Thanks! It’s the Trauma!

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By: Katrina Burns and Krystal Stover

This is a NEW low budget, low expectations podcast that hilariously unpacks trauma and whatever else we want to talk about. It'll be fun. 

Missing Person Series - Cieha Taylor
Yesterday at 12:00 PM

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In this emotional and powerful episode, we sit down with Canitha Taylor, the mother of missing person Cieha Taylor, and Katrina Overstreet, Cieha’s sister. Cieha vanished from Plant City, Florida, in 2020, leaving her family searching for answers and holding on to hope. Canitha and Katrina share their memories of Cieha, the day she went missing, and the challenges they’ve faced throughout their ongoing fight for justice.

Listeners will get to know Cieha — not just as a missing person, but as a vibrant, loving, and un...


Missing Person Series - Mathew Vetromile
10/08/2025

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In this episode, we sit down with Amanda Miller, sister of missing person Mathew Vetromile, and his cousin, Tasha Burgos. Together, they share Mathew’s story, the heartbreak of his disappearance, and the ongoing fight to bring him home. This powerful conversation sheds light on who Mathew is beyond the headlines, the impact his absence has had on his family, and the importance of keeping his case in the public eye.

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Missing Person Series - Ronald "Ronnie" Dumas, Jr.
10/01/2025

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On this episode of Thanks It’s the Trauma, we’re joined by Diedra Wills, the best friend of missing person Ronald “Ronnie” Dumas, Jr. Diedra opens up about her memories of Ronnie, the impact of his disappearance, and why it’s so important to keep his story alive. Together, we talk about friendship, loss, and the ongoing search for answers, while bringing awareness to Ronnie’s case and the need for justice.

To donate to the family, visit: https://gofund.me/9162c3e3c


Limited Series: Missing Persons
09/24/2025

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In this special limited series, Thanks It’s the Trauma has teamed up with the Dear Casi Foundation to shine a light on missing persons cases that deserve more attention. Over the next five weeks, we will be sharing the stories of Ronnie Dumas Jr., Cieha Taylor, Mathew Vetromile, Jana Manasco Stines, and Zelig Williams—five lives and families forever changed by their disappearance.

This episode serves as an overview of the Dear Casi Foundation and the cases we’ll be covering throughout the se...


The Scapegoat
09/17/2025

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This week we’re diving into the idea of scapegoating — where it comes from, how it shows up in families, friendships, work, and even in ourselves. From its biblical roots to the ways people unfairly carry blame today, we’ll unpack why scapegoating happens and how it impacts relationships. We’ll also open up about our own personal experiences with being scapegoated (and even scapegoating ourselves), and what we’ve learned from it. Tune in for real-life stories, practical insight, and ways to break free from the cycle.


Unbury The Burden - w/ guest Hollie McEvoy
09/10/2025

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In this deeply moving and incredibly practical episode, we sit down with Hollie McEvoy, the compassionate force behind Unbury the Burden — a project born from personal tragedy and transformed into a powerful tool for healing and preparedness.

Hollie shares the story of losing her mother suddenly and how the chaos and confusion that followed inspired her to help others avoid the same pain. Through her organization, Unbury the Burden, Hollie empowers individuals and families to face one of life’s most difficult topics: death.

We dive into how...


Grief is a silent desperation
09/03/2025

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In this deeply personal episode, Trina opens up about the sudden loss of her younger sister and the profound impact it’s had on her life. With raw honesty and vulnerability, she shares the moments that changed everything, the grief that followed, and how she’s navigating the ongoing process of healing. This conversation is a powerful reminder of the fragility of life, the strength found in sharing our stories, and the importance of holding space for one another through unimaginable loss.


Would You Rather...
07/23/2025

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Get ready to laugh, cringe, and maybe question our sanity in this week’s episode of the podcast — it’s another full-on Would You Rather showdown! We’re diving into hilarious, awkward, and downright weird scenarios that’ll have you yelling answers out loud. From the totally ridiculous to the surprisingly deep, nothing is off limits. Tune in, play along, and see how your choices stack up against ours!


Breaking the Cycles
07/16/2025

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In this week’s episode, we’re diving deep into breaking generational trauma and challenging the societal norms that no longer serve us. From unlearning toxic patterns to forging new paths that feel authentic and healing, we’re talking about what it really means to go against the grain and rewrite the narrative. If you’ve ever felt like the “black sheep” in your family or questioned what’s considered “normal,” this episode is for you. Let’s talk healing, growth, and the courage it takes to be the cycle breaker.


Casi Come Home Update - **BONUS EPISODE**
07/11/2025

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We've had some powerful updates in the fight to bring Casi Ann Pogue home. Recently, we had the honor of speaking about Casi’s case at the South Carolina Statehouse, raising awareness and pushing for real change to support missing persons and their families. We also held a moving Tribute Day in her memory, where the community came together to reflect, support, and remember the vibrant soul behind the headlines. Thanks to generous donations and tireless advocacy, we’ve also been able to secure multiple billboards across key locations, keeping Casi’s face and st...


Off the Cuff - Ft. Candi from "It's Noisy in Here"
07/09/2025

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In this episode, featuring Candi from the "It's Noisy In Here" podcast, we dive into the wonderfully chaotic world of pet peeves, weird foods, and all the random things that make us go “huh?” From oddly specific annoyances to bizarre food combos we secretly (or not-so-secretly) love, nothing is off-limits. It’s unfiltered, unpredictable, and totally relatable. Tune in for laughs, eye-rolls, and maybe even a few “wait, I do that too!” moments. 

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Re-premiere - Casi Come Home (Pt. 2)
07/03/2025

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In this Part 2, re-premiere episode, of our ongoing coverage of Casi Ann Pogue’s disappearance, we go deeper into the days and weeks following the moment she was last seen in Greenville, South Carolina. With new interviews, additional witness accounts, and a look at how the investigation evolved—or stalled—we piece together what might have happened and what could still be uncovered.

Trina, Casi’s cousin, returns to share more personal memories, her frustrations with the case’s handling, and her message to those who may still be holding onto critical i...


Re-premiere - Casi Come Home (Pt. 1)
06/25/2025

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In this Part 1, re-premiere episode, we revisit the haunting and unresolved case of Casi Ann Pogue, the cousin of Trina, who went missing from Greenville, South Carolina. Casi was last seen under mysterious circumstances, and since that day, her family has been living in the limbo of unanswered questions and faint hopes.

As we approach the 5-year anniversary, we re-examine the details surrounding her disappearance. Why did Casi vanish? What leads were followed—and which were left cold? And most importantly, how can you help bring attention to her case today?

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Trafficked to Triumph
06/18/2025

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In this deeply moving episode, we sit down with NicCole, a survivor of human trafficking who endured two harrowing years before reclaiming her freedom. Now, she’s turning her pain into purpose. Nicole shares her journey of resilience and how it led to the creation of Here to Help Cards—a life-saving resource for support and safety. This conversation is raw, inspiring, and a testament to the strength of the human spirit. Tune in to hear NicCole’s story and learn how small tools can make a massive difference.


What in the post partum psychosis!?
06/11/2025

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In this deeply personal episode, we confront one of the most misunderstood and stigmatized maternal mental health conditions: postpartum psychosis. Through a firsthand account, with Brenda, we explore the warning signs, the emotional toll, and the urgent need for awareness and support. This is a raw, honest conversation about what happens when childbirth brings not just joy, but unexpected darkness — and how recovery, compassion, and community can light the way forward.


Off the Cuff - Would You Rather Edition
06/04/2025

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On this episode, we’ve turned overthinking into an art form and coping into a game. Join us as we dive into chaotic, cringe-worthy, and oddly therapeutic Would You Rather questions—because sometimes the best way to deal with life’s messiest moments is by laughing through the most ridiculous choices. It’s catharsis with a twist… and maybe a few existential crises.


Interview with author Christian Hurst
05/28/2025

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This week, we’re chatting with author Christian Hurst about his writing journey, the ups and downs of creating Lily Starling, and what it was like growing up Mormon—and, much like his book character, how he had to choose his own path. From early influences to the real-life experiences that shape his work, Christian brings humor, honesty, and a ton of insight. Whether you're into books, personal stories, or just good convos, this one's worth a listen.

You can snag Christian Hurst's book, "Lily Starling and the Voyage of t...


Bloodlines and Bombshells - an NPE story (Pt. 2)
05/21/2025

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Part 2 dives into the raw, real, emotion of Krystal's NPE (Not Parent Expected) story. Join us as we go into the unexpected journey after learning her biological father isn’t who she thought—and the ripple effects that followed. 


Bloodlines and Bombshells - an NPE story (Pt. 1)
05/14/2025

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This week, we dive into part 1 of Krystal's story of growing up under the shadow of a narcissistic, verbally abusive dad that left scars she never fully understood. Now, as she pieces together her identity she confronts the pain of her past as a means to beginning a journey toward healing, forgiveness, and self-discovery. 


Casi Come Home (Pt. 2)
05/07/2025

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Trina and Krystal dive in to part 2 of a real-life missing person's case of Trina's cousin, Casi Ann Pogue. She went missing from Greenville Memorial Hospital, in Greenville, South Carolina, on July 5th of 2020. She was seen leaving the hospital on foot, and vanished after she got outside of the surveillance cameras and hasn't been seen or heard from since. 

You can find out more about Casi's case by visiting DearCasi.org 

Follow their Facebook http://www.facebook.com/dearcasifoundation

Visit dearcasi.org to learn more about ho...


Casi Come Home (Pt. 1)
04/30/2025

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Trina and Krystal dive in to a real-life missing person's case of Trina's cousin, Casi Ann Pogue. She went missing from Greenville Memorial Hospital, in Greenville, South Carolina, on July 5th of 2020. She was seen leaving the hospital on foot, and vanished after she got outside of the surveillance cameras and hasn't been seen or heard from since. 

You can find out more about Casi's case by visiting DearCasi.org 

Follow their Facebook http://www.facebook.com/dearcasifoundation

Visit dearcasi.org to learn more about how you ca...


Another Off the Cuff
#9
04/23/2025

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Trina and Krystal dive into the wisdom they've received after 40, compartmentalizing trauma and how societal normalcy has changed in our current climate


Hookup Culture (Pt. 2)
#8
04/16/2025

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This week Trina and Krystal talk again with Krystal's daughter, Mallory, and Trina's daughter, Abbee, about hookup culture, settling down, mommy and daddy issues and navigating the current climate in dating. 

We also give a good Irish goodbye! 

*Note* These are our first episodes with guests and we are still learning the audio. It's not terrible, but it's not the best either. We don't really give a hot damn though. 

Enjoy!


Hookup Culture (Pt. 1)
#7
04/09/2025

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Trina and Krystal have an open conversation with their adult children on this generation's hook up culture and how it impacts dating normalcy. Part one dives into how social media and apps have made it easier than ever to hook up, while making it more difficult to find substantial relationships. 


Bucket List
#6
04/02/2025

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It may be some people's weekend, but it's their dreams. Trina and Krystal discuss their bucket lists, and how they hope to one day go on the road.


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Bucket List
#6
04/02/2025

It may be some people's weekend, but it's their dreams. Trina and Krystal discuss their bucket lists, and how they hope to one day go on the road. 


Little Traumas
#5
03/26/2025

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Trina and Krystal share some of their shorter stories of traumas. Trina discusses being hit by a car at her daycare, and moving in with 2 drug dealers when she was a teen. Krystal discusses witnessing a stabbing as a child, and getting lost at the beach. And of course, they use humor and their very own style of storytelling. 


**Note - You may hear snoring from a Boston Terrier, named Paisley, in the studio with us. We try to keep in as much raw audio as we can t...


Pandemic at the Disco - Pt. 2
#4
03/19/2025

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This week, Krystal discusses surviving the COVID fallout and the devastation it caused with losing a friend. 


Pandemic at the Disco - Pt. 1
#3
03/12/2025

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Trina and Krystal attempt "Southern" ASMR before diving deeper into how COVID changed their life. Part 1 features Trina's story on the trauma she endured during the pandemic, and surviving the losses. 


We're Trying This Thing Out
#2
03/06/2025

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Trina and Krystal discuss the importance of music, and how trauma affects everyday life.


Off the Cuff
#1
03/02/2025

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Trina and Krystal have a candid conversation about personal stories, family and embarrassing moments they've encountered.