The Contentment Creator

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By: Ellen Broen

Welcome to The Contentment Creator Podcast – the ultimate podcast for conscious creators, mindful parents, and visionary entrepreneurs who are ready to embrace courage, clarity, and contentment in every facet of life. I’m your host, Ellen Broen – a certified life coach, professional singer, mom, and unapologetic fan of clever wordplay, cozy books, and adorable dogs. This podcast is your daily dose of inspiration to help you: ✨ Find clarity in your life vision and decisions. ✨ Ignite creativity and unlock your entrepreneurial potential. ✨ Cultivate contentment and balance in your personal and professional journey. ✨ Build thriving communities that feel like home. Each short, impactful epis...

10 Minute 4-7-8 Breathing Guided Session (Deep Relaxation)
Today at 10:00 AM

What if calm was just one breath pattern away?

In this guided somatic session, we move beyond talking about regulation—and into experiencing it in real time.

Using the 4-7-8 breathing technique, you’ll be led through a rhythmic practice designed to slow the nervous system, release tension, and bring the body back into a state of safety and relaxation.

All you need to do is follow the sound:

Inhale as the higher tones play

Hold in stillness

Exhale with the lower tones

No over...


Regulate in Real Time: Guided Nervous System Reset (Somatic Exercises)
Yesterday at 10:00 AM

What if regulation wasn’t something you had to figure out…but something your body already knows how to return to?

This somatic integration series is designed to help you step out of overthinking and into real-time regulation using simple, body-based practices you can actually feel.

Instead of just learning about healing, you’ll experience it moment by moment, breath by breath.

Inside this experience:

Guided 4-7-8 breathing to calm the nervous system and support deep relaxationGentle body-based movements to release stored stress and tensionVagus nerve activation through breath, sound, and ground...


Using ChatGPT as my AI Business Coach
Last Friday at 10:00 AM

I decided to put my AI coaching chatbot to the test in a deeply personal way: navigating the crossroads of my business while freshly postpartum. Running a business in this season feels like juggling a dozen moving pieces of energy, clients, content, and community and I found myself asking the question that keeps me awake at night: what direction should I take now?

I’ve set up coaching masterclasses, harvested content clips, and begun to grow my audience, but I still feel a bit aimless. Is it Circle, YouTube memberships, new programs, or something else en...


I used ChatGPT as my AI life coach – Here’s what happened
Last Thursday at 10:00 AM

I decided to explore boundaries in marriage through a deeply personal lens. Setting limits can feel both protective and uncomfortable, especially when they touch on deeply held values or differences. My husband and I are generally good at creating boundaries, but some like “no-go zones” around politics still stir subtle tension for me. I tend to be an open book, while he’s more private, and “agreeing to disagree” has sometimes felt like a barrier to connection. In this episode, I reflect on what it means to hold boundaries as healthy and loving, without shrinking my sense of safety or closene...


I asked AI life coach for parenting advice (I didn’t expect this)
Last Wednesday at 10:00 AM

I decided to turn my attention inward and notice a pattern in how I share updates about my kids. My husband’s updates tend to skew positive, while mine include both joys and struggles but the struggles often take center stage. This isn’t about fake positivity; it’s about the ways our brains naturally prioritize challenges over beauty. In this episode, I explore why I focus on the “negative,” how that shapes my story as a parent, and what shifts when I pause to truly linger in joy.

In our conversation, we unpacked:

✔ How ne...


ChatGPT Helped Me Regulate in 5 Minutes (simple somatic exercises)
04/21/2026

I decided to put my custom AI coaching chatbot to the test in a deeply personal way: regulating my own nervous system in real time. As a certified life coach, I know how hard it is to pause, tune in, and truly meet yourself where you are but what happens when a tool you built meets you exactly where you are, without judgment or expectation? This episode isn’t about technology; it’s about what surfaces when you stop performing, stop fixing, and actually go inward.

In this session, my AI guided me through five simp...


Life Coach REACTS to AI Life Coach (Can it coach ME?)
04/20/2026

Can AI actually coach you? I put my own chatbot to the test and the results surprised me.

What happens when a certified life coach sits down with a custom-programmed AI chatbot coach? I trained that AI chat-bot life coach in my own coaching style and core competencies, and let it coach me in real time across four areas of my life: my personal life, my parenting, my marriage, and my business.

This isn't a tech review. It's a raw, honest look at what happens when you let yourself be coached by something you built...


The Nervous System Reason You ‘Fall Off Track’
04/17/2026

It’s not a discipline problem, it’s your nervous system.

This episode breaks down overthinking, nervous system regulation, somatic healing, nervous system healing, and why you can’t stop overthinking to explain why consistency feels so hard.

If you’ve ever said:

Why can’t I stay consistent?Why do I fall off track?Why do I burn out after doing well?

This will reframe everything.

You’ll learn:

✔ Why inconsistency is a nervous system cycle

✔ How activation leads to burnout

✔ How to stay connected ins...


What it Actually Feels Like to Be Regulated (It’s not what you think)
04/16/2026

Being regulated doesn’t mean calm all the time—and that changes everything.

In this episode, we explore nervous system regulation, somatic healing, overthinking, nervous system healing, and why you can’t stop overthinking in a way that actually feels realistic.

You’ll learn:

✔ Why calm isn’t the goal

✔ What regulation actually feels like

✔ How to build capacity instead of control

✔ How to return to yourself faster

Because nervous system regulation, somatic healing, overthinking, nervous system healing, and why you can’t stop overthinking are about capacity—n...


The Missing Piece in Nervous System Healing (It’s not mindset.)
04/15/2026

If you feel “on” one day and completely drained the next—this is why.

We’re diving into nervous system healing, overthinking, somatic healing, nervous system regulation, and why you can’t stop overthinking—and the real reason you keep crashing.

This episode explains:

✔ The activation → crash cycle

✔ Why productivity can actually be dysregulation

✔ Why mindset alone isn’t enough

✔ How to regulate before burnout hits

Because nervous system healing, overthinking, somatic healing, nervous system regulation, and why you can’t stop overthinking all point to one thing: your body is...


Overthinking is a Nervous System Response (Not a personality trait)
04/14/2026

Overthinking isn’t who you are, it’s your body trying to protect you.

In this episode, we unpack overthinking, why you can’t stop overthinking, nervous system regulation, somatic healing, and nervous system healing so you can stop blaming yourself and start understanding your body.

If you’ve ever thought:

Why can’t I turn my brain off?Why am I always overthinking?Why doesn’t mindset work for me?

This is the answer.

You’ll learn:

✔ Why overthinking is a nervous system response

✔ How your body creates...


You Can’t Think Your Way to Healing (Here’s what ACTUALLY works)
04/13/2026

Overthinking isn’t a mindset problem, it’s a nervous system response. In this episode, we break down overthinking, nervous system regulation, why you can’t stop overthinking, somatic healing, and nervous system healing so you can finally understand what’s really going on.

If you’ve been stuck in your head wondering:

Why you can’t stop overthinkingWhy awareness alone isn’t workingHow to regulate your nervous systemWhy healing feels harder than it should

This episode will shift everything.

You’ll learn:

✔ Why overthinking is NOT your personality

✔ The real reaso...


Before You Quit Your Dream, Listen to This
04/10/2026

Before you make a big decision, listen to this.

We explore giving up on a dream, how to know when to quit, perfectionism, people pleasing, and how to stop people pleasing and why quitting isn’t your only option.

This episode will help you:

✔ Redefine your path without burning it down

✔ Understand when giving up on a dream is right

✔ Shift perfectionism into alignment

✔ Stop people pleasing and reclaim your voice

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The Complicated Emotions of Moving On
04/09/2026

Why does it hurt to leave something you chose to walk away from?

This episode explores giving up on a dream, how to know when to quit, perfectionism, people pleasing, and how to stop people pleasing—through the lens of grief and relief.

Inspired by themes from I'm Glad My Mom Died.

We talk about:

✔ Grieving the dream you outgrew

✔ Why giving up on a dream still hurts

✔ How to know when to quit without shame

✔ Letting go of people pleasing

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When Perfectionism Kills Your Passion (& what Alysa Liu taught us)
04/08/2026

When does mastery turn into pressure?

This episode dives into perfectionism, giving up on a dream, how to know when to quit, people pleasing, and how to stop people pleasing and how perfectionism slowly disconnects you from what you love.

If you’ve ever:

Felt like you’re doing everything right… but feel worseWondered how to know when to quit something you loveStruggled with people pleasing in your work

This is your wake-up call.

We also reflect on Alysa Liu and what her story reveals about passion and pressure.

Join...


Why I’m glad I gave up on my dream (and what I found instead)
04/07/2026

I’m glad I gave up on my dream and I never thought I’d say that.

In this episode, we unpack giving up on a dream, how to know when to quit, perfectionism, people pleasing, and how to stop people pleasing through a deeply personal story.

If you’ve ever questioned:

Is it ok to give up on your dreams?How to know when to quit without regretWhether perfectionism is costing you joy

This is for you.

Giving up on a dream didn’t mean failure. It meant choosing myself.<...


When Your Dream Stops Feeling Right: What to Do Next
04/06/2026

Giving up on a dream isn’t failure. In this episode, we explore giving up on a dream, how to know when to quit, perfectionism, people pleasing, and how to stop people pleasing and what happens when your dream stops feeling like yours.

If you’ve ever wondered:

Is it ok to give up on your dreams?How to know when to quit something you once lovedWhether perfectionism is killing your passionHow people pleasing shapes your pathHow to stop people pleasing and choose yourself

This episode will change how you see success.

I sh...


Trust Your Intuition: The Decision-Making Skill No One Teaches
04/03/2026

What is intuition… and how can we actually use it to make better decisions?

In this episode, we explore intuition through science, lived experience, and philosophy and how these perspectives come together to guide the choices you make every day.

You’ll discover:

The science of intuition: how your brain uses fast, unconscious pattern recognition (System 1 thinking) to process millions of signals and deliver a “knowing” without explanationThe role of the brain’s default mode network—why your best insights often come when you’re walking, driving, or not actively trying to solve the problemWhy int...


The Emotional Side of Decision Making (Most People Ignore This)
04/02/2026

Did you know that emotions aren’t the enemy of good decisions, they’re actually the system that tells you what matters? In this episode, we explore the science of emotional awareness, affective forecasting, and how tuning into your feelings can transform the way you make decisions.

We’ll dive into:

How emotions act as a rapid evaluation system, constantly signaling safety, opportunity, or riskThe somatic marker hypothesis and how past experiences quietly shape your present choicesWhy naming your emotions with precision (emotional granularity) improves clarity and decision-makingHow different emotions influence your attention, creativity, and perspective in sub...


Your Body Knows Before Your Brain: The Science of Making Hard Decisions
04/01/2026

Can your body actually help you make better decisions? This episode dives deep into the science of interoception and your brain’s way of reading internal signals like your heartbeat, breathing, and subtle physical sensations and how tuning into these messages can guide you toward aligned choices.

If you’ve ever felt “something’s off” in your body about a decision, this episode explains why those signals matter, and how to use them without blindly following every gut feeling. Inspired by cutting-edge neuroscience and the work of Antonio Damasio, you’ll discover how your body, emotions, and mind work to...


How to Make Better Decisions Without Overthinking (Simple Tool)
03/31/2026

How do you actually make the right decision… without overthinking, second-guessing, or relying on the wrong signals?

In this episode, we break down the real science behind decision-making and why it’s not just about logic. If you’ve ever wondered whether to trust your gut, follow your emotions, or think things through… this will change how you see your choices.

Because the truth is your best decisions don’t come from just one.

They come from learning how to work with your body, your emotions, and your thinking mind together.

In this ep...


The Psychology of Decision Making: Trust Your Gut or Think It Through?
03/30/2026

How do we actually make aligned, effective decisions in our lives?

Decision-making has four powerful lenses: logic, body, emotions, and intuition. Today we are discovering how they work together to guide you toward choices that feel clear, grounded, and true.

Because the truth is…

We’re not just thinking our way through decisions.

We’re feeling, sensing, interpreting, and often reacting whether we realize it or not.

You’ll learn:

Why decision-making isn’t purely logical and how emotions actually drive what we chooseThe difference...


I turned ChatGPT into my AI business coach (the results surprised me)
03/27/2026

Can AI actually help you grow your business? I tested it.

✨ Try the chatbot for yourself: ellenbroencoaching.kit.com/elleninmypocket

I used an AI business coach to gain clarity and direction in my business. Out of all the tests, this is where ChatGPT for coaching business performed the strongest.

If you’ve been learning how to use AI for business coaching, this is a real example of how an AI life coach can support strategy, decision-making, and clarity.


What you’ll learn:

Why AI performs better in bus...


Can ChatGPT be my AI life coach? (Parenting edition)
03/26/2026

AI business coach, how to use AI for business coaching, ChatGPT for coaching business, AI life coach, personal life coach, can AI actually help you become a better parent? I tested it.

✨ Try the chatbot for yourself: ellenbroencoaching.kit.com/elleninmypocket

In this episode, I test an AI life coach on parenting challenges like patience, emotional regulation, and discipline. As a professional coach, I break down how this AI business coach performs in high-emotion situations.


If you’re using ChatGPT for coaching business or learning how to use AI for busi...


Can AI help my marriage? (I tried an AI life Coach.)
03/25/2026

Can AI actually help your relationship? I tested it.

✨ Try the chatbot for yourself: ellenbroencoaching.kit.com/elleninmypocket


In this episode, I use an AI life coach to work through real struggles in my marriage. As both a coach and a client, I evaluate how effective this AI business coach is in emotional and relational situations.


If you’re exploring ChatGPT for coaching business or curious how to use AI for business coaching, this gives insight into how AI performs in deeply human areas like connection and comm...


I Asked AI to Coach Me — Here’s What It Said
03/24/2026

Can AI actually help with creative burnout? I tested it. I used an AI life coach to work through creative burnout and lack of motivation. As a certified coach, I break down how this AI business coach performs when it comes to deeper emotional and creative struggles.

If you’ve been wondering how to use AI for business coaching or experimenting with ChatGPT for coaching business, this is a real-world test of what actually works.


Get my AI coach bot:

ellenbroencoaching.kit.com/elleninmypocket


Here’s wh...


Life Coach REACTS to AI Life Coach
03/23/2026

Can an AI life coach actually help you grow, heal, and make better decisions, and actually replace real coaching? I tested it.

✨ Try the chatbot for yourself: ellenbroencoaching.kit.com/elleninmypocket


In this episode, I put my custom-built chatbot to the test as both an AI business coach and personal life coach to see how it performs in real-life situations including marriage, parenting, creativity, and business.

If you’ve ever wondered how to use AI for business coaching or whether ChatGPT for coaching business is actually effective, this is your behi...


The Fastest Way to Exit Fight-or-Flight in an Argument
03/19/2026

What happens when your nervous system gets hijacked in the middle of an argument?

When conflict triggers your fight, flight, freeze, or fawn response, it can feel like your body is reacting to real danger even when you're simply having a conversation with someone you love.

In this episode of The Contentment Creator Podcast, we walk through a guided nervous system reset designed to help you calm your body, regulate your emotions, and reconnect with your partner during moments of conflict.

This guided exercise combines breathwork, somatic grounding, and nervous system awareness to...


The Key to Nervous System Healing (Stop talking, and do this instead.)
03/18/2026

Why does anxiety or emotional overwhelm sometimes appear out of nowhere even when life seems completely fine?

In this episode of The Contentment Creator Podcast, we explore how trauma and stress are stored in the body and why nervous system regulation requires more than mindset work.

Inspired by insights from The Body Keeps the Score, we talk about how the nervous system remembers experiences the mind may not fully process, and why cycles of hyperactivation and shutdown are common for high-performing creatives and entrepreneurs.

Through personal stories and somatic healing practices, this episode...


Why Your Nervous System Won't Regulate (until you do this 1 thing)
03/17/2026

Why do so many nervous system tools work for a while… and then suddenly stop working?

In this episode of The Contentment Creator Podcast, we talk about the missing piece in nervous system regulation. Many of us try meditation, breathwork, therapy, and self-care routines hoping they will fix our anxiety, burnout, or emotional overwhelm.

But the real shift happens when we stop fighting our current state and start cultivating safety in the body.

Through personal stories and practical insights, this episode explains why trying to “fix” anxiety can actually keep your nervous system stuck...


Reset Your Nervous System: Simple Somatic Exercises That Calm Anxiety Fast
03/16/2026

How do we get out of our heads and back into our bodies when anxiety, overwhelm, or emotional shutdown takes over?

In this episode of The Contentment Creator Podcast, we explore the deeper truth about nervous system regulation. Many of us try meditation, breathwork, therapy, routines, and productivity hacks, hoping they will fix anxiety. But the real shift happens when we stop trying to control our state and start cultivating safety within our bodies.

Through personal experiences, trauma research, and practical somatic tools, this episode explains why healing your nervous system is less about doing...


Overcome Imposter Syndrome in Parenthood: Why Every Parent Feels Like a Fraud
03/12/2026

Imposter syndrome in parenthood, parenting self doubt, mom guilt, fear of failing as a parent, bad parent anxiety are more common than anyone admits. In this episode we break down imposter syndrome in parenthood and why parenting self doubt feels so isolating.

If you live with mom guilt, fear of failing as a parent, or bad parent anxiety, this conversation will normalize what is happening in your nervous system and give you practical tools to shift it.


In this episode you will learn:

• Why imposter syndrome in parenthood feels so pe...


Why you feel unlovable in marriage (It’s not what you think.)
03/11/2026

Imposter syndrome in marriage, feeling unlovable, marriage insecurity, attachment wounds, fear of rejection do not get talked about enough. This episode breaks down how imposter syndrome in marriage quietly convinces you that you are not enough and how to stop the spiral.

When imposter syndrome in marriage shows up, it does not feel like performance anxiety. It feels like feeling unlovable. It feels like marriage insecurity. It feels like fear of rejection and fear of being exposed.


In this episode you will learn:

• Why imposter syndrome in marriage is about at...


This ONE thing will END imposter syndrome.
03/10/2026

Imposter syndrome, imposter syndrome types, inner critic, self doubt, perfectionism are everywhere right now and most advice is shallow. In this episode we break down imposter syndrome, the five imposter syndrome types, and how to respond to your inner critic.

Imposter syndrome is not a diagnosis. Imposter syndrome is fear, and it shows up as self doubt, perfectionism, and overworking. If imposter syndrome is running your mind, your relationships, or your creativity, this episode will help you name it and stop agreeing with it.


You will learn:

• The 5 imposter syndrome ty...


How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome (2026 edition)
03/09/2026

It is 2026 and the internet still treats imposter syndrome like a diagnosis or a motivational quote. In this episode, we break down what imposter syndrome actually is, why it shows up so intensely for high achieving creative entrepreneurs, and how to stop letting it sabotage your happiness and success.

You will learn:

• The real definition of imposter syndrome and why it feels so loud

• The 5 types of imposter syndrome from Dr. Valerie Young

• How to respond to your inner critic instead of agreeing with it

• Why imposter syndrome in marriage...


2 WORDS to Overcome Imposter Syndrome as a Business Owner
03/06/2026

Imposter syndrome in business, pricing confidence, self worth as an entrepreneur, undercharging, value vs worth are at the core of why so many creative entrepreneurs feel anxious, exhausted, and never quite enough.

In this episode we unpack imposter syndrome in business and how it impacts pricing confidence, self worth as an entrepreneur, and the cycle of undercharging and overdelivering.


You will learn:

• Why imposter syndrome in business shows up around your rates

• The critical difference between value vs worth

• Why undercharging is often rooted in self worth...


The #1 Reason Your Business Doesn’t Feel Fulfilling
03/06/2026

Why doesn’t your business feel fulfilling anymore?

If you started your business for freedom, autonomy, and creativity but now feel drained, overwhelmed, or resentful, this episode is for you.


In this conversation, we explore:

• The #1 reason your business doesn’t feel fulfilling

• How role drift pulls you out of your zone of genius

• Why resentment in business leads to burnout

• Capacity creep and nervous system overload

• The difference between CEO vision and operator mode

• How to realign your business with your actual...


When Parenthood Feels Like Too Much… Watch This
03/05/2026

When parenthood feels overwhelming, overstimulating, or just like too much, it may not be anger, it may be resentment in parenthood.

Resentment in parenthood is rarely loud. It is quiet exhaustion. It is unmet needs. It is a loss of agency. It is grief mixed with nervous system overload.


In this episode, we explore:

• What resentment in parenthood really looks like

• Why resentment often equals grief plus unmet needs

• The “boundary translation” exercise

• How to stop self abandonment in early parenthood

• How to regulate be...


The REAL REASON Your Marriage Is Falling Apart (And How to Fix It)
03/04/2026

Is resentment quietly destroying your marriage?

If your marriage feels disconnected, tense, or like you’re constantly citing “evidence” in arguments, resentment in marriage may be the real reason things feel like they’re falling apart.


In this episode, we break down:

• Why resentment in marriage builds slowly

• How unmet needs and expectations fuel resentment

• The difference between conscious and unconscious relationship contracts

• Why people pleasing and boundary breaking create resentment

• The simple sentence that exposes hidden expectations

• How to repair connection be...


THIS Is Stopping Your Personal Growth (And How to Move Forward)
03/03/2026

What is really stopping your personal growth? It might be resentment. If you are stuck in your personal growth journey, struggling with how to release resentment, or feeling quietly blocked in your relationships or business, this episode is for you.

Resentment is not just anger.


It is unexpressed, unhealed, or unheard hurt that compounds over time and eventually turns into resignation.


In this episode, we break down:

• What resentment actually is

• The frustration to anger to resentment spectrum

• Why time does not he...