The Powerful Man Show

Episode #1000

After 1,000 episodes, we’re still getting the same core questions from men: “Why won’t my wife forgive me?”, “Why doesn’t she feel safe?”, and “Why is nothing I do ever enough?” In this episode, we’re cutting the fluff and giving you direct, honest answers.

Doug and Tim reflect on what’s really going on in your relationship—and how to start fixing it without trying harder or doing more of the wrong things. Whether your marriage feels stuck, your wife feels distant, or you're just tired of trying to guess what she needs, this episode...

Episode #999

Ever feel like you’re just surviving—barely making it through the day, disconnected from your partner, and exhausted from trying to hold it all together? In this episode, Doug sits down with Jason, a husband, father, and business owner who shares the raw truth of how he went from emotional shutdown, chronic pain, and near-divorce to rebuilding connection, purpose, and real partnership.

They talk honestly about what most men won’t admit: the emotional weight we carry, the struggle to show up at home after long days, and how easy it is to slip i...

Episode #998

What if that argument about the dishes isn’t really about the dishes?

Most guys fall into the same trap during conflict—we react. We defend ourselves, make excuses, try to explain things, or just shut down completely. I’ve been there, and I used to think being “right” would solve everything. It didn’t. It just made the fights last longer and left us both feeling more disconnected.

In this episode, I’m bringing back a short but powerful conversation that can shift everything. I walk you through how I stopped blowing up arg...

Episode #997

Most men wait until they hit a wall before they do anything about their health. But it doesn’t have to be that way. In this episode, I sit down with Jason Kidman — a tech guy turned health optimization coach — to talk about how he went from burnout and chronic pain to feeling better at 44 than he did at 29.

We cover practical stuff: peptides, hormone health, biohacking (yes, without the hype), and how the system most of us rely on — doctors, meds, insurance — often fails to get us feeling better.

If you’re a guy in...

Episode #996

How often do you find yourself being the one everyone else looks up to—but secretly wondering who’s helping you rise?

When you’re the guy with all the answers, where do you go when you need to level up?

In this episode, Tim sits down with Magoo and The Gift—two members of The Powerful Man’s Inner Circle—to break down what actually happens behind the scenes of this invite-only group. These aren’t just guys chasing success. They’re already winning—and still choosing to be pushed, challenged, and held to a high...

Episode #995

In this Revisit episode, Doug and Brad Holt unpack a tough but necessary topic: what really happens when men keep secrets in their relationships. Whether it's hiding money, covering up past mistakes, or just not being honest about getting help, these lies—big or small—start to build walls.

The conversation is real and direct. They share stories from the men they’ve coached and talk through what it actually looks like to come clean. The hard part isn’t just the confession—it’s facing the fear of what comes next. But if you’ve been...

Episode #994

Are you coasting through life, thinking things are “fine”—but wondering deep down if there’s more?

You’re not alone.

A lot of men come into our programs thinking they’ve already done the work. Marriage is solid. Business is moving. Life looks good on paper. But something still feels... off. That’s the power of choosing growth when everything seems okay—before it’s not.

In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of the latest Rising event—a next-level experience built for men who’ve already done the foundational...

Episode #993

Ever feel like you’ve checked all the boxes—career, family, success—but something still doesn’t feel right?

You’re not alone. And more importantly, you're not broken.

In this episode, Tim Matthews is joined by Gregory “Dynamite” and Derek “The Redwood” for a down-to-earth conversation about what it really means to feel lost as a man. They get honest about the times in their lives when they realized they were completely off track—and what it took to admit it, face it, and find their way forward.

This isn't about having a...

Episode #992

Are you doing everything “right” in your marriage—and still watching the connection fade?

In this special revisit episode, we’re bringing back one of our most downloaded conversations that hits hard for a reason. We break down the five subtle but damaging “nice guy” habits that well-intentioned men fall into—habits that quietly kill attraction and connection over time.

From being indecisive…
To constantly checking in with her emotions…
To overgiving while your own tank runs dry…

These behaviors might feel like love, but they’re often rooted in fear, insecu...

Episode #991

What if selling your business doesn’t bring the freedom you expected—but instead leaves you feeling lost?

It happens more than you'd think.

Too many business owners stay in the game too long, clinging to stress, burnout, or an outdated identity because they’re unsure of what’s next. Others rush into an exit thinking it’ll solve everything, only to realize the money didn’t bring clarity—or peace.

In this episode, you'll hear from Gary and Derek—two men who’ve navigated the emotional dynamics of exiting their businesses...

Episode #990

In this honest, no-fluff episode, Tim, Gary, and Mark open up about something most men never talk about—sexual abuse. They unpack how silence and shame shaped their lives, relationships, and how they saw themselves as men. But this conversation isn’t about staying stuck in the past. It’s about what happens when you finally tell the truth.

You’ll hear how opening up became the turning point—not just for healing, but for building real connection, trust, and confidence again. If you’ve ever felt like there’s a part of your story you can’...

Episode #989

Can you stay calm and confident—even when your wife is testing your limits?

We're bringing this one back for a reason. If you've ever found yourself defending, explaining, or reacting in frustration during conflict… this episode is for you. Because how you show up in those moments—especially when your buttons are pushed—is the difference between a marriage that grows and one that keeps falling into the same fight.

In this episode, Doug and Brad break down what it really means to practice "engaged indifference." This isn't about being cold or check...

Episode #988

What if the reason you're burned out, disconnected, or stuck isn't because you're doing too much—but because you're saying yes to all the wrong things?

Most high-achieving men are secretly overwhelmed. They’ve built successful businesses, provided for their families, and checked all the boxes… yet deep down, something feels off. In this episode, you’ll hear how one man’s struggle to say “no” led to decades of hidden pain, poor decisions, and relationships that never quite fit.

In this episode, you'll hear a raw and powerful conversation between Tim Matthews, Mark...

Episode #987

What if the key to stronger connection isn’t about trying harder—but simply remembering who you are?

Fresh off The Rising, Tim Matthews sits down with Mark Smith and Chris Cameron—aka “The Love Power”—to unpack some of the biggest personal breakthroughs that came from shutting out the noise and tuning in to what really matters.

They dive into the messy, beautiful process of self-discovery, and what happens when you finally stop running from your own patterns. You’ll hear how something as simple as saying “I love you” can completely shift a...

Episode #986

You’re trying to move forward. You’ve apologized. You’ve changed. But the past keeps showing up in your marriage like it just happened yesterday. Every time things start to feel good again, she brings up the affair, the betrayal, or whatever broke the trust—and it knocks the wind out of both of you.

In this episode, Doug walks through exactly why that keeps happening and what you can do about it. Not with quick fixes or guilt trips, but with real tools that help her feel safe again. You’ll learn how to cre...

Episode #985

What does it really mean to be present for your kids—not just physically, but emotionally and mentally?
And how do you balance that presence with the pressure you put on yourself to be a better man, husband, and leader?

In this episode, one father opens up about the raw and honest journey of leveling up—not just as a dad, but as a man.
You’ll hear how stepping into deeper accountability led to a powerful realization: the standards we hold ourselves to can also become silent contracts that impact our relati...

Episode #984

Do you ever feel like it’s your job to make sure everyone else is happy—your wife, your kids, your team—and somehow, it never quite works? You’re not alone.

In this episode, we dive deep into a common (and exhausting) trap many high-achieving men fall into: trying to take responsibility for other people's emotions. It feels noble at first—like you're being a great husband, father, or leader. But at what cost?

You'll hear personal stories and hard-won lessons about how this pattern often stems from childhood conditioning, religious or cultura...

Episode #983

Ever find yourself holding back appreciation from your wife because you’re not feeling seen yourself?

Yeah, I’ve been there too.

In this episode, Andrew and I dive deep into how something as simple as daily gratitude can completely shift your energy—and change the way you show up in your marriage, business, and life. We talk about what happens when you stop looking for what’s

Episode #982

What happens when you do everything “right” in your marriage… and it still falls apart?

In this episode, Andrew opens up about the painful unraveling of his relationship and how it forced him to face the one person he’d been avoiding—himself. Like a lot of men, he came into the work hoping to fix his marriage. What he ended up doing was far more powerful: he

Episode #981

Ever found yourself wondering, “Shouldn’t I be further along by now?”
You’ve done the work. You’ve read the books. Maybe you’ve even joined a few programs. And yet... there’s still something missing.

In this episode, I sit down with Arthur Magruniti—one of our lead coaches and a guy who’s not just talked about growth, but actually lived it. We have a real, honest

Episode #980

What do you do when your wife says the words you never thought you’d hear—“I don’t want to be married anymore”?

If you're hearing that now, chances are she's been thinking it for years. This isn’t sudden for her. It’s a breaking point.

In this REVISIT episode, we’re going back to one of the most crucial conversations a married man can have—how to respond

Episode #979

At some point, almost every married man asks himself the same question: Did I marry the wrong woman?

Maybe she doesn’t laugh at your jokes anymore. She’s not interested in your stories. She seems distant, disconnected—and truth be told, you’re starting to wonder if life would be easier with someone else.

In this REVISIT episode, we’re bringing back a powerful and timely conversation

Episode #978

Ever feel like you’ve done everything “right” as a husband and provider—yet your marriage still feels off?

That’s exactly where Matt Euler found himself.

In this REVISIT episode, we bring back a powerful conversation that’s still just as relevant for high-achieving men today. Matt opens up about how chasing business success left him drained, disconnected, and dangerously close to losing his marriage.

Episode #977

Are you coming home feeling anxious, short-tempered, or just plain drained?
Does it feel like the pressure from work, your relationship, and everything else is piling on at once?

In this episode, I sit down with Master Coach Mark Smith to tackle stress, anxiety, and overwhelm—the stuff that sneaks up on every man, especially those trying to lead at home and at work.

We talk about what causes this state, how it shows up in your daily life, and most importantly, how to get back in control.
It’s not...

Episode #976

In this episode, Tim and Arthur dive into a powerful metaphor that hits home for a lot of men: are you leading like a lighthouse, or grinding yourself down like a tugboat? A tugboat works hard, constantly pushing and pulling, trying to keep everything afloat—whether it's in business, marriage, or life in general. But a lighthouse? It stands firm. It doesn’t chase or convince. It guides.

Too many men fall into the tugboat trap—trying to please everyone, dodging conflict, letting things slide to “keep the peace,” and losing themselves in the process. T...

Episode #975

What if the reason your life feels flat isn’t your job, your relationship, or your body—but the fact that you’ve stopped living on your edge?

In this episode, we dive into what it really means to live to your edge—not just physically, but emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and mentally. Tim and Arthur break down why so many men slowly drift into mediocrity without even realizing it, and how that shows up in a distant marriage, a dull business, or just waking up every day feeling a little... gray.

This isn’t ab...

Episode #974

What do you do when your wife criticizes you in front of your kids? Worse—what if she starts pulling them onto “her team” against you?

In this revisit episode, we’re bringing back a powerful conversation that struck a chord with a lot of men. It’s all about what to do when your wife starts undermining you in front of your children—something that’s not only painful but can seriously impact your family dynamic if left unchecked.

We’ll get into why this might be happening, the damage it causes, and what...

Episode #973

Ever wonder what staying stuck is actually costing you—not just financially, but emotionally and mentally?

We’re bringing back this episode because it struck a nerve with so many men. It’s one of those conversations that hits differently the second time around—especially if you’ve been feeling that quiet pull to make a change but haven’t moved yet.

In this episode, we revisit a powerful concept that came out of a conversation with a high-level business consultant who uses a dead-simple method to get results: calculate the real cost of doin...

Episode #972

Ever made a joke that didn’t land—but didn’t realize until later how deep it cut?

We originally released this episode a while back, but it hit home for so many men that we knew it was worth revisiting. If you’ve ever found yourself thinking, “I’m just joking—what’s the big deal?” this might be the perspective shift you didn’t know you needed.

In this conversation, we get real about the difference between light-hearted teasing and the kind of humor that slowly chips away at trust. We share how even a...

Episode #971

What if the very thing driving your success is keeping you from feeling fulfilled?

A lot of high-performing men are caught in the loop of "once I get this... then I’ll finally be happy." Sound familiar? Maybe it's sex, money, business goals, or even just recognition from your wife. But here's the thing: that finish line keeps moving.

In this episode, Tim and Arthur unpack a hard truth—chasing happiness through external validation never ends well. They share real stories from men inside the movement (including one powerful breakthrough around intimacy and...

Episode #970

Ever looked around at your life—good income, solid marriage, maybe even some investment wins—and still felt totally disconnected?

You're not alone.

A lot of high-performing men find themselves here. On paper, life checks all the boxes... but something feels off. That quiet frustration grows, and before long, you’re stuck in your head, spinning your wheels, and silently wondering, “Is this it?”

In this episode, Arthur Magoulianiti shares his raw and real journey from engineer to successful property investor to personal growth junkie—only to find himself lost and lacking...

Episode #969

Why do high-achieving men so often feel stuck, numb, or just... off?

They've got the job, the house, the family—and yet inside, it’s like something’s broken.

That’s exactly what we unpack in this episode.

In this episode, Tim Matthews and Arthur Magulianiti pull back the curtain on the Alpha Reset—a powerful in-person experience that’s helped thousands of men stop spinning in their heads and start leading from a place of strength and authenticity.

You’ll hear what really happens behind closed doors during the Res...

Episode #968

Ever have a song take you back to a moment in your life—instantly?

That’s not just nostalgia. It’s your nervous system responding to sound.

In this episode, I sit down with Levi Goins, the man we call the “ranch wizard” at TPM—but today, we’re tapping into one of his true gifts: the healing power of personalized music.

Levi’s been quietly changing lives behind the scenes using custom music therapy tracks. We’re talking about music that’s actually designed to anchor you into the man you want to be—w...

Episode #967

Ever feel like your body just doesn’t bounce back like it used to?

You’re not alone—and it’s not just about getting older. In this episode, I’m joined once again by Dr. Phil Batterson, PhD in exercise physiology, to talk about something most guys overlook: recovery.

We dive into why your body might feel stiff, tired, or inflamed… even when you’re “doing all the right things.” The truth? Most men are overtraining and under-recovering. And that’s exactly why their results suck.

We break down how to build a fitne...

Episode #966

What if the biggest threat to your health isn’t your diet or your workout routine—but the shape of your cardiovascular system?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Phil Batterson, a VO₂ Max and cardio health expert, who also happens to be the guy that recently tortured me with a fitness test. And by tortured, I mean he showed me where I was really at.

We dig into what VO₂ Max actually means in plain English—and why it's one of the most powerful predictors of how long you'll live. Seri...

Episode #965

Feel like you’re just going through the motions—with no real direction?

If you’re waking up each day wondering, “Is this it?”, you’re not alone. A lot of guys struggle with setting a clear vision for their lives and marriages. And when you don’t have one, you end up drifting... reacting instead of leading.

In this episode, Chris and I talk about why so many men avoid setting a personal and relational vision—and how to actually get started (even if you feel stuck or overwhelmed).

We break it down...

Episode #964

When was the last time you actually had fun with your wife?

Not a “get dinner and talk about the kids” kind of night.
Not a “watch TV and pass out on the couch” evening.
Actual, flirtatious, playful, can’t-wait-to-get-you-alone kind of fun.

In this episode, Chris and I talk about something we don’t hear enough—fun. Specifically, how a lot of men have traded playfulness for predictability... and how it’s killing the spark in their marriage.

We unpack what it really means to become the Chief Fun Officer...

Episode #963

What if the fear of rocking the boat is exactly what's sinking your relationship?

Too many men are quietly stuck—avoiding tough conversations, tiptoeing around decisions, and hoping things somehow just…get better. But that hesitation? It’s costing you your peace, your leadership, and the connection you crave with your wife.

In this episode, Chris Hansen and I get real about what’s actually holding men back. We dig into how fear shows up in marriage, how indecision slowly erodes intimacy, and why taking back leadership doesn’t mean being a jerk—it me...

Episode #962

When’s the last time your wife gave you that look—the one that says, “I want you”?

If it’s been a minute, you’re not alone. A lot of married guys find themselves in that same spot… and yeah, it probably means your Sexual Market Value (SMV) isn’t where it used to be.

In this episode, Coach Chris and I unpack what SMV actually means for men in long-term relationships. And no, it’s not just about being in shape or dressing sharp. It’s about the way you carry yourself, how m...

Episode #961

Ever feel like you're tiptoeing around in your own house?

You’re doing everything you can to keep things calm—avoiding conflict, keeping quiet, trying not to rock the boat. But deep down, it’s eating at you. And here's the tough part: that silence? It might be making things worse.

In this episode, I’m talking with Coach Chris Hansen from our Navigate program about something a lot of guys wrestle with—setting and holding boundaries in their relationships. We get into why it's so damn hard, and how avoiding it usually ju...