This is Life

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By: Borghild Bø

This Is Life—an introspective podcast about breaking free, one step at a time. Hosted by Borghild Bø, clinical psychologist, author, and lifelong adventurer. This show blends psychology, mindfulness, and the wisdom of nature to help you strengthen awareness and navigate change with calm, clarity, and confidence. If you’re moving through overwhelm, burnout, grief, or a major transition, you’ll find insightful and practical guidance you can apply in everyday life. Drawing on 35+ years of clinical experience and years of adventure, Borghild’s three-step self-awareness approach, Connect • Focus • Flow™ offers a practical rhythm for returning to yourself and finding freedom one ste...

Finding Rhythm. Holding Boundaries
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Yesterday at 12:12 PM

At 3,700 metres in Mustang, Nepal, I begin settling into the rhythm of daily life in a remote Himalayan gompa where altitude, silence, and simplicity invite a different kind of listening.

Up here, rhythm is not organised by the clock. It's shaped by light, cold, warmth, food, silence, rest, and the quiet intelligence of the body. But even in a place this spacious and still, rhythm gets tested by discomfort, old patterns and other people’s expectations. And yes… by very determined mice.

In this episode, I reflect on what it means to listen to the body...


Christmas Day at the Temple of Liberation
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02/23/2026

Christmas Day in a remote, high-altitude gompa in Mustang, Nepal and also Borghild’s birthday. A day that begins with a literal crash (a cat falling through the roof), and unfolds into something quieter: a walk to Muktinath Temple, a return to mountain rhythm, and a reflection on what happens when we stop needing life to feel “special”… and let it be what it is.

In this episode we explore

A cat falls through the roof, turning “Christmas Day expectations” into dust, debris, and laughter.

The altitude rhythm at 3,700 metres: everything reduces to t...


The Next Step Into Solitude: Christmas Eve at 3700 metres
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02/09/2026

A set of keys in Kathmandu. A simple invitation. And suddenly, the next step arranges itself.

In this first episode of The Himalayan Diary, I share how I arrived at a remote gompa in Mustang, Nepal and the sequence of small, clear steps that carried me there: from Kathmandu, to Pokhara, to an unplanned day that brought clarity, and then a remarkably smooth journey north into the Himalayas; arriving on Christmas Eve, alone, at around 3,700 metres.

This series is recorded from my solo retreat at Rinpoche’s gompa: a shift in pace, rhythm, and attention; an...


A Spark to Move: Returning to Rhythm in Kathmandu
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01/26/2026

After weeks of high-altitude simplicity on the Manaslu Circuit, Borghild returns to Kathmandu and feels the city rhythm rush back in. She calls it everyday altitude: not thin air, but the invisible pressure of noise, decisions, and constant input that can keep the nervous system switched on.

Through steady kora walks in Boudha and trail runs up Pulchowki and Shivapuri, this poetic, yet practical episode explores

how the body’s subtle signals can guide the the way forward: when to rest, when to move, and how to protect the fragile spark of what’s ne...


Everyday Altitude: Your Genius Body
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01/12/2026

After the Manaslu Circuit Trek, I return to Kathmandu and life feels both familiar and strange. There’s relief… and there’s also the shift from mountain rhythm to modern pace.

In this episode, I explore what I call Everyday Altitude, not as thin air, but as constant input and pressure that can leave the nervous system “on call” without us noticing.

I share a mountains lesson about the body’s intelligence, the Genius Body, and how we can trust it in the city too. I’ll guide you through one practical tool I call: One si...


Manaslu Curcuit (Part 2): Trusting the Body at Altitude
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12/31/2025

Welcome back to the trail.

In this second part of the Manaslu Circuit trek in the Himalays of Nepal, we move into higher altitude, deeper simplicity and wisdom, where the body takes the lead and the mountains make everything basic: warmth, breath, water, food, and rest.

We continue from Samagaun to Samdo, up to Dharamsala, across Larkya La Pass (5,106m), and down to Bhimtang and finally the last descent to Tilije and Dharapani, before the jeep ride to Besisahar and the long bus ride back to Kathmandu.

In the first part of the...


Manaslu Curcuit (Part 1): Boundaries & Belonging (Extended Episode)
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12/18/2025

This extended episode (just over 60 minutes) takes you deep into the mountains of Nepal on the Manaslu Circuit Trek, through steep ridges, river gorges, Tibetan villages, and toward a turquoise glacier lake.

This is part one of a two-part series. Along the way, we explore two powerful themes: boundaries and belonging. Not as abstract concepts, but as real, embodied experiences.

From the jeep ride out of Kathmandu to long days on foot, the trek reveals where our boundaries lie: physically, mentally, and emotionally. And how belonging can appear in small, unexpected ways: in a guide’s...


Trusting the In-Bewteen: Navigating Uncertainty One Step at a Time
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12/01/2025

After we make a decision, or feel a chapter ending, there’s often a strange, wobbly space that opens up: the in-between. In this episode, I share why that feeling is normal, why uncertainty can feel overwhelming, and how to meet it without spiraling.

I’ll guide you through my simple self-awareness rhythm: Connect • Focus • Flow™ to help you come back to calm, clarity, and trust when doubt, fear, or guilt show up. Along the way, I weave in short stories from my life (Australia, Hawaii, Bergen—and my dad) to show how intuition often speaks in ordinary, gr...


Answering the Call: Guilt, Fear & Self-Doubt
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11/24/2025

When we realise something has to change, guilt, fear, and self-doubt often show up. In this episode I share how I work with those reactions on the Camino and in everyday life. This is a simple self-awareness rhythm, I use with clients and myself called, Connect • Focus • Flow™.

You’ll leave with practical journaling prompts and one doable next step.

Key takeaways

Why change can stall even after the first yes.

The difference between caring for others and complying with an old role.

How fear, doubt, and guilt try to keep things familiar and what actually helps.

A quick reality check that...


Breaking Free: The Beginning of the Journey
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11/10/2025

Feeling stuck, like something needs to change, but the path isn’t clear yet?

Today, Borghild invites you into the heart of breaking free. Not as running away, but as walking toward what’s real, one step at a time. You’ll hear how small steps from the Camino to the Himalayas, became a practical rhythm for everyday life.

We talk about...

The moment of choice when everything in you says move and the mind answers, but I don’t know how.

What breaking free really means beyond j...


Begin Where You are: Start Here
11/07/2025

Welcome to This Is Life: An introspective podcast about breaking free one step at a time. This short introduction shares why I created the show, who it’s for, and what to expect.

I blend psychology, reflection and lived adventure to help you meet life's turning points with more clarity, confidence and trust.

Next: Listen to Episode 1 — Breaking Free: The Beginning of the Journey.

Website: https://borghildbo.com

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Note: This podcast is for education and personal growth; it is not therapy or a subs...