Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast
Welcome to the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, which will give you practical marriage and relationship advice on physical intimacy, conflict resolution, sharing power, emotional intimacy, staying in love, and much more. Have questions you would like Dr. Wyatt to answer about your marriage? You can reach him live at 303-578-0618 Tuesdays and Thursdays from 4-5pm MST (3-4pm PST, 5-6pm CST, 6-7pm EST). The Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast is one of the only podcasts providing live call-in support so take advantage of it! Relationships can be tough work. Partners have different needs, different expectations, and different...
How To Fix Your Marriage When You Feel Like Adversaries
Do you feel more like adversaries than allies with your partner? Do you feel more like opponents than teammates? If you answered yes you're going to appreciate this episode as I discuss this pattern, what causes it, what it feels like, and how to fix it.
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Overcoming Blocks To Responsive Desire In Couples
Have problems in the bedroom? Not sure how to get unstuck? Well, you're in good hands. In this episode I discuss the difference between spontaneous and responsive desire and how to optimize intimacy in your relationship. Hope you find it helpful! Send your questions to info@drwyattfisher.com.
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Decode Your Partner's Body Language (The HIDDEN Truths)
How often do you observe your partner's nonverbal communication? Their facial expressions, their tone, their body language. Believe it or not, more is often said through nonverbal communication than through verbal communication. In this episode on the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast I break down the top things to watch for and what it may mean about your partner.
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Marriage Advice That Actually Works
There's lots of marriage advice available on the internet but which advice is helpful and which advice is not. On the podcast this week, I discuss a perspective to marriage advice you may have not heard before but can probably definitely relate to. Give it a listen and see if it applies to your relationship.
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5 Reasons Most Marriages Fail
What takes a couple from "I do" to "I want a divorce?" What moves a couple from "I can't get enough of you" to "I can't wait to get away from you?" It's a sad unfolding for many relationships and in this new episode I unpack the top five reasons marriages fail and how to stop it.
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Communication In Relationships: 8 Keys To Effective Communication
Learning to communicate well is the cornerstone to a healthy relationship. Unfortunately, we're not taught how to communicate well and therefore make many mistakes, often without realizing it. In this new episode I discuss the top 8 communication mistakes to avoid.
Here's the article version for you to read on communication in relationships
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Call In: How Can We Process Through Our Relationship Trauma?
In this call in podcast I respond to two fellas who were calling in for different reasons. The first one wanted help with how to work through the trauma their relationship went through. The second just wanted some guidance on how to keep learning about marriage and relationships.
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How To Get Your Wife In The Romantic Mood
Are you the higher drive partner and wish you could help your spouse get in the mood? If you answered yes you're going to enjoy this episode where I cover 4 things you can do and 4 things your partner can do. Be sure to listen to this one together and discuss further! Check out the article version on how to ger her in the mood here!
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My Partner Is Cheating, What Should I Do?
Listen to three listeners as they ask me questions about how to handle their relationship! The theme is they all are facing infidelity or separation.
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How To Bring Back Romance To Your Relationship
Wish you had more romance in your relationship? Do you often feel more like roommates and business associates than lovers? You're not alone if you answered yes. Most couples lose the romance over time. In this new episode I'm going to show you some practical steps to bring it back!
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4 Conflict Resolution Mistakes To Avoid To Save Your Relationship
Did you know that how you handle conflict is one of the biggest predictors of divorce? It's true. Dr. Gottman found multiple behaviors couples have in conflict that predict divorce. In this episode I discuss what those are and the top 4 conflict resolution mistakes to avoid.
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Is Your Partner Drinking Too Much?
Are you wondering if your partner is drinking too much? Are they telling you it's their choice how much they drink? If so, you're going to have some marital problems. Any addictive behavior that impairs your relationship is a marital topic. In this episode I walk you through some steps on what to do about it.
Here's an article on when to separate from an addict.
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Reverse Engineer A Sexless Marriage In 5 Steps
No one gets married to eventually be in a sexless marriage. However, that happens to many couples. In the episode today I discuss five steps to reverse engineer a sexless marriage to have more intimacy in your relationship!
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Is Your Partner Gaslighting You? Find Out Here!
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Recognizing whether your partner is gaslighting you is crucial because gaslighting can deeply distort your sense of reality, self-worth, and emotional safety. Gaslighting is a form of emotional manipulation where one partner denies your experiences, blames you unfairly, or twists facts to make you question your memory or judgment. Over time, this can lead to confusion, self-doubt, anxiety, and even depression. If you don’t identify the behavior, you may continue to internalize blame and feel power...
Coldplay and Cheating Scandals: What Every Couple Can Learn
The Coldplay "cheaters" situation has captured public attention—not just because of the betrayal itself, but because it highlights deeper truths about modern relationships. As a therapist, one key lesson is that emotional disconnection often precedes infidelity. When couples stop sharing, stop listening, or stop prioritizing one another, vulnerability to temptation increases. Another takeaway is that cheating rarely happens in a vacuum—it’s often a symptom of unresolved conflict, unmet needs, or poor boundaries. Public scandals like this remind us that no one is immune to relationship breakdown, no matter how successful or famous. They also teach the import...
Why Emotional Intimacy Is Key To A Strong Relationship
Emotional intimacy is the foundation of a strong, lasting relationship. It’s what allows partners to feel safe, seen, and deeply connected. When emotional intimacy is present, couples can be vulnerable without fear of judgment, express needs honestly, and support each other through life’s ups and downs. This kind of closeness builds trust and deepens love over time. Without it, couples may feel like strangers living under the same roof—disconnected, misunderstood, and emotionally alone. Emotional intimacy doesn’t happen by accident; it’s built through consistent communication, empathy, and shared experiences. It grows when couples make time for each o...
5 Tips To Save Your Marriage & Stop Divorce
Stopping divorce often begins with a willingness to pause, reflect, and reconnect. Many couples drift apart not from a lack of love, but from unresolved hurt, unmet needs, or poor communication. To stop divorce, both partners must commit to rebuilding trust and emotional safety. That means listening with empathy, owning mistakes without defensiveness, and learning how to speak each other’s emotional language. Seek help—through counseling or coaching—to break harmful patterns and learn new tools. Reignite connection by spending intentional time together, even if it feels awkward at first. Small acts of kindness, appreciation, and physical touch can sl...
The POWER Of Forgiveness In MARRIAGE
Forgiveness in marriage can be blocked by several powerful emotional and psychological barriers. Deep hurt, betrayal, and unresolved pain often create walls that are hard to tear down. Pride and ego can keep someone from admitting fault or extending grace. Holding onto anger or resentment can feel like self-protection, especially when trust has been broken. A lack of empathy or understanding for the other person's perspective makes forgiveness harder. Sometimes, the offense feels too great or repeated, making reconciliation seem impossible. Finally, fear of being hurt again can keep people stuck in cycles of bitterness, preventing the healing that...
Effects Of A Sexless Marriage On A Man & How To Fix It
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A sexless marriage can deeply affect a man’s emotional, psychological, and even physical well-being. For many men, sexual intimacy is a primary way of expressing love and feeling connected to their partner. When that connection disappears, it can lead to feelings of rejection, inadequacy, and loneliness. Over time, this may erode his self-esteem and create emotional distance in the relationship. A lack of intimacy can also fuel frustration, irritability, or even resentment—especia...
How To FIX An Unhappy MARRIAGE In 5 Steps
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Fixing an unhappy marriage is possible if both partners are willing. The first step is to consider what's caused the drift in your marriage in the first place. Second, you must be willing to address your resentments because nothing will go well when there's active resentments. Third, you must nurture your friendship through emotional intimacy, dates, and affection. Fourth, you must re-integrate sensual and sexual time together to bond with one another physically. Finally, if y...
5 Steps To Build Emotional Safety In Your Relationship
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Developing emotional safety in you relationship is essential. When we don't feel safe, we pull back, we build walls, we shut down. In contrast, when we feel emotionally safe, we open up. Think of emotional safety as the sun and you're a flower. The more sun you receive, the more your peddles open up naturally and vice versa. In this episode, I cover the top five ways to promote emotional safety in your rel...
Examples Of Fighting Fair In Marriage
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Learning to fight fair in marriage is a growth area for many couples. Instead of fighting fair, many spouses fight unfair and doing so eventually destroys their relationship. How you handle conflict often impacts your entire relationship. In this episode, I discuss two examples on how to fight fair from my marriage.
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Help For A Troubled Marriage From An Uneven Workload
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An uneven workload can create a troubled marriage. An uneven workload creates emotional distance, and a sense of imbalance in the partnership. When one partner consistently bears more responsibilities—whether in parenting, household tasks, or emotional labor—it can lead to feelings of being undervalued and overwhelmed. The other partner may become complacent or unaware of the imbalance, further deepening the disconnect. Over time, this dynamic erodes trust and intimacy, as the relationship feels less li...
How To Stop FIGHTING With My PARTNER
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There are many tips to fight less with your partner. However, this is one you may not have heard of. It's called "sharing your tender underbelly." Anger is a secondary emotion. Therefore, what's underne...
How To Save Your Marriage In 3 Steps
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Saving your marriage begins with open, honest communication. Take time to really listen to your partner without interrupting or judging. Rebuild trust by being consistent, keeping promises, and showing appreciation for each other dai...
COMPATIBILITY Is Overrated
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Compatibility is often romanticized as the cornerstone of successful relationships, but it's frequently overrated. Whi...
Your MARRIAGE Is Like A COCKTAIL
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Marriage, like any meaningful relationship, needs the right ingredients to truly thrive. At its core, successful marriage is built on a foundation of love, trust, and communication. Without trust, even the strongest love can fal...
Stop ASSUMING Negative Intent With YOUR Partner
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Assuming negative intent in your partner can quickly erode trust and damage the foundation of a healthy relationship. When we automatically jump to conclusions or believe the worst about our partner’s words or actions, we shift from curiosity and understanding to defensiveness and blame. This mindset turns small...
Couples Therapist Veteran Shares Her Wisdom
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Learning from someone with more experience is a smart decision because it accelerates personal and professional growth. Experienced individuals have already navigated challenges, made mistakes, and found solutions, allowing you to benefit from their w...
Perception VS Reality: How To Tell The Difference
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Discerning whether your perception of your partner is true or false requires self-awareness, open communication, and a willingness to challenge assumptions. Emotions, past experiences, and personal biases can distort how you see them, leading to either idealization or unwarranted crit...
How I Avoid Becoming Defensive In My Relationship As A Couples Therapist
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Defensiveness is a normal human impulse. When we are blamed, we instinctually want to justify our intent. We can't stand the idea of our partner thinking we did something that we don't feel like we did. However, the more we defend, the more it makes our partner feel invalidated. In this new episode. I discuss the top steps I take in my marriage to avoid becoming defensive.
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How I Resolve Conflicts In My Marriage As A Couples Therapist
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Learning how to resolve conflicts effectively is essential if you want a heathy marriage. Feelings are going to get hurt. Actions are going to be frustrating. Needs are going to be unmet. When those things occur, we need to know how to respond properly or else things will get worse. We aren't trained on how to handle conflict well so inevitably we handle it poorly. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show I discuss how I handle conflicts in my marriage. Listen in to see if any of these ideas could wor...
What Is EMOTIONAL INTIMACY? The Ultimate GUIDE
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Emotional intimacy is a mysterious topic for many partners.
What is it?
Why do you need it?
How do you provide it?
If this topic has interested or confused you in the past, you're going to appreciate this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show Podcast.
In it, I explore what it is, why...
Couples Therapy: The Good, The Bad, & The Ugly
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Many couples need help but aren't sure what to think about couples therapy.
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Stop YOUR Stinking Thinking ABOUT Changing
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Making changes for your partner is important because it demonstrates love, respect, and commitment to the relationship. It show...
5 Powerful Steps to Rebuild Emotional Safety in Your Relationship
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Emotional safety is the cornerstone of a healthy and thriving marriage. It creates an environment where both partners feel val...
Why the Easiest Way to Improve Your Marriage Is the Hardest to Do
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Eight Ways To Become More Attractive In 2025
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In the episode today I discuss how to become more attractive for your partner emotionally and physically. It's easy to get sloppy in both departments through the years and that strains our marriage. Your partner fell in love with you because they were attracted to you eit...
How To Save A Marriage From Divorce In 5 Steps
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MASTER Conflict Resolution To SAVE Your Marriage
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Have conflicts with your partner? Who doesn't? Unfortunately, we're not taught how to do conflicts right. Therefore, we stuff. We blow up.💥We avoid. We engage even though we're flooded. Sound familiar? We don't know how to do conflicts well.😩John Gottman said the more couples have defensiveness, criticism, contempt, and stonewalling during conflict the more likely they'll divorce one day. Therefore, leaning how to master conflict is paramount. In this new episode on the Dr. Wyatt Show podcast I discuss a conflict my wife and I had and the lessons I learned from it...