The Powerful Man Show
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
Unlocking the Power of Attention: The #1 Secret to Deepening Your Connection with Your Wife
Episode #853
Welcome back to another episode of The Powerful Man Show! Today, Tim Matthews and I dive into the ultimate relationship currency: attention. Discover how giving your wife the right kind of attention can make her feel cherished and valued, leading to a deeper and more fulfilling relationship.
We'll unpack the facets of attention that go beyond just being present, and reveal how simple shifts in your daily interactions can reignite the passion and connection with your spouse. From active listening to prioritizing your wife even in the presence of your kids, we'll cover practical...
From Stuck to Scaling: Mastering Business Systems
Episode #852
Are you feeling stuck in your business growth journey? Tune in to this episode of The Powerful Man Podcast as Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive into the essential strategies for scaling your business through effective systems and processes.
In this episode, Doug and Brad discuss how business leaders can transition from working tirelessly in their business to working strategically on their business. They share their expertise in implementing robust systems that not only streamline operations but also free up valuable time, allowing entrepreneurs to focus on what truly matters.
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The Success Circle: Leveraging Relationships for Growth
Episode #851
Do the people around you influence your success?
In this episode, Doug Holt and Brad Holt dive into the power of community and how the people you surround yourself with can supercharge your personal growth.
You'll discover why the average of the five people you spend the most time with shapes who you are and who you can become.
Brad spills the beans on building a vision for self-improvement across health, relationships, wealth, and business, and why being in a supportive yet competitive environment is a game-changer for hitting your...
The Hidden Harm of Invalidation: Building a Safe Space for Your Wife
Episode #850
In this episode, Doug and Brad delve into the often overlooked but critical issue of invalidation within marriages. They explore how invalidating your wife's feelings, whether intentionally or unintentionally, can create deep wounds and erode the foundation of your relationship.
Invalidation can take many forms - from dismissing your wife's emotions, minimizing her experiences, or failing to acknowledge her perspective. These actions, although sometimes subtle, can have devastating effects, leading to feelings of isolation, resentment, and a lack of trust.Â
Listeners will learn effective strategies for creating a safe and supportive environment w...
Revisit: How A Wrecked Car Went From Frustration To Connection
Episode #849
In this revisited episode, we're diving deep into one of our most impactful and requested topics: "I love you, but I'm not in love with you." Join Doug and Tim as they unpack the hidden meaning behind these dreaded words and reveal strategies to reignite the passion and connection in your marriage.
This episode is packed with actionable insights, real-life examples, and the proven methods that have helped thousands of men turn their marriages around. Discover why most men never hear these words outright but can sense their looming presence, and learn...
From Conflict to Connection: Mastering the Art of Healthy Disagreements in Marriage
Episode #848
In this episode, we dive into practical techniques to handle conflicts with your spouse without escalating the argument. Learn the power of the "10-second rule" to pause and reflect before reacting, and discover the hidden motives technique to understand what's really behind your partner's frustration.
You’ll also get tips on how to validate and empathize with your spouse, turning potential arguments into opportunities for deeper connection and intimacy. Whether it's about the dishes or something more, these strategies will help you communicate more effectively and build a stronger relationship.
Join us as...
How To Become A Leader Without Being Considered Controlling?
Episode #847
In this episode, we're diving into one of the most common and challenging questions we receive: "How can I become the leader my wife desires without coming off as controlling?"
Join us, as we explore the concept of being the "lighthouse" in your relationship—showing up consistently and with integrity to guide those around you without dictating their every move. We'll share personal anecdotes and practical examples of how to lead by example, create a collaborative environment, and make decisions that strengthen your bond with your wife.
From planning family trips to ha...
When Will She Finally Realize Your Greatness?
Episode #846
In this episode, Doug shares a transformative story about a man who realized the impact of his actions on his marriage and decided to make a change. After years of being overly aggressive and business-like, this successful entrepreneur saw his marriage crumble and faced separation from his wife and child. Determined to turn things around, he embarked on a personal journey using The Activation Method and Alpha Reset programs to become a better husband and father.
Doug delves into the emotional highs and lows of this journey, addressing the critical question: "How long does...
Ready to Throw in the Towel? Reconsidering Your Marriage
Episode #845
In this episode, we dive deep into the dynamics of a struggling marriage and uncover the secrets to rekindling love and connection. If you’ve ever felt your relationship slipping away or questioned if you married the right person, this episode is for you.
Join us as we explore the journey of a man who transforms himself and, in doing so, reignites the spark in his marriage. Discover what happens when he starts showing up as the best version of himself consistently. The shift in his energy doesn't go unnoticed by his wife, who st...
Transform Your Relationships: The One Simple Change That Makes All the Difference
Episode #844
In this episode, Doug Holt dives deep into the one simple change that can revolutionize your relationships. Whether it's with your wife, kids, friends, or co-workers, this one strategy can make a world of difference.
Imagine improving your marriage, reconnecting with your children, and even boosting your business, all by shifting your mindset. Doug shares a powerful story of a client who applied this technique and saw remarkable improvements in every area of his life.
Tune in to discover how assuming others have great intentions can break down barriers, foster deeper connections...
