The 10 Year Marriage

Thriving as a Couple: How Clarity In Our Roles Unlocks Our Risk-Taking Abilities

In this episode, we delve into the dynamics of our relationship, emphasizing the importance of identifying the right roles in marriage and teamwork. We share personal anecdotes about our impulsive decisions, including leasing a Mustang horse, traveling to unfamiliar places, and transforming property investments. We discuss the necessity of having a shared vision and executing plans together while balancing individual strengths and weaknesses. Highlights include stories of buying and remodeling homes, traveling adventures, and our journey into RV life. We also touch on how...

Reimagining the American Dream: Living with Purpose and Breaking Free from Societal Norms

The Midlife Awakening...

In this thought-provoking episode, we delve into the concept of purpose and alignment in life and relationships.

Reflecting on the sudden death of a well-loved dentist, we explore the fleeting nature of life and question conventional ideas of success and the American Dream. We discuss the importance of living authentically, challenging societal norms, and forging our own paths. The conversation also touches on the midlife awakening many individuals and even America as a whole are experiencing, highlighting...

Maintaining Intimacy in Marriage: Avoiding the Roommate Trap.

Is your marriage starting to feel more like a roommate situation than a romantic partnership? In this raw and honest conversation, Dave and Angie dive deep into what it really takes to create a fulfilling relationship—one built on intimacy, honest communication, and intentional time together.

In this episode, we delve into the critical topic of marital intimacy and the pitfalls of becoming mere 'roommates' with your spouse. We explore the implications of drifting apart in marriage, sharing real-life examples and personal experiences. Our discussion covers the im...

Risking It All: The Path to True Growth and Unapologetic Living

In this episode, we dive into why we continually risk comfort and certainty in both business and marriage to pursue true growth and fulfillment.
We explore the idea of triggering conversations on our podcast, discuss the personal growth journey that comes from vulnerability and communication, and contemplate the importance of risking what we have to reach for what we truly want.
We share insights on breaking routines, moving beyond the zone of excellence to the zone of genius, and the importance of innovative thinking...

Exploring Intimacy and Sex Life in Modern Relationships

How often are you having sex? Do you wish it was more often?

In this episode, we dive deep into discussions around intimacy, sexual frequency, and the impact of modern distractions on relationships. We explore how often couples are really having sex, the truth behind these numbers, and what it means for the health of a relationship. We also discuss societal shifts, the role of spontaneous versus planned sex, and the influence of pornography. In addition, we cover the psychological aspects of sex, the importance of intimacy...

Navigating Jealousy and Insecurities in Relationships

In this episode, we dive deep into the complexities of jealousy and insecurities within relationships.
We discuss personal experiences of feeling trapped and the fear of being hurt, addressing how past relationships and family dynamics contribute to these emotions.
By exploring the difference between jealousy and being territorial, we uncover the hidden escape routes and self-sabotaging behaviors that can arise.
Through candid conversations, which is something we have had to work on, we highlight the importance of communication, self-reflection, and showing up for oneself to foster trust and...

Revolutionizing Education: Why Traditional Schooling is Failing Our Kids and What Options Do We Have?

In this episode, we dive into the pressing issues with the current education system. We discuss why today's schooling might not be preparing our children for real-world success, arguing that much of what is taught can easily be looked up online. Instead, we focus on what schools aren't teaching—skills like building a business, maintaining relationships, and understanding finances.
We share our personal experiences with different types of schools, including private, public, and micro-schools, and highlight the shortcomings and financial burdens of...

The Importance of Vacation for Relationship Connection and Personal Reset

In this episode, we discuss the profound impact of vacations on relationships and personal well-being. We dive into how stepping out of the everyday routine can break the monotony of marriage, improve connection with your partner, and even enhance your sex life. We share personal stories about how vacations have rejuvenated our marriage, provided opportunities to reconnect as a couple, and offered much-needed respite from parental responsibilities. We also emphasize the importance of planning periodic getaways, both with and without kids, to maintain a healthy balance in...

Exploring the 10-Year Marriage Contract: Commitment, Freedom, and Rebirth in Relationships

Diving Into YOUR Comments

In this episode of the 10 Year Marriage Podcast, Dave and Angie Tina discuss the concept of a 10-year marriage contract, inspired by the idea that marriage can evolve and transform over time. They dive into how setting potential end dates can create a richer and more committed relationship. Reflecting on their own experiences and insights from a previous podcast episode with Mark Groves, they address the viral reactions and poignant comments received from their audience. Through heartfelt and honest dialogue...

Navigating the Rollercoaster of Mental Health in Life and Relationships

In this episode, we dive deep into the topic of mental health impacts on relationships and personal well-being. We start with an analogy of life as a rollercoaster, emphasizing the importance of emotional health checks in coaching. The discussion highlights the importance of addressing mental health, especially when individuals rate their well-being low. We acknowledge the epidemic of loneliness and explore how it can manifest even in seemingly normal circumstances. The conversation moves to discuss various experiences from people close to us who felt isolated and took...

Navigating Financial Trust in Marriage | The 10 Year Marriage Podcast

In this episode of the 10-Year Marriage Podcast, hosts Dave and Angie Tina explore the concept of treating marriage like a 10-year contract.

They delve into the significance of trust and shared finances in a marriage, recounting personal experiences and the transformative power of an abundance mindset.

The Tinas share lessons from their own relationship, including dealing with limiting beliefs about money, the importance of joint financial management, and the impact of material success on self-worth.

Their candid discussion encourages listeners to...

Parenting with Tough Love and Communication: A Deep Dive

In this episode of the 10 Year Marriage Podcast, hosts Dave and Angie Tina explore our unique parenting approach, emphasizing resilience, independence, and unconditional love. We discuss our two crucial parenting rules: ensuring our children know they are loved and supporting them unconditionally through mistakes and failures. We share personal anecdotes, reflecting on our upbringing and experiences with our three children, Ella, Lola, and Gigi. We delve into the importance of open communication, setting boundaries, and being present while balancing affection and discipline. The episode highlights the challenges and...

The Evolving Dynamics of Gender Roles and Feminism in 2025

In this episode, we dive into the double-edged sword of feminism and its impact on modern relationships. We discuss how traditional gender roles have drastically changed over generations, the balance between masculine and feminine energies, and the unintended consequences of feminism. As we explore our personal experiences and the dynamics within our marriage, we highlight the importance of purpose, mutual respect, and effective communication in navigating these evolving roles.

00:00 Introduction to Modern Leadership

00:30 The Evolution of Gender Roles

00:48 The Double-Edged Sword of...

Finding Faith: From Reluctance to Revelation

In this deeply personal episode, we explore the spiritual journey of a couple (us) navigating our faith from Catholic roots to a broader and more inclusive understanding of spirituality.

We discuss early influences, the struggle with organized religion, and the new paths we've discovered through open-minded exploration.

Through candid conversations about God, spiritual practices, and raising our children in a faith-inclusive environment, we underscore the importance of curiosity, openness, and love in spiritual growth. Whether it's through traditional methods, meditation, or personal rituals, we share how they've...

Growth Requires Discomfort—Here’s Why It’s Worth It

In this episode, we discuss our concepts for effective personal and relationship growth, emphasizing goals, unwavering faith, immovable energy, infectious joy, and living life without limits. We share our transformative experiences in 2023, including acquiring a horse and a new home, making significant business and personal decisions, and outlining plans for 2025. Their key message is about sustaining growth and joy within a partnership, illustrating the importance of setting big, empowering goals together. Learn how we create compelling shared futures as a way to continually evolve both personally and as a c...

🎙️ Episode 7: The True Art Of Seduction: What Makes a Man Attractive to Women?

In this powerful episode, Dave and Angie dive into the deep connection between attraction, purpose, and personal growth. They explore what truly makes a man attractive beyond looks—presence, confidence, and a clear vision for life. Through personal stories and honest reflections, they uncover how stepping into your purpose not only changes how you see yourself but also how others see you.

What’s Inside:

🔥 The Power of Purpose: Why attraction isn’t just about looks—it...

🎙️The Unspoken Conversations Before Divorce: Truth, Vulnerability, and Resolution
In this episode, the discussion centers around the critical conversations married couples need to have before contemplating divorce.
We explore the common thoughts and issues that lead to divorce, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection and honest communication. 

We highlight the role of external third-party feedback, like from a therapist, and discuss the pitfalls of relying solely on biased opinions from friends. The narrative delves into the dynamics of relationship conflicts, how indifference and isolation can drive couples apart, and the necessity of having difficult yet vital conver...

🎙️ Episode 5: The 10-Year Marriage - A Contract for Growth & Commitment

In this powerful episode, we dive deeper into the concept of the 10-year marriage contract, an idea that challenges traditional views on commitment and forces couples to continuously choose each other. We discuss the origin story behind this idea and how it has changed how we view this life we are building together. We explore how relationships evolve, why growth is essential, and how to keep passion alive over time.

What’s Inside:

The 10-Year Marriage Concept: Why...

🎙️ Episode 4: How to Heal Relationship Wounds and Build Real Love with Mark Groves

In this deep and thought-provoking conversation, Dave and Angie sit down with relationship expert Mark Groves to explore what it truly means to choose your partner every day. They dive into love, commitment, communication, and personal growth, tackling questions about attachment, trust, and how to build a lasting relationship.

What’s Inside:

The Power of Choice in Relationships: Why your partner could leave at any time—and why that’s a good thing.
Attachment Styles & Relationship Dynamics: How past wounds shap...

🎙️ Episode 3: The Story of Us: Love, Chaos, and Growth

In this heartfelt episode, Dave and Angie share the story of how they met, fell in love, and built a life together. From awkward first dates to building a business and raising a family, this episode is filled with humor, challenges, and lessons learned along the way.

What’s Inside:

How They Met: The real estate office banter, first impressions, and early sparks.
The Proposal: A Bellagio fountain moment complete with nerves and a cheesy twist.
Building a Life Together: Navigating business, family...

🎙️ **Episode 2: Who Pays the Bill? Money, Power, and Partnership**

In this episode, Dave and Angie tackle the often-taboo topic of money dynamics in relationships. They dive deep into how finances influence power, connection, and growth as a couple. From combining accounts to redefining roles, they share their experiences and philosophies on creating a united front in marriage. 

What’s Inside:

- Who Pays for Dinner?: A look at modern relationship norms and old-school values.
- Joint or Separate Finances?: The pros and cons of pooling your money as a couple.
- Money Mi...

🎙️ Episode 1: The 10-Year Marriage - Conflict, Communication, and Connection

In this candid debut episode, we, Dave and Angie open up about the highs, lows, and lessons of their 15-year relationship. We explore how conflict, communication styles, and shared goals shape a strong partnership. We discuss the following:

The Importance of Fighting Right: Why healthy conflict can lead to deeper connection.Attachment Styles in Relationships: Avoidant, anxious, and secure dynamics—and how they manifest in everyday life.The Power of Communication: Real-time examples of how conversations can bridge emotional gaps.

🎙️ Episode 1: The 10-Year Marriage - Conflict, Communication, and Connection

In this candid debut episode, we, Dave and Angie open up about the highs, lows, and lessons of their 15-year relationship. We explore how conflict, communication styles, and shared goals shape a strong partnership. We discuss the following:

The Importance of Fighting Right: Why healthy conflict can lead to deeper connection.Attachment Styles in Relationships: Avoidant, anxious, and secure dynamics—and how they manifest in everyday life.The Power of Communication: Real-time examples of how conversations can bridge emotional gaps.

The “10-Year Marriage” podcast is raw, real, and unapologetically honest. Hosted by Dave and Angie Tina this show dives headfirst into the messy, beautiful, and often hilarious realities of marriage.

No “off-limits” as they explore what it really takes to make a relationship work and whether or not it’s worth re-committing to each other. 

Inspired by the concept of treating marriage like a 10-year agreement, Dave and Angie share their experiences navigating over a decade of love, connection, conflict, growth and change. They ask the tough questions...