Marriage After God

About This Episode

What if there's only one thing in your entire life you could be the greatest at — and you've been neglecting it? Pastor Mark Moore has been married 40 years, pastors a giga church with 18 campuses in Phoenix, and has spent decades studying Scripture. His answer to that question is one of the most freeing things you'll hear. This conversation is honest, practical, and grounded in the Word.

Meet Pastor Mark Moore

Teaching Pastor at Christ's Church of the Valley in Phoenix, AZ — author of Wisdom 52, Quest 52, and Core 52, and former Bible coll...

In this week’s episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith continue their 30-week marriage devotional series by discussing the role of intimacy in marriage. While many people immediately think of physical intimacy when they hear the word intimacy, Aaron and Jennifer explain that God designed marriage to include physical, emotional, and spiritual intimacy. They share how intimacy reflects God’s relational nature, why vulnerability is essential for connection, and how couples can intentionally cultivate deeper unity in every area of their marriage. 

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In this week’s episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith continue their 30-week marriage devotional series by exploring what it means to truly abide in Christ. After discussing hiding from God in the previous episode, this conversation shifts toward the beauty of intimacy with God—remaining close to Him, drawing strength from Him, and allowing His Spirit to transform our lives and marriages. 

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In week 26 of the Marriage After God devotional series, Aaron and Jennifer tackle the hard truth: we all sin, and the natural impulse is to hide. This episode unpacks what it means to acknowledge sin, respond with repentance, and pursue restoration in marriage and faith. Drawing from Scripture (James 4:17; Romans 14:23; Genesis 3:6–11; Ephesians 5), they discuss the roots of hiding, the pull of shame, and the life-giving path of confession, accountability, and walking in the Spirit.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we explore how God’s design brings order to every sphere—creation, institutions, church, and specifically marriage. We discuss how without order life becomes chaotic, how even the smallest parts of life reveal a coordinated design, and why aligning with God’s order leads to fruitfulness and peace in the home.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron chats with Joshua Becker, author of Uncluttered Faith, founder of Becoming Minimalist, speaker, and longtime advocate for living with less in order to live more. Based in Peoria, Arizona; 26-year marriage; two adult children.

They explore how owning less can deepen your faith, strengthen your marriage, and free up time, energy, and resources for what matters most—family, faith, and shared purpose. They also discuss the real-world realities of minimalism in marriage, practical compromises, and how technology and consumer culture influence our everyday choices.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the critical role of unity in marriage and how that unity extends to the body of Christ. Learn how being unified helps you use your gifts to spread the gospel and do God’s work together.

We dive into what makes up a godly marriage and explore how the husband and wife are distinct parts that together form one body, grounded in biblical imagery from 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 5. Listen as we discuss how individuality and unity collaborate to create a thriving, covenantal relationship where we sa...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the critical role of unity in marriage and how that unity extends to the body of Christ. Learn how being unified helps you use your gifts to spread the gospel and do God’s work together.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss the vital practice of daily prayer for your marriage. We explain how prayer aligns hearts with God, strengthens unity between spouses, and equips couples to recognize and respond to spiritual warfare. 

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss the impact of praying for your spouse, highlighting how deliberate prayer fosters intimacy, unity, and spiritual growth within marriage. We share practical tips for starting and deepening a joint prayer life, anchored in biblical principles and personal experiences.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with Casey and Meygan Caston, the husband-and-wife team of Marriage365, who are passionate about helping couples build Christ-centered marriages that overflow into strong families and healthy communities. Through their own journey of learning to love with greater patience, intentionality, and emotional awareness, they have developed a heart for encouraging couples to prioritize their relationship at home. In this episode, they talk about the biblical foundation of love and how it begins in the most important place — our homes.

Together, we explore Jesus’ teaching on the two...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the vital habit of praying for yourself and why it matters as much as praying for others. Jesus models daily dependence on the Father, so how much more should we? Learn what it means to pray without ceasing, and gain practical steps to deepen your own prayer life with guidance from the Holy Spirit.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we explore God’s calling on our lives and marriages. We talk about how every believer has a purpose — no matter their background, status, or past. Calling isn’t just about career or ministry; it’s about who God has called us to be.

We unpack the biblical meaning of calling, what it means to live holy and set apart, and how love and obedience are central to fulfilling God’s will. When we understand that our first calling is to Christ, it transforms how we show up in our mar...

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, we talk about what it truly means to build a resilient marriage. Every couple faces trials, pressure, and seasons of weakness — but those moments don’t have to tear a relationship apart.

Instead, when we anchor our marriage in Christ, choose encouragement over criticism, and take responsibility for our words, trials can actually strengthen our relationship. We discuss how faith in Jesus provides the endurance we need, how the Holy Spirit empowers us when we feel depleted, and why the way we speak to one another has a last...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, we unpack the vital role wisdom plays in marriage and everyday life. We discuss how wisdom is not merely knowing what is right, but faithfully applying God’s truth in our decisions, attitudes, and actions. This episode encourages couples to seek the Lord for wisdom in every area of life and marriage, trusting that God’s guidance leads to unity, stability, and lasting fruit.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, we discuss God’s design for marriage and the biblical roles of husbands and wives outlined in Ephesians 5. We talk about how love and submission aren’t about control or hierarchy, but about trust, humility, and serving one another the way Christ serves us.

Husbands are called to love their wives sacrificially, and wives are called to respect and submit to their husbands. When both spouses walk in obedience to God’s design, marriage becomes a place of safety, unity, and deeper intimacy. We pray this episode is an enc...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with J. Parker to talk about a topic many couples struggle to discuss openly — sex and intimacy in marriage. J. shares how she began writing anonymously about sexual intimacy in Christian marriage after realizing there were very few safe, honest resources for couples wrestling with mismatched sex drives and unspoken frustration.

Together, we explore how intimacy is deeply connected to the overall health of a marriage, why communication is essential in navigating sexual challenges, and how humor and honesty can help break the shame and ta...

In today’s episode of the Marriage Devotional series, we talk about anger and fear and how they impact marriage. We discuss how feelings of disrespect can trigger anger and explain why unchecked emotions can lead to destructive patterns in relationships. We also examine how fear often fuels anger and disrupts communication, encouraging couples to recognize emotional triggers, practice self-control, and seek God’s guidance in navigating their responses.

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Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about why forgiveness is essential to a thriving marriage. We explore what biblical forgiveness really is — and what it isn’t — and why withholding forgiveness quietly builds walls between spouses. We share how humility, repentance, and grace work together to bring healing and restore intimacy. Our hope is to encourage every couple to practice forgiveness as a daily reflection of God’s mercy toward us.

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Today our devotional episode explores how pride damages marriages by fueling defensiveness, distance, and conflict. We look at what Scripture says about pride, how it shows up in everyday interactions, and why humility is essential for restoring intimacy and unity.

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In this episode, we talk about the importance of putting on the armor of God and how it impacts our daily lives and marriages. Scripture reminds us that our battle is not against each other, but against spiritual forces of darkness, which means we need God’s strength, His truth, and His righteousness to stand firm.

We walk through several pieces of the armor—like the belt of truth, breastplate of righteousness, and the shoes of the gospel of peace—and discuss what they practically look like in a Christian marriage. When we anchor ourselves in truth, guard...

In this episode Aaron sits down with marriage expert Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, to talk about the heart behind lasting marriages—and why love must be expressed with humility, grace, and the attitude of Christ.

Drawing from over 60 years of marriage, decades of pastoral counseling, and the lessons that shaped his life’s work, Dr. Chapman shares how early conflict in his own marriage led him to a transformative encounter with God that forever changed the way he loved his wife. Together, Aaron and Gary explore how love languages can heal—or harm—w...

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about what it means to live according to God’s economy in our marriage. Money is one of the most common areas of tension for couples, yet Scripture calls us to approach our finances with trust, generosity, and open hands.

We share personal experiences of walking through financial uncertainty and how God used those seasons to shift our perspective. Instead of holding tightly to what we had, we learned to trust God as our provider and see generosity as an act of faith. God’s economy doesn’t always...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with Pastor Craig Thompson to talk honestly about the tension and blessing of balancing ministry with marriage and family. Together they explore the reality of spiritual warfare in the home, the importance of staying grounded in a healthy church community, and the daily choices that shape the spiritual health of a family.

Craig shares from his own experience as a pastor, husband, and father—highlighting the need for intentionality, grace, and constant reliance on the Holy Spirit. Their conversation encourages couples to prioritize their marriage, in...

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the reality of conflict in marriage and the deeper spiritual layers behind the tension we often feel. We share how easy it can be to see each other as the enemy, when Scripture reminds us that the real battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces and the desires of our own flesh.

We talk about the tactics of deception and accusation that can creep into our hearts, pulling us away from unity. We also explore how humility, love, and intentional communication help us...

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about how much our conduct shapes the culture of our marriage. We share how the way we speak, respond, and show love reveals what we truly believe about God—and how it impacts the emotional and spiritual climate of our home.

We discuss the husband’s role in protecting and caring for his wife and family, and how a wife’s conduct can strengthen and encourage her husband’s faith. As we reflect on Scripture and our own experiences, we encourage couples to stay rooted in prayer, lean on the H...

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the truth that Christ alone deserves the throne in our lives. The conversation challenges all of us to lay down anything we’ve elevated above Him and to find our worth, value, and identity solely in who He is. When we honor Christ as our ultimate authority, we experience the fullness, purpose, and freedom found only in Him.

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Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss God’s holiness, the process of Him refining us, and how marriage provides the context for Him to continue that sanctification in our lives. We share how difficult seasons often reveal what’s hidden beneath the surface—exposing impurities, refining character, and drawing us closer to God. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, husbands and wives can experience deep personal growth, greater unity, and more authentic love. We hope this episode is a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, reconciliation, and recognizing how God can use trials to strengthen and ma...

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the meaning and significance of reconciliation in marriage. We discuss how sin creates distance in relationships and how forgiveness and reconciliation work together to restore unity and intimacy. Through biblical insights, practical encouragement, and personal experiences we hope to help couples pursue healing, trust, and oneness in their marriage.

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Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore what it truly means to love sacrificially within marriage. We discuss how genuine love mirrors the love of Christ—selfless, patient, and enduring—and how the Holy Spirit empowers couples to live this out daily. We remind listeners the fruits of the Spirit as essential qualities that nurture a healthy, grace-filled relationship. When both husband and wife surrender to God’s Spirit, your marriage can be a powerful reflection of the gospel.

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Today on the podcast, Aaron talks with Christin Rosa, who shares her powerful journey of faith through marriage, infertility, and motherhood. Christin opens up about the cultural differences in her marriage, the challenges of infertility, and the prenatal struggles she faced with her son, Nate. Through prayer, courage, and unwavering faith, she and her husband learned to advocate for life and trust in God’s plan. Christin also shares how her experiences inspired her to write Saving Hope, a testimony of God’s goodness and the healing that comes from walking through trials with Him.

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In this episode, we remind couples that marriage is one of God’s greatest gifts. We explore what it means to see your spouse as a blessing, not a burden, and how gratitude can transform your perspective. Join us as we discuss the power of forgiveness, intentional communication, and daily appreciation in cultivating a thriving marriage that reflects God’s grace and love.

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith talks with Heath Hardesty, a pastor, husband, and father who shares his journey from plumbing to ministry. Heath discusses what it means to live an integrated faith—where every part of life, from family to work, reflects a relationship with Jesus.

They explore apprenticeship to Christ as a daily practice of gentleness, prayer, and presence, and the importance of lament and joy in the Christian life. Heath’s book All Things Together invites believers to weave faith through every aspect of their marriages, families, and communities.

In this episode of the Marriage After God Podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the biblical design for marriage and the distinct yet complementary roles of husbands and wives. They discuss how servant leadership mirrors Christ’s example and how companionship plays a vital role in building a thriving, Christ-centered relationship.

Aaron unpacks what it means for husbands to lead through service and humility, following the example of Jesus, while Jennifer encourages wives to support, encourage, and pray for their husbands. 

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Bobby Jamieson, a pastor, author, and church planter based in Washington, D.C. Bobby shares his experiences in ministry and family life, offering biblical wisdom drawn from the book of Ecclesiastes. Together, they explore what it means to find purpose and joy amid the challenges of parenting, leadership, and life in a busy culture. Bobby unpacks the themes of contentment, gratitude, and self-sacrifice, showing how Ecclesiastes points us toward lasting fulfillment in God rather than the fleeting pursuits of success or pleasure. 

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In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer Smith explore the question, “Did God design marriage?” Together, they reflect on the intentionality behind marriage, the unique relationship between men and women, and the biblical foundation that defines this sacred covenant. They emphasize how love and respect work hand in hand within marriage and how obedience to God’s Word should guide our actions—regardless of our spouse’s response.

The discussion highlights that marriage is not a random arrangement but a purposeful reflection of God’s image and His relationship with the Church. They also sh...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron Smith sits down with Trevin Wax and Thomas West to discuss their new book, The Gospel Way Catechism. Together, they explore the modern challenges facing the church and families as cultural narratives compete with biblical truth. The conversation highlights the importance of discipleship within the home, the role of parents in shaping their children’s faith, and how the Gospel Way Catechism serves as a practical resource for teaching and defending the faith. They also discuss the need for a renewed focus on community, truth, and church revitalization in a...

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron and Jennifer unpack the purpose of marriage as God designed it. Together, they explore how every couple is uniquely created in His image and called to reflect His love and unity through their relationship. Drawing from Ephesians 5, they discuss how marriage mirrors Christ’s love for the Church, emphasizing forgiveness, oneness, and devotion to God’s greater mission.

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In this episode, Aaron Smith interviews Roy Wooten of the Crucible Project, a ministry helping men heal, grow, and build meaningful community. Roy is also a husband of 37 years, and a grandfather. Roy shares his journey of marriage, personal transformation, and the lessons he’s learned about communication, vulnerability, and confession.  Together, he and Aaron discuss the power of communication, vulnerability, and confession in building a healthy relationship. Roy opens up about emotional triggers, the importance of creating safe spaces, and how men can find healing and transformation through community and grace.

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We are so excited to announce something new for the Marriage After God podcast! Over the next 30 weeks, we’ll be walking through our very first devotionals—Husband After God and Wife After God.

This series is designed to help you and your spouse:

Even if you don’t have a copy of the devotionals, you can still follow along with us each week. But we strongly encourage you to g...