EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™

What if we rewrote “laziness” as ease, traded “hustle” for flow, and redefined “success” as balance?

In this episode, Jessica sits down with holistic psychiatrist and bestselling author Dr. Ellen Vora to talk about her new book, Season of the Witch: A Psychiatrist’s Case for Magic. Drawing on her background in science and a spiritual awakening that came through grief, Ellen challenges the stories that taught women to trust logic, productivity, and approval over their own inner knowing.

Together, they explore how to tell real intuition from fear and old wounds, why rest and your body’s na...

What if the magic you’ve been searching for has been within you all along, and your intuition is the key to manifesting your biggest dreams?

In this episode, Lacy and Jessica dive into the shift toward heightened intuition, deeper authenticity, and reclaiming your personal power. As we move through the Refinement Era, we’re being called to reconnect with our wild inner child, release societal programming, and trust the intuitive gifts that have always been within us.

Lacy shares her evolving connection to ancestral wisdom, spirit guides, and psychic gifts. Jessica explores how to surr...

Have you ever chased someone who wasn’t fully choosing you, overanalyzed every text, or kept repeating the same relationship patterns, even when you knew you deserved more? What if secure love isn’t about becoming more desirable, but about feeling safe and worthy within yourself? 

In this honest, empowering episode, Jessica sits down with dating and relationship coach, podcast host, and author of Why Am I Like This? Sabrina Zohar to unpack the subconscious patterns, attachment wounds, and limiting beliefs that keep us stuck in the same cycles. After anxious attachment, heartbreak, and self-abandonment (including sending 173 texts...

What if the universe has already been showing you exactly where to go next—you just haven’t been recognizing the signs?

In this episode, Lacy, Jessica, and Janelle break down two of the most powerful parts of the manifestation process: expanders and pings. They explain why expanders matter on a neurological level, helping rewire your pathways and show you that the lifestyle, things, and feelings you want are actually within reach. Then, they dive into pings: how to get grounded enough to notice them, trust them, and follow where they lead.

The girls get real...

What if the thing between you and your next quantum leap isn't more effort, but believing you're already worthy of what you want?

Jessica sits down with founder, podcaster, and TBMer Ellie to bust the biggest myth about confidence: that you either have it or you don't. Ellie shares how she built hers through finding Expanders, nervous system regulation, and taking aligned action just beyond her comfort zone.

You'll also hear how monthly reflection shows you the progress you're actually making, how Ellie held her price while selling her Amsterdam home when every part of...

What if the things suddenly feeling “off” in your life are actually showing you exactly where you’re meant to go next? 

In this episode, Lacy and Jessica dive into the Refinement Era and Lacy's recent channeling about the Great Clearing: an upcoming season of releasing distractions, outdated identities, energy leaks, and anything that no longer reflects who you're becoming. They explore why this isn't about "locking in" through more discipline or force, but about locking into your soul and getting radically clear on what deserves your life force.

Lacy shares her latest channeling on shame i...

What if the belief system you’ve been locked into isn’t actually true…and you’ve held the keys to your own freedom all along?

Right before a big transformation, old patterns often get louder right before they loosen their grip. But a flawed belief system doesn’t mean you’re flawed as a person—it just means there are parts of you still asking to be healed.

This episode is your protocol for getting grounded, going deeper, and getting curious about what’s actually keeping you stuck. If you’re in a rut, hitting rock botto...

What if the life you actually want requires you to stop trying to be liked?

In this episode, Lacy and Jessica break down what we're all getting wrong about authenticity, and why it's one of the most important parts of manifesting a life you love. They talk about the difference between living as your real self vs. performing "realness" to get validation and approval, and how the interests you had before you learned to fit in hold clues to who you really are.

They also get candid about the hard parts of being seen: triggering...

What if validation, love, and belonging were things you could give yourself? What would change if you could truly see and trust your own magic?

Jessica sits down with writer, creative coach, and TBMer GG Renee for a powerful conversation about family dynamics, self-worth, and creating a life rooted in authenticity rather than external validation. GG shares how growing up with a mother with undiagnosed mental illness shaped her relationship with safety, people-pleasing, achievement, love, and her sense of self. Through therapy, writing, and TBM, she began uncovering the core belief underneath so many of her patterns...

Have you ever wondered what would happen if you loosened your grip on the plan and started following what lights you up instead? 

In this episode, Jessica sits down with Cameron Oaks Rogers: creator of the Freckled Foodie empire, host of Conversations with Cam, mom, and TBMer. Cameron shares how a life-changing accident pushed her to leave her career at JP Morgan, start a food Instagram, and eventually build it into a thriving podcast and community. 

They talk about testing out new passions before you leap, trusting your gut, fitting manifestation into motherhood, and letting yo...

What if everything that got stripped away last year was never meant to be the destination, just the entry point to your next level?

Things are shifting fast right now, and we're all feeling it in the collective. In this episode, Lacy and Jessica explore the Refinement Era: the softer, more feminine energy that has followed last year's "stripped" period, and what it's asking of us now. You'll get a rare peek inside one of our members-only community calls, plus a live channeled message Lacy received in real time on "The Great Pivot." Together, they talk about...

What if your next best friend is just a ping away?

In this episode, Jessica sits down with Hope and Alyssa, two TBMers who manifested a deep, lifelong friendship after moving to Amsterdam from opposite sides of the world. A heart-led list, a leap of faith, and a shared commitment to their TBM work turned a chance meeting at a playground into a soul-deep bond.

They unpack what it really takes to move a friendship from first hello to true intimacy: listening to your pings even when the timing looks wrong, moving through fear of...

What if everything you want is on the other side of being fully, unapologetically yourself?

In this powerful collection of community voices, TBMers share the blocks, breakthroughs, and transformations they uncovered through the Be Seen Challenge. From healing inner child wounds and releasing perfectionism to reclaiming their voice and stepping into authentic expression, these stories reveal what's possible when you stop hiding and start trusting yourself.

If you’ve been waiting for permission, playing small, or struggling to show up fully in your relationships, career, or creative pursuits, these Expanders remind you that being magnetic is...

Feeling like life keeps throwing you test after test?

Before you assume the universe is challenging you, ask: is this actually a test, or is there a bigger pattern trying to get my attention?

In this episode, Lacy and Jessica break down how to recognize the difference between everyday inconveniences, true tests, and the deeper patterns asking to be healed.

This episode is your protocol for the moments when it feels like everything is hitting at once. Through the tools, practices, and questions Lacy and Jessica use themselves, you’ll learn how to zo...

What if the life you built doesn’t feel like it’s truly yours?

This week, we're joined by Olivia Amitrano (aka Organic Olivia), who shares her journey from chasing traditional success to reconnecting with her most aligned, authentic self.

If you're an ambitious overachiever who's always been rewarded for doing more, this episode is your invitation to step off the hamster wheel and come back to your true self. Olivia opens up about unmasking her neurodivergence, healing her relationship with her body, navigating the grief of losing her mother, and rediscovering the magic that was...

What if the very thing you've been hiding is the key to unlocking everything you want?

In this episode, Lacy and Jessica explore a gentler chapter of manifestation: one rooted in authenticity, self-trust, and coming home to who you truly are.

They share updates from the Be Seen Challenge and unpack the subtle ways we hide: people-pleasing, over-explaining, perfectionism, and chasing external validation. True visibility isn’t about being louder or more performative — it’s about feeling safe enough to own your desires, trust your intuition, and let your authentic self become your strongest signal.

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Have you ever known deep down that something in your life needed to change, but felt completely terrified to take the leap?

This week, Jessica sits down with entrepreneur, content creator, and founder of Boxwood Avenue, Chloe Legras, to explore the transformational journey of trusting yourself enough to take aligned action even when fear and discomfort loom large. Chloe shares how a picture-perfect life on the outside masked a growing sense of misalignment within, and how years of inner work eventually led her to make one of the hardest decisions of her life: leaving a marriage, rebuilding...

One of our most-loved conversations is back! In this powerful episode, somatic practitioner Sarah Baldwin joins Jessica for a masterclass in understanding the invisible walls that hold us back, building the capacity to receive more goodness, and becoming the loving protector our younger selves needed.

They explore the often-missed connection between manifestation, nervous system regulation, trauma healing, and self-worth, unpacking the invisible patterns that keep us stuck in procrastination, self-sabotage, and fear—even when we know exactly what we want. Through personal stories, vulnerability, and practical insight, Sarah and Jessica reveal why so many of us struggle to...

How many times have you dimmed your light, hidden parts of yourself, or caught yourself judging the way you show up in the world?

In this episode, Lacy and Jessica explore visibility, self-worth, deservingness, and authentic expression. They unpack why we resist being seen, and how stepping into visibility becomes one of the most powerful shifts we can step into in the New Paradigm.

As we move into an era of refinement, we're being called to question everything that no longer feels true. That includes the magnetic "f*ck it" energy that emerges when we...

What would change in your life if you stopped waiting for permission and finally trusted yourself?

In this episode, Lacy, Jessica, and Janelle explore one of the most transformative energies in manifestation: the unapologetic self-worth that comes from fully being yourself. As the community moves through the Be Seen Challenge, they unpack the collective themes emerging right now: navigating uncertainty in a rapidly changing world, releasing outdated beliefs around success, hustle, relationships, visibility, and identity.

They dive into the fears that keep us hidden and cover nervous system regulation, shadow work, authenticity, burnout, and manifestation...

Have you ever wondered whether your biggest dreams are truly yours—or shaped by fear, validation, and old conditioning?

Jessica sits down with bestselling author and TBMer Tara Mohr to explore the powerful distinction between your inner critic and inner mentor. Together, they unpack how we hide from visibility, delay our purpose through perfectionism, and unknowingly play small in pursuit of safety. Tara shares the framework that has helped thousands of women reconnect with their authentic voice and step into greater self-expression, impact, and fulfillment.

From the nervous system's role in self-doubt to reframing feedback an...

What if you could practice energetic boundaries, attunement, and tending to life’s quiet nudges every single day?

This week, Jessica welcomes gardener, designer, author, and TBMer Bailey Van Tassel for a conversation about reconnecting to authenticity through the land and allowing abundance to flow through alignment instead of force. Bailey shares how The Money Challenge transformed her relationship with worthiness, how childhood conditioning created financial blocks, and how learning to honor herself shifted everything: her business, her nervous system, and her experience of success. Together, they explore the healing power of gardening, co-creating with nature, inner ch...

Have you ever wondered why you can be deeply authentic, doing the inner work, showing up with integrity—and still feel unseen?

In this episode, Lacy, Jessica, and Janelle unpack the missing link between authenticity and magnetism: your signal. Your signal is the clarity that comes from knowing who you are without needing external validation to confirm it, and feeling safe enough to express it without collapsing under rejection or misunderstanding. From social media personas to boundaries and nervous system safety, this conversation reveals the deeper layers of manifestation that shape how your authentic self is received by...

What if the version of success you've been chasing is actually the thing keeping you trapped?

Today we welcome back executive coach and bestselling author Keren Eldad (Gilded: Breaking Free from the Cage of Ambition, Perfectionism, and the Relentless Pursuit of More) to unpack the hidden emotional architecture beneath ambition, manifestation, perfectionism, and the relentless pursuit of "more."

Jessica and Keren explore why so many high-achievers manifest the external markers of success—money, relationships, recognition, opportunities—yet still feel anxious, disconnected, or deeply unfulfilled. If that sounds familiar, this episode offers a roadmap for anyone read...

What if the very thing you desire most—love, abundance, purpose, fulfillment—is waiting on the other side of feeling safe to truly be seen?

This week, Jessica, Lacy, and Janelle unpack the roots of visibility wounds and how childhood conditioning, family dynamics, societal programming, and nervous system protection can keep us hiding from our authentic selves. They explore the subtle ways we abandon our truth to stay safe from people-pleasing and shape-shifting to fear of vulnerability and rejection, and why reclaiming your gifts is the key to true magnetism.

If you've ever felt afraid to f...

What if the hardest part of manifestation isn’t getting what you want, but feeling worthy enough to deserve it?

In this deeply expansive episode, Jessica welcomes Alexis Marie West for a conversation on manifestation, generational healing, boundaries, and the art of truly receiving. Alexis shares her remarkable journey from growing up amidst addiction, instability, and survival-mode conditioning to manifesting a peaceful dream home, financial security, creative freedom, and authentic self-worth. 

Together, they unpack the uncomfortable integration phase that happens after manifestations land, the emotional reality of setting boundaries with loved ones, and how reclaiming cre...

What if the opportunities you’re waiting for don’t go to the most qualified… but to the most visible? What if being seen is the missing piece to your next level? 

Today, we’re stepping into something new with our first-ever in-studio recording featuring TBMer, author, and career strategist Courtney Johnson. She joins Jessica to break down the truth about visibility, personal branding, and authentic career expansion in today’s evolving landscape.

Together, they explore why success is no longer about grinding harder, but about showing up more truthfully, consistently, and unapologetically. Courtney cuts through the...

Are you torn between being authentic and just surviving in today's world? What if authenticity, rather than effort or optimization, is the real currency now?

This episode dives deep into the energetic shifts of the new paradigm and why so many people are feeling tension, confusion, and major internal clearing. Lacy and Jessica explore what it means to live in alignment while operating inside an outdated system—and why authenticity, integrity, and inner truth are becoming the true drivers of manifestation. From nervous system regulation and energetic cord cutting to redefining success beyond hustle culture, this conversation un...

What if what you deserve is already here, just waiting for you to be ready? Could releasing the timeline be the medicine that finally lets you connect with it?

In this episode, Jessica pulls back the curtain on a major manifestation that's been unfolding over 4 years. She shares the layers of healing, growth, and understanding she's moved through—and what she discovered was actually standing between her and what she was calling in.

Jessica opens up about her own blocks and unhealed parts of her inner narrative, including the trap of obsessing over optimization and fu...

What if financial freedom wasn’t about hustling and doing more, but about becoming the version of you who can receive it?

In this expansive conversation, Jessica sits down with spiritual investor Elizabeth Ralph to explore what it really means to engage with money, wealth, and investing from a conscious, heart-led place. They unpack the shift from the old paradigm of hustle, control, and fear-based earning to a new paradigm rooted in alignment, authenticity, trust, and true financial freedom.

Elizabeth shares how redefining freedom as ease transformed her life, why money is just energy, and ho...

This week, we're sitting down with Carly Ottaway—Pathway member and author of Coming Home—to explore the profound transformation that emerges from life's most destabilizing moments. From navigating fertility struggles to losing her home in a fire, Carly opens up about how surrender, self-trust, and deep inner work became her greatest anchors through the unthinkable.

Together, they unpack the illusion of control, the healing power of authenticity, and how speaking from the heart unlocks your most magnetic self. This conversation is a reminder that even in your darkest chapters, you are being guided toward something more alig...

You’re fine…so why do you feel stuck? Where is the fear coming from, even when you know you’re safe? 

The truth is, lasting change requires more than mindset work alone. It means training your nervous system to build new associations with things that once felt uncertain or threatening.

Today, Lacy, Jessica, and somatic expert Janelle unpack the true role of the nervous system in manifestation. They explore how your body's sense of safety determines when to shut down and protect you from potential threats—and when to expand, receive, and take aligned action to...

What if the moments that completely unravel your life are actually the ones that reveal your purpose?

This week, Jessica sits down with Spirit Daughter founder Jill Wintersteen for the untold story behind her spiritual work. Known for her astrology insights, moon rituals, and intuitive teachings, Jill opens up about the chaotic chapter that shaped it all: a federal investigation connected to her partner, life under constant fear, and what it took to rebuild from rock bottom.

Through breathwork, meditation, and deep inner healing, Jill shares how nervous system regulation, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and...

We’ve never done an episode quite like this before.

We sat down with writer and creative Allie Carr—twice. In October 2025, she was just beginning to emerge from a really difficult chapter. When we spoke again in February 2026, her spark for life was fully back, and the seeds she had planted were unfolding in real time.

In the months between, Allie moved through a Saturn return, career pivots, financial uncertainty, and a deep shedding of who she used to be. What looked like falling apart was actually falling into place.

This conversation is a...

What if your core wounds aren't things to conquer, but parts of yourself that just need to be seen, heard, and understood? And what if the reason manifestation feels effortless in your imagination but impossible in action has nothing to do with motivation…and everything to do with your nervous system?

This week, Jessica sits down with somatic therapist and parts work expert Sarah Baldwin for a conversation that will completely reframe how you understand manifestation. Together, they explore why your nervous system calls the shots on what you attract, and how the self-protective patterns you developed as...

What if the dream feels “too big” because you haven’t built the capacity to hold it yet? What if success isn’t missing you—but waiting for you to feel safe enough to receive it? 

This week, Jessica sits down with actress Karolina Wydra (Pluribus, Sneaky Pete) to talk about the long game of manifestation. From growing up in communist Poland and internalizing scarcity and suppression, to stepping away from acting at 39 to become a mother, Karolina’s story is one of surrender, self-trust, and divine timing. It’s a true testimony to something central at TBM: what is me...

Feeling like the wheels are coming off your life—or the world?

The Year of the Fire Horse is here, and the old paradigm is dissolving fast. For some, it feels like rock bottom. For others, a slow unraveling. This week, Lacy and Jessica unpack the collective stripping, ego deaths, and visibility fears rising to the surface—and why this acceleration is actually a portal into your most authentic self.

If you’ve been stuck in perfectionism, burned out by optimization culture, or clear on your purpose but unable to move, this episode unpacks what’s happen...

Are your friendships or relationships feeling unaligned, unclear, or just plain confusing? Are you doing the work but still not experiencing the depth of connection you truly crave?

Right now, we’re in the midst of a collective relationship reckoning. In this potent episode, Jessica breaks down why manifesting love, intimacy, and deep friendship can feel harder than ever—and why it’s reflecting the exact parts of you that are ready to be healed.

If you're feeling romantically adrift, unseen, or wondering why your dream partner or soul-aligned friendships haven’t arrived yet, this episode...

What if the real reason you can’t hear your intuition is that there hasn’t been enough space to listen?

If your intuition feels quiet (or chaotic) you’re not alone. In this potent episode, Jessica welcomes back medium and spiritual teacher Taylor Paige for an expansive conversation on what it truly takes to connect with your intuitive gifts in our fast-paced, overstimulated world.

Together, they explore why nervous system regulation is the gateway to intuition and spiritual awakening, how “clearing the cobwebs” of mental noise is a non-negotiable step, and how healing the spirit wou...

Need a reminder of what’s possible, and that you’re in beautiful company doing this work? This episode is packed with expanders to inspire your path forward.

Expansion serves a very specific purpose: to rewire neural pathways, so that you can see what’s possible before your subconscious believes it’s possible for you. (It’s the very reason this podcast is called Expanded!) And expansion is everywhere: through friends, parents, peers, public figures, and even people you’ve never met. 

Today, we hear powerful manifestation stories from the Money Challenge and Return to Magic Challen...