The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.
I Don't Like the People My Spouse Is Following on Social Media // Hump Day Q&A
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When Joy and Sorrow Collide
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we’re opening up about a topic that touches so many hearts—dealing with grief during the holidays. Christmas can bring a mix of joy and sorrow, and we’re talking about how to honor those feelings while leaning on your marriage for support. From navigating your unique grieving processes to creating new traditions that bring healing, we’ll share personal stories and practical tips to help you stay connected and find hope this season.
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Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Grief Duri...
Addressing boredom in marriage // Hump Day Q&A
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Why Marriage Matters: Building Love That Lasts
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into why marriage is more than just a relationship—it’s a reflection of love, trust, and unity. We’ll talk about the real benefits of a committed marriage, from building deeper intimacy to creating a strong foundation for family. We also tackle common struggles like anxiety in relationships and how to keep your connection thriving, even in tough times. Whether you’re navigating challenges or looking to strengthen your bond, this episode is packed with practical advice and heartfelt encouragement.
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Why Don't You Talk About Mutual Orgasm? // Humpday Q&A
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10 Truths to Strengthen Intimacy in Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into the second part of our conversation about the ten things sex is not in marriage. We’ll unpack why guilt should never be the driving force in intimacy, how to navigate tricky in-law dynamics without letting them impact your connection, and why open communication about your needs and desires is the real key to satisfaction. Marriage is about more than just physical intimacy—it’s about building a bond that’s honest, loving, and life-giving. Join us as we explore what it means to prioritiz...
5 Myths About Married Sex That Might Surprise You
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re diving into a conversation about what married sex isn’t—and we promise it’s a game-changer. We’ll unpack five truths about intimacy, from why sex should never feel forced or used as a bargaining chip, to tackling the discomfort or dread that can sometimes sneak into the bedroom. We’re keeping it real with a Q&A on navigating different sex drives in marriage, giving you practical advice to create a more open, honest, and connected intimate life. Let’s grow stronger together!
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<...balancing family time and intimacy // Hump Day Q&A
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The Danger of Secrets and Neglect in Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re wrapping up our series on toxic behaviors in marriage by diving into the damage that secrets and neglect can cause. We share how open communication and choosing to prioritize your spouse every day are the real game-changers for a thriving relationship. Plus, we tackle a heartfelt listener question about dealing with a self-absorbed partner, offering honest advice on creating a healthy dynamic where both spouses feel valued. This one’s all about getting real, reconnecting, and making your marriage stronger than ever!
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Coping with Emotional Exhaustion // Hump Day Q&A
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Healing Toxic Patterns in Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving deep into some tough but necessary topics that can impact any marriage. We’re talking about toxic behaviors—like swearing and physical abuse—that can creep into relationships, even when love is strong. We’ll unpack how verbal abuse can leave invisible scars and why creating a safe, nurturing space is essential for both of you to thrive. We also share a powerful story of transformation, showing that healing is always possible. Plus, we tackle a listener’s question about how erotic literature affects intimacy, underscori...
Living with Unresolved Resentment // Hump Day Q&A
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The Power of Words, Boundaries, and Respect
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re getting real about the power of words in marriage and how negative conversations can sneak in and hurt our connection. We dive into what it means to truly guard our words with kindness and respect, fostering positive communication that builds up instead of tearing down. We’ll also share some personal stories about handling family dynamics, setting healthy boundaries, and addressing those tough intimacy hurdles we all face. Join us as we unpack these insights with biblical wisdom and a lot of honesty—because building a stro...
How can we reconcile different love languages?
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A Guide to Deepening Your Most Important Relationship
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving into why a second honeymoon can be a game-changer for your relationship. From our personal experiences and stories (yes, we've had some unforgettable ones!), we’re sharing practical ways to carve out time for each other amid the busyness of parenting and everyday demands. It’s all about building trust, setting healthy boundaries, and creating space to reconnect. Join us as we explore why prioritizing each other doesn’t just benefit your marriage but refreshes every part of your life together. So, grab your earbuds, get com...
My Spouse Is in a Mid-Life Crisis // Hump Day Q&A
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Why We Hurt the Ones We Love—and How to Fix It
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we’re tackling one of the biggest relationship killers: contempt. We talk about how constant criticism and negativity can slowly erode the foundation of your marriage, creating resentment and emotional distance. But don’t worry—we’re also sharing some powerful ways to recognize and stop this cycle, with practical advice and faith-based tools to help you build a stronger, more loving connection. If you’ve ever felt like criticism is taking over, this episode is for you!
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Chapters
00:00 Un...
Am I Enough For my Spouse // Humpday Q&A
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Building Your Own Love Story, Not Someone Else’s
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In today’s episode, we’re diving into the myth that all great marriages look the same. It’s easy to get caught up in unrealistic expectations from social media or TV, but every couple’s journey is different. We talk about how important it is to celebrate those differences, communicate openly, and create your own unique love story. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of a blended family or just wanting to feel more connected, this episode is all about finding your own path and embracing the real beaut...
I'm Struggling With My Faith and It's Hurting My Mariage // Hump Day Q&A
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Building Trust and Protecting Your Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis!** Today, we're talking about one of the toughest challenges any couple can face—infidelity. We're diving into the different ways betrayal can show up in marriage, the heart-wrenching journey of rebuilding trust, and how open communication is key to healing. We’ll also tackle the tough topic of pornography and how it can impact trust in a marriage. If you or someone you know is struggling with this, you’re not alone, and today we’ll share practical steps to safeguard your marriage and find hope again.
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My Spouse Feels Emotionally Distant // Hump Day Q&A
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Thriving in Marriage by Embracing Your Differences
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive into the idea that you and your spouse don’t have to share every single interest to have a thriving marriage. We talk about how embracing your differences, while still finding common ground, can actually make your relationship stronger. It’s all about supporting each other's passions and learning to connect in ways that honor who you both are. We share our own stories and practical tips on managing different energy levels, introversion vs. extroversion, and creating conversations that bring you closer.
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How to Handle People Trying to Manipulate Our Marriage// Hump Day Q&A
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Spotting and Addressing Red Flags Together
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving into the tough but important topic of red flags in marriage—those moments when our values start to drift apart without us even realizing it. Whether it's changes in health, faith, or even political views, these shifts can create real tension between us as a couple. We talk about how to recognize those moments early, keep the lines of communication open, and make sure that our commitment to each other always comes first, no matter what life throws our way.
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Our Trauma Is Showing Up In Our Marriage // Hump Day Q&A
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Marriage After Addiction: Take Back Your Life Together
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In today’s episode, we’re sitting down with Eric and Kristin Kennedy to dive deep into their incredible journey through recovery and how addiction has shaped their relationship. They opened up about their love story—the highs, the lows, and everything in between—and how they’ve learned to stand by each other with respect and support through the toughest times. We also get a peek into Eric’s new book, *Marriage After Addiction*, which is all about helping couples who are facing addiction find hope and healing. Thi...
I've Lost Myself in our Marriage // Hump Day Q&A
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Marriage Isn’t a Fix
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In today’s episode, we dive into the common misconception that marriage can magically fix all our problems. We get real about how, instead of being a quick fix, marriage often shines a light on our personal struggles and amplifies both the highs and the lows. We share some personal stories and chat about the power of grace, patience, and embracing each other's differences. We also touch on the importance of setting realistic expectations and steering clear of the comparison trap—because every marriage has its unique journey, and...
We're Struggling to Connect, Help! // Hump Day Q&A
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Our Guide to Talking (and Really Hearing) Each Other
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! Today, we’re getting real about the importance of communication in marriage. We’re sharing some of our own struggles and how those tough moments impacted our relationship. Honestly, it wasn’t always easy, and sometimes, we needed professional help to get back on track. We’ll talk about practical steps like making eye contact, starting conversations gently, and really listening to each other—plus why it’s so important to assume the best in your partner. We hope this chat encourages you to keep those lines of communication...
Bonus:A Second Chance at Love: Trusting God with Anthony & Shannen
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this heartfelt episode, Anthony Braswell and Shannen Fields-Braswell share their incredible journey of finding love again after losing their spouses. They open up about the power of putting Jesus first, the importance of honest communication, and how laughter keeps their marriage strong. Together, they inspire us to trust God's plan, embrace joy, and build a legacy of love. If you're navigating tough times or loss in your marriage, this conversation will bring you hope and encouragement.
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How do I get past the broken promises in our marriage // Hump Day Q&A
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Tackling Tough Topics for Stronger Intimacy
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into the heart of marital intimacy, exploring how emotional connection lays the foundation for a thriving sex life. Dave and Ashley get real about the challenges couples face, from navigating dry seasons to understanding lopsided sex drives, and even the impact of a hysterectomy. With candid stories and practical tips, they guide you on fostering open, honest conversations and prioritizing each other's needs, ensuring your marriage stays strong and connected.
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How can we Rebuild Intimacy and Trust in our Marriage? // Hump Day Q&A
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Dreaming Again: Finding Hope and Healing from Burnout
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we dive deep into the realities of burnout—something we all face at times. We share personal insights on how to care for yourself, lean on your faith, and dream together as a couple. You’ll walk away feeling inspired to trust in God and stay strong in your relationship, knowing you’re not alone in this journey. Don’t miss out on our heartfelt conversation and the uplifting reminders that will keep you connected and ready for what’s next!
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Strengthening Your Marriage Through Honest Conversations
Welcome back to The Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we continue our heartfelt conversation on burnout. We'll dive into how to recognize and prevent burnout while keeping your marriage strong. We share practical advice on how to openly communicate with your spouse about what’s weighing you down and why involving each other in the journey is crucial. we also break down the three Cs that contribute to burnout—what you consume, what's on your calendar, and who’s in your community—and offer personal tips on how to manage these areas and set heal...
I Love My Husband and Sex, but I'm Grossed Out by Semen // Hump Day Q&A
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Burnout, Boundaries, and Balance in Marriage
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis! In this episode, we'll open up about burnout in marriage and life. we share our personal experiences, offering insights on how to recognize and tackle burnout. Discover practical tips on finding rest, setting healthy boundaries, and understanding the link between burnout and depression. Join us for an honest conversation about self-reflection and the importance of communication in overcoming burnout.
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Navigating In-Law Relationships in Interracial Marriages
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis, this is a special bonus episode! Today we will chat with Eric and Chanel Penn about their journey navigating in-law relationships and interracial marriage. Eric and Chanel open up about the challenges they faced, sharing their personal experiences of love, forgiveness, and grace in building healthy family dynamics. Despite rejection and hurtful comments, they chose to embrace difficult conversations and extend love and understanding. Their story beautifully showcases the power of healing, redemption, and the transformative nature of love.
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