The Powerful Man Show
The Powerful Man is a show for married businessmen looking to improve their relationships, their health, their businesses, and themselves. Your hosts, Doug Holt and Tim Matthews have decades of experience helping married businessmen step into their power, live up to their potential, and live a life they love. The Powerful Man Show tackles conversations and topics designed to help men become better fathers, lovers, husbands, and leaders in their communities. If this sounds like you, we encourage you to subscribe and also head over to thepowerfulman.com for more information.
From Hesitation to Confidence: Mastering Relationship Dynamics
Episode #940
Ever feel hesitant to ask your wife for what you truly want—whether it's more appreciation, intimacy, or support—because you're afraid of coming across as needy? You’re not alone. Many men struggle with this, and the way you ask can make all the difference.
In this episode, Doug and Christopher break down exactly how to communicate your needs with confidence so your wife actually wants to meet them. You’ll learn why hesitation makes your wife test you, how to avoid the “nice guy” trap, and what it really means to show up as a grou...
Unveiling Truth in Relationships: Stepping Out of Comfort Zones
Episode #939
Are you just going through the motions, telling yourself that things aren’t that bad? Many men stay stuck in “comfortable” but unfulfilling relationships, careers, and routines—because the fear of change feels worse than the reality of staying put.
In this episode, Doug and Chris break down the hidden cost of settling for average—especially in your marriage. They talk about why so many men avoid the tough conversations, how fear of rejection keeps guys stuck, and the real reason your wife might not be showing up for you the way you want. Plus, they...
Revisit: Back on Track: Reigniting Your Drive After Life's Setbacks
Episode #938
Feeling stuck? Lost motivation? You’re not alone. That’s why we’re bringing back one of our most powerful episodes to help you break free and regain your momentum.
In this Revisit Episode of The TPM Show, Doug and Tim share practical strategies to get back on track when life knocks you down. Whether it’s in your health, relationships, or business, they reveal how to shift from inaction to progress—without waiting for motivation to magically appear.
You'll rediscover:
Why waiting for motivation is a losing game—and what to do instea...Revisit: Mask Off: Defeating Imposter Syndrome and Embracing Your True Potential
Episode #937
Many successful men secretly struggle with imposter syndrome, feeling like they don’t truly deserve their success or fearing they’ll be “found out.” This internal battle can rob them of happiness, even when they’ve achieved everything they thought would make them feel fulfilled.
In this revisit episode, Doug and Tim dive deep into why imposter syndrome shows up, how it keeps men stuck, and what can be done to break free. They share insights on shifting mindset, building real confidence through simple daily habits, and why having the right group of men around can...
Making Choices That Matter: The Power of Action in Relationships
Episode #936
Ever feel like you're stuck in limbo, not sure which way to go? What if I told you that staying on the fence is actually a decision—and usually not a good one?
In this episode, Coach Chris joins me to talk about why taking action is the key to getting unstuck in your relationships, business, and life. We break down the Five Territories—Self, Health, Wealth, Relationships, and Business—and how to figure out where you need to focus first. Plus, we dive into why indecision is one of the biggest killers of attrac...
Revisit: When Will She Finally Realize Your Greatness?
Episode #935
This powerful episode struck a chord with so many of you, so we’re bringing it back for another listen. How long does it take for someone to truly believe you’ve changed? In this revisited episode, Doug unpacks the story of a man determined to rebuild his marriage after years of emotional distance. Despite his efforts, his wife remains cautious—why is trust so hard to regain, and how do you earn it back?
Doug revisits the critical lessons about consistency, vulnerability, and showing up as your authentic self. Discover why even small misste...
Revisit: Woman's POV: Choosing Sides-Navigating the Parent-Child Bond in Marriage
Episode #934
We’re revisiting an episode that hit home for so many listeners: what happens when your marriage starts feeling off balance because one partner seems more focused on the kids than the relationship?
Doug and Erin Holt tackle this all-too-common dynamic with fresh insights and timeless advice. They explore why this happens—unmet emotional needs, the identity shifts of parenthood, and societal pressures—and, more importantly, how to fix it.
If your relationship feels strained, this episode will remind you why protecting your marriage is vital—not just for you and your partner...
Surrounding Yourself with Success: Relationships and Growth
Episode #933
Have you ever considered how much your environment impacts your growth?
In this episode, we dive deep into the power of surrounding yourself with the right people and how it influences your relationships, career, and personal growth. Doug and Coach Chris discuss why men often prioritize material purchases over investing in themselves and their relationships—and the hidden cost of that mindset.
You’ll hear about:
Why your environment shapes your habits and future. How to audit your time, money, and energy for maximum ROI. The key to building emotional safety in y...Revisit: One Game-Changing Tactic to Reconnect with Your Overwhelmed Wife
Episode #932
Sometimes the simplest shifts make the biggest difference. In this episode, we revisit the powerful concept of "diffused awareness" and how understanding it can help you reconnect with your wife, especially when she's feeling overwhelmed. Rediscover practical, effective ways to create a calm, supportive environment, help her decompress, and reignite the spark in your relationship. Whether it’s addressing small daily stressors or building deeper emotional intimacy, these strategies can bring back connection, fun, and balance to your marriage. Take a moment to reflect and take action—this is a game-changer worth revisiting.
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Revisit: No More Mr. Nice Guy: Mastering the Art of Saying No
Episode #931
Are your boundaries getting ignored, leaving you feeling frustrated and disrespected? Or maybe you've tried setting limits but swung too far, ending up rigid or even resentful.
In this revisit, we’re tackling boundaries from a fresh perspective. You’ll get actionable insights on how to create fewer, firmer boundaries that actually stick. Learn how to handle pushback with confidence, communicate effectively, and enforce consequences—all without feeling like the bad guy.
Here’s what we’re diving into:
The biggest pitfalls men face when setting boundaries. How to balance firmness with respe...