Father & Friend: What Should A Father Be?

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By: Tim Anderson

"The only dad you'll ever know is the one you grew up with… but what if we could change that?"In this series, dive deep into the stories of everyday dads who are redefining fatherhood. Listen to the interviews of regular men—dads just like you—who are stepping beyond the standard role and intentionally engaging their families in meaningful ways. Fatherhood isn’t just about providing or a biological consequence; it’s about presence, purpose, and making a lasting impact with their most important lifetime responsibility. Through real conversations, personal stories, and actionable insights, we explore how modern fathers are breaki...

9 Months/Year Without Dad: Interview with Michael
#12
Today at 2:50 AM

In this conversation, Tim and Michael discuss the profound impact of fatherhood, sharing personal anecdotes about what it was like being the son of a professional baseball coach who was gone from home for 9 months out of each year. Michael emphasizes the importance of family meals, outdoor activities, and spiritual leadership in parenting. Michael also highlights the significance of prioritizing time spent with family over material possessions and shares insights from his book, which aims to provide life advice for the rising generation.

00:00 The Impact of a Father's Presence

19:37 Building Family Traditions and...


Risk vs Reward: Interview With Darren
#10
Today at 12:00 AM

In this conversation, Tim and Darren discuss the complexities of fatherhood, the importance of intentionality in parenting, and the balance between risk and simplicity in life. They explore how to create meaningful connections with children, the impact of generational choices, and the challenges of living in a distracted world. The dialogue emphasizes the significance of being present and the long-term effects of parenting decisions on future generations.

00:00 The Quest for Balance in Fatherhood

02:51 Building Bridges for Future Generations

06:07 Intentional Parenting: Making Connections

08:59 Navigating Technology and Family Time

12:22 The Dichotomy...


Do As I Do: Interview with Tom
#11
Yesterday at 10:54 PM

In this conversation, Tim and Tom discuss the essential qualities every father should embody, including setting a positive example, fostering emotional connections, and promoting teamwork within the family. Tom shares personal anecdotes and insights on how to navigate challenges, the importance of emotional intelligence, and the role of sacrifice in love. He emphasizes the need for fathers to be emotionally available and supportive, while also addressing the fear of losing connection with their children as they grow older. Tom's journey into marriage improvement coaching stems from his desire to help others build strong family dynamics and maintain healthy relationships.<...


The Vital Role of Fathers: Interview with Michael
#9
04/24/2025

In this conversation, Tim Anderson and Michael discuss the vital role of fathers in their children's lives, emphasizing the importance of spiritual leadership and family dynamics. They explore their daily family life, the significance of shared meals, and the creation of a team environment within the family. Michael reflects on his upbringing, contrasting it with his current parenting style, which focuses on engagement and outdoor activities while limiting screen time. The discussion highlights the challenges and joys of parenting, the importance of being present, and the need for a supportive family structure. In this conversation, the speakers discuss various...


Saying Yes: Interview with Josh
#8
04/02/2025

In this conversation, Tim Anderson and Josh discuss the complexities of fatherhood, the importance of open communication between fathers and children, and the impact of parental guidance on topics like sexual education. They reflect on their own experiences growing up in large families, the challenges of connecting with their fathers, and the lessons learned from those relationships. The discussion emphasizes the need for fathers to engage with their children in meaningful ways, fostering an environment where open dialogue is encouraged, especially regarding sensitive topics. They emphasize the need for parents to be approachable and to provide age-appropriate answers to...


Becoming A Father: Interview with Stephen
#7
04/02/2025

In this conversation, Tim and Stephen reflect on the meaning of fatherhood, sharing insights from Stephen's upbringing as a pastor's kid and the lessons he aims to carry forward into his own parenting. We discuss the importance of relationships, presence, and intentionality in parenting, as well as the challenges of prioritizing family in a busy life. Through anecdotes and reflections, he emphasizes the value of including children in daily activities and the significance of family traditions and values. We explore the importance of applying skills learned in the workplace to family life, emphasizing emotional intelligence and active listening. We...


Fatherhood Unscripted: The Journey of Intentional Parenting: Interview With Alec and DJ
#6
04/01/2025

In this conversation, DJ and Alec, co-hosts of the podcast Fatherhood Unscripted, share their experiences and insights on fatherhood. They discuss their upbringing, the importance of intentional parenting, and the emotional safety of children. The conversation delves into themes of forgiveness, breaking generational curses, and the significance of teamwork in parenting. They emphasize the need to connect with children on their level and create lasting memories through intentional activities. The discussion highlights the challenges and rewards of being a present and engaged father.

In this interview, we discuss:

00:00 Introduction

02:04 Reflections on Upbringing and...


Creating a Space for Open Communication: Interview With Mike
#5
03/24/2025

In this conversation, Tim and Mike discuss the journey of fatherhood, emphasizing the importance of open communication, intentional family activities, and the need for patience and understanding in parenting. They reflect on their own experiences and the lessons learned from their fathers, while also sharing practical advice on how to foster a supportive environment for children, especially during their teenage years. The discussion highlights the significance of being approachable and available for children, ensuring they feel safe to share their thoughts and feelings.

In this interview, we discuss:

00:00 Creating an Open Dialogue with Kids

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I'm A Dad Now: Lessons from the Trenches: Interview with Ross
#4
03/23/2025

In this conversation, Tim Anderson and Ross discuss the complexities of fatherhood, reflecting on their personal experiences and the lessons learned along the way. They explore the challenges of parenting, the impact of divorce, and the importance of creating lasting memories with family. The conversation emphasizes the significance of intentional time spent together, the influence of upbringing on parenting styles, and the role of marriage in providing stability for children. In this conversation, Tim shares his insights on parenting, faith, and the challenges of raising children in a modern world. Ross reflects on the importance of authentic church experiences...


The Power of Presence in Parenting: Interview with Alan
#3
03/22/2025

In this conversation, Tim Anderson and Alan discuss the importance of intentional parenting, focusing on being present for their children, maintaining communication as they grow older, and breaking generational patterns of distance in parenting. Alan shares his experiences of how he prioritized family time, the challenges of parenting through adolescence, and the spiritual lessons he wishes he had emphasized more. The conversation highlights the significance of love, communication, and the impact of faith in raising children.

In this interview, we discuss:

00:00 Intentional Parenting: The Importance of Being Present

09:46 Maintaining Connections: Family...