Life Is Hard Podcast
A psychology podcast that breaks the mold. Join Dr. Nicole King and Dr. Jaclyn Gordon for a show that goes beyond the usual self-help advice. Each episode is inspired by real questions from listeners and answered with the thoughtful, in-session feel of a real therapy conversation—just like you're in the room with us.*DISCLAIMER: THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.*
*BONUS EPISODE* DBT Role Play- Part 2
Welcome to another bonus role-play episode! This episode portrays a role-play of a therapist improperly/ineffectively using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) with a distressed patient. In this role-play, Dr. Nicole attempts to portray a therapist who is NOT effectively using DBT to treat her patient (Dr. Jackie). After the role-play, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie debrief some of the ineffective techniques used in the role-play and why they might not be so helpful.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
*BONUS EPISODE* DBT Role Play- Part 1
Welcome to our first role-play episode! This episode portrays a role-play of a therapist using Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) with a distressed patient. In this role-play, Dr. Nicole attempts to effectively use DBT to treat her patient (Dr. Jackie). Before and after the role-play, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie discuss what DBT treatment is typically used for and debrief some of the effective techniques used in the role-play.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
OCD Is Hard
In this week's episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie break down what it actually means to struggle with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD). They bust myths and stigmas surrounding OCD, define each component of OCD, and discuss treatment options for OCD.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
ADHD is Hard- Part 2
Welcome back to our ADHD two-part series! In today's episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie discuss some skills and strategies you can try if you are struggling with symptoms of ADHD. They also give their thoughts on a controversial topic when it comes to ADHD-- medication.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
ADHD Is Hard- Part 1
Welcome to our two-part ADHD series! In part 1, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie discuss misconceptions and stigmas surrounding ADHD, what ADHD ACTUALLY is (an executive functioning dysfunction) and how it works in the brain, and what the evaluation process for getting a diagnosis of ADHD looks like. This episode will help you gain a greater understanding of ADHD and how ADHD manifests in children and adults.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Anxiety Is Hard
This week's episode is like an anxiety boot camp! Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie explore the whole spectrum of anxiety- from low levels to full blown panic- as well as where anxiety comes from, why we all have it, and what to do to decrease anxiety at every level of the spectrum. They explore multiple different skills and strategies to try the next time you are anxious, and they discuss exactly what they would tell their patients in the therapy room.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE F...
CBT is Hard
In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie talk all things CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy). They discuss what CBT is, different ways of applying CBT to treatment, specific techniques a CBT therapist would use, and they even do a live role-play of what a therapy session with a CBT therapist might look like.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Motivation Is Hard
Have you ever struggled to "get motivated" or "stay happy"? So have we- because both of those things, as we know them, are not real! In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie dive into the Motivation Myth and the Happiness Trap- two perspective shifts that can radically change the way you view your life and show up for yourself.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
First Sessions Are Hard
In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie dive into what a first session with a client or patient might look like as their therapist. They discuss general principles that should be part of all first sessions, and what to focus on in the first session regardless of the type of patient you are seeing for therapy.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Boundaries Are Hard
Do you have a hard time setting boundaries in your relationships? With family, friends, coworkers, or romantic partners? If so, this episode is for you. Setting boundaries is hard, and Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie explore some possible reasons why this might be difficult for you. They also discuss some specific skills and strategies you can use to practice setting boundaries in your life.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Dating Is Hard
Having a hard time finding the right person for you? You are not alone! Dating is hard, and we're here to help. In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie discuss why you might be having trouble obtaining or maintaining healthy, stable, secure relationships, and what to do to change that. From attachment styles to societal pressure to specific strategies you can practice, we cover it all!
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Becoming a Psychologist is Hard
Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie give an overview of the path to becoming a clinical psychologist. From undergrad to post-graduate school and everything in between, they explain the steps you need to take if you are thinking about becoming a psychotherapist.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Ruminating is Hard
Have you ever found yourself unable to stop thinking about something, no matter how hard you try to get rid of the thoughts? Ruminating and overthinking about a situation, and getting upset because of it? If so, this episode is for you! Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie dive in to a step by step explanation of one of the most helpful techniques for letting go of unwanted thoughts.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.
Acceptance is Hard
What is acceptance? How do I accept a reality that I do not want to be true? In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie explore the skill of radical acceptance-- an extremely useful and powerful tool to try when there is nothing you can do to change the reality of a situation you are in. If your partner breaks up with you, if your friend blocks your number, if your job fires you, or even if you are stuck in traffic---the most helpful thing you can do is practice acceptance.
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Intro Episode - Meet Your Hosts Dr. Nicole & Dr. Jackie!
Meet your hosts of the Life is Hard Podcast - Dr. Nicole King and Dr. Jaclyn Gordon! We are two licensed clinical psychologists working in New York City, with a passion for making psychotherapy accessible for all. We want this podcast to act as one of your weekly therapy sessions, and we want to hear from all of you. Every episode is going to be based on real life questions written in from our viewers about current challenges and struggles they are facing. We're so happy you're here!
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Breakups Are Hard (Romantic, Friendship, & Job Breakups)

In this episode, Dr. Nicole and Dr. Jackie dive into how to deal with all different types of breakups-- romantic, friendship, and losing your job. This episode walks you through how to effectively move through grief and loss, and offers specific skills and strategies to do so.
*DISCLAIMER* THIS PODCAST IS INTENDED FOR EDUCATIONAL AND ENTERTAINMENT PURPOSES ONLY. IT IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR PROFESSIONAL MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES.