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Why do women do this?

I have 3 reasons I do it... some women just wanna push your buttons though.

At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.

It’s season 24.

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Some do, but most men only listen to the majority who say they need a HORSE... Be good with what you got sir. We do not need an explanation... thats between ya mama and daddy.

let me explain. There are other things that matter more.

At the end of this season it’s gonna click for a lot of people, like it hasn’t before.

It’s season 24.

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This is a heavy one.

It can be many factors with women, we go through so much internally.

It's not really all about men and what they do or don't do for that woman.

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For the same reasons most men don't want marriage.

They do not see the point in it, "let's keep the government out our relationship."

Most states, if a person consistently been at your place for 3 weeks, thats their residents... the government in your situationship.

Do they get mail at your address? That's their residence too.

Is your car on their insurance plan? That's their residence too.

I've heard all the reasons marriage ain't a want... but Women not wanting marriage is rarely talked about.

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Now, I'm not gonna lie.

This sounds bad but it's really it's the reality in 2025.

A lot of our Moms wanted our Dads help more and they didn't know how to ask or explain it.

There are some women that are okay with dating, love to be in a relationship with you but when it comes to having your kids, it's a definite no, no.

It's not the no, that you think. Some women see that you are successful, they see that you are a gentleman and they see that you...

We are not our grandmothers, we are not our mothers. Today's women would rather build, create, raise and explore this life single, than stressed and unhappy with a man refusing to see himself.

A man willing to correct himself and mature in order to enjoy the peaceful life of being with the right woman for him.

Every relationship is not worth holding on to, unfortunately a lot of todays marriages are included.

The foundation was never built on good values to sustain it.

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This...

Ummmm.... We don't.

We just want you to use your brain, without us saying what to do verbatim.

The most attraction language you can have with a man is unspoken, learned needs being met.

You know what we like to see, eat, hear and feel...

Show us that you listened by taking the initiative to do the things we like or need.

Let me explain.

Chan & Pods

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No, this one is a reality check for both Men and Women.

Being a SAHM is not for the weak, it involves a lot of work. Unless that man is wealthy or as a woman you are well off.

I'll explain myself, press play.

Just remember, what we see on TV isn't all its cracked up to be.

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Think about investing in yourself so you can move up the ladder in your career and life... You had goals for over a decade and completed all of them... Now you want a life you feel you deserve, options or benefits you see other people recieve, who put in the work too. Then boom... Society is yelling... You should get "use this" and make it work because blah, blah, blah... some people have no one just be happy this person wants to acknowledge you or talk to you.

There is no Chemistry, but he thinks you're cute...<...

This idea of a "soft woman" is simple... Make a woman's life easier, better than she can and provide solutions to her... Watch how soft she gets. Change your approach compared to other men. Be the difference.

Women can be soft single... they can take care of their self needs, pay for wants and needs too. If you are adding yourself to her life, more of what she already did for herself prior to you should be a possibility while with you. That's the part most men don't want to participate in. It checks and balances to...

It's PodFam do not be alarmed.

We talked about so much we talked about was currently going on with us, we talked about different reasons why people are not finding pleasure in others and we also talked about where we would put that button if we were God.

We respect God OK, but that was just a question.

Gigi gave us insight on the difference between male strip clubs and the ones who wear bear heads.

We also talked about other things, but when we all get together is a real...

Make it make sense.

Do better, it was nice speak with yall and explaining a woman's why.

I will check yall with a new season in March.

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This is why women sometime get mean. For safety... some men can't handle boundaries or any level of niceness. Instantly ya wang enters the convo.

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Whats so crazy is a lot of men say I love a mean woman... I love being the only person that gets her soft side... But some men think women are mean when most are just protecting themselves from the daily BS they deal with. Now some women are just ugly to people they think they are above, make assumptions about or do not like. The idea that someone they don't like would have the confidence to even walk up and speak will piss them off.

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A lot of women start new relationships and reinvent themselves, because they thing the old them was too this or not enough that... Its about what do I have to do to be able to stay where I want to be... Men do it too.

Merry Chrimaaaaaaaa !!!

It’s season 24.

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It's not allllll women.... Men rush into relationships too. In my experience.

I love a good friend, relationship before I'm boo'd up.

It’s season 24.

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Everyone's definition of the truth isn't the same.

Women ask for things they think they should all the time it doesn't mean they want it. To ask for the truth and swallow it is "big woman" type shit. Strong, confident, sure of yourself type shit.

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This one is a multi layered one:

Why do women leave a man who cares for and supports them for cheating? Why get a new man or several men smash her without any commitment ? Why support all of them still being able to keep the other women they smashing?

Different women care about different things in cheating.

I wouldn't want to keep a man who cheats because Gemini women don't forget, they tuck thoughts. I might wake up one day decades later and choke you out because my rage kicked back in from...

This goes back to that saying " Happy Wife, Happy Life" thats lopsided or make sure you find a man that loves you more... Ummmm thats stank ass energy to me.

#womenaintalwaysright

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This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to...

Some women cannot read the room and every mans threshold for ya BS isn't that strong. Some women saw women in their family annoy men for decades and those men still showed up and stayed in the relationships. These new men understand their worth, they have found out that they too deserve peace and happiness as they provide.

Surprise Big Gotcha!!!!

It’s season 24.

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This is clearly a personal opinion from a man, but I'm still going to answer it.

In my opinion, Men with big wallets and a consistent money flow never clocking what a woman has or brings, other than love, peace and a good attitude.

It’s season 24.

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This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who ca...

Its not always us its the propaganda painted visually about all of us...

I truly believe that this man versus woman conversation that keeps happening with different situations is rooted in self hate. If we don't truly begin to love ourselves as Black people, we're going to have these distracting discussions that bring no progress to where we need to be as a people. We need black women and black men to love each other, love themselves and show up in life 100% to create the next generation. And we cannot do that by putting down each other...

I promise yall, you ain't mad at women... its Men yall mad at.

Its them society pressures !!!

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Some women are told straight up, if you have a man and he doesn't do x,y,z, he aint it.

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Chan & Pods

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See now, this is where women say " what did ya mama have to offer yo daddy other than..." But we not gonna do that. Let me list attributes of a good woman on this.

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Sustaining a relationship falls on two people. Who are willing to drop that pride and ego.

Men and women struggle with this and if you need clarity and you don't have it, work on that asap.

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Chan & Pods

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This is the trickery: I believe women are trained from little girls to want everything good from a man. What the biggest and the best all the time. Weddings in my opinion are overly costly and audacious. Those who like big, elaborate parties and attention probably love them. Personally I never wanted one. I never looked at a wedding dress like " this is what I would want"... I don't even know my ring size. Lowkey me please. Lets spend that green on something else.

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Women do not always think that they're right we just hope that you stop trying to correct us and just let us be. So the pushback that most men get is because you're setting a boundary. A lot of women are not used to men setting boundaries but letting them feel right when they're wrong. I'll tell you more. I just press play.

Sorry, Ladies.

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Chan & Pods

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Its not a diss... Don't be offended, men just want to know if you can recognize a good man or one thats not good for you. Dad's are so essential for women and little girls.

It’s season 24.

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Chan & Pods

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Mental abuse with anyone isn't good.

Free yourself and let me be honest... too many get women get away with manipulating men in relationships for their own selfish reasons.

Im talking about it.

It’s season 24.

Its Chan and SHE Gets It Pod

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Chan & Pods

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Do not beat me up. I'm just a messenger.

I think society has become a leaning " agreed contributor" towards women on most things where it isn't fair. Now as a woman, I'm going to be in the middle of explaining answers to a lot of different men's questions. A lot of men want to have some understanding of why women do what they do, why do they think how they think, and why do they feel how they feel?

Nobody is picking on women, nobody is in favor for everything that men think. But sometimes...

The Men had questions and I gave answers.

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All friendships aren't forever, if I end one I had a good reason. Those friendships you walk away from... don't look back.

I can't be phony for you. I keep it direct.

I won't ever be okay with anyone being disrespectful so you can stick around.

For what?

Emotionally not being aware, being messy and not caring what connects you ruin because your in ya feelings, is a "you" issue. Your emotions dictate your moods... thats bad biz.

Work on that.

Enjoyed that time. Move on.

Rest doesn't always mean sleep.

Today would have been my dads 102 b day

Rest could be, no social media, no calls, no emails, no leaving the house and no driving. Go in your back yard, put your feet in grass without shoes.

We are always on the go and rest is always needed in order for us to be our best selves.

Now I'm not saying you cannot sleep or nap... do what ya body needs.

In today’s wild world, where endless tasks seem to never stop, many ov...

This is why I say there is no happy ending.

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This podcast is sponsored by BetterHelpWe are all working through our everyday life, not enough hours in the day. Most people need someone they can trust and express deep thoughts, who can provide you with mental tools at a click of the button, try this. If you are feeling overwhelmed and need someone to talk to professionally reach out to the therapist at BetterHelp https://betterhelp.com/shegetsit

Enjoy Chan on the mic and supporting...

You don't have to be the most religious person in the world either.

Prayers are powerful expressions of our hopes, desires, and dreams.

They connect us to a higher power and serve as a gateway to divine guidance.

A lot of us find ourselves receiving answers to our prayers but still choosing to ignore them. 

Understanding Your Prayers

Why Do We Avoid Those Answers to what we asked for?

Fear of Change

Doubt a...

Limiting how you think about yourself aint helping you.

But you knew that.

You trying to have a pity party or you tryna get better?

Chan & Pods

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Nothing is forever, I know it sounds harsh but it’s true. Now won’t always be now, even yesterday changes.

People change

Homes change

Jobs change

Location change

Wants change

Needs change

Love changes

Hope changes

Trust changes

Faith in the situation changes

... All life changes

Chan & Pods

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I think society and "Most Men..." lmao have this idea of what women want...

and Im here to tell you no the hell we don't.

It's cool though find that one that works for you though, some women out here want to play the same games men do.

Tap me out, we are not the same.

1. We do not need to see you everyday

 & Constant Attention

2. Fcuk relationships if you ain’t ready.

3. Fcuk Dating Apps 

4. Relationship Dynamics: Long-term Commitment is not for the w...

This is what it is... with me.

You can't have more than what I give my self ever.

I will never be just a

woman, mother, sister, auntie, creator, podcaster, partner, employee...

I will always reserve a bit of me to myself.

I would rather be home majority of the time where my energy is controlled and safe. Being alone most of the time is a treat. I don't require much, just don't disrespect me or my peace.

#everydayasme

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