The Michael Experience

My first relationship with a man taught me so many hard lessons. There are some I’d most definitely trade! However; the biggest betrayal isn’t necessarily about them but the betrayal of myself. Can you think of a time where you feel you let yourself down? How did you work through it?

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Star crossed lovers or something cynical! I’ve seen so many people fall madly in love or head over heels. However; that was never my affliction. I remember wondering about it but at this point I feel glad to have missed it. How was your early love experience? Did you fall madly in love?

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I met a guy early in my dating journey that evoked a different type of emotion from me. I went from being all strength, to feeling really vulnerable. Although it was awkward at first, it started me on a journey to understanding myself deeper. It was jarring but necessary! When was the first time you felt vulnerable? Was it safe?

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Learning doesn’t come easy for all. It sometimes takes others a bit longer to grasp new things than others. Growth is similar, in that it doesn’t happen at the same rate, regardless of age, place and time being the same. Not everyone understands the activity or action of growth and it must be learned. Only then can growth continue and through learning! It’s a 2 step program.

There was a point in time where I was at a dead end job and in a field that didn’t compliment me. It took a patient saying “Why Are You Here?” to begin the process of figuring out what I wanted to do. Her statement has stuck with me forever! If you’re trying to decide your path, I’d implore you to ask yourself the same question! Why Are You Here?

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The road to self identity is paved with Mistakes, Upsets and Heartache! Some of which, is self inflicted and misguided. The key I’ve found to minimizing the negative impact, is AUTHENTICITY! Being yourself will allow and create space for the things that are meant for you, to find you!

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One of the most important things about this journey, is learning what I like and don’t! I notice things are feeling different. I notice certain relationships no longer seem fulfilling. This prompts me to examine the toxicity in my life. I believe we all should!

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I always take issue with the assumption that everyone’s GAY is the same. I’ve lived my life on my terms and in my own definition. However; it hasn’t stopped people in and outside of the community from projecting. So here’s my journey, my story, my TRUTH!

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People will tell you to create goals. They will even insist that the goals reach the stars. No one tells you how to do this when you’re questioning who you are! Goal setting is the roadmap to your life, but what happens when you feel like your life is not yours? Have you ever felt out of place amongst friends or colleagues? Let’s talk about it! #imposter #impostersyndrome #selfhelp #goals #goalsetting

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We know we can be our worst critics but also enablers! Delusion and Deflection are at an all time high, making it easy to blame others, in an attempt to avoid responsibility. However; that doesn’t take absolve you. When was the last time you held yourself accountable? #selfhelp #selflove #selfdiscovery

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There are moments when we think of everything and everyone before ourselves! Although well intentioned, it does leave a void in our Self Wealth. Let’s unpack the reason I believe we do this and how to begin prioritizing self first. Question: When you wake up, what/who do you think about first?

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We can be so hard on ourselves, about ourselves! Fixating on truly unimportant characteristics, while ignoring the ones that matter most. It’s time we love everything about ourselves, even the things we believe someone else won’t like. More often than not, we create our own chaos surrounding who we are. When was the last time you judged yourself? Adversely, when was the last time you loved your way through it?

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After being single nearly 3yrs, I’ve decided to call it quits! I’ve met some amazing and not so amazing people across my journey but none of them seemed to truly be ready FOR ME. I’m not dating for now, I’m dating to find my husband! #dating #love #2026 #relationships

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Dating in general is subject to preferences, which we all have. However; these often blend into prejudices that become hyper focused and in many ways weaponized. Where is the line between just stating what you like and berating what you don’t? Have you been accused of shaming on either end?#preferences #lgbtq #pronouns #dating

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There’s often this idea that you’ll find the “PERFECT” person and they’ll just have and know everything you need! Unfortunately this isn’t true. The right or perfect person is the one you decide to grow and create love with. It’s a series of experiences, that cause you to do things you never thought possible, while expanding your mindset. Are you ready to create your PERFECTION?

I believe that there are people who are meant to walk with you on your journey, for a predestined purpose. It is no mistake that the people I mentioned in this episode, came into my life to show me what they did. Can you recall meeting the right person at the right time?

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Desperation can take you out of your character! The pursuit of love and companionship can create a rose colored glasses effect or love laced feeling. It’s important to realize reality in the moment and not get swept away. Have you ever been caught up?

Maturity seems to be the one attribute that eludes time! Why is it that we stay mentally and emotionally stagnant, when experience is ongoing? What does perception do to those who feel their beauty is limitless? Let’s talk about the dating shelf life and how the goal post seems to keep moving.

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Have you ever moved on before you were truly ready to? Did you push forward or take time? I’ve found that many people attempt to move forward, leaving a trail of broken hearts and spirits along the way. Let’s try untying the emotional knots!

To understand where YOU ARE! You must ACKNOWLEDGE where YOU’VE BEEN! So much of how we connect and interact, is informed through childhood. As we get older it doesn’t always mean growth. Just more time using what we knew. Growth in your Emotional and Mental capacity requires work. When was the last time you took an inventory of your progress? More importantly, how are you showing up? #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #gay #men #lgbtq #relationships #gaydating

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We are all the sum of our life’s experiences! Many of which are formed in childhood. From the ways we Connect, Love and Manage Emotions… or Not! It’s a delicate yet intricate process of challenging what you know and understanding what you need to. Is your Emotional and Mental in check? #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #gay #lgbtq #love #relationships #mentalhealth

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Truth can be a key to a universal lock! Once you’re honest with yourself, about yourself; you can then expect and respect it from others. Rejection is a part of this! You’re going to be on the giving and receiving end at some point. How comfortable are you in both?

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The Dating Formula is INTENTION + ACTION= WORK! You have to be ready to put in the work to cultivate and curate the relationship you want. Readiness isn’t solely about a checklist. It’s a mindset, mixed with forward motion.

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Dating after I’d been in love changed. I no longer could accept or engage in certain things. Let’s talk! What’s the current dating landscape and What’s the problem? #dating #lgbt #gay #datingadvice #gaydating

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