerment, personal growth for stylists, hairstylist business coaching


From Behind the Chair to Thailand: Rebecca Taylor’s Bold Reinvention
#238
06/30/2025

Rebecca Taylor joins Misty Jayne for a real, unfiltered convo about what happens when you walk away from your stylist identity and chase something bigger. They get into nervous system regulation, money shame, burnout, and what it actually looks like to stop performing and start feeling. Whether you’re building a retreat in Thailand or just trying to raise your prices without guilt, this one hits deep.

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Making Bold Business Decisions with Confidence w/ Jennifer Alden @jenniferaldenhairstylist
#237
06/23/2025

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In this episode, Misty sits down with Jennifer Alden, California-based stylist, in-home salon owner, and creator of Everywhere Hair Co., to talk about how she went from sleepless nights over debt to confidently owning her money decisions. Tune in as they discuss money shame, stepping into your next chapter, and how letting go of perfection led Jen to leave her salon suite, launch her merch line, and reclaim her vision for life and business.

📺 Watch her YouTube: The Holistic Hairstylist


Navigating Worthiness and Insecurity in the Beauty Industry w/Mckenzie Sellers
#236
06/16/2025

In this episode , Misty Jayne chats with former stylist turned subconscious reprogramming coach Mckenzie Sellers. They dive into burnout, identity shifts, money blocks, and why trusting yourself is the real game-changer for beauty pros.

If you’re a hairstylist or salon owner craving deeper alignment and nervous system peace—this one’s for you.

Click here to book a call with Mckenzie


Hustle isn’t the answer… What is it really costing you? [Series Part 4 of 4]
#235
06/09/2025

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In this final episode of the 4-part series, Misty Jayne helps you ditch the hustle and map out the real cost of your dream life—so you can stop panicking over cancellations and start building financial clarity.


Spending Isn’t Reckless, It’s REACTIVE [Series Part 3 of 4]
#234
06/02/2025

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In Part 3 of the Starting Messy money series, Misty Jayne breaks down why most hairstylists aren’t overspending out of irresponsibility—they’re reacting to emotions.

From instant gratification behind the chair to shame spirals after big purchases, this episode explores the deeper why behind our money habits—and what to do once awareness hits.

hairstylist money coach, emotional spending, money mindset for stylists


Are your money habits your fault? [Series Part 2 of 4]
#233
05/26/2025

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Still telling yourself you're “just bad with money”? In this episode, Part 2 of a 4 part money series, Misty Jayne breaks down how inherited money beliefs are sabotaging your success behind the chair and what to do about it.

hairstylists, money mindset, financial awareness, personal development, money stories, abundance, scarcity, financial growth, self-improvement, wealth building


Shining light on the most underrated self care [Series Part 1 of 4]
#232
05/19/2025

Starting Messy: Money Edition Workbook

If your books are full but your bank account is stressing you out, this episode is your wake-up call. In Part 1 of this 4-part money series, Misty Jayne gets raw about her own financial burnout behind the chair, her $48K debt payoff, and why healing your relationship with money is the most underrated form of self-care.

Expect real talk on hustle culture, overspending habits, and the aha moment that changed everything.

hairstylist money struggles, financial wellness for salon owners, debt-free journey hair stylist, money mindset, stylist coaching, hairstylist...


Failure, Social Media and Hustle seasons… let’s talk about it w/Anianne Owens
#231
05/12/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne chats with beauty industry powerhouse Anianne Owens—a stylist, educator, and marketing strategist helping beauty professionals build brands and businesses with integrity, creativity, and confidence. They dive into:

Why “messy” content performs better than polished postsSetting boundaries on social while building your brandWhat stylists need to know before becoming entrepreneursThe truth about hustle seasons (and how to not burn out)

If you’re a hairstylist, salon owner, or creative who’s tired of waiting for perfect—this episode is for you.

Find more from Anianne Here!

hairstylist business, sa...


A confession about vulnerability
#230
05/05/2025

Are you downplaying your wins to seem relatable? In this episode, Misty Jayne shows hairstylists, salon owners, and creatives how to shift from self-doubt to self-honoring. Learn why true vulnerability means celebrating your growth, not shrinking your magic. Get ready to shine messy, proud, and powerful.

hairstylist podcast, salon owner mindset, hairstylist business tips, creative entrepreneur podcast, money mindset for hairstylists, stop playing small, vulnerability in business, hairstylist growth


Creating something from nothing w/ Chrystal Graves @thechrystalgraves
#229
04/28/2025

In this episode, I’m sitting down with my friend Chrystal Graves — a former hairstylist, salon owner, and now tech founder of Liquid, the 24/7 AI-powered business assistant built by a stylist for stylists.

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Welcome to GetLiquid.ai

 

Salon Owner Business Tips, AI for Hairstylists, Salon Pricing Strategy, Liquid AI for Beauty Pros, Hairstylist Money Mindset, Salon Owner Resources, Beauty Industry Tech Tools


Proof your voice matters!
#228
04/21/2025

In this episode of Starting Messy, Misty Jayne shares a powerful moment that proves your voice matters—whether you realize it or not.

If you're a hairstylist or salon owner who's been holding back from sharing your message, this is your reminder: someone out there needs to hear it your way.

hairstylist podcast, beauty biz coach, overthinking, fear vs excitement, salon owner mindset



The Art of Authentic Branding with Nicole Nixon @itsnicolenixon
#227
04/14/2025

Branding is more than logos—it’s about connection & authenticity! Join Misty Jayne & Nicole Nixon as they dive into storytelling, social media, and standing out in the beauty industry.

hairstylist, personal branding, storytelling, social media, authenticity, financial freedom, design agency, industry insights, rebranding, self-expression, authenticity, beauty industry, personal growth, self-acceptance, empowerment, hairstyling, industry comparisons, risk-taking


The secret to changing your money habits
#226
04/07/2025

Are you a hairstylist or salon owner struggling with money habits that just won’t change? In this episode, Misty Jayne dives into why acceptance—not shame—is the first step to financial freedom. Awareness isn’t enough. Learn how self-compassion can help you break the cycle of disorganization and finally create lasting change with your finances.


A stylists journey from Fitness to Holistic Health w/ Emily Wiens @Holistichairhive
#225
03/31/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne and Emily Wiens explore the shift from traditional fitness to holistic wellness. They dive into mobility, emotional intelligence, mindfulness, and balance, plus Emily’s wellness app for beauty pros.

Click here for more resources from Emily

wellness, holistic health, mobility, emotional intelligence, fitness, nutrition, beauty professionals, self-awareness, lifestyle balance, health journeys, self-reflection, wellness, mindfulness, hairstylist, salon owner


My 5 most important life lessons learned before 40
#224
03/24/2025

As I approach 40, I’m sharing five powerful life lessons on accountability, managing reactivity, releasing expectations, and finding inner peace.

self-discovery, personal growth, accountability, emotional intelligence, reactivity, expectations, peace, inner strength, life lessons, hair industry, salon, hairstylist


Creating magic in the extension industry w/ Rachel Hall @rachelhalldoeshair
#223
03/17/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne and Rachel Hall, co-owner of Jovi Salon in Virginia Beach & founder of Cutie Heads extensions, dive into business growth, and the power of authenticity. From overcoming financial risks to building inclusive spaces, this convo is all about embracing change and redefining success.

hair extensions, salon owner, authenticity, community building, personal expression, Jovi Salon, Cutie Heads, mentorship, change, self-reflection, victim mentality, honest conversations, financial risks, business growth, coaching,


Always chasing more but never feeling fulfilled? LISTEN TO THIS
#222
03/10/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne unpacks the true meaning of enough—in money, success, and life. Through a powerful dream number exercise, you’ll gain clarity on your goals and what it takes to find peace.


Why does raising your prices feel like a mistake? Part 2 w/ Casey Taylor @caseytaylorstylist
#221
03/03/2025

Price increases can feel scary even after you commit—especially when schedule gaps appear. But what if they were a sign of growth? In this episode, Casey Taylor and Misty Jayne dive into the emotions behind pricing, the power of rest, and how to reframe discomfort for success.

Check out The Small Town Stylist Podcast HERE

price increases, emotional responses, schedule gaps, rest, creativity, productivity, personal life, sensory deprivation, money mindset, hairstylist


Do Price increases make you feel anxious? PART 1 w/ Casey Taylor @caseytaylorstylist
#220
02/24/2025

Struggling to raise your prices as a hairstylist? Misty Jayne and Casey Taylor break down the emotional side of pricing, how to understand your numbers, and ways to charge with confidence—without fear or guilt.

price increases, small town stylist, business coaching, emotional impact, money management, client value, confidence in pricing, hairstylist success, pricing strategy, salon business


Navigating Discomfort in Everyday Choices
#219
02/17/2025

Small choices create big impacts. In this episode, Misty Jayne shares how daily decisions shape your future, why discipline beats motivation, and how to push past discomfort for real growth.

discomfort, small choices, future self, motivation, discipline, personal growth, decision making, self-awareness, mindset, salon owner. hair education


The Instant Gratification Trap for Hairstylists
#218
02/10/2025

Is the need for quick wins keeping you stuck financially? Misty Jayne breaks down how instant gratification impacts hairstylists’ money habits and business growth—plus practical ways to shift toward long-term success.

hairstylist, instant gratification, long-term goals, financial discomfort, self-celebration, accountability, personal finance, business growth, impulse spending, coaching


The power of dressing for you, NOT them
#217
02/03/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne shares her personal journey towards authenticity and self-discovery. She reflects on the importance of shedding societal expectations and embracing one's true self. Misty encourages listeners to explore their identities and find joy in being authentic, regardless of external pressures.

Hair industry, Hairstylist retreats, Hairstylist education, self-discovery, self-expression, personal growth, identity, self-acceptance, empowerment, self-care, transformation


Secret to authentic networking w/ Corey Gray @hairdustry
#216
01/27/2025

In this episode Misty Jayne chats with Corey Gray, co-host of Your Day Off, about authentic networking, navigating change in relationships, and personal growth in the hair industry. We discuss also Corey’s upcoming humanitarian trip to Cambodia with Hair Aid.

www.presleypoeandfriends.com

podcast, hair industry, Corey Gray, vulnerability, Sober October, mental health, breathwork, personal growth, Hair Aid, community


Embrace being BAD at something NEW
#215
01/20/2025

In this episode, Misty Jayne dives into building mental toughness and persistence through pursuing new challenges. Learn how starting messy, embracing discomfort, and finding creative outlets can fuel personal growth and help you tackle life’s bigger goals.

mental toughness, persistence, starting messy, personal growth, creative outlets, embracing discomfort, new challenges