Outsmart Burnout: Midlife Wellness for Women with Dr. Zarya Rubin
Welcome to Outsmart Burnout, the ultimate podcast for smart, driven women in midlife who are ready to reclaim their passion, purpose, and joy. Hosted by Dr. Zarya Rubin—a Harvard-educated functional medicine physician, burnout coach, TEDx speaker and mom. This show is inspired by my personal journey of struggling with and overcoming burnout; I know firsthand how overwhelming life can feel when you’re exhausted, stressed out and trying to do it all; I’m here to share the insights, tools, and strategies that will help you reclaim your calm and discover what makes you truly thrive. Whether you're a mom, an...
What Your Energy Type Reveals About You with Dr. Stacy Cisneros
Keywords
burnout, medicine, loss, resilience, personal growth, career change, mental health, human design, infinity healing, money mindset, affirmations
Summary
In this conversation, Dr. Stacy Cisneros shares her journey through burnout as a surgical resident, detailing the physical and emotional toll it took on her. She reflects on the loss of her father and the subsequent changes in her career path, emphasizing the importance of taking time to mourn and reassess her values. The discussion highlights the challenges of navigating personal loss while pursuing a demanding career in medicine...
How to Be An Empathic Leader with Dr. Melissa Robinson-Winemiller
Keywords
empathy, leadership, emotional intelligence, burnout, self-empathy, compassion, workplace culture, productivity, connection
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How to Stop Yelling at Your Kids - Exploring the CALM Framework with Dr. Juhi Raizada
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parenting, burnout, calm parenting, connection, self-care, parenting coach, emotional intelligence, generational patterns, teen communication, parental support
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In this episode of the Outsmart Burnout podcast, Dr. Juhi Raizada shares her journey from being a pediatrician to a parenting coach, emphasizing the importance of calm, confident, and connected parenting. She discusses the challenges of modern parenting, including the prevalence of yelling and other signs of parental burnout. Dr. Juhi offers practical strategies for building connections with children, especially teens, and highlights the significance of self-care through 'micro vacations'. The conversation also touches...
Why Breathwork Might be the Key to Calming Your Nervous System - with Holly Denton
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In this episode of the Outsmart Burnout Podcast, Dr. Zarya Rubin speaks with Holly Denton, a trauma-informed breathwork facilitator, about the transformative power of breath for healing and personal growth. Holly shares her journey from social work to breathwork, highlighting the importance of addressing personal challenges and deep, unhealed emotions. The conversation delves into the connection between breath, the nervous system, and emotional wellness, offering practical breathing techniques for listeners to incorporate into their daily lives. Holly emphasizes the significance of self-awareness and the role of breathwork in overcoming burnout and reconnecting with one's true...
"How Burnout Almost Killed Me" - How to Break The Addiction to Overachievement with Carmen Paredes
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In this episode of Outsmart Burnout, Carmen Paredes shares her profound insights on leadership, resilience, and her own harrowing journey through burnout. She discusses how burnout landed her in emergency surgery, the science behind achievement addiction, and the importance of self-awareness and emotional intelligence in leadership. Carmen introduces her CARES framework, emphasizing Compassion, Authenticity, Resources, Empowerment, and Support as essential elements for leaders to help their teams avoid burnout. The conversation highlights the unique challenges faced by high-achieving women and...
Unpacking The Perfect Mother Myth - Burnout in Motherhood with Emma Morris
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In this episode of Outsmart Burnout, Zarya Rubin, MD, speaks with Emma Morris, a clinical nutritionist and expert in modern motherhood. They explore the challenges of motherhood, the phenomenon of burnout, and the importance of holistic health approaches. Emma shares her journey into motherhood and nutrition, discusses the signs and symptoms of burnout, and emphasizes the need for self-care and support. The conversation also delves into cultural pressures, the perfect mother myth, and the intensive mothering ideology, highlighting the importance of understanding these societal expectations to combat burnout and promote maternal well-being.
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Break Free from Toxic Productivity - How Society Conspires to Steal Our Joy with Tamu Thomas
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In this enlightening episode of Outsmart Burnout, Dr. Zarya Rubin speaks with Tamu Thomas, a transformational coach, speaker and author, about the pervasive issues of burnout and toxic productivity, particularly among women. Tamu shares her personal journey from social work to coaching, highlighting the systemic nature of burnout and the cultural pressures that tie women's worth to productivity. They discuss the importance of joy, connection, and community in combating burnout, as well as the need for systemic change to address the underlying issues of capitalism, patriarchy, and white supremacy. Tamu offers practical steps for listeners to...
The Hidden Causes of Fatigue and How to Overcome Them with Dr. Sarah Vadeboncoeur
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In this episode of Outsmart Burnout, Dr. Zarya Rubin welcomes Dr. Sarah Vadeboncoeur, a naturopathic physician and creator of the Fatigue Blueprint. They discuss the real drivers of fatigue, including nutritional deficiencies, hormonal fluctuations, and chronic stress, and provide a personalized roadmap to reclaim energy and vitality. The conversation also delves into perimenopause, its effects on energy levels, and the importance of understanding burnout beyond just physical exhaustion.
Takeaways
Fatigue often stems from nutritional deficiencies and hormonal imbalances.Chronic stress and burnout are major contributors to fatigue.A holistic a...The True Definition of "Success": Finding Your Career Alignment with Carolyn Lai Moore
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In this episode, Zarya Rubin, MD, speaks with Carolyn Lai Moore, a career coach specializing in helping women professionals navigate burnout and career alignment. They discuss the misconceptions surrounding career choices, the impact of technology and social media on work-life balance, and the cultural narratives that shape women's perceptions of success. Carolyn shares her personal journey of burnout and the importance of recognizing red flags in career satisfaction. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-reflection and the development of a personalized definition of success that aligns with one's values and aspirations.
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Motherhood Reimagined - How to Reclaim Your Days without Losing Yourself with Sally Bisbee
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Have you ever felt like motherhood has just swallowed you whole? Like you're living in Groundhog Day of neverending laundry and tasks that don't fuel your soul? In this episode, I chat with Sally Bisbee, a certified life coach and entrepreneur, who shares her journey of simplifying motherhood and reclaiming her time and energy. Sally discusses her personal experiences with overwhelm as a mom and how she developed the "Simplify Method" to help other mothers prioritize self-care and create sustainable routines. The conversation emphasizes the importance of recognizing the mental load that mothers carry and offers...
From Flair Bartender to Brand Strategist - Why Authenticity is the Secret to Success with Ati Grinspun
If you like RAW realness (with a hefty dose of F-bombs!!!), then this is the episode for you!
I sit down with the powerhouse Ati Grinspun, a personal brand strategist, who shares her transformative journey from immigrating from Argentina, being a flair bartender to becoming a sought-after branding expert, author and successful entrepreneur. Ati discusses the challenges of burnout, the importance of authenticity in branding, and how to navigate the complexities of imposter syndrome. She emphasizes the need for women entrepreneurs to create content that energizes rather than drains them, and highlights the significance of community and...
Body-First Healing: How Somatic Therapy Can Help Heal Trauma with Brittany Piper
This is an episode you don't want to miss - trust me...
In this episode of the Outsmart Burnout Podcast, Dr. Zarya Rubin and trauma healer Brittany Piper delve into the complexities of trauma, its impact on the nervous system, and the journey towards healing. They discuss the definitions and misconceptions surrounding trauma, the effects of childhood experiences, and the importance of recognizing triggers and glimmers in our daily lives. The conversation highlights the significance of understanding the nervous system's role in emotional regulation and the signs of dysregulation. They explore the connection between trauma and burnout...
Season Finale: Burnout, Boundaries, The Mental Load and More - Takeaways & Hot Takes
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In this finale episode of Outsmart Burnout, Dr. Zarya Rubin reflects on the key themes and insights from the season, focusing on the personal journey of overcoming burnout, the importance of setting boundaries, the mental load of motherhood, and various strategies for healing and self-care. Each episode highlighted different aspects of burnout, from functional nutrition to the challenges faced by women entrepreneurs, culminating in a powerful message about reconnecting with one's purpose and the necessity of self-compassion.
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Burnout is not just about doing too much; it's about being...How to Discover your Dharma and Find Purpose in Midlife with Katie Farinas
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In this episode of the Outsmart Burnout Podcast, Dr. Zarya Rubin, MD, speaks with Katie Farinas, a former nurse, yogi and dharma (soul) coach, about navigating the complexities of midlife with compassion and purpose. They discuss the evolution of Katie's journey from her podcast 'Mom on the Verge' to the 'Midlife Purpose Project', emphasizing the importance of shedding old layers and reconnecting with one's true self. The conversation delves into the significance of nervous system regulation, identifying limiting beliefs, and practical strategies for inner connection. They explore how to find flow in everyday life and the...
How to Tame the Clutter Chaos and Organize like a Boss with Madeline Candeaux
In this conversation, I get raw and real about my struggles with clutter and mess and how it can really contribute to overwhelm and burnout!
I sit down with personal organizer Madeline Candeaux to explore the intricacies of organization and decluttering. We discuss the emotional connections to clutter, the importance of maintenance, and the sustainable habits that can help individuals manage their spaces effectively. The conversation also touches on the challenges of decision fatigue, family dynamics, and the role of personal organizers in providing support. Practical tips for decluttering and creating a more organized environment are shared...
The Hidden Cost of People Pleasing : Why High-Achieving Women Burn Out with Kelly Kessler
In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Kelly Kessler shares her journey from being a physical therapist to a transformational coach, focusing on the importance of nervous system healing and subconscious reprogramming. She discusses the impact of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and external validation on women's mental health, emphasizing the need for self-awareness and internal validation.
The discussion also covers the signs of disconnection from oneself, the role of the subconscious mind in shaping beliefs, and practical steps for nervous system regulation and personal transformation. Dr. Kessler encourages women to take small, manageable steps towards change, highlighting that healing is a j...
How to Recognize Signs of Burnout in Women Entrepreneurs with Kim Walsh
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In this episode of Outsmart Burnout, Dr. Zarya Rubin speaks with Kim Walsh, founder of Warrior Forward, about the challenges high-achieving women face with burnout. We discuss the societal pressures that contribute to burnout, the importance of reframing time and balance, and the role of somatic healing in recovery. Kim shares practical tools for recognizing burnout, the significance of mindset, skillset, and toolset for sustainable success, and emphasizes the need for women to take control of their lives and redefine success on their own terms.
Takeaways
Burnout is epidemic among high-achieving women.Societal...Healing Trauma and Anxiety through Havening: Discovering The HUG It Out Method with Hilary Russo
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In this episode, Dr. Zarya Rubin and Hilary Russo explore the intersection of holistic health, trauma recovery, and emotional resilience. Hilary shares her journey from a successful media career to becoming a Certified Havening Techniques Practitioner and Trainer, emphasizing the importance of self-care and the power of touch. We discuss the neuroscience behind trauma, the role of the amygdala, and practical "Self-Havening" techniques for managing daily stress. Hilary introduces us to her signature "Hug It Out" method, which combines Humor, Understanding, and Gratitude to foster emotional well-being. The conversation also addresses common misconceptions about holistic health...
Are You Living on Autopilot? How to Design A Life You Love (Without the Guilt!) with Mari Wuellner
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In this episode, Dr. Zarya Rubin and Life Coach Mari Wuellner discuss the importance of living intentionally and breaking free from autopilot mode. We explore the concept of burnout as a wake-up call, the evolution of success, and the pervasive issue of "Mom Guilt." The conversation emphasizes the need for self-care, awareness, and the importance of defining personal values and goals in motherhood and life. Mari shares her journey from burnout to purposeful living, encouraging listeners to take small steps towards a more fulfilling life.
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"Eldest Daughter Syndrome": Perfectionism, The Patriarchy and Caring for Everyone But Ourselves with Ayleen Rabin
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In this conversation, Dr. Zarya Rubin and Aleen Raybin explore the challenges faced by high-achieving women, particularly those who are eldest daughters, in navigating burnout, perfectionism, and societal expectations. Aline shares her personal journey of unlearning caretaking behaviors and the impact of generational conditioning. They discuss the role of patriarchy in shaping women's experiences and the importance of finding personal validation and setting boundaries to combat burnout. In this conversation, Aleen and Dr. Zarya Rubin explore the complexities of self-care, boundaries, and the importance of honesty in personal growth. They discuss the challenges women face in...
Unlocking Burnout Recovery through Functional Nutrition and Human Design with Hope Pedraza
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In this episode, Dr. Zarya Rubin and Hope Pedraza delve into the complexities of burnout, functional nutrition, and the importance of understanding one's unique health journey. Hope shares her personal experiences with health challenges and how they shaped her approach to nutrition and wellness. The conversation emphasizes the significance of bio-individuality in nutrition, the impact of stress on women's health, and the signs of burnout. They discuss practical strategies for healing, including nutritional habits, hydration, and the role of human design in understanding personal energy dynamics. The episode concludes with insights on thriving after burnout and...
Why Did I Start A Podcast About Burnout?
Welcome to The Outsmart Burnout Podcast!
I'm your host, Dr. Zarya Rubin - a Harvard-educated physician, TEDx speaker, and burnout expert. This show is for women in midlife who are tired of being tired and want to break free from burnout to reclaim their passion, purpose and JOY!
Each week, I will interview an expert guest on topics that relate to preventing or healing from burnout. We will get raw and real about the mental load of motherhood, how to set better boundaries without guilt, why trauma lives in the body and how to create...
How to Set Boundaries without Feeling Guilty with Molly Ruben
Have you ever tried to say no but felt guilty, so said yes instead? Have you ever felt that tightness in your chest when people said or did something that didn't feel right, but you stayed quiet? Do people always refer to you as "so nice" but inside you might feel like a ball of fury? You might need to work on creating better boundaries...
Today's guest is on a mission to help smart, sensitive women stop playing small, start speaking up, and step into the most confident, authentic version of themselves. Molly Ruben, and no, I...
The Mental Load of Motherhood with Paige Connell
Are you a mom on the verge of a breakdown, always keeping track of every. single. detail of your kid's lives as well as juggling your own responsibilities? Doctor's appointments, school forms, field trips, making lunches, dinners, groceries, The Mental Load of Motherhood is a never-ending to-do list...
In this episode of Outsmart Burnout, Dr. Zarya Rubin speaks with Paige Connell (@sheisapaigeturner), a prominent voice in the motherhood space, about the challenges of motherhood, emotional labor, and the mental load that often leads to burnout. Paige shares her journey of becoming a social media sensation by discussing...