All In Your Bizz w/ Reka & Los

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By: Los & Reka

Welcome to a bold, no-holds-barred couples podcast where we dive into life, love, and everything in between-uncensored and unfiltered. As a Generation X couple, we're bringing our real-life experiences, raw honesty, and sharp wit to the table as we explore serious issues, controversial opinions, and laugh-out-loud moments that matter. No topic is off limits-from relationships and social issues to pop culture and personal growth-we're getting all up in your business and saying what others won't. Our goal? To spark thought, share truths, and connect with listeners through honest, heartfelt, and hilarious conversation.Email Us:allinyourbizz25@gmail.comwww.youtube.com/@allinyourbizzshow

No Invite, No Problem: Understanding the Hidden Rules of Social Gatherings
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We tackle the age-old social dilemma of what it means when you don't receive an invitation to an event from someone you know. Our discussion explores the etiquette and emotional implications of being left off guest lists.

• Defining what constitutes an invitation - a written or verbal request to attend an event
• The practical reasons hosts limit guest lists - food, space, and controlling the event atmosphere
• Why some invitations specify "no plus ones" or other restrictions
• How to handle the feeling of being excluded when you discover you were...


When You Pack Everything But Money: Travel Tales and Troubles
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08/20/2025

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We dive into the fascinating world of vacation preparation and the unspoken dynamics of group travel, exploring everything from beauty appointments to financial realities.

• Pre-trip beauty regimens including hair braiding, nails, and lashes that leave travelers exhausted before departure
• The universal tendency to buy new clothes for trips despite destinations never having seen your old wardrobe
• Contrasting travel styles between those who want relaxation versus non-stop activities
• Hot air balloon experiences and other vacation adventures we wouldn't attempt at home
• The awkwardness of traveling with friends who don't brin...


Thin Lines: Where Opportunity Ends and Theft Begins
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08/13/2025

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Reka and Los debate the fine line between seizing opportunities and outright stealing, examining various scenarios from food banks to free samples that challenge our ethical boundaries.

• Taking from food banks when you don't need the resources is stealing
• Money flying from an overturned truck might be considered a "Won't He Do It" blessing rather than theft
• Getting full off Costco samples crosses the line into stealing, even with a paid membership
• Taking fallen plant pieces for propagation generates disagreement about whether it constitutes theft
• Keeping items mistakenly...


Back to School Madness
08/06/2025

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School is back in session, and with it comes all the expected shenanigans from students, teachers, parents, bus drivers, and staff as everyone readjusts to the academic routine.

• Bus drivers like Tony who disciplined students by making them sit with windows up in the Florida heat after misbehaving with substitute drivers
• Teachers need to dress professionally and appropriately instead of looking like they're headed to or from a club
• Parents should avoid showing up to school in bonnets, basketball shorts, or smelling like marijuana when dropping off children
• PTA poli...


When Blood and Business Mix: The Double-Edged Sword of Working with Family
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07/30/2025

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The delicate dance between family ties and business expectations takes center stage in this thought-provoking episode inspired by recent news about Tyler Perry's workplace confrontation with his aunt. We dive deep into the question: is working with family a blessing or a burden?

On one hand, offering employment to relatives provides valuable opportunities to help those closest to you succeed financially. There's also the benefit of surrounding yourself with people you trust and care about. But what happens when those family connections create complications in the professional realm?

We...


Foster Care: Dreams and Nightmares with special guess (Pierre C.)
07/24/2025

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What happens when a child enters the foster care system from birth? How does separation from siblings shape a person's life? And what lasting impact does the experience have on relationships and identity?

Pierre takes us on a deeply personal journey through the foster care system, sharing his experience of being in care from birth until his adoption at age five. With remarkable candor, he reveals the lifelong questions about identity that haunted him into adulthood: "Where do I get my looks from? Who are my parents? Who am I as...


Dirty Shoes and Empty Promises: Tales From the Unbelievable
07/23/2025

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Los and Rika explore those unbelievable moments that leave us saying "I know you lying" - from financial betrayals to social etiquette violations, wheelchair mysteries to church collection notices. We share real stories that will have you nodding in agreement and eager to share your own incredulous experiences.

• Shout-outs to listeners worldwide from Africa, Asia, Europe, and cities across the US 
• The audacity of people who borrow money then post vacation photos on social media
• Stories about chronic beggars who ask for increasingly ridiculous items 
• Party etiquette violations like bring...


Your face shouldn't smell like someone else's towel.
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07/16/2025

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Ever stepped out of a refreshing shower only to dry off with a towel that smells suspiciously... funky? You're not alone. 

We're tackling one of travel's most unspoken horrors: the dreaded sour hotel towel phenomenon. What starts as a pet peeve quickly spirals into a hilarious dissection of bathroom etiquette and questionable linen management. We share the mortifying experience of using someone's less-than-fresh towel, only to discover that the smell had transferred to our face and hair for days afterward. "I kept looking around and sniffing... and then I realized it w...


Good Times and Cosbyisms: Black Family Representation on TV
07/09/2025

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We dive into a heated debate about TV shows that shaped generations and the different ways Black families were represented on the small screen.

• Comparing "Good Times" with its depiction of struggle and togetherness to "The Cosby Show's" aspirational portrayal of Black success
• Discussing how James Evans from "Good Times" represented the reality of working multiple jobs while maintaining family unity
• Exploring why Claire Huxtable became an iconic character who balanced professional success with firm but loving parenting
• Analyzing the importance of seeing both struggle and success in media re...


All in Your Bizz: Observations from the Streets
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07/02/2025

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Have you ever pondered why a hamburger is made of beef, not ham? Or why rush hour traffic is the slowest part of the day? These are just some of the burning questions we tackle in this episode as we share our candid observations about the world around us.

Summer brings its own special brand of fashion dilemmas, and we don't hold back our opinions. From appropriate concert attire (where we witnessed everything from chaps with thongs to wedding dresses at the Beyoncé Cowboy Carter show) to questionable clothing choices at T...


What Makes Your Summer Complete? Sharing Our Essential Vibes
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06/25/2025

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Remember those iconic summer moments that defined our childhoods? That feeling when the DJ Jazzy Jeff and Fresh Prince "Summertime" track hit the speakers, and suddenly everything felt right with the world? Los and Enrika take you on a nostalgic journey through the quintessential experiences that make summer magical.

We dive into those childhood rituals that signaled summer had officially arrived – from the art of slapping watermelons to test for sweetness (which Enrika insists really works) to the excitement of hearing the ice cream truck's melody from blocks away. Remember those st...


The Parent Puzzle: Does Family Structure Determine Destiny?
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06/18/2025

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What truly shapes a child's future success? Is it growing up with two parents, or is there something more fundamental at play? In this thought-provoking discussion, we tackle the complex dynamics of single versus dual-parent households, challenging conventional wisdom with surprising insights.

Remember those idealized TV families from shows like "The Cosby Show" that made dual-parent households seem like the gold standard for raising well-adjusted children? We unpack this narrative alongside the contrasting portrayal of single-parent families in shows like "Good Times," examining how these media images shaped our expectations—and ho...


Bleach Until The Ancestors Say Stop: Confessions of a Dish Washing Perfectionist
06/18/2025

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Our deep-seated dishwashing preferences reveal more about us than we realize. We dive into the heated debate between hand washing dishes and using dishwashers, exploring everything from bleach usage to water conservation.

• Dawn dish soap and bleach are essential for proper hand washing
• The perfect dishwater requires extremely hot water and proper soap
• Dishwashers waste time because they require pre-washing anyway
• Finding food particles on "clean" dishes from dishwashers is infuriating
• Hand washing uses more water but provides more control over cleanliness
• Murky dishwater with floating food particl...


Workplace Shenanigans: From Bathroom Bandits to Microwave Meltdowns
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06/11/2025

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We unpack the hilariously cringey behaviors that make office life both entertaining and unbearable, from bathroom bandits to microwave criminals.

• That person who uses the same bathroom stall every morning with their identifiable shoes
• Office cougars who make inappropriate comments and invade personal space
• Coworkers with chronic bad breath who refuse all mint offerings
• The unspoken rules of workplace potlucks and who's "allowed" to bring homemade food
• Office microwave etiquette and foods that should be banned (like fish and popcorn)
• Workplace overachievers who monitor other people's comings and...


The Polite Lie: The Ethics of Eating Terrible Food
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06/06/2025

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Ever found yourself staring down at a plate of food that looks questionable at best, while the proud cook eagerly awaits your reaction? That's exactly the hilariously awkward territory Rika and Lowe dive into during this episode of All In Your Biz.

Rika bravely shares her mortifying experience with a bowl of chili that resulted in an unexpected reflux situation, while Lowe reveals his strategic "ask for a to-go plate" technique that ends with food being tossed from car windows. "I may circle the block and run it over, so the...


God's House Has Some Sketchy Tenants
06/04/2025

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Ever walked into a sanctuary seeking peace but left with wounds deeper than those you came with? Our raw, unfiltered conversation about "Church Thugs" peels back the pristine veneer of religious communities to examine the complex, often painful realities lurking within.

We share deeply personal stories of church experiences that left lasting impacts—from being judged for clothing choices to witnessing leaders who preach purity while battling their own demons behind closed doors. The hypocrisy cuts deep: pastors selling donated food meant for the hungry, churches sending bills for missed tithes du...


All Up In Your EBT
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05/28/2025

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Remember the days of government cheese blocks and powdered milk that never quite mixed right? Los and Reka take you on a nostalgia trip through the evolution of food assistance programs before diving into today's hot-button issue: Should EBT benefits be regulated?

The hosts share personal experiences with food assistance programs from their childhoods, from the infamous "government cheese" that made the best grilled cheese sandwiches to powdered eggs that left something to be desired. This walk down memory lane leads to a thoughtful examination of modern SNAP benefits and whether...


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05/25/2025

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Wigs, BBLs, and Man Weaves: The Truth Nobody's Talking About
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05/21/2025

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What drives someone to dramatically alter their appearance? Is it self-expression, insecurity, or simply following trends? In this raw, unfiltered conversation, we're peeling back the layers on body enhancements and beauty modifications that have become increasingly normalized in our social media-saturated world.

From makeup that completely transforms faces to BBLs that reshape bodies, we're asking the uncomfortable questions: When does enhancement become deception? At what point does self-expression become dangerous obsession? Our candid discussion explores the complicated relationship between how we present ourselves and how others perceive us, particularly in professional...


Intro to All in your Bizz
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05/17/2025

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