FamilyLife Blended® Podcast

18 Episodes
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By: FamilyLife - A Cru Ministry

FamilyLife Blended® provides timeless wisdom and practical help and hope for blended families and those who love them. Join Ron L. Deal, LMFT, LPC as he and his guests discuss a wide variety of marriage, family, and relationship topics related to blended families.

169: Growing up Blended: The Hidden Grief Kids Carry
Last Monday at 11:00 AM

Blake Hudspeth tells Ron Deal about growing up in multiple stepfamilies pieced together from death & divorce. As a result, he carried unresolved wounds into adulthood & gives advice to parents on helping their kids navigate growing up blended.


168: Learning from Stepfamilies of the Bible
07/14/2025

Guidance for blending families can be found in stories from scripture. Ron Deal talks with Laura Petherbridge about her latest book, Stepfamilies of the Bible, and how God's heroes from stepfamilies of biblical times provide tools for today's families.


167: Unrecognized Loss, Unexpressed Grief
06/30/2025

Divorce and the death of a spouse bring grief. But we don't always recognize the grief our kids carry. Ron Deal talks with Stanley and Mryna Brown about how they navigated their own grief when they married and later, learned how to help their kids also.


166: The Six Stages on Your Stepfamily Journey
06/16/2025

Every blended family navigates common stages on their way to finding familyness. But some get stuck along the way. Others experience a detour or two. Gayla Grace shares the six stages of stepfamily development and tips on how to navigate them well.


165: Two Homes, One Team: Co-Parenting for Your Kids’ Well-being
06/02/2025

Good co-parenting with a former spouse helps our kids navigate life in two homes with greater ease. Ron Deal's conversation with Jay and Tammy Daughtry teaches us how to be parental partners, not angry associates, through a businesslike relationship.


164: Building Character for Stronger Relationships: Developing the 4 Essential Character Traits to Raise Resilient Kids
05/19/2025

According to Dr. John Townsend there are four essential character traits essential for stronger relationships: attachment, separation, integration, and adulthood. He shares with Ron Deal what's required in each that helps raise resilient kids.


163: Cutting the Tension: Building Trust Between a Stepmom and Stepdaughter
05/05/2025

The stepmom-stepdaughter relationship can be hard to navigate in blended families. Ron Deal talks with Jessica & Jayla Pickens about their struggles, which began early & continued for years, how they cut through tension, and built a trusting relationship.


162: One Family’s Journey to Blended Unity: Looking Back to the Teenage Years
04/21/2025

Tim & Olivia Smith brought six kids into their blended family. They share with Ron Deal the joys and challenges of relationship building. Tim’s daughter, Christie, joins in with her perspective as a teenager from the early years of their blended family.


161: Growing Up Blended, and Navigating the Maze to Build Strong Blended Bonds
04/07/2025

Robert & Jennie Lord both grew up in blended families and share their story with Ron Deal of the impact from the maze of multiple stepparents, challenges in relationship building and their desire to now build healthy relational bonds in their own family.


160 From Shame to Strength: A Single Mom’s Journey to Healing and Hope
03/24/2025

Jennifer Maggio shares her story with Ron Deal of her challenges as a single mom that propelled her to begin a national ministry, serving over 1,000,000 single moms. Now married in a blended family, she continues the mission that no single mom walk alone.


159 The 3-Step Guide to Navigating Hard Feelings in Your Blended Family
03/10/2025

What do you do with feelings like anger, jealousy, hurt, or rejection in your blended family? Listen to Ron Deal’s conversation with Dr. Alison Cook, who offers a three-step process to work through hard feelings and find healing and hope for your journey.


158 Prodigal Parents: Rebuilding Relationships with Children and Not Losing Your Influence
02/24/2025

Parenting a prodigal creates pain and helplessness in how to navigate. Listen to Ron Deal’s conversation with Judy Douglass, a prodigal parent, on how to tenderly manage the dynamics & do our part to bring them back into a loving, trusting relationship.


157 “I see you”: Creating Community for Brown & Black Blended Families
02/10/2025

Cheryl Shumake wants to reach brown & black blended families with brown & black voices. She & Clifton Howard talk with Ron Deal about her new ministry, Sawubona, which means “I see you” & its goal to break through the barriers with culture-informed spaces


156 Playing Hurt: A Guy’s Strategy for a Winning Marriage
01/27/2025

Ron Deal talks with Brian Goins, author of Playing Hurt, A Guy’s Strategy for a Winning Marriage, on finding the resolve to stay in your marriage despite the struggles and how husbands can win at marriage by taking on the mind of Christ in Philippians 2.


155 A New Year, An Improved Self, A Better Marriage
01/13/2025

Do you want more harmony or connectedness in your marriage? Ron Deal talks with co-authors of his new book ,The Mindful Marriage, on how couples can understand their part of marital tension, why they react the way they do, and how to relate as companions.


154 From Their Perspective: Adjusting to a Bigger Family, Luke Landwer
12/30/2024

Luke Landwer was young when his parents divorced, and he enjoyed time with just his mom for many years. When she remarried a man with six kids, Luke made many adjustments. Listen to his conversation with Ron Deal about adjusting to a bigger family.


153 From Their Perspective: Talking With A Young Adult, Amelia Dellaripa
12/16/2024

Life in a stepfamily as a young adult can carry challenges and blessings. For Amelia Dellaripa, it carries many more blessings. Listen to her conversation with Ron Deal on how her stepfamily of 7 developed love and acceptance with one another over time.


152 From Their Perspective: Losing a Dad and Life with a Stepdad with Davis & Campbell Faulkner
12/02/2024

What’s it like to be a teenager in a blended family? Ron Deal talks with Davis and Campbell Faulkner about adjusting to a stepdad after their dad passed away and how they’ve navigated loss and grief and found gratitude for their current journey.