The Confident Podcast

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The Confident Podcast, is hosted by certified coach and founder of Lead, a nonprofit, Lisa Tarkington, is your go-to resource for mastering confidence and leadership. Whether you're battling self-doubt, imposter syndrome, or just looking for a space to feel understood, this podcast offers real conversations, practical tools, and expert insights to support your growth. You’re not alone in your journey—no matter where you are in life, you'll find motivation, connection, and strategies to step into your full potential with confidence.Tune in, subscribe, and start your transformation today!

EP 207 | Dear Future Me (A Letter Before the Pause)
05/13/2025

Have you ever felt the pressure to keep going when everything in your body is telling you to pause? You're not alone. In a letter to future herself, our host Lisa Tarkington, talks how she plans to prepare for maternity leave and a temporary podcast hiatus. This isn't a goodbye – it's a transformation in progress.

Whether you're navigating parenthood, career transitions, or simply feeling burnout creeping in, this episode offers a gentle reminder that your identity isn't tied to what you produce.

The letter unpacks how we can lead powerfully from the background, reconnect with pl...


EP 206 | The Freedom of Being Unimpressive
05/06/2025

Have you ever felt exhausted from constantly trying to impress people? That heavy feeling where your worth becomes tied to your impact, your confidence dependent on applause, and your authenticity lost in the performance? You're not alone.

In this episode, our host, Lisa Tarkington, pulls back the curtain on what true confidence really looks like - and why it might be the opposite of what we've been taught. She shares the story of her summer of 2021, when she experienced a profound sense of freedom by simply being myself without apology. Dancing on stage during keynotes, traveling solo...


EP 205 | Embracing the Pivot: How to Find Confidence in Change
04/29/2025

What if the clarity you're desperately seeking only comes after you take the leap? In this deeply personal episode, Lisa Tarkington reflects on seven years of podcast evolution while unpacking the complex emotions surrounding change and transition. 

Lisa identifies the subtle signs your professional life might be calling for transformation: dreading tasks that once energized you, feeling persistent heaviness, or catching yourself daydreaming about different paths. She also explores personal indicators like feeling drained in environments that used to inspire you, no longer relating to the same people, or experiencing physical manifestations of stress that won't subside.


EP 204 | Breaking the Patterns That Hold Us Back
04/22/2025

What if the biggest obstacle to your dream career isn't your skills or experience, but the limiting beliefs you've carried for years without realizing it? Stacey Gorin, an executive coach at Ernst & Young, spent 20 years climbing the corporate ladder at IBM before discovering her true calling, then another decade actively pursuing it.

Her journey reveals a truth many of us face: we often follow paths that don't align with our core values, strengths, or passions. The breakthrough moment came when someone finally asked her the right questions, helping her recognize the disconnect between her technical role and...


EP 203 | The Power of Integrity: How to Stay True to Yourself When Opinions Overwhelm
04/15/2025

"I lost myself this year. I let everybody else's opinions dictate how I lived my life." Those tearful words from a friend struck me deeply because we've all felt that painful disconnect between who we are and who others expect us to be. 

In this episode, I dive into the struggle of maintaining your integrity when the world is shouting its opinions at you. Drawing from my own recent battles with self-doubt and the pressure to conform, I share how even as a confidence coach, I've lost sleep wondering if I'm on the right path when faced w...


EP 202 | The Confidence Formula: 9 Daily Habits That Make a Difference
04/09/2025

What if your biggest what-if wasn't about failure, but about success? This transformational question lies at the heart of confidence-building, as we explore the fundamental truth that confidence isn't innate—it's a skill carefully crafted through daily habits and mindset shifts.

Perhaps most powerful is the mindset shift from "what if I fail?" to "what if it works?"—a simple yet profound reframing that transforms energy, creativity, and possibility thinking. Through personal stories and practical examples, I share how these nine habits have transformed not only my confidence journey but those of countless clients who've implemented them.
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EP 201 | Navigating Postpartum, Business & Marriage: Dr. Nona Djavid’s Story of Transformation
04/01/2025

Have you ever found yourself sobbing, wondering how you ended up so far from the life you actually want? That's exactly where Dr. Nona found herself—a successful business owner with 13 employees, a new baby, and a marriage that wasn't working. Despite checking all the boxes of conventional success, she was deeply unhappy.

In this raw and transformative conversation, Dr. Nona shares her journey from that rock-bottom moment to completely rebuilding her life around an authentic vision. After immigrating from Iran at 16 without speaking English, she built businesses driven by fear and a need for validation. It wa...


EP 200 | Why Do We Hold Onto Things That No Longer Serve Us?
03/25/2025

We all have them—relationships, jobs, habits, or beliefs that once served us well but now hold us back. Yet something keeps us hanging on, trapped in a comfortable prison of our own making. Why is letting go so difficult, even when we know it's time?

This episode dives deep into our reluctance to release what no longer serves us. I explore how fear of loss often outweighs potential gain, how our identities become entangled with roles we've outgrown, and how emotional attachments keep us tethered to the familiar even when it's harming us.

Through pe...


EP 199 | They Say These Are the 6 Habits to Have. Here Are Mine.
03/18/2025

What if the key to transforming your life isn't about finding more time, but about how you use the time you already have? After years of research and personal experimentation, I've identified six powerful habits that consistently appear in the routines of high-performing individuals across industries – and I'm breaking them all down in this episode.

The beauty of these habits lies in their flexibility. I'll show you how to adapt each one to fit your unique lifestyle and needs, because the most effective habits are the ones you'll actually maintain. Ready to transform your daily routines? Your ne...


EP 198 | From $400 to Self-Made: Jenna Banks on Breaking Free, Betting on Herself, and Choosing Self-Love
03/11/2025

Could you imagine starting your journey to success with just $400 into your business? Meet Jenna Banks, an inspiring entrepreneur who transformed her challenging upbringing into a remarkable tale of perseverance and triumph. Raised in a strict household, Jenna made a courageous decision at the age of 14 to seek a better life, a choice that set her on a path to becoming a bestselling author and successful businesswoman. Jenna's story is a testament to the power of self-belief and trusting one’s inner voice, and she shares her wisdom in her book "I Love Me More."

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EP 197 | Stop Talking, Start Doing: Making Every Meeting & Day Matter
03/04/2025

Unleash your potential by turning endless chatter into powerful action. Join me, Lisa Tarkington, on the Confident Podcast as we tackle the pervasive issue of unproductive meetings and conversations that hinder progress. Did you know that professionals spend 35% of their time in meetings, with a shocking 67% being unproductive? We're not just talking statistics here—I'm offering you actionable strategies to reclaim your time and boost your productivity. Together, we'll explore how to create effective communication strategies and foster a disciplined approach to achieving your personal and professional goals.

In this transformative episode, you'll discover how to balance vi...


EP 196 | What’s In and What’s Out for Personal & Professional Development This Year
02/25/2025

What’s in and what’s out for professional development in 2025? In this episode of The Confident Podcast, I break down the trends shaping how we grow—ditching outdated, cookie-cutter approaches and embracing strategies that truly align with our values. We’ll explore what habits, mindsets, and leadership styles are worth investing in and which ones are holding us back. From prioritizing well-being over hustle culture to embracing emotional agility and mindful productivity, we’ll discuss how to step into your ‘zone of genius’ and leave behind distractions like toxic positivity and drama. Plus, I’ll share a powerful practice my husb...


EP 195 | The best pieces of advice I have ever been given
02/18/2025

Have you ever been paralyzed by self-doubt or felt like an imposter in your own life? I've been there too, and on this episode of the Confident Podcast, I share how stepping into my authentic self transformed both my confidence and leadership skills. Join me as I recount the invaluable advice from my mentors, who helped me embrace the uniqueness that sets me apart and taught me to find opportunity in adversity. This isn't just a discussion—it's a heartfelt exploration of mastering confidence by turning thoughts into actions, and wisdom about the hidden opportunities within difficulties.

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EP 194 | Late to Love, Right on Time: How Self-Discovery Strengthened Our Relationship
02/11/2025

What if finding true love starts with falling in love with yourself? On this episode of The Confident Podcast, I invite my husband, Marc Tarkington, to join me as we reflect on our journey of self-discovery and how it laid the foundation for our marriage. We pull back the curtains on our individual paths of personal growth and self-respect that led us to each other. It's not just about praying and waiting for the right partner but understanding that self-discovery is an essential prelude to a healthy relationship. Tune in to hear about my transformative trip to Haiti and...


EP 193 | Why Every Big-Picture Thinker Needs a Strategic Right-Hand with Kelsey Snyder
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02/04/2025

Trying to do it all isn’t always the best strategy. Lisa Tarkington opens up about the challenges of stepping back from day-to-day operations and embracing her role as a visionary. She’s joined by Kelsey Schneider, the integrator who keeps things running behind the scenes, to talk about the push and pull of leadership, the struggles of letting go, and the importance of having the right partner to bring ideas to life. It’s an honest look at what happens when vision meets execution—and why finding that balance can change everything.

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EP 192 | Understanding Stress: Finding Your Triggers and How to Manage Them with Princess Castleberry
01/28/2025

Uncover the keys to building confidence and navigating stress in this inspiring episode of The Confident Podcast. Host Lisa Tarkington sits down with Global Speaker, Princess Castleberry to explore how self-awareness, managing triggers, and embracing the present can transform your leadership and personal growth. Packed with relatable stories and actionable insights, this episode will leave you feeling empowered to tackle challenges and step into your authentic self.

0:00 Navigating Confidence and Leadership Challenges

7:49 Overcoming Words

14:54 Mastering Stress and Conflict as Leaders

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EP 191 | Part 2: Confidence, Sobriety and the Power of Second Chances
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01/21/2025

This is Part 2 of 2.

In this week's episode, our host Lisa Tarkington continues her conversation from last week with Adam Wittbrodt, Marc Tarkington, and Peter Buist about sobriety and self-discovery. These courageous men delve deeper into the emotional challenges of recovery, from confronting the deceptive nature of alcohol to rebuilding their lives on foundations of self-love and genuine relationships. Together, they share the tools that helped them navigate life’s hurdles—like journaling, gratitude, and community support—while breaking down the outdated stereotypes surrounding men’s mental health. This episode is a powerful reminder of the importance of emoti...


EP 190 | Part 1: Confidence, Sobriety, and the Power of Second Chances
01/14/2025

This is Part 1 of 2.

What if the path to your best self began with a single brave step forward? Join our host, Lisa Tarkington, as she sits down with her husband Marc and two inspiring individuals, Adam Wittbrodt and Peter Buist, to explore their personal paths to sobriety and the lessons they’ve learned along the way.  These personal accounts reveal how overcoming addiction is not just about breaking free from substances but also about embracing second chances and building a foundation of self-love and strong relationships. Through their experiences, we highlight the importance of liv...


EP 189 | Ask Lisa: Answering Your Questions from Imposter Syndrome to Building Confidence
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01/07/2025

We’re kicking off 2025 with another exciting ‘Ask Lisa’ episode! Kelsey Snyder, Director of Lead, is stepping in as guest host to ask Lisa Tarkington,  some of your most pressing questions. 

From overcoming imposter syndrome to building confidence, strengthening leadership, and achieving personal and professional growth, we’re diving into the topics that matter most to you.

The start of a new year brings endless possibilities—a blank slate to redefine your goals, step into your power, and become the person you’ve always known you could be.

Here’s the best part: Confi...


EP 188 | Top 5 Unwrapped: #1 Empowering You to Refuel Guilt-Free and Have a Confident Recharge
12/31/2024

Join us as we count down our Top 5 of 2024 in the Top 5 Unwrapped Series!

 Topping the list at #1 in our Top 5 Unwrapped countdown is EP 142: Empowering You to Refuel Guilt-Free and Have a Confident Recharge.

This episode struck a chord with listeners by focusing on the importance of self-care and prioritizing yourself without guilt. If you want to start 2025 recharged and confident, this conversation will show you how to embrace self-care as a tool for growth.

🎧 Don’t miss this fan favorite—start the New Year strong!



EP 187 | Top 5 Unwrapped: #2 The Power of Positivity: How to Be a More Positive & Supportive Friend with Tara Williams and Jessica Robinson
12/24/2024

Join us as we count down our Top 5 of 2024 in the Top 5 Unwrapped Series!

At #2 in our Top 5 Unwrapped countdown is EP 147: The Power of Positivity: How to Be a More Positive & Supportive Friend with Tara Williams and Jessica Robinson.

This heartwarming episode is all about the impact of positivity in friendships, leadership, and life. Tara and Jessica share insights on creating meaningful connections and being a source of encouragement for others. Perfect listening to start the year with optimism and purpose.

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EP 186 | Top 5 Unwrapped: #3 How to Stay Confident After a Career Setback with Kelsey Snyder
12/17/2024

Join us as we count down our Top 5 of 2024 in the Top 5 Unwrapped Series!

Ranked #3 in our Top 5 Unwrapped countdown, EP 163: How to Stay Confident After a Career Setback with Kelsey Snyder is all about resilience and bouncing back stronger than ever.

Kelsey opens up about handling setbacks, maintaining confidence, and rebuilding your momentum after life throws challenges your way. If 2024 wasn’t smooth sailing, this episode is your guide to starting 2025 fresh and confident.

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EP 185 | Top 5 Unwrapped: #4 Silencing the Inner Critic, Strategies for Confidence with R1SE CEO Trevor Szafranski
12/10/2024

 Join us as we count down our Top 5 of 2024 in the Top 5 Unwrapped Series!

At #4 in our Top 5 Unwrapped countdown, we revisit EP 139: Silencing the Inner Critic, Strategies for Confidence with R1SE CEO Trevor Szafranski.

In this empowering episode, Trevor shares practical advice on overcoming self-doubt and quieting that negative inner voice that often holds us back. Perfect for anyone who wants to enter 2025 with a stronger, more confident mindset.

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Ep 183 | Leadership Lessons from Logan: Empowering Your Team for Success
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11/26/2024

Leadership isn’t just about being the boss or making the final call—it’s about creating an environment where your team feels like they’re running the show. It’s about building trust, making hard decisions, and having the confidence to lead through uncertainty.

In this episode, I’m joined by my good friend and mentor, Logan, who’s been a huge influence on me both personally and professionally. If you’ve been following the podcast for a while, you’ll remember Logan from two years ago when he first shared his journey of starting his company, Modern Re...


EP 182 | Why It's Perfectly Fine to Experience 'Off' Days
11/19/2024

In this episode, I'll be talking about having ‘off’ days. You know those days when you just don’t feel like yourself? Whether it’s a lack of motivation, feeling overwhelmed, or simply not being at your best, it’s essential to acknowledge that these moments are part of the human experience - and that's ok!

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EP 181 | End the Year as an Effective Leader
11/12/2024

As we step into the final months of 2024, I want to take a moment to explore the incredibly important topic of leadership. In this episode, we’re going to chat about how you can show up as a leader, no matter your level or title. Leadership isn’t just for those in management positions – it’s something everyone can embrace from wherever they stand.

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EP 180 | Your Guide To Mastering Boundaries with Sarah Weisbarth
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11/05/2024

In this episode, I sat down with Sarah Weisbarth to chat about something we all know is important but can be tough to tackle, and that’s setting boundaries. Whether you’re trying to find balance at work, at home or just in life in general, setting boundaries is key to protecting your time and energy. Here’s a breakdown of our conversation and some takeaways that I hope will inspire you to start making positive changes today.

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EP 179 | Could You Be on the Verge of Burnout?
#179
10/29/2024

In this episdoe, we’re tackling a topic that hits home for many of us: burnout. In our fast-paced world, it’s become all too common to feel exhausted, disconnected, or even lost in our purpose. Burnout is the result of pushing ourselves to the limit—mentally, physically, and emotionally. Today, I want to share my personal journey and the lessons I’ve learned along the way to help you recognize the signs of burnout and take proactive steps toward healing and growth.



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EP 178 | How This 10 Letter Word Changed My Life with TedX Speaker and Author Ginny Priem
#178
10/22/2024

Confidence is something that you will always need to work on—it’s not a one-and-done kind of thing. There are moments of growth, setbacks, and learning, but there was one 10-letter word that completely changed my life and how I view confidence. Today, we’re going to explore what that word is, how it can make a difference in your life, and the profound insights from our amazing guest Ginny Priem, Keynote speaker, #1 bestselling author, life coach & podcast host.

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EP 177: Tired of ‘Faking’ Confidence? Here’s How to Feel It For Real with Mallory Campbell
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10/15/2024

This episode is full of talking about confidence, but also about listening to our intuition, understanding our bodies, and diving into learning about how we choose ourselves. Join me and Mallory Campbell, Trauma Informed Master Coach, as we discuss how to embody true empowerment from the inside out and feel truly confident.

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EP 176: The Secret Sauce to Leadership: Confidence, Mistakes, and Nikki Little’s Hot Takes
#176
10/08/2024

So often, we believe that confidence means being certain all the time. But what if confidence also meant admitting when we’re unsure and being open to learning? What if we led with empathy and transparency, even when it’s uncomfortable? In this episode, we discuss with Nikki Little, Senior VP and co-owner of Franco, how to show up as a confident leader without losing sight of our humanity.

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EP 175 | The best and worst decisions I have ever made
10/01/2024

After a two-week break, our host Lisa Tarkington is back to talk about the importance of slowing down and refocusing. In this episode, she reflects on the best and worst decisions she has ever made from—career moves, personal relationships, and how even the missteps led to valuable lessons. 


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EP 174 | The Secret to Truly Taking Charge of Your Life with Teen Mental Health Speaker Brittany Richmond
09/12/2024

Imagine the transformation that happens when we stop letting fear control us and start making empowered choices for ourselves. That’s exactly what we’re going to explore this week! We’re joined with Award Winning Teen Mental Health Speaker, Brittany Richmond @thebrittanyrichmond who shares her wealth of knowledge on how to overcome personal challenges and take control of your life. Press play to watch now! 

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EP 173 | How Imposter Syndrome Is Stopping You From Achieving Your Goals with 3x TEDx Speaker Jacob Brown
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09/03/2024

Sometimes we allow our imposter syndrome and fear to dictate our decisions. In this episode, we sit down with former NFL player turned entrepreneur and 3x TEDx speaker, Jacob Brown, who shares his story of overcoming fear and imposter syndrome to be where he is today. Tune in to this empowering discussion and learn how to let go of fear, achieve your goals, and make your dreams a reality.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro & Meet Guest Jacob Brown12:35 - Embracing Authenticity and Overcoming Fear25:57 - Overcoming Fear and Victim Mentality32:50 - Empowering Conversations on...


EP 172 | Reframe Your Mindset: How to Shift Your Approach on Difficult Conversations
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08/27/2024

Raise your hand if you’ve ever struggled with having difficult conversations—whether it’s an issue with a team member, confronting a colleague, or standing up for yourself. It’s easy to avoid these hard talks, but in this week's episode, we give you practical strategies for navigating difficult conversations to help you to tackle issues head-on. Don’t let fear hold you back -  learn how to communicate effectively and confidently!

Chapters:

0:00 Intro5:24 Taking Fear Out of Difficult Conversations13:40 Mindset and Approach in Conversation22:14 Effective Communication Strategies for Difficult Conversations27:45 Key Takeaways & Outro


EP 171 | Mastering the Power of Pause: How to Become Less Reactive with Mental Health Advocate Kimberly Dunn
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08/20/2024

Feeling like you’re constantly reacting and moving fast through life? This week, we sit down with Mental Health Advocate Kimberly Dunn, who shares how mastering the power of pause transformed her life after losing her brother to bipolar suicide. Learn how a simple 30 second pause can help you slow down and become less reactive and more intentional to show up as your best self both personally and professionally.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro & Meet Guest Kimberly Dunn11:01 - Practicing the Power of Pause27:27 - Meditation, Self-awareness, & Intention Setting30:00 - Key Takeaways & Outro


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EP 170 | 3 Habits All Successful Leaders Should Have
08/13/2024

Ever wonder what makes a successful leader…successful? Leadership looks a little different for everyone, but we are breaking down the top 3 habits all leaders should have to be effective in their roles. Ready to elevate your leadership game? Listen now for tips to help you start growing into the leader you want to be!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro6:30 - Continuous Growth17:10 - Effective Communication and Time Management27:45 - Key Takeaways & Outro


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Ep 169 | Ask Lisa: Answering Your Pressing Questions for Personal and Professional Growth
#169
08/06/2024

This week we’re mixing things up! Kelsey Snyder is taking over as host to ask Lisa all of your most pressing questions on topics ranging from personal growth, professional development, and team dynamics at work and home. 

Have questions about how to improve your personal and professional life? Tune in now and get all of your questions answered!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro & Special Host Kelsey Snyder5:35 - The Importance of Self-Awareness10:56 - How to Stop Planning and Take Action18:40 - Overcoming Limiting Beliefs and Negative Mindset30:1 - Key Takeaways & Outro


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EP 168: How to Stay Resilient to Enjoy the Good Times and Thrive with Singer-Songwriter Matt Ferranti
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07/30/2024

Ever feel like life’s challenges are holding you back from enjoying the good times? We are joined by Matt Ferranti, who shares his inspiring story of how he built resilience while pursuing his music career and enjoyed the good moments like playing at Tin Roof and traveling the world without waiting for the other shoe to drop. 

Listen to hear Matt’s story and learn how to build resilience and thrive doing what you love most!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro & Meet Guest Matt8:19 - Navigating Setbacks and Finding Success19:29 - Building Confidence Throu...


EP 167 | Own Your Swag: How to Authentically and Unapologetically Be Who You Are with Keynote Speaker Mimi Brown
#167
07/23/2024

Unlock your inner confidence and own your swag! This week, we are sitting down with Mimi Brown, CEO of AMP Up Success,  to talk all about being authentically and unapologetically YOU. Tune into our conversation to learn how to have courage, build confidence, and use these to help you grow both professionally and personally!

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro & Meet Guest Mimi Brown9:25 - Taking the Leap & Finding Confidence18:53 - Owning Your Swag23:09 - Discovering Who You Are32:10 - Key Takeaways & Outro


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