The Everyday Millionaire and Mindset Matters Podcast

In this powerful episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey unpack one of the most common emotional traps people fall into: believing their entire life is failing when, in reality, only one or two areas are under pressure. Drawing from decades of coaching, personal development, and the teachings of Dr. John Demartini, they explore the “seven areas of life” framework and how it can help people regain clarity, emotional balance, and personal responsibility.

Patrick and Steffany discuss the importance of separating life into categories such as spiritual, mental, vocational, financial, relational, social, and physical heal...

In this candid and insightful episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey pull back the curtain on what it really takes to build a healthy long term relationship while navigating business, personal growth, communication differences, and emotional triggers. Sparked by listener questions, this episode dives into the realities of disagreement, partnership, resilience, and the invisible dynamics that shape both romantic and professional relationships.

Patrick and Steffany explore how different “operating systems” influence the way people communicate, process emotions, solve problems, and support each other. They discuss the evolution of their nearly 30-year marriage, revealing how...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire Podcast, Patrick Francey sits down with molecular biologist, data scientist, and entrepreneur Thoryn Stephens for a deep conversation on health optimization, longevity, human performance, and the future of preventative wellness.

Thoryn shares his journey from biotechnology and genetic research into the world of AI-powered health systems. Drawing from years of experience in endurance sports, predictive analytics, and neuroscience, he explains how wearable data, biometrics, and micro habits can dramatically improve quality of life and long-term health outcomes.

The conversation explores the difference between disease care and true healthcare...

In this thought-provoking episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore a challenge that quietly affects entrepreneurs, athletes, creators, leaders, and professionals alike: what happens when passion slowly turns into pressure. Inspired by a famous psychological study from the 1970s, they unpack how external rewards, expectations, and performance metrics can gradually disconnect people from the very thing they once loved doing.

Patrick and Steffany dive deep into the tension between passion, purpose, profit, and identity. Through personal stories from business, coaching, athletics, and creative work, they reveal how burnout is often less about working t...

In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore the concept of discernment and why it is one of the most critical skills for navigating today’s complex world. At its core, discernment is the ability to separate truth from noise, clarity from confusion, and aligned decisions from emotionally driven reactions.

The conversation begins with a powerful insight: most of the challenges people face are not due to a lack of knowledge, but from ignoring what they already know. Whether in business, relationships, or health, individuals often sense when something is off, yet ch...

This episode explores the hidden moment many high performers face when success no longer feels aligned. Patrick Francey sits down with reinvention strategist Annie Yatch to unpack what happens when growth outpaces identity, and why traditional strategies fail at that level.

Annie shares her unique journey from counterterrorism into high performance coaching, where she now works with CEOs, founders, and elite performers navigating internal misalignment. Her approach goes beyond mindset, focusing on what she calls “subconscious infrastructure” — the deeply embedded patterns driving behavior, decisions, and outcomes.

A key insight from the conversation is that many leader...

In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey break down one of the most misunderstood concepts in personal growth and performance: confidence.

Rather than treating confidence as a feeling that comes and goes, they reframe it as something far more durable. Confidence is not built on outcomes, praise, or temporary wins. It is built on a solid internal foundation shaped by preparation, resilience, and self-trust.

Patrick introduces the idea that confidence is often mistaken for comfort. When life is easy, people feel confident. But when pressure hits, that sense of confidence d...

In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey unpack a concept that quietly undermines performance, clarity, and fulfillment: energy leaks. Using a relatable analogy of a phone battery draining from background apps, they explore how unseen distractions and unresolved issues silently consume mental, emotional, and physical energy.

Energy leaks are not just about obvious distractions like mindless scrolling. They include incompletions, unresolved decisions, cluttered environments, misaligned relationships, physical pain, and even internal narratives we avoid confronting. Steffany highlights how, in high-performance environments such as elite athletics and executive leadership, even small inefficiencies or m...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick Francey sits down with Melanie Reuter, a former Director of Research at REIN and seasoned real estate investor, to explore her transition from data-driven analysis to hands-on entrepreneurship.

Melanie shares the unexpected story behind purchasing an off-grid fishing lodge near Kamloops, BC. What began as a spontaneous decision quickly turned into one of the most challenging and rewarding deals of her life. With no operational data, no bookings, and minimal support from the previous owners, Melanie and her husband Ray stepped into the hospitality business headfirst.

The...

In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore the often uncomfortable but deeply transformative nature of life transitions. Using a powerful parable about a man forced to leave behind a familiar river, they unpack what it truly means to move from one chapter of life into another.

At the core of the conversation is a simple truth: change is inevitable, but growth is optional. Many people resist transition because they are attached to what is familiar, even when it no longer serves them. Whether it is a career shift, relationship change, business e...

In this episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore one of the most overlooked drivers of human behavior: the need for validation.

Drawing from insights popularized by Chase Hughes, the conversation breaks validation into six distinct needs that shape how people communicate, make decisions, and interact in business and life. These include significance, acceptance and approval, intelligence, pity, and strength or control.

Patrick and Steffany unpack how each need shows up in real conversations. From the person who constantly seeks recognition, to the one who avoids conflict to maintain appro...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick Francey sits down with Dr. Buck Joffrey to explore what it really takes to transition from a high-income professional to a true wealth builder. Buck shares his journey from a successful surgical career to becoming an entrepreneur, real estate investor, and host of the Wealth Formula Podcast, revealing the mindset shifts that changed everything.

A defining moment came after reading Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki, which challenged Buck’s understanding of income, security, and financial independence. Despite achieving what many consider success, he realized that earning a high income do...

Feeling stuck is something everyone experiences at some point, whether in business, relationships, or personal growth. In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey unpack what it really means to be stuck and, more importantly, how to move forward with clarity and intention.

The conversation begins with a powerful idea inspired by Joe Dispenza that your personality shapes your personal reality. If you want a different life, you may need to think, act, and feel differently. But instead of overwhelming listeners with massive transformation, Patrick and Steffany break it down into a practical framewo...

In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore the powerful role beliefs play in shaping identity, behavior, performance, and personal growth. Using Patrick’s opening parable of “the raft,” the conversation centers on the idea that some beliefs once helped us survive or succeed in a certain season of life, but can become heavy burdens when we continue carrying them long after they have served their purpose.

The episode dives into how beliefs become intertwined with identity, especially when they are reinforced by past experiences, family narratives, cultural conditioning, or repeated self-talk. Patrick...

In this powerful episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick Francey sits down with Julie Colombino-Billingham, founder of Deux Mains and REBUILD globally, for a conversation about dignity, ethical business, resilience, and job creation in Haiti.

Julie shares the defining moment that changed her life after the 2010 Haiti earthquake. While working in disaster response, she heard a woman say, “I don’t want money. I need a job.” That statement reshaped Julie’s understanding of aid, poverty, and real impact. Rather than focusing only on relief, she began building a business rooted in employment, ownership, and long-term economic opportun...

In this episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore a concept that quietly shapes many business partnerships and personal relationships: entanglements. Whether in real estate deals, joint ventures, friendships, or marriages, entanglements often begin with good intentions but gradually become complex webs of expectations, obligations, and emotional tension.

Patrick introduces the idea through a fishing net metaphor. At first, the net is simple. One line tied to the dock works well. Then more lines get added. A buoy, another boat, another opportunity. Each addition seems smart at the time because it...

In this solo episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick Francey explores one of the most difficult challenges leaders and entrepreneurs face: making decisions when the consequences feel uncomfortable.

With Steffany Hanlen Francey traveling, Patrick takes the opportunity to unpack a powerful leadership insight that many professionals quietly struggle with. Most people do not fail because they lack information. They fail because they hesitate to act when a decision could upset others or create short term discomfort.

Patrick explains that indecision often occurs when leaders weigh visible short term pain against invisible long term consequences. The...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick Francey sits down with sales and psychology strategist Paul Ross to unpack why modern selling is less about logic and more about human behavior. Ross argues that most buying decisions happen in the subconscious, which is why “working harder” often produces smaller gains. Instead of relying on scripts, pressure, or outdated rapport tactics, he teaches teams how to lower resistance, build trust quickly, and create focus in a distracted world.

Ross draws a sharp distinction between unethical manipulation and ethical influence. In his framework, influence means “engineering consciousness” by expandin...

In this Mindset Matters conversation, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey break down a truth most people resist: if you want more in life, you must tolerate more. More uncertainty. More exposure. More discomfort. They unpack how resilience is not built when conditions are ideal, but forged under sustained pressure, when your identity is being stretched and your decision making is being tested.

Patrick frames the trap clearly. Comfort can feel safe and productive, but it often becomes the breeding ground for feeling stuck. When there is no challenge, there is no growth, and without growth, ambition...

In this powerful episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Steffany Hanlen Francey explore what truly lies behind success through the lens of the Champion’s Journey. While the world sees medals, podiums, and highlight reels, this conversation reveals the invisible foundation of discipline, resilience, emotional strength, and identity that champions build long before their defining moment.

Drawing from Steffany’s decades of work with Olympic and world-class athletes, the episode uncovers what audiences never see. Early mornings, emotional breakdowns, doubt, setbacks, controversy, and relentless pressure are all part of the process. True champions are not created in th...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick Francey sits down with high performance sales and leadership coach Corey Corpodian, founder of Unleash Success and author of Emotional Fitness. The conversation is a practical deep dive into what separates consistent top performers from talented people who stall when pressure hits.

Corey shares his personal turning point: after achieving “success on paper” as a board-certified orthodontist, a melanoma diagnosis forced him to confront the gap between achievement and fulfillment. That wake-up call led him into personal development, disciplined routines, and the framework he calls emotional fitness, defined as the...

Many professionals claim they fear failure. In reality, they fear criticism.

In this solo episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey explores how the fear of judgment — from peers, partners, or the public — often prevents action. He shares stories from leadership coaching, business intensives, and personal development that highlight how feedback is frequently misinterpreted as personal attack.

The distinction is critical: criticism received defensively halts growth. Feedback received curiously accelerates it.

For leaders, entrepreneurs, and high performers, mastering how you receive critique may be one of the most important performance skills you develop.

In this Mindset Matters episode, Patrick Francey challenges a common belief about why people feel stuck. The obstacle is rarely a lack of talent, intelligence, or opportunity. More often, it is a price they are unwilling or unconscious about paying. Patrick reframes pressure, discomfort, and uncertainty as proof of growth rather than signals of failure, drawing on powerful examples from elite Olympic athletes who expect fear, doubt, and strain because they trained for them.

At the heart of the conversation is self mastery and what Patrick calls the true cost of entry to meaningful goals. He explains...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick Francey sits down with physician and healthcare executive Dr. Nasim Afsar to explore what it really takes to lead and build in complex systems. The conversation opens with a clear premise: clarity creates velocity, and confusion is expensive. Nassim traces her throughline of impact at scale, from bedside medicine to executive leadership, and shares why she has always been drawn to connecting fragmented pieces into functioning systems.

A pivotal theme is discomfort as a growth signal. Nassim explains that she gets energy from stepping into unfamiliar territory, and she...

High performers are often praised for discipline, work ethic, and grit. Yet many driven entrepreneurs, executives, and athletes eventually hit a wall where effort keeps increasing but results stay flat. In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey and Olympic mental performance coach Steffany Hanlen Francey challenge one of the most deeply held performance myths: that pushing harder is always the answer.

Using the parable of a farmer who worked himself to exhaustion while ignoring depleted soil, Patrick and Steffany explain that growth does not break down because of laziness. It breaks down because people unknowingly violate...

In this episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick challenges one of the most popular personal development phrases in the space: “creating a life by design.” While it sounds inspiring, Patrick argues that most people misunderstand what it actually requires. A life by design is not built on affirmations, motivation, or even a perfect plan. It is built on responsibility and a clear understanding of the real costs that come with meaningful outcomes.

Patrick explains that anything truly worthwhile in life has a cost of entry, and that cost is rarely financial. More often, the true price is paid emot...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, Patrick sits down with transformation expert and entrepreneur Keala Kanae to explore the real foundation of high performance: identity, values, and self mastery.

Keala shares his powerful journey from minimum wage barista to building and exiting a company that surpassed $140 million in sales. The turning point came after a devastating breakup that forced him to confront a hard truth: he was the common denominator in every area of struggle. That realization launched a deep dive into psychology, neuroscience, and the science of values, leading to a personal breakthrough that reshaped...

In this solo episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick Francey explores why so many people stay emotionally, relationally, or professionally stuck even when they are smart, self aware, and motivated to move forward. The issue, Patrick suggests, is often not a lack of insight, but the lens through which past experiences are being viewed.

Patrick introduces a powerful distinction between gratitude and appreciation, and how confusing the two can quietly keep people anchored to relationships, partnerships, and life chapters that are already complete. While gratitude is often focused on benefit, relief, or gain, appreciation is oriented toward impact...

In this powerful throwback episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick and Steffany explore a topic most people underestimate but almost everyone participates in: gossip. What begins as a discussion about energy leaks quickly evolves into a deeper conversation about trust, values, emotional safety, and the unseen impact our conversations have on our lives, relationships, and leadership.

Patrick and Steffany challenge the common belief that gossip is harmless. They explain that anytime we speak about someone who is not present, we are sharing our interpretation, not the truth. Even when comments seem neutral or positive, they can distort reality, w...

In this episode, entrepreneur and radio host Jim Beach joins Patrick to challenge the usual “doom and blame” tone of climate and environmental conversations. Jim argues that real progress comes from capitalists and small businesses that build practical, profitable solutions. Instead of waiting for government or NGOs to fix complex problems, he believes entrepreneurs can reduce risk, start small, and solve issues one step at a time.

Jim shares the origin story behind his book, The Real Environmentalists, inspired by Wayne Elliott, a hands-on ship and battery recycling leader. That relationship sparked a deeper search into for prof...

In this powerful episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick and Steffany kick off the new year with a deep conversation about why so many people feel stuck and why real change rarely comes from external circumstances. It is not the economy, politics, or lack of motivation holding most people back. It is the hidden programming in the brain that filters reality and blocks opportunity. Patrick explains how the Reticular Activating System, often called the RAS, works like an internal airport control tower, choosing what gets seen, noticed, or completely erased before it reaches conscious awareness.

Together...

In this episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick and Steffany take listeners deep into the foundation of personal growth by exploring hidden beliefs and the operating system of identity that shapes how we see ourselves. They unpack how early childhood experiences, attachment, and perceived safety influence adult self concept, resilience, and self esteem. Drawing on research and decades of coaching experience, they help listeners understand how deeply rooted beliefs about safety, love, worth, and effort silently drive behavior and limit potential.

Patrick reflects on empirical studies showing that childhood environments strongly predict adult identity patterns, while...

In this episode of The Everyday Millionaire, host Patrick Francey sits down with Debra Atkinson, exercise physiologist and founder of Flipping 50, to reframe menopause as the gateway to a stronger, more powerful second half of life. Debra explains that for decades, most exercise and sports medicine research was done on men, leaving women in perimenopause and menopause to “fly blind” when it comes to what actually works for their changing hormones, bones and muscles. Flipping Fifty+1

Debra breaks down the menopause transition in clear, practical language. She defines menopause as a single point in time, 12 months after a wo...

In this powerful episode of Mindset Matters, Patrick and Steffany take listeners deep into the real reason most people struggle with money. It is not math. It is not budgeting. It is not the economy. It is the hidden beliefs about money that were shaped long before adulthood. Many of these patterns were installed through childhood experiences, family dynamics, culture, scarcity, trauma, and early emotional imprinting.

Patrick and Steffany explore how every person carries a “money operating system” that unconsciously drives financial behavior. Whether it is fear, tension, guilt, pressure, or discomfort with wealth, these internal patterns infl...

In this Mindset Matters conversation, Patrick and Steffany explore one of the most misunderstood emotional patterns people face daily. They unpack the real reason we get triggered and why the trigger is rarely the event itself. Instead, it is the story we attach to the moment that activates our nervous system and sends us into reactivity. With honesty, humour and real life examples, they dive into the hidden beliefs and identity based narratives that sit beneath the surface and shape how we respond.

Patrick opens with a playful question about whether he triggers Steffany, which leads into...

In this powerful and deeply human conversation, Patrick sits down with Nick Jonsson, a global keynote speaker, international bestselling author, and leading authority on executive loneliness. Nick’s work centers on dismantling the silent struggles many high achieving leaders face, including isolation, burnout, addiction, and the heavy emotional toll that comes with relentless performance.

Nick shares how his holistic leadership framework was born from his own lived experience. After climbing the corporate ladder across Asia and overseeing large teams, he found himself burnt out, anxious, and ultimately at rock bottom. His recovery prompted a transformation that now fu...

In this thought provoking episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick and Steffany unpack a powerful rant by journalist and influencer Jasmine Lane about the loss of critical thinking in today’s polarized world. Jasmine’s message sparked a deep conversation about how society has shifted into extremes, where nuanced discussion has been replaced with instant outrage, judgment, and fear based reactions. Patrick and Steffany explore why so many people feel unsafe expressing their opinions, and how this cultural shift is shaping relationships, workplaces, families, and personal identity.

Drawing from their work in mindset, performance psychology, and huma...

In this powerful episode of the Mindset Matters podcast, Patrick and Steffany dive into one of the most universal, misunderstood and avoided human skills. conflict resolution. Whether it shows up in relationships, family dynamics, business teams or society as a whole, conflict is something we all experience but rarely learn to navigate with maturity, clarity and compassion.

Patrick and Steffany explore why conflict avoidance has increased in recent years and how fear of judgment, cancel culture and divisiveness have made open dialogue more difficult. They break down the difference between healthy conflict and destructive conflict, and why...

In this powerful and wide ranging conversation, Patrick sits down with entrepreneur, former NASA scientist, and AI innovator Dr. Alex Mehr to explore what it really takes to ride the fastest growing technological wave of our time. With clarity and candor, Alex explains how he identified the potential of artificial intelligence long before most people understood its impact and why embracing AI early gave him a unique strategic advantage as a builder and founder.

Drawing on his experiences in science, engineering, and app development, Alex breaks down the repeatable pattern he uses for spotting massive trends, positioning hi...

This Throwback Thursday episode of the Mindset Matters podcast revisits one of Patrick and Steffany’s most powerful conversations about the six fundamental human needs that shape our behavior, influence our decision making, and determine our personal growth. As coaches, entrepreneurs, and partners, Patrick and Steffany explore why understanding these needs is essential for self mastery, leadership, and building meaningful relationships.

They dive into the essential needs identified by psychologist Chloe Madanes which include certainty, variety, significance, connection, growth, and contribution. Patrick and Steffany share real life examples from coaching clients, athletes, business environments, and their own marr...