The Real Us

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By: Benjamin Desomer & Alyssa Joy Chambers

Welcome to 'The Real Us' - where authenticity meets impact. Hosted by Benji DeSomer and Alyssa Joy Chambers, this weekly podcast tears down the walls of pretense to bring you raw, unfiltered conversations that matter. Every Wednesday, we create a safe space for sharing transformative stories from underserved communities, entrepreneurs, and change-makers who are rewriting their narratives.From struggles to triumphs, mental health to business growth, we dive deep into the stories that often go untold. No filters, no scripts – just real people sharing real experiences that inspire, educate, and connect. Whether you're seeking inspiration, looking for authentic connections, or si...

What That Mouth Do?
#12
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🎙️ The Real Us – Episode Title: "What That Mouth Do?"
Hosts: Alyssa & Benji
Affirmation of the Day: "Any and all things are possible through effort, love, and imagination!"

What does that mouth do? In this episode, we dive deep into the power of language — how it shapes identity, connects cultures, and (let’s be honest) sometimes gets a little spicy! 😏

We start with a personal story that gets real about communication, expression, and self-discovery. Then, we roll into the fascinating history and fun facts about language, touching on the roots of both English and Portuguese. And of course...


Dino-rawr
#11
04/24/2025

Welcome to the wildest episode yet! In Episode 11 of The Real Us Podcast, we take you on a time-traveling journey to a land before time—where giants roamed, roars ruled the earth, and the facts are just as fierce as the creatures themselves.

🦖 This episode is a full-on prehistoric party packed with 50 fascinating dinosaur facts for all ages. But this isn't just about facts... it's about fun.

We're turning learning into laughter with six interactive podcast challenges that bring the dino world to life through creativity, imagination, and pure audio magic.

💥 Here’s what you’ll exp...


All Fun and Games
#10
04/10/2025

After getting real and raw last episode, we're lightening things up with some laughs, games, and fun facts! In this episode, we play a few silly (and maybe slightly chaotic) games and reveal some random, quirky, and unexpected things about ourselves. Sometimes the best way to connect is through joy and laughter.

Take a break from the heavy and come have some fun with us!

Got a fun story, random fact, or just something you want to share?

Send it to us at therealuspodcast@gmail.com — we’d love to hear from you!

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A Hard Pill to Swallow
#9
04/03/2025

Affirmation: It’s okay to begin again. Life is a battle—we win some, we lose some. Every time, we have to stop, breathe, and be thankful for any and all good in our lives.
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In this episode, we get really vulnerable about some of the hardest truths we’ve had to accept—the hard pills to swallow. Growth isn’t easy. It requires us to take a deep breath, release our ego and prejudice, and face ourselves head-on. We all struggle, but the key is transformation. Who we were isn’t who we have to be.
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It's a woman's world..
#8
03/27/2025

🎙️ Affirmation: I am worthy of all the universe has to offer.

Women have shaped history, broken barriers, and built legacies that continue to inspire us today. In this episode of The Real Us, Benji DeSomer and Alyssa Joy Chambers celebrate the power, resilience, and brilliance of women throughout history and in our everyday lives.

From past trailblazers to modern changemakers, we’re diving into what it truly means to live in a woman’s world.

💬 Drop a comment of your favorite women in history! Who inspires you? Who paved the way for you? Let’s honor their...


Let it go bitch
#7
03/20/2025

🎙️ Affirmation: I accept what I cannot change.

Life has a way of throwing curveballs, and sometimes, the hardest lesson to learn is letting go of what’s out of our control. In this episode of The Real Us, Benji DeSomer and Alyssa Joy Chambers dive into the power of release—why clinging to the uncontrollable only weighs us down and how true freedom comes from surrender.

🔥 Just the Tip: Read The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins—it just might change the way you see things.
💬 Comment Your Favorite "Let It Go" Expression! Whether it’s "Not my circus, n...


Ramblings of mad hatters!
#6
03/13/2025

In this episode, we dive deep into the chaos of corporate America, the so-called "American Dream," and the never-ending struggle to find stability and sustainability in a world that never slows down. Life and time? Sometimes, they feel like pure bullshit—and we’re here to talk about it.

 🔹 Affirmation of the Episode: Let them, and let me.
 🔹 Just the Tip: Keep breathing, take a moment, and let the world flow around you.

We’re embracing the madness, questioning the system, and finding our own way through it all. What’s your favorite spring activity? Drop a comment a...


Behind the smile
#5
03/06/2025

"My emotions are not weaknesses; they are proof of my depth and humanity."Mental health is real, and so are we. Behind the Smile is a safe space where we talk openly about the struggles we often hide, sharing tools, skills, and real-life experiences to help navigate the ups and downs. No filters—just honest conversations and support.

🌿 You're not alone. If you need help, reach out:
📞 Utah Warm Line: 833-773-2588
💬 Chat Support: 833-372-3388
🚨 Utah Crisis Line: 1-800-273-8255
🆘 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (U of U): 988
💛 Need a boost? Positive Pep Talk: 707-873-7862


The Second Date
#4
02/27/2025

In this episode, we dive deeper with fun questions to get to know each other better. From childhood memories to personal insights, we’re building real connections—one conversation at a time.💡 Episode Affirmation: "Everything works out in my best interest."🔹 Just the Tip: Stop, breathe, remember.
🔹 Question for You: What’s your favorite childhood memory? Drop it in the comments!
🔹 Got a story to share? Email us at Therealuspodcast@gmail.com—we’d love to hear from you!P.S. We’re working on our audio issues—thanks for sticking with us! 🎧💜 #TheRealUsPodcast


Giving Crerdit where Credit is due
#3
02/20/2025

In this episode of "The Real Us," we delve into the rich tapestry of Black History, sharing personal experiences and spotlighting the incredible contributions of Black inventors throughout history. Join us as we explore the stories of special individuals who have shaped our world with their ingenuity and resilience.

We apologize for the audio quality in this episode and assure you that we're actively working on improvements. For more links and resources discussed in this episode, be sure to visit our Instagram page.

For any inquiries, feel free to reach out to us at Therealuspodcast@gmail...