Get Sexy with Shari
Welcome to Get Sexy with Shari — where we don’t just talk about pleasure... we embody it. I’m Shari, your guide into the lush, untamed world of your sensuality.This is more than just a podcast — it’s an intimate, reflective space for exploration and growth. A place where you can drop into your body, feel your desires come alive, and let your sensuality flow without holding back.Every episode is a delicious taste of what it means to live turned on... to claim your power, your pleasure, and your right to feel deeply, wildly alive.Are you ready to get sex...
From “Too Much” to Magnetic: How Embodiment Heals Your Love Life | #03

Welcome back to Get Sexy with Shari — the podcast that turns you on to the life, love, and sex you actually crave.
In today’s juicy episode, I sit down with intimacy expert Leen S to talk about long-term love, polarity, emotional safety, and what it really means to stay sexy and connected — even when your partner isn’t “doing the work.”
Whether you’re in a relationship that feels off… or you’ve been told you’re “too much”… or you’re just tired of doing all the emotional labor — this episode is your permission slip to dro...
How to Speak Up in the Bedroom, without killing the mood | #03

In this intimate episode of Get Sexy with Shari, I sit down with one of my Tantric Teachers and Communication Queen Arja Hendrikx to talk about one of the most important (and most avoided) skills in intimacy: speaking up in the bedroom.
We dive into why so many women stay silent during sex, how to express what you want without killing the mood, and why real pleasure starts with honest, embodied communication. You’ll walk away with practical tools, mindset shifts, and maybe even the permission you’ve been waiting for.
Whether you're in a long...
From Starfish to Sensual Queen - my real sensual awakening | #02

In this powerful first episode, I pull back the curtain on my own sensual awakening—how I went from shame, disconnection, and performative sex… to full-body pleasure, body confidence, and unapologetic turn-on.
I share the real, raw moments that changed everything:
The day I realized I’d lived 27 years in my body without knowing what that actually meantWhy I used to fake orgasms (and how I stopped performing)How slowing down through self-pleasure became a doorway to reclaiming my feminine powerWhat it really means to become a sensual woman—one who leads with embodiment instead...The Truth About Bedroom Communication: What 20 Women Revealed | #01

Most women feel pressure when asked what they like in bed—because they don’t actually know. In this episode, I share eye-opening insights from 20 women about why communication in the bedroom feels so difficult. We’ll unpack where we really learn about sex (hint: it’s not what you think it is), how to start discovering your turn-ons.
And in true Get Sexy with Shari-style, we'll end with a gentle pleasure practice to find pleasure in non-genital areas of your body. You can only ask for pleasure when you truly know what it is that you want. So...