The Intimacy Inquiry

Exploring Intimacy: A Journey with Trinity Infinity

In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry Podcast, we are joined by the vibrant and captivating Trinity Infinity. Known for her pink hair and bubbly persona, Trinity shares her journey from high school graduate to adult content creator.

She opens up about her experiences in various facets of the adult industry, such as webcam modeling and phone sex, and her exploration of fetishes. Trinity discusses her personal growth, overcoming guilt and shame from a conservative upbringing, and embracing her sexuality. She emphasizes the importance of clear communication in...

Reclaiming Sacred Sexuality with Satya Lila

In this episode, Satya Lila, a sacred sexuality educator, transformational coach, and spiritual guide with over 30 years of experience, discusses her journey and work in helping individuals and couples reconnect with their divine erotic energy.

Satya shares personal insights from her own spiritual awakening, the challenges she faced in relationships, and how she overcame them through sacred sexuality workshops. She explains the essence of sacred sexuality, its benefits, and how it integrates with spirituality.

The conversation also touches on the importance of open communication in relationships, the...

Unlocking Love's Potential: Eri Kardos on Transformative Relationships and Personal Growth

In this episode, internationally acclaimed author and relationship coach Eri Kardos discusses her journey from conservative beginnings to becoming a leading expert in love and relationships.

Eri shares insights from her career, including her work with Fortune 500 executives, and delves into the four pillars of her Relearn Love philosophy. She emphasizes the importance of curiosity, cultivating knowledge, implementing change, and celebrating successes in relationships. Eri also talks about her personal experiences, the significance of integrating somatic practices, and her adventurous lifestyle as a world...

Exploring the Evolution and Innovation in the Sexual Wellness Industry with Alicia Sinclair

In this episode, the host announces the first sponsor of 'The Intimacy Inquiry,' Le Wand Massager, and offers listeners a 25% discount on full-priced items. Use the code intimacy25

The conversation then introduces Alicia Sinclair, founder and CEO of Le Wand, who has over two decades of experience in the sexual wellness industry. Alicia shares her unconventional entry into the industry and her journey from receptionist to a leading entrepreneur and educator.

She discusses the importance of sex education, the...

Unlocking Sexual Empowerment: A Deep Dive with Intimacy Coach Anya Hynell

Anya Hynell, a certified sex and intimacy coach and founder of Pleasure, Please Coaching, shares her transformative approach to sexual and emotional wellbeing.

With a focus on overcoming shame, understanding core desires, and improving communication, Anya helps individuals and couples unlock their full pleasure potential.

The discussion traverses her journey from a sexually uninformed youth to an advocate for sexual empowerment, alongside challenges like sexual assault and societal stigmas.

She also tackles the complexities of navigating consent, fantasies, and the...

Understanding Attachment Styles and Their Impact on Relationships with Bev Mitelman

In this insightful episode, guest Bev Mitelman shares her personal journey of growing up in a chaotic environment and its influence on her understanding of relationships.

Bev, a certified practitioner and executive leader, explores how early attachment styles, whether secure or insecure, profoundly impact adult relationships. She delves into the origins and manifestations of different attachment styles—secure, anxious-preoccupied, dismissive-avoidant, and fearful-avoidant.

Bev also discusses how awareness and dedicated work can shift one's attachment style towards secure attachment, enhancing relationship dynamics and em...

Adreena Winters: Unveiling the Cuckold Queen's Path and Passion for Education

In this episode, we explore the dynamic career of Adreena Winters, famously known as the Queen of Cuckolds in the UK’s erotic content industry.

With 15 years of experience, Adreena has transitioned from a Pizza Hut waitress to a leading voice in adult entertainment, specializing as a professional femme dom and cuck queen. Her commitment to empowering individuals and exploring sexual fantasies is evident in her founding of the Cuck Academy and the release of her book 'So You Want to Be a Cuckold.'<...

Navigating Non-Monogamy with Dr. Joli Hamilton

In this episode of Intimate Inquiry, join Dr. Joli Hamilton, a research psychologist and certified sex educator specializing in consensual non-monogamy and jealousy, as she delves into her personal journey and professional insights.

Dr. Hamilton shares her early experiences with sexual inquisitiveness and trauma, her transition from a monogamous marriage to exploring non-monogamy at age 32, and how she helps others create custom-built non-monogamous partnerships.

She discusses the importance of communication, handling jealousy, and the misconceptions surrounding non-monogamy. The conversation also touches on the impact of life transitions...

Jason Lange on Enhancing Masculinity and Emotional Intelligence for Deeper Relationships

In this insightful conversation, relationship and masculinity coach Jason Lange discusses his journey from personal struggles with intimacy and emotional connection to founding Evolutionary Men, where he helps men navigate vulnerability, intimacy, and healthy masculinity.

Jason emphasizes the importance of emotional intelligence, somatic therapy, and men's groups in cultivating meaningful relationships and overall wellbeing. The episode explores the impact of societal expectations on men, the role of evolutionary psychology in understanding male behavior, and the significance of teaching emotional fluency.

Jason also...

The Power of Slow Intimacy: A Conversation with Ruby Mae

In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, Andrew is joined by Ruby Mae, a New York-based city companion and storyteller.

Ruby offers bespoke, immersive experiences that blend sensuality, presence, and connection. She emphasizes the importance of slowing down to create authentic and emotionally deep encounters where clients feel truly seen and cherished.

Ruby discusses her journey into the companionship industry, her thoughts on modern relationships, and the societal need for genuine human connection. She also shares insights into maintaining a balance between personal...

Navigating Relationships and Loneliness with Sam Morris

In this episode, Sam Morris, a seasoned coach in healthy relationships, sex, and habit change, shares insights from her decade-long career.

Host of the podcast 'Whatever Happened to Gentle Men', Sam discusses her journey from working in the court system and as a probation officer to becoming a relationship coach. She elaborates on the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, and maintaining independence within relationships.

Sam also emphasizes tackling the loneliness epidemic through simple yet effective steps like engaging in community activities and seeking online support groups...

Breaking Barriers: Exploring Sexual Health and Intimacy with Eve Hall

In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, the host is joined by Eve Hall, a licensed physical therapist and certified health coach who specializes in sexual health and pelvic floor therapy.

Eve, also an advocate for Bipoc LGBTQ+ and Latina communities, is dedicated to de-stigmatizing conversations about sex, pleasure, and intimacy. The discussion delves into her journey into sexual health advocacy following a sexless marriage, her establishment of the Please Me podcast, and the importance of open communication about sexual desires.

Topics range...

Exploring Embodiment, Rituals, and Healing with Jessi Magick

In this episode of the Intimacy Inquiry, we speak with Jessi Magick, a somatic guide, ritualist, and embodiment facilitator. Jessi shares insights into her work that blends neuroscience, somatic psychology, and sacred living, spanning both Connecticut and Costa Rica.

She discusses her mission to help individuals reconnect with their body's intelligence through sensual embodiment, ritual, and trauma-informed presence. Jessi also delves into her personal journey, discussing her upbringing, transformative experiences, and the profound impact of being present in one’s body. Additionally, she offers perspective on the im...

Exploring Tantra: The Path to Sexual Vitality and Personal Transformation with Emma Galland

In this episode, tantric and holistic sex coach Emma Galland shares insights into her journey and her holistic approach to sexuality and wellbeing through her platform, Tantric Awakenings.

Emma discusses the profound impact of embracing sexual energy, connecting with one's body, and creating a safe space for vulnerability and communication. She emphasizes the importance of a holistic lifestyle, including proper nutrition, in achieving sexual vitality and personal empowerment.

Reflecting on her experiences, Emma highlights the transformative power of tantric sex...

From Entrepreneur to Emotional Freedom: Anna's Journey

In this episode, Anna shares her inspiring journey from leading a successful security company to becoming a coach specializing in relationship-building and personal development.

She elaborates on her struggles with addiction, the importance of addressing childhood voids, and developing essential life habits. Anna also provides insightful perspectives on balancing personal and professional success, the significance of nurturing various types of relationships, and the power of self-reflection.

This episode offers valuable lessons on achieving emotional freedom, maintaining health, and fostering meaningful human connections.

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Navigating Mental Health: Insights from an Expert Therapist

In this episode, we sit down with Tami, a licensed clinical social worker and psychotherapist with over twenty years of experience. Tami shares her journey from knowing she wanted to be a counselor in her teenage years to founding her private practice in 2002.

With a focus on anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, domestic violence, and relationship dynamics, she combines traditional therapy with yoga and has authored books to guide individuals through emotional challenges.

Tami also talks about societal views on therapy, the evolving perception of it...

Embracing Authenticity and Breaking Norms: A Conversation with Koby Falks

In this episode of Intimate Inquiry, the host welcomes Koby Falks, a gay Australian adult content creator, entrepreneur, and LGBTQ+ advocate known for his authenticity and bold storytelling.

Koby discusses his experiences growing up in rural Queensland and Tasmania, his journey of coming out, and his challenging first relationship. He shares insights into masculinity, sexuality, and thriving in the adult entertainment industry.

Koby emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance, challenging toxic masculine stereotypes, and finding one’s true identity.

He also talks ab...

Navigating Relationships with Kristal DeSantis: Trauma-Informed Therapy and Modern Masculinity

In this episode, licensed marriage and family therapist Kristal DeSantis discusses her journey into the field of relational therapy and her creation of the strong model of relational therapy. She explores the complexities of modern relationships, including emotional safety, evolving gender roles, and the challenges of modern masculinity.

Kristal, who is also a certified trauma and sex therapy professional, shares insights from her book 'Strong, A Relationship Field Guide for the Modern Man.' Growing up in a cross-cultural household in Japan gave her unique...

Exploring Intimacy, Pleasure, and Healing with Allie Andrews: Journey from People Pleasing to Sexual Empowerment

In this episode, intimacy and sex coach Allie Andrews delves into her journey from childhood curiosity about sex to becoming a certified sex and intimacy coach. Allie discusses her struggles with people-pleasing and using sex for validation, and how her background in dance, yoga, and holistic health shaped her understanding of embodiment and pleasure.

She highlights the importance of self-pleasure, communication, and finding balance between productivity and pleasure. Allie also talks about her experiences working with clients, the significance of...

Inka Winter: Redefining Adult Entertainment with Holistic and Feminist Pornography

In this episode, we dive deep with Inka Winter, a pioneering filmmaker renowned for her work in neurotic cinema and the portrayal of sexuality. In addition to being a feminist porn director, Inka is a sex and relationship counselor with a profound commitment to authenticity and inclusivity.

She discusses her journey from growing up in a cult to becoming an advocate for holistic porn, emphasizing the importance of ethical production and nuanced storytelling. Inca also shares her views on the current state of the porn...

Navigating the Complexities of Sexual Health and Relationships with Dr. Karen Stewart

In this episode, Dr. Karen Stewart, a renowned clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and educator, shares insights from her extensive career dedicated to sexual health and relationship wellbeing.

Dr. Stewart discusses her formative years in a traditional Catholic family and how witnessing relationship issues among her peers inspired her career path. She outlines her approach to therapy, emphasizing the importance of building rapport and understanding individual histories to address sexual dysfunction and relationship challenges.

Dr. Stewart also explores topics such as the...

Rediscovering Faith: Ana Murby's Journey from Struggle to Redemption

In this heartfelt podcast episode, Ana Murby from Connecticut opens up about her complex and inspiring life journey.

As a mother of five, Ana reflects on her upbringing in a Christian household and shares the challenges she faced due to her introverted nature and reluctance to question her faith. Her story takes a dramatic turn as she recounts her experiences with two failed marriages, emotional and physical hardships, and a period of rebellion away from her faith.

Ana describes how she rediscovered Christ and...

Dr. Carol Queen: Redefining Sexuality, Communication, and Pleasure

In this episode, pioneering sexologist Dr. Carol Queen discusses her trailblazing contributions to the field of sexual health and pleasure.

With decades of experience in research, public speaking, and sex-positive activism, Dr. Queen shares her insights on how society views and discusses sexuality. She delves into her formative years, the importance of better sex education, and the necessity of exploring one's sexual identity without judgment.

Dr. Queen also emphasizes the significance of communication in intimate relationships and the holistic approach needed for sexual wellness, especially...

Christina Braver: Romance Writing, Sex Positivity, and Authentic Relationships

In this episode, Christina Braver, an author known for her Steamy Small Town contemporary romance novels set in the Pacific Northwest, delves into her journey from a clinical psychologist and healthcare technology worker to a romance novelist.

Christina emphasizes the importance of depth and authenticity in her writing, highlighting her passion for representing passionate heroes with strong and soft sides, and heroines navigating societal challenges. She discusses the significance of real and open sexual relationships in her books, the importance of communication in relationships, combating toxic...

Transformative Conversations: Exploring Authenticity, Pleasure, and Higher Love with Astra Soulfeather

In this insightful episode, visionary coach, speaker, and trauma-informed healer Astra Soulfeather discusses their holistic approach to sexuality, intimacy, and personal empowerment through their platform, Higher Love.

Astra shares personal stories of trauma and spiritual awakening, emphasizing the significance of mindfulness, intention, and authentic self-expression in transformative journeys. Topics include the impact of trauma, the importance of understanding and embracing one's own sexuality, the challenge and benefits of non-monogamous relationships, the role of pornography, and the necessity of constant communication and presence in relationships. <...

Exploring BDSM, Sex Positivity, and Personal Evolution with Miss. Mackenzee

In this episode, Ms. Mackenzee, a noted advocate for sex positivity and adult artistry, shares her journey into the world of BDSM and sexuality.

Raised in a secluded Catholic environment, she found herself drawn to alternative forms of sexuality and kink in her late teens. Miss. Mackenzee transitioned from a potential career as a music teacher to being a celebrated content creator and activist, emphasizing the importance of consent, body autonomy, and inclusivity.

She discusses her approach to negotiation in intimate relationships, her...

Marisa Simonetti: Balancing Motherhood, Political Aspirations, and Adult Content Creation

Marisa Simonetti, a diverse professional and aspiring politician, shares her journey from being homeschooled to becoming a dynamic real estate professional and content creator.

She discusses her career shift from psychology to business, her brief stint in politics, and her experiences as a single mother. Marisa also opens up about her OnlyFans persona, Jennie Kennedy, and addresses the societal stigma surrounding her work. The conversation delves into the importance of kindness, self-care, and making strategic financial decisions.

Marisa's story underscores her commitment to...

Overcoming Betrayal: The Path to Healing and Transformation with Dr. Debi Silber

In this episode, Dr. Silber, a pioneering expert in performance and behavior transformation, shares her journey of becoming a post-betrayal transformation specialist after personal experiences of betrayal.

She explains the five stages of healing from betrayal, the impact of unhealed trauma on physical and mental health, and how individuals can move beyond their hurt to rebuild themselves.

Dr. Silber also delves into her work with both betrayed and betrayer clients, highlighting the transformative potential for both parties. Additionally, she discusses the...

Understanding Sexual Health and Pleasure with Dr. Kennedy

In this insightful interview, Dr. Kennedy, a board-certified sex therapist with a PhD in clinical sexology, discusses her commitment to dismantling taboos around sexual health and pleasure.

She shares her journey and the values that drive her work, touching on the common theme of people feeling 'not enough' due to societal pressures and comparison culture.

Dr. Kennedy also introduces her 'Pleasure Project' and 'Pleasure Circle,' aimed at helping women explore their sexuality and improve their intimate lives. The conversation covers the impact of social...

Exploring Dynamic Sexuality and Empathy with Pepper Kat

In this episode of The Intimacy Inquiry podcast, Pepper Kat, a dynamic sexuality advocate and storyteller, shares her journey from journalism to the adult entertainment industry.

With a warm and inclusive approach, Pepper discusses overcoming societal taboos, the empowering aspects of platforms like OnlyFans, and the importance of sex work in human understanding and empathy.

She also dives into her innovative projects like the Dream Girl Chronicles and the Create Your Dream Girl experience. Through candid conversations, Pepper inspires listeners to embrace their uniqueness and...

Redefining Sexual Expression: A Conversation with Alexa Creed

In this episode, we sit down with Alexa Creed, a dynamic adult performer and content creator renowned for her raw authenticity and innovative storytelling.

Alexa discusses her journey from a double-degree holder in computer science and cryptography to a celebrated figure in the adult industry. She shares personal anecdotes from her happy childhood, supported by open-minded parents, which laid the foundation for her explorative and non-judgmental approach towards sexuality.

Alexa also delves into her deep commitment to inclusivity, body positivity, and fostering genuine connections through...

Navigating Sexual Identity and Mental Health: Insights from Brandon Simpson

In this episode, we welcome Brandon Simpson, a certified sex addiction therapist specializing in LGBTQIA+ issues, sexual behavior, and mental health.

Brandon, who holds a Master's in Clinical Psychology and works at the Novus Mindful Life Institute in California, shares his journey from New York to Los Angeles and his career transition from aspiring high school biology teacher to therapist. He discusses the importance of non-judgmental, sex-positive therapy, addressing societal expectations, sexual identity, and compulsive behaviors.

Brandon provides insights into the complexities of...

Cultural Influences on Trauma Therapy: Insights from Janet Bayramyan

This episode features a conversation with Janet Held, a licensed clinical social worker specializing in trauma therapy, blending her rich cultural heritage of Russian, Armenian, and American influences.

Janet discusses the impact of culture on mental health and trauma therapy, her therapeutic approach, and her expertise in techniques like EMDR and Brain Spotting. She also explores the experiences that led her to this field, the influence of social media and pornography on mental health, and the importance of fostering self-love and intimacy in therapeutic practices.

Breaking Barriers: A Deep Dive into Sexual Health with Dr. Danae Maragouthakis

In this episode, we are joined by Dr. Danae Maragouthakis, a medical doctor with over 20 years of experience in public health and sexual wellness.

Dr. Maragouthakis shares her remarkable journey from the U.S. to co-founding Yoxly, a venture providing remote sexual health services aimed at improving accessibility, privacy, and convenience. This episode covers a wide range of topics including the importance of empathy in healthcare, overcoming barriers to sexual health services, and the role of social media in sexual education.

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Navigating Pornography and Relationships: Insights from Life Coach Jolene Winn

In this episode, certified life coach Jolene Winn, who hosts the Porn Addict's Wife Podcast, discusses her journey as the wife of a former porn addict and her mission to help women navigate complex topics such as sex, sexuality, and the impact of pornography on relationships.

Jolene shares her personal experiences growing up with strong religious values, her husband's struggle with pornography, and how their relationship has evolved. She emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, open communication, and personal growth in overcoming porn addiction. Jolene also...

Embracing Your Body: A Conversation with Dr. Ashley Zimmerman

The amazing Dr. Ashley Zimmerman shares her journey from self-loathing to self-love, focusing on her work as a pelvic health specialist, sexuality counselor, and doula.

She details her childhood experiences, the struggles with body image, and the impact of inadequate sexual education. As a healthcare provider, Dr. Ashley emphasizes the importance of self-exploration and proper body education to dismantle societal taboos.

The conversation also delves into the effects of social media, dating apps, and pornography on sexual health and relationships, and Dr. Ashley’s pe...

Life and the Adult Entertainment Industry: Tera Winters' Story

In this episode, we dive into the life and career of Tera Winters, an adult model and performer who once went by the name Kimber Veils.

Tera shares her journey from working in a Chinese restaurant and briefly wanting to be a gas station attendant, to becoming an adult entertainer. She discusses her start as a stripper at 18 , her initial nervousness transitioning into comfort with her nakedness, and an unexpected diagnosis of Graves' disease which temporarily halted her career.

Tera talks about her experience...

Empowering Through Honest Conversations: A Journey with Jillian Amodio

In this episode, we are joined by Jillian Amodio - a social worker, licensed mental health provider, certified sex therapist, educator, and founder of Moms for Health.

Jillian shares her personal journey from growing up in a conservative Catholic household to becoming an advocate for inclusive sex education and mental health. She discusses the importance of removing shame and providing accurate information about sex and relationships to children.

Jillian also delves into her work on her upcoming book, which aims to provide a holistic...

Exploring Sexual Wellness with Ceara Corry: Journey, Impact, and Education

In this episode, we are joined by Ceara Corry, known as Cee, the Sex Lady, a social worker and the founder of The Naked Truth in North Carolina.

Ceara shares her personal journey from surviving sexual trauma and navigating complex family dynamics to advocating for sexual health and wellness through education and therapy. She discusses the broader aspects of sexual wellness beyond just physical health, touching on mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

Ceara explains the importance of comprehensive sex education in schools, the...

Navigating the Complex World of Pornography: Vic Lagina’s Remarkable Journey

The video features Vic Lagina, a former prominent figure in the pornography industry, discussing his 20-year career with Brazzers.

Vic shares his unique journey from an outsider growing up in Philadelphia to becoming a major porn producer, his struggles with personal relationships and drug addiction, and his eventual exit from the industry.

He emphasizes the ethical complexities and emotional toll of the porn world while discussing the impact of pornography on society, the importance of age verification, and the potential implications of AI...